naturefellow:
court wedding isn't soluble?

CSoul:
Thanks for your pieces of advice; she's reading everyone of them. Pains, tears and fears.

Publicity ("Banns of marriage" is part of the church's requirements). So yes, the shame on how to face the family/friends and everyone else that has been told about the marriage.

SefunmiHookups:

I would just like to ask what is it you were doing that always made him get triggered and threaten you? Share it if u don't mind ,so others can see what happens in marriages.
- Where you always in your phone typing and chatting and not letting him see who you were chatting with (that's if you did so for lengthy periods of time)
-Did you occasionally give him reasons to doubt your fidelity?
- where you chatting ex-lovers, or other male acquaintances? And did he warm you to desist from those acts at any time? Because these are usually the things that get men livid with their women. Where you too social with other men?
Hope you will answer truthfully. Gracias

CsRockefeller:


Hmmmmmm, are you still with him?

rita25:
HMMMMMMMMMMMMM YES OH AFTER 3KIDS WHERE DO I HV TO GO NAU?BEARING IT ALL FOR MY KIDS

CSoul:
(Created this new account to post for a sister)



Please help advice a sister in confusion.....


Background:


"I reconnected with my old school toaster who always spoke marriage and love.
Got serious in 5 months.
I've met a lot of people from his end within this period.
He shows me off.
Introduction was done and wedding date fixed."

Issues:
Traditional is barely a week away; yet she's bleeding and scared of the future because of her discoveries:

1. The husband to be has anger issues. Ok, he's all nice and good when in good mood. But once something triggers him, all hell is let loose. The trigger can be a simple missing his call(while at work/meeting). No amount of sweet talk or explanations calms him down.

2. The shocker is that he cheats/has a fuckmate living nearby. She discovered this with evidence from their chats and hasn't been herself. The chat is detailed description of their exploits right up to the present and future plans how they'll continue after he's married. (From same chat, the other lady is aware he's getting married.
He tried denying it; when it didn't work he started making excuses/begging he'll change.

3. He doesn't want any third party intervention in their affairs, not even counseling.

She's scared of the future and yet feels stuck as court marriage is done already, most preparations have been done(publicity and most of other physical arrangements), both for the traditional and wedding.


Kindly give your mature advice; she'll be reading every bit of it.
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CSoul:
(Created this new account to post for a sister)



Please help advice a sister in confusion.....


Background:


"I reconnected with my old school toaster who always spoke marriage and love.
Got serious in 5 months.
I've met a lot of people from his end within this period.
He shows me off.
Introduction was done and wedding date fixed."

Issues:
Traditional is barely a week away; yet she's bleeding and scared of the future because of her discoveries:

1. The husband to be has anger issues. Ok, he's all nice and good when in good mood. But once something triggers him, all hell is let loose. The trigger can be a simple missing his call(while at work/meeting). No amount of sweet talk or explanations calms him down.

2. The shocker is that he cheats/has a fuckmate living nearby. She discovered this with evidence from their chats and hasn't been herself. The chat is detailed description of their exploits right up to the present and future plans how they'll continue after he's married. (From same chat, the other lady is aware he's getting married.
He tried denying it; when it didn't work he started making excuses/begging he'll change.

3. He doesn't want any third party intervention in their affairs, not even counseling.

She's scared of the future and yet feels stuck as court marriage is done already, most preparations have been done(publicity and most of other physical arrangements), both for the traditional and wedding.


Kindly give your mature advice; she'll be reading every bit of it.
(Admin kindly push to front page)

Infrabetatech:
Where is the venue?

I want to eat wedding rice

Uniquekriss:
I suspect OP is the person involved, anyways my simple advise is RUN, RUN, RUN. Hold your ears and repeat it, RUN!!! A man who cannot control his anger, even cheats, he just wants you to make babies for him and enslave u by delisting his name from d manchelor's list. He's a monster if all stated here are true, though u also have your own issues.

MejiLoyon:

I would have ignored you like the rest of your ilks. For non entities are meant to be kept that way. But I noticed the pained and lost soul behind the moniker. My advice... Go out, get some alcohol, try orijin, it knocks people out. Then contact sefunmihookups that you follow to get some oloshos for you. If you can't afford it DM me I'll pay. I promise. You need to release these pent up emotions. I'm believing you're a guy though because a woman will not flare up at any slight opportunity but if fate has bestowed you with the f gender then I suggest you still link up with the moniker above to get a nasty gbola to flog sense into your head as it seems you've gifted yours for a loaf of bread with aluminium condemn people.
Do have a great day. Cheers

CSoul:
(Created this new account to post for a sister)

Please help advice a sister in confusion.....

Background:

"I reconnected with my old school toaster who always spoke marriage and love.
Got serious in 5 months.
I've met a lot of people from his end within this period.
He shows me off.
Introduction was done and wedding date fixed."

Issues:
Traditional is barely a week away; yet she's bleeding and scared of the future because of her discoveries:

1. The husband to be has anger issues. Ok, he's all nice and good when in good mood. But once something triggers him, all hell is let loose. The trigger can be a simple missing his call(while at work/meeting). No amount of sweet talk or explanations calms him down.

2. The shocker is that he cheats/has a fuckmate living nearby. She discovered this with evidence from their chats and hasn't been herself. The chat is detailed description of their exploits right up to the present and future plans how they'll continue after he's married. (From same chat, the other lady is aware he's getting married.
He tried denying it; when it didn't work he started making excuses/begging he'll change.

3. He doesn't want any third party intervention in their affairs, not even counseling.

She's scared of the future and yet feels stuck as court marriage is done already, most preparations have been done(publicity and most of other physical arrangements), both for the traditional and wedding.


Kindly give your mature advice; she'll be reading every bit of it.
(Admin kindly push to front page)