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I Have Been There Too by donvoice(m): 10:00am On Apr 28, 2021 |
I read the story of a guy who accommodate an insolent girl but some people seems not to believe his story. Believe you me, I have been in that shoe before https://www.nairaland.com/6526382/accommodating-insolent-girl/22#101192598 I worked as a manager of a firm and after covid-19, one of our major staff didn't return for any reason whatsoever. We have to put out an advert for the position. We shortlisted two (A boy and a girl). Truth be told, the guy is more qualified than the guy and I prefer working with him because it will make my workload more easier but the CEO (female) prefers the lady and said I will have to bring the lady up to speed. All efforts to convince her to take the guy were abortive but I have no choice. The lady on the other hand said she lives with her step-mum as she has lost her mum years back and the step-mum do maltreat her and she wants to be leaving home by all means. I told her that was not an enough reason to employ her but my boss thinks it reason enough. This lady started well but her speed was too slow for my liking, so I have to be adding even her own responsibility on mine and share to other staff most times. Instead of her to learn, she will always be on her phone listening to music and games. She will complain the office is boring as everyone was busy. She got my number one way and she added me up on WhatsApp and started flirting with me. I was not comfortable, so I have to show my wife the chat. My wife trust me but she cautioned me. I tried to avoid this lady till she sent me her nudes (someone who claim to be a virgin to everyone in the office) and said 'Mr. Sam, this is what you are missing'. I was mad and wanted to report her but my wife said I should be able to control the situation. I got to the office, invited her to my inner office and gave her a Stern warning but she bluff it off. I decided to abandon her totally and blocked her on WhatsApp, so as to keep things official. She longer stay at the office but to the next office office to gist. The CEO who do come once a while met her there on two different occasions and was mad with her, could you imagine this lady claim I was harassing her sexually and that why she has been avoiding office. My boss didn't say anything but went to invite two soldiers to come and pick me up and deal with me. When we got to the barrack, one of them asked me why I have been harassing my junior staff, I was shocked and I was given a fair hearing. The lady was brought but I didn't say a word, I just went to my email (because I do screenshot our conversation and save them in my draft box) and brought out all the chat. My boss was shocked to the discovery and started apologizing. People of God, the lady was fired but I later resigned too 15 Likes |
Re: I Have Been There Too by DICKstractor: 10:14am On Apr 28, 2021 |
I'm happy to see that we still have disciplined men on earth. I thought I was the last of our specie . Men that think with their head and not their balls. Nothing beats integrity, dignity and commitment. Thumbs up OP... I'm proud of you man. If you weren't married, I would have offered you the best olosho Owerri can offer... 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Have Been There Too by coming2america: 10:30am On Apr 28, 2021 |
Na wah |
Re: I Have Been There Too by Nobody: 10:34am On Apr 28, 2021 |
Working with women nowadays is problematic. To be realistic, imagine 10 women working in an organization, only 1 will be competent, 5 will focus on flirting with their male co workers inorder to make them do their work. 3 will focus on trying to sleep with the bosses to gain favour while the remaining 2 will get pregnant and then all their workload will be on the men. A peaceful and efficient working place can turn to a scandalous and inefficient working place when you employ women, infact, some women bosses hate employing women when they want work done. There are only 2 places i have seen competent women, banking and medical industry This is not a diss to women but an observation. 6 Likes |
Re: I Have Been There Too by Barbiturate(m): 10:35am On Apr 28, 2021 |
You be man. While reading, before getting to the soldiers part, I was like; didn't you save receipts of the nudes and conversations. You are wise and you have self control! But where una dey see all these graduate jobs? 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Have Been There Too by chinchonglee(m): 10:39am On Apr 28, 2021 |
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Re: I Have Been There Too by Xenry: 10:48am On Apr 28, 2021 |
Nigerian women are awesome, date them at your own risk. Thumbs up, @Op. I don't if it's just me, but I like denying attention from those girls who thinks that every guy out there is sex-starved, and therefore can easily get their attention . 1 Like |
