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Re: Men Are No Longer Persuasive - Lady Laments by anthropizzy(m): 2:35pm On May 06
pansophist:
And it will only get worse.

The kind of men that persistently chase women are those without any kind of goal or purpose. How can I persuade a woman to come and enjoy herself? What kind of foolishness is that ?

For me it's simple, it's "oya come let go", or I move on. No time to waste and new girls turn 18 everyday.

Another lovely point. God bless you

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Re: Men Are No Longer Persuasive - Lady Laments by LINTUNE(m): 2:36pm On May 06
Glamouzpeter:
That's because u keep meeting the wrong persons, a guy who truly loves u will try his possible best to get ur attention, rich or poor



stop deceiving yourself, this is not Nollywood, how can a guy fall in love with a gal that doesn't give him her attention at all, they barely talk and spend time together, and u talking about love...lemme tell you what you don't know, madam.any guy that's ready to take insults and "shakara" from a woman for a long time, is simply looking for sex..I can bet ,if he bangs her just once , he will come back to his senses...I have a friend that did all the stupidest things and simping just to get a gal on his bed, the day he banged her, just one round, he sent her away from his room,and blocked her number immediately..uptill now the gal is still begging me to reason with my friend concerning her case, she is crazily in love with the guy, but sadly the guy despises her,and one of the reason is because of her forming hard to get....

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Re: Men Are No Longer Persuasive - Lady Laments by cococandy(f): 2:39pm On May 06
larryjonze:
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mrs grammar, just count yourself luck say you narrowly escape to marry, may be naa you & poco go dey fight for front sit @ shiloh 2022.
note: there is a big difference between persuasion and coercion, with all the exposure wonder how you miss it
coercion

I said what I said. Jump off a skyscraper

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Re: Men Are No Longer Persuasive - Lady Laments by anthropizzy(m): 2:42pm On May 06
duni04:
Ridiculous! An uncouth lady can rain insults on a "persuasive guy" for pestering her. Nobody wants that kind of drama when there are reasonable women out there that will listen to what you have to offer and agree to your terms without drama. Its now a market place where convenience is key. Buyers (guys) go for the most convenient and least stressful product.

Lovely point

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Re: Men Are No Longer Persuasive - Lady Laments by Skepticus: 2:42pm On May 06
Jman06:
My own problem is that I am currently struggling with getting attracted to girls! Not that I am gay or something, God forbid! Just discovered that ladies no longer trip me like before! Please, does attraction to the opposite gender decline with time

Like I remember how I used to struggle with my craving for the opposite sex during my late teens and early twenties. But right now, I can't point at any girl that make me go love sick like before. Hope all is still well with me o? I am worried because I may still decide to marry and I wouldn't want to be in a loveless marriage.

It's very normal. It's your brain and body adjusting to the fact that women are not special to you anymore. Now your brain has better priorities above women.

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Re: Men Are No Longer Persuasive - Lady Laments by anthropizzy(m): 2:42pm On May 06
MondayOsunbor:





men now fear the law called sexual harassment

*Laughing Hysterically*
Re: Men Are No Longer Persuasive - Lady Laments by Bobxin(m): 2:44pm On May 06
pansophist:
And it will only get worse.

The kind of men that persistently chase women are those without any kind of goal or purpose. How can I persuade a woman to come and enjoy herself? What kind of foolishness is that ?

For me it's simple, it's "oya come let go", or I move on. No time to waste and new girls turn 18 everyday.
New girls turn 18 everyday grin

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Re: Men Are No Longer Persuasive - Lady Laments by GeoNyke: 2:44pm On May 06
I'm one of them oo, no time

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Re: Men Are No Longer Persuasive - Lady Laments by faithfull18(f): 2:45pm On May 06
Reex12:
thats all u have to offer ur no different no need to feel important
girls wey fine pass you, get better endowement pass u dey do hookup yu dey here dey feel like....
grin grin I like when simpletons show their symptoms of mental illness online. Like you know me. If you feel less important, that's your problem not mine wink
Re: Men Are No Longer Persuasive - Lady Laments by Billyonaire666: 2:45pm On May 06
gentlestdude:
when better sexy olosho na 5k or less if you dey egbeda or igando.
With 50k you can Bleep 10 sexy beautiful oloshos each for 10 straight weekends. good on bed, with no calling\nagging issue or menstrual issue, all you just have to do is safeguard your properties and be smart.
In 10 weeks your girlfriend would have billed you more than 100k and she might not even be good on bed or as beautiful as the oloshos we have outside now. Plus nagging and menstrual issues and she will definitely have sugar daddies and side dudes,besties, pastors (hmmm)
I hate hearing that menstrual pain complains

Sense no go kill you. But once in a while we get trapped by these bone-straight, iphone12, rent-seeking, cream buying, tik-tok vaginal specie.

The mistake you can make is falling in love with them.

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Re: Men Are No Longer Persuasive - Lady Laments by pocohantas(f): 2:46pm On May 06
cococandy:
coercion

I said what I said. Jump off a skyscraper

grin grin grin

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Re: Men Are No Longer Persuasive - Lady Laments by musicwriter(m): 2:48pm On May 06
IvarDboneless:
Shared by a lady on Twitