A man does what he knows is right, regardless of how
he feels. A man will do the right thing even if it causes
him pain. A man gets out of bed every morning and
works to support his family, whether he has a fulfilling
job or not. A man is gentle and kind to his wife and
children.
“Being a man means providing physical and financial security to his woman and children. It means being rock-stable, confident, and strong. It means being courageous, noble, It means being inspirational , a role model with strong character and integrity to his kids and also fully devoted and committed to wife and children.

A woman is a blessing from the lord , home makers , emotional, tender ,soft creature and also a talkative .
"A wise woman builds her home and the foollish ones destroy it "

Wife are mostly guilty of telling their husband that after caring for everyone else needs in the family all day long and taking care of the home , the last thing she
wanted to do was another chore (sex) for him.
At times, she would deliberately not participate, lying motionless and waiting for him to be done (cum) before sighing annoyedly and turning over to go
to sleep without as much as a kiss to him.
(I know someone reading this is guilty of this )
This is where u both need to communicate more and come to an understanding ,men are not monsters it a way u present the discussion that matters .
“He want sex from his wife that one of the most important things for him not from a motionless being at that moment.

Women don’t understand that lovemaking is a man’s
way of saying, ‘I love you.’ Lovemaking is such an im-
portant part of a man’s life. Having a guy ‘beg’ for love-
making, rejecting him, or making it quick to get it out
of the way leads to relationship problems (masturbation, porn, fantasies about other women, prostitutes, workaholism, neglecting you as a wife, taking it out on the kids, and so forth).”

Most married women become totally consumed with being a mom then a wife.That’s the ONLY
thing that mattered to us is being our kids mom and tend to forget the duty of a wife's to a husband.(the kids will find their part one day and you be left with your partner ,it how u have built the relationship in the past that will determine how sweet you two will live together when u alone).
To serve is our God-given purpose(MEN). Women don’t get that men want to do things for their wives that will
make them happy. However, when wives aren’t ever
happy, men don’t want to do anything for them.The at-
titude of gratitude toward a man is now an attitude of
entitlement.
when our husband would try to help, he never did it ‘right,’ so we would take over , complain that he didn’t help, then criticized when he did. You whined and
complained about how he didn’t spend enough time with you and the kids and how he never appreciated how hard you worked all day .
They desire for a man to be masculine (strong) but want
to control him (weak). What most women don’t get is
that men need to be masculine. Their attempts to con-
trol a man only serves to either emasculate him or cause ‘irreconcilable differences.’

Many other women have written to admit that they had
completely immersed themselves in motherhood, very much
to the exclusion of their husbands. When their men became
distance, preoccupied, inattentive, uncooperative, unromantic . . they blamed their men for being self-centered and didn’t see their own contribution to the unhappiness in their home.

She had started accusing him of having an affair, because he
wasn’t talking to her about daily things and he wasn’t initiating sex anymore.put all those things before the husband. He used to come every night to find a lover before, but 90 percent of the time he found
a tired, drained girl. Most of US as a woman who feel we could juggle
all—how wrong are we. immature, selfish female who
had a very patient husband until he finally reached his limit.
“Because when we neglected him for so long, he developed a
calloused heart toward you. He lost the butterflies that tingles and is not sure they’ll return. Some men are heartbroken because we women
don’t understand our men.

Have you had that thought deep down in you when last did you appreciate your husband effort for bringing food to the table , when last have you been Less judgmental towards him. marriage is similar to a religion. If you believe in God, you surrender to Him, with a restful outlook on life.
Also if u belive in him even if his like a difficult problem to deal with love conquers all.

Women have taken the market on feelings and emotions.
Men feels and become hurt too, just like women do. They have dreams, fantasies about romance
and love. feel disappointments, just like women do.
Also, most women have no clue how much work and
stress men face every day in supporting the family yet numbers of percentage of women don't make the man feel like a hero of his home.

When he comes into the room, try get
up from whatever you doing to hug and kiss him, don't do it only when his back from work to hug him.
Embarras him with a smile more often whenever you see him be nice to him and see how the magic of him doing all that you have asked him to do in years for you even without you asking .
call-in during the day to tell him you thinking of him. leave a love notes in his pocket .
Initiate a romantic encounter don't wait for him to ignite the fire ."Be as excited about physical intimacy as he is .
.“Say ‘thank you’ or ‘I love you’ without him coaxing it out of u or without him saying it first.”
.“Just be happy.”
Woman: I appreciate you’re my hero; do you want (sex)?’” I would marry you all over again.”
.“Pull up a chair make him sit while you look into his eyes to talk a little and admire the man He is.”
“It’s really wonderful when you dress up, do your hair
and makeup, and puts on perfume just for him alone !”
“Be a ‘girl’ and use your charms on him (it sexy to be his bitch sometimes).”
“Say ‘I’m sorry’ when she’s wrong.” don't claim right all the time.

Having three kids does not mean you should be less romantic those young ladies out there that our men follow, this are the little things they do that drives this men towards them.
It time we married women use our woman power to take control of our homes .

Let not wait till we have a thought of what we had lost before we appreciate what we had .. then might be too late . The time to act is NOW.

You know, you have to give in order to receive. If you need to give freely and genuinely, and you ain't doing. That selfish and not grateful.
Because we think , expect too much from our men, and expect him to be romantic
every day it aint right. Don't expect stuff you ain't reciprocating.

We love to hear him say honey your outfit is gorgeous, you look hot . Yet you wear raggy cloth and dressed like his grandma. You can't be beautiful in that . ""I’m beautiful wear raggedy clothes,
don’t shave or try to "" that what ringing in his head he just might find it hard to tell so he won't hurt your feelings.

Some of us have Body shaming we feel we too fat not sexy after child birth and depride ourselves from great orgasm.
Husband::She didn’t have to be perfect to be his dream lover. She just had to be willing to give herself to him with love, acceptance, openness, and a sense of humor. Bottom line if you don't feel good about yourself nobody can help you feel good .it a thing of the mind set.

Let visualize our husband like “The ‘boy’ I married had turned into a ‘man.’ Now I
need to be the woman he deserves.

Don't placed him second or
third in your priorities list ( God is the first on our list). . . but after all, we are married and
shouldn’t he just know I loves him? Shouldn’t he just understand that am busy? Shouldn’t he just accept that things change as life goes on?

YOU HAVE THE POWER TO
MAKE EVERYTHING OK AND WONDERFUL!
USE YOUR POWER AS A WOMAN

There are couples where the woman
barely wants to be touched by the man. She will try
to chip in the phrases such as, I’m just not an
affectionate person or I’m not in the mood, when the
real truth is that the attraction to her partner is not
strong enough, and she does not want him touching her like that. Bring the right man along and it is a completely different story. Their affection towards their children, friends, and other people is evident,but not with their own man. Sure, there are other issues that lead to lack of affection,
A Marriage with lack of attraction to your man as a woman will result to lack of affection towards him.
While lack of affection will open door to infidelity
When He feels his not desired at home ,a chance of getting a slight attention outside .
Will make him go on a journey to the affection he has been longing for .
Can you really handle a lack of attraction with your partner for the rest of your life?
Ladies don't jump into marriage without attraction just cos you feel all your mate are getting married .
Marry who u are attracted to so U can have an affection and won't miss out on an organms