Re: I Have Been There Too by donvoice(m): 10:56am On Apr 28, 2021 |
DICKstractor: Lead us not into temptation 1 Like |
Re: I Have Been There Too by Seandisputed(m): 5:50pm On Apr 28, 2021 |
Every adult male is "a" man but some are "the" men. Your the man. Thumbs up. 1 Like |
Re: I Have Been There Too by BlesE: 3:41am On Apr 29, 2021 |
DICKstractor:why would you think of offering him a prostitute I thought you are a man of integrity? 2 Likes |
Re: I Have Been There Too by BlesE: 3:48am On Apr 29, 2021 |
Staying true to your marriage vows helps you overcome every temptations that comes your way, knowing that God is a witness to it, above all fear God and he will guide your steps. 1 Like |
Re: I Have Been There Too by Qatar2022: 8:58am On Apr 29, 2021 |
Did you noticed that no NL girl have comment on this thread useless people 3 Likes |
Re: I Have Been There Too by Karleb(m): 9:09am On Apr 29, 2021 |
So if there were no evidence, you'd have probably been guilty for life for an offense you didn't commit. I'm still surprised why your boss hired soldiers to deal with you without questioning you. I guess it's the sisterhood thing. 5 Likes |
Re: I Have Been There Too by The5DME(m): 9:34am On Apr 29, 2021 |
Tales by moonlight. |
Re: I Have Been There Too by Telegram234(m): 9:50am On Apr 29, 2021 |
Qatar2022:Bro they all have di3ks ooo. Look the rise and fall of the imposter zzor... 1 Like |
Re: I Have Been There Too by Foodqueen(f): 9:54am On Apr 29, 2021 |
This is sooo cooool |
Re: I Have Been There Too by gasparpisciotta: 10:01am On Apr 29, 2021 |
Daughters of Delilah everywhere....family ‘awon’ wolf in sheep’s clothing... 1 Like |
Re: I Have Been There Too by BENRAZY(m): 11:28am On Apr 29, 2021 |
Op na God save u o I fear who no fear vagina people |
Re: I Have Been There Too by donvoice(m): 1:40pm On Apr 29, 2021 |
Karleb: That was what shocked me most. I have to resign and it was the best decision I ever made 3 Likes |
Re: I Have Been There Too by Polynek(m): 3:44pm On Apr 29, 2021 |
Wooow I, Iove your story, Your self-control is A1. You b Real Nigger. Self control is very important to every MAN |
Re: I Have Been There Too by anthonyuncle(m): 8:39pm On Apr 29, 2021 |
thank God you had evidence. that your boss is very mad. she didn't even ask you personally but went ahead to get soldiers. you should take it up (legally) against your boss. or even run her street self. 2 Likes |
Re: I Have Been There Too by Nazgul: 10:57pm On Apr 29, 2021 |
From your narrative, it's safe to conclude that you were at some point unofficially free with her, you confirmed it when you said you do chat regularly with her till the point when she started sending her nudes to you, that's why she had all the time to play around and put up a nonchalant attitude towards the job she was employed to do. You had complimented her beauty more than once, so in her myopic mentality, you are among the numerous guys struggling to have a taste of her coochie. If you were formal with her from the onset as her superior, believe me she wouldn't listen to music during working hours and call your bluff, because she would have that fear towards you as her superior. If she decides to lazy about during working hours, then you can personally draft a query letter to her which must be submitted in less than 24 hours. Failure to respond to query will earn her a 50% deduction of her salary. That's how you treat subordinates, you don't chat 'em up. 3 Likes |
Re: I Have Been There Too by Raydans: 12:20am On Apr 30, 2021 |
Reminds me when I wanted to employ a replacement staff for my company. I was to interview two ladies. At the interview I asked the first lady what does she have to offer, she was blank and empty. I then went ahead to ask her why I should employ her and she replied I should employ her because she is a woman lol. I mean wtf!! I was almost pissed but kept my cool. I knew she has lost it. I just rounded up the interview formally. She still have the guts to ask me when I will call her back. I calmly told her I will get back to her. I picked the second lady because she has something upstairs 1 Like |
Re: I Have Been There Too by renegades(m): 12:23am On Apr 30, 2021 |
Women with their wahala |
Re: I Have Been There Too by Kiddogarcia(m): 12:53am On Apr 30, 2021 |
In slawomir voice, you are a real nighar |
Re: I Have Been There Too by Posotome: 3:02am On Apr 30, 2021 |
Vagina people MAY GOD SAVE US |
Re: I Have Been There Too by vincent10(m): 6:12am On Apr 30, 2021 |
Re: I Have Been There Too by Tdyke4lyf(m): 6:57am On Apr 30, 2021 |
donvoice:You are indeed a matured man.You carrying your wife along was a lovely move.Your wife also,is one of a kind.I love her calmness. 1 Like |
Re: I Have Been There Too by Kobicove(m): 7:10am On Apr 30, 2021 |
But why would your boss invite soldiers to the office to settle a civil matter?! 1 Like |
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