that year, I was fresh outta youth service and since I served in a state far from my state of origin, I had already developed an independent mindset so I left my family house to rent a self-contained apartment in the same city while job hunting.
I am 5.9 ft tall(almost 6 ft), good looking, my sense of humor was just average because I went through some betrayals and tough times as a teenager while growing up so life taught me to always be serious therefore I'm always putting up a serious facial appearance.
So in my new neighborhood, @ first I started going after the local hood girls because me I like fvck gann. I was having a handful of them then it now got to a point that I started realizing that I was speaking the little change I had on cartons of income, creates of eggs, recharging their phones, their transport fares & their small-scale pocket money. Connections, Dem no dey give me, profitable discussions, zero. Na only to come my house come chop den after i shift pant.
I had a deep thought about it one midnight and I said to my self NO! the game must change.

To be continued.....

kingbee90:
that year, I was fresh outta youth service and since I served in a state far from my state of origin, I had already developed an independent mindset so I left my family house to rent a self-contained apartment in the same city while job hunting.
I am 5.9 ft tall(almost 6 ft), good looking, my sense of humor was just average because I went through some betrayals and tough times as a teenager while growing up so life taught me to always be serious therefore I'm always putting up a serious facial appearance.
So in my new neighborhood, @ first I started going after the local hood girls because me I like fvck gann. I was having a handful of them then it now got to a point that I started realizing that I was speaking the little change I had on cartons of income, creates of eggs, recharging their phones, their transport fares & their small-scale pocket money. Connections, Dem no dey give me, profitable discussions, zero. Na only to come my house come chop den after i shift pant.
I had a deep thought about it one midnight and I said to my self NO! the game must change.

To be continued.....

Oga if you know finish this your story?
I go open another case for your head

My friend/roommate in my NYSC corper's lodge back then relocated to Benin republic for his master's degree program immediately after our POP in 2012 & I was still keeping in touch. So during one of our conversations, he told me his uncle he was staying with over there was into importation of GRADE A US/UK used designer clothes/accessories. so after transferring N32,700 to him, the number of designer shirts/pants/jeans/foot wears & cologne he sent to me were so much that I started giving out some to my relatives and friends.
Now my wardrobe game had upgraded & it really increased my confidence level but I needed to upgrade my mindset & the class of chicks in my life. Omó I begin start to dey give all my area FWBs attitude oh. I stopped taking their calls & they too started withdrawing one after the other.
I started going out more often(my appearance & smell was like that of a senator's son) to classy hangout spots, classy football viewing centres, I changed my church to HOUSE ON THE ROCK(classy chicks full this church die).
There was this classy carwash/lounge where they wash cars for N3,000 & where a bottle of Heineken cost N1,000. I would go to the lounge, buy a bottle of beer(at times a bottle of water) while looking out for babes who are chilling in the same lounge waiting for their cars to be washed. I would confidently join them at their table and strike a conversation with them. I was never intimidated by their appearance or their cars. I didn't give a damn if i got rejected. I got enough babes there & it was on the same spot I met a particular babe who connected me to my first post-nysc job.
The Bottom line is no man should be intimidated by any woman's look, class or financial status because God created them to be under our care. No matter how a lady fine or get money reach, las las she go still kneel before a man to suck preek or bend over before a man to receive doggy.

duduade:


You mind am

All these small small IQed boys roaming the streets of Nairaland nowadays

Not being great with women doesn't mean you have a low iq.

Most beautiful girls like lies and fake life style.

Then u should be able to spend little cash too.

I have dated beautiful girls... U must know how to talk and crack jokes. Then try get sweet mouth too. Dress well. Carve your beards. Be neat always.

I am currently dating two beautiful girls.
One is a super model.. Well to do. With 30k Instagram followers.

The other is studying pharmacy.
She is just 22.

I told the two of them that I will marry them. So now they don't demand much.

It's just a game.

kingbee90:


Alright!!
The female folks respect & crave for men with the following attributes:
(1). Money
(2). Confidence
(3). Good looks
(4). Good sense of humor
(5). Good dress sense
(6). A very good fvcker in bed.
Now it is very very rare to find a man who possess all the qualities mentioned above because God created man not to be perfect. But if a man can master at least 3 of them, he can lay any woman of his choice.
In this Ashewo game, we all know money is very important but I have seen some rich dudes who tremble when they see a gorgeous lady they like. So asides money, the key item here is CONFIDENCE.

To be continued........

damn! what if person nor get any of these 6.
I will kill myself

habitkiller:
Now this is my personality,I'm calm,but not gentle (got a rugged version of me) people say I'm handsome, height is good,speak fluent English... and they also say I have a good dress sense,but the issue is all the ladies I date are below standard,I'm the ass type and fair lover,neat as well... but I don't date beautiful girls that are up to my standard, if I date a girl I hear things like where did you get her from....
And the type I truly feel I can be kool with,I don't even talk to them. I feel maybe because I'm not driving currently.

You don't have any problem. From what you've said, you are dating people that you like and comfortable with. If you continue that way, you will end up marrying a girl that will cooperate well with you and have peace of mind - Very Important In Marriage.

Your spirit nor dey gree with those complex high standard gels.

Listen to your spirit and you'll avoid stress in this life.

OnlyDeCapPlease:


You don't have any problem. From what you've said, you are dating people that you like and comfortable with. If you continue that way, you will end up marrying a girl that will cooperate well with you and have peace of mind - Very Important In Marriage.

Your spirit nor dey gree with those complex high standard gels.

Listen to your spirit and you'll avoid stress in this life.

I get your point

YoungLionken:
I would rather stay with my monkey, who's submissive and respectful, with a laudable character. Than waste my time with a so-called angel face with no manners, hot tempered and disrespectfully intolerant!

Beautiful girls always think they're doing you a favor when in a relationship with you. Little or no wonder you see men going for the average or ugly ones for marriage.

I noticed that majority of the runz gals in our society today,are extremely beautiful, yet no man to pay their bride price...

my guy you are so on point...confidence is the key I tell people this always...

duduade:


You mind am

All these small small IQed boys roaming the streets of Nairaland nowadays

Lol old noisemaker

habitkiller:
Now this is my personality,I'm calm,but not gentle (got a rugged version of me) people say I'm handsome, height is good,speak fluent English... and they also say I have a good dress sense,but the issue is all the ladies I date are below standard,I'm the ass type and fair lover,neat as well... but I don't date beautiful girls that are up to my standard, if I date a girl I hear things like where did you get her from....
And the type I truly feel I can be kool with,I don't even talk to them. I feel maybe because I'm not driving currently.

Guy where you based abeg this is the story of my life
Everything

Ifeelnumb:

Guy where you based abeg this is the story of my life
Everything

Share yours pls

They also like spending time with people who look like they can be compatible mates for them. So, if you are new to Europe, it might be a good idea for you to spend some time. Find more interesting information about datinging Europe on a budget here.

OP, you attract your type so shattap

mascot345:
Most beautiful girls like lies and fake life style.

Then u should be able to spend little cash too.

I have dated beautiful girls... U must know how to talk and crack jokes. Then try get sweet mouth too. Dress well. Carve your beards. Be neat always.

I am currently dating two beautiful girls.
One is a super model.. Well to do. With 30k Instagram followers.

The other is studying pharmacy.
She is just 22.

I told the two of them that I will marry them. So now they don't demand much.

It's just a game.

A "Super model" with 30k Instagram followers. Lmaooooo.

See how i was able to transform and to begin dating classy women...

https://www.nairaland.com/6767289/why-keep-dating-people-below

habitkiller:


At least I can dash out 100k

Abeg dash me small from the 100k make I take buy text books......for school

kingbee90:
You gotta up your game bro. When I was still a bachelor, na fine babes with rides dey always come visit me for my one room self-contained apartment sotey my landlady come dey accuse me of using jazz on them because that year I was broke as furck.

No be jazz before? Abi how?