Last month makes it 1yr I’ve met my gf, ever since then I’ve received surprise gifts from her, some a cakes, sometimes small chops etc... match 27 was my birthday and as usual I got gifts from her, last week Friday was her birthday and for the fact that she’s into Suprise packages kinda business... I chatted her up with a strange number and ordered for stuffs all for her birthday but she wouldn’t know.. I paid her 80k and at the end of the day she found out that it was for her..

Why the above story right?
50k is nothing on your babe except she’s not what you really wanted in a woman..

Vision101:
You are her central bank. Why should you expect any gift from her. Have you ever seen commercial banks lend to cbn?

Of course they do... What do you think Treasury Bills are?

Ladies feel say na sex be their payments for all wey you dey spend for them.

Most are terrible bt not all.

Take it as you see it Mr kingdom

Shellsploit:
In roddy ricch voice...
"I rather be judged by 12 than buried by 6"





Accept my heart felt sympathetic sympathy!

*carried

Still don't get how this relates to the topic. You mind elucidating?

TOPCRUISE:
Only you spend more than 50k on her birthday, and you expect her not to address you as a king.

bad guy...lolzz

Stop dating broken girls una nor they hear

Only small-minded people equate worth/value and giving to money alone. That you spent 50k on her birthday while she gave you words of adoration on your own birthday does not automatically mean that you did more than her. If she accepted your gift graciously and gave you the adoration graciously too and was unable to extend a monetary gift to you for not having the wherewithal, then she's better than you who spent money on her unhappily/self-absorbingly and unappreciated her gracious words and adoration.

MOSDII WHERE ART THOU?

COME AND PREACH THE MESSAGE O ..,.. THE CONGREGATION ARE EAGERLY WAITING

She doesn’t force you to spend the money on her birthday and do you expect her to go and sell herself to buy you gift and spend money on your birthday? She has done the best for you Boss. Truly you’re king because you proved to be when you celebrated her birthday for her

Macktaob:

*carried

Still don't get how this relates to the topic. You mind elucidating?

Goan ask your ancestors..

What was he expecting?
Most of these babes are dead broke and only want to be on the receiving end but never want to give.

The earlier guys start boycotting these broke bitches, the better. Let the well to do date their kind and the broke ones, their kind too

Heavensent01:
in Nigeria if you're visiting a lady in her area, you will be the one to host her, if she's visiting you, you will do the same


I don't blame these girls, Nigerian men have really tolerated a lot of nonsense


that's how I visited one fool last month in her area, she told me where we will meet in one eatery, she thought she don see mugun, I entered the eatery, she's already there waiting for me, so we sat down talking, she was expecting me to go and order, I get like 10k for pocket, ordinary table water I no order. she came out bold and ask let's order something, I told her to order, you're the one hosting me in your area, it's my right to do same if you visit my area. the mumu girl stood up angry and left me on the sit, I just wait for her to leave then I order for fried rice and chicken, take juice for myself, eat finished then left the place

;DD ;DD
This one sweet me
If all men start doing some his
Maybe dem go get sense

Why spent such amount of money on a lady that's not your wife.
At the end if gbese happen she will also be the one to tell you how stingy you are.

Maybe you spent it to impress her....What do you expect.

If a lady can not gift you ordinarily perfume or ordinary sets of boxers on your birthday...my brother throw her away...

I come in peace...no body show come for me oo

Nigerian ladies and entitlement mentality

MALIGNANTGuest:
You spent ORDINARY $100 and you uploaded such for people like me to commend you.
What will then happen when you start securing FLIGHTS from Los Angeles to Lagos for her?

In Summary:
Save your cash.
Strive to be endowed.
Go for well-endowed Ladies.
By doing so, you wouldn't complain about 2k Ladies
& those human Leeches again in your entire Life.
Your worth will be equivalent to hers.
So when spending $2000 for shopping it wouldn't mean anything to both of you.
GUYS, stop dating Leeches. There are classy Ladies out there. Cleave to them and end all these worries.
Class attracts Class. Build your humor to that level and see such Ladies gravitate towards you.

It's always better to be insulted by an asset than to be insulted by a LIABILITY.
For all, Liabilities will always insult you.

Gbam!

Bvlgari:
What a girl did after her boyfriend spent 50k on her birthday...lol...all this girls sha

Fatima whyyy??

Slay Queens don't work that is why you are refered to as the king a great compliment,you should give her an award instead.

Just that your own na slay queen.

brainmax2000:
Wait oh did you expect her to return the favour? foolish simp

Calm down.. even a cheap gift would have been better. (King kill her there)

Shellsploit:


Go..

I'm glad you took the correction though
I also hope you'd decide to seek what the phrase translates to.

Seniorwriter:
Well he gave with a pinch of salt.
Giving without expecting helps save you from feeling bad when you don't get reciprocal gestures.

In another words don't give what you can't afford to let go.
In another news if you have access to internet + PC/Android and you ain't earning even $5 a day then it's your own undoing.

Join REG (Residual Earners Group) if you have the financial muscle and interested on earning daily for financial sufficiency so you won't bother after spending just a lil above $100 for shopping as the case of the subject matter of this thread! Lolz

@Seniorwriter

pls how can I get to chat u up privately?

Demolakay:
pls how can I get to chat u up privately?

Reach out via the facebook ID on my profile....if you had searched around on here u would have seen inferences were I've mentioned how to reach out.
Anyways do the needful if need be.

@Seniorwriter

but u nack na, guy drink water to that

Make i hear word abeg. Did she force you to spend 50k?

You get what you deserve bro. What did you give to or how much you spent on your parents / siblings on their last birthdays?

Chibae4real:
i just hope guy that have sense will adhered to your advised.

I've always liked your sense of reasoning when it comes to r/shp stuff, but then, anonymity could be deceiving sometimes.

If you're real, keep it up, your unbiasedness I meant.

TheEnygma:
The ugly truth is that apart from sex most of our naija girls have nothing else to offer...this explains why most nigerian men that travel outside the country always end up marrying foreign women.
If he later dumps her and marries another woman , she'll come online and start ranting how he dumped her after "everything I've done for him" , when it's clearly obvious she's done nothing much for him.

I hope those nairaland's expired products will come here to start saying "the future is feMALE"...

They will come for you

Heavensent01:
in Nigeria if you're visiting a lady in her area, you will be the one to host her, if she's visiting you, you will do the same


I don't blame these girls, Nigerian men have really tolerated a lot of nonsense


that's how I visited one fool last month in her area, she told me where we will meet in one eatery, she thought she don see mugun, I entered the eatery, she's already there waiting for me, so we sat down talking, she was expecting me to go and order, I get like 10k for pocket, ordinary table water I no order. she came out bold and ask let's order something, I told her to order, you're the one hosting me in your area, it's my right to do same if you visit my area. the mumu girl stood up angry and left me on the sit, I just wait for her to leave then I order for fried rice and chicken, take juice for myself, eat finished then left the place

Haha bad boy na you they teach nija girls lesson o

But you're truly a king spending that much for her birthday

Bvlgari:
What a girl did after her boyfriend spent 50k on her birthday...lol...all this girls sha

Fatima whyyy??

Did anyone ask him to spend 50k on Fatima? Did he consult Twitter before he spent d 50k?

See mumu. Who send you go spend that money for birthday?