oluwaseyi0:
Some are not necessarily social sociable, they keep to their close circle circles

Some are trying to avoid unnecessary billing and see finish

Some are trying to avoid extended family drama and it's accompanying fight the usual fights that follow.

Some have been religiously brainwashed that their extended family can/will hurt them.

Some already know the type of extended family they come from (remember they probably grew up with those extended members), and they know the best thing is to avoid them, if they've got a better family they will have mix freely

Some feels feel they have nothing tangible to gain by mixing with extended family

Righteousness2:

No

Bedrooomsecret:


Envy and jealousy are very common among amongst far distant relations. They do not want you to progress.
One's enemy is a member of his household.

kimez419:
Because many believe that most extended families family members are either witches and or wizards

Esanboy111:
it’s either your cousins or extended families are poor or you’re poor... nobody want to associate with poverty... happy Sunday

DeFixer:


Fixed

mamagee3:
Hi all, why would anyone not want to be close to their cousins or their aunts but are close to their immediate family ?

And is it strange for there not to be a cordial relationship between cousins?

Wolfeye:

The only useful comment in the whole of this thread. But some people won’t realize till 2030.

mamagee3:
Hi all, why would anyone not want to be close to their cousins or their aunts but are close to their immediate family ?

And is it strange for there not to be a cordial relationship between cousins?

mamagee3:
Hi all, why would anyone not want to be close to their cousins or their aunts but are close to their immediate family ?

And is it strange for there not to be a cordial relationship between cousins?

saphiere:
Most of us don't just like wahala from extended family.
The smaller your circle the less your worries.

Wolfeye:


The only useful comment in the whole of this thread.
But some people won’t realize till 2030.

mamagee3:
Hi all, why would anyone not want to be close to their cousins or their aunts but are close to their immediate family ?

And is it strange for there not to be a cordial relationship between cousins?

sgtponzihater1:


I don't know my cousins, really not interested in knowing them any time soon. My family and kid are enough responsibility.

We came alone, and should push the course our lives with this knowledge in mind

meobizy:
Hmm. More trolls make front page than contributing members. It’s good I gave up on being here a while ago.

Madd44:
Base on my intellectual capacity and my vast knowledge, tactically and tentatively, right from the beginning of times especially in the light of Ecclesiastes evolution I have come to a concrete definite and profound conclusion that I actually have nothing to say.

2elliot:
Just say you have very terrible extended family members you are a voiding or that you are a terrible person, if not there is no sense in cutting of anyone who is good to you.

sgtponzihater1:


No need insulting people or passing judgement on someone you hardly know. Live life with your own convictions but don't force it down the throat of others. The beauty of life is having varying perspective yet living peacefully with others.

I was created to live my live to the full and not to look for cousins that I have hardly met all my life.

All the best

oluwaseyi0:
Some are not necessarily social, they keep to their close circle

Some are trying to avoid unnecessary billing and see finish

Some are trying to avoid extended family drama and it's accompanying fight

Some have been religiously brainwashed that their extended family can/will hurt them.

Some already know the type of extended family they come from (remember they probably grew up with those extended members), and they know the best thing is to avoid them, if they've got a better family they will have mix freely

Some feels they have nothing tangible to gain by mixing with extended family

mamagee3:

Are you saying it’s a bad thing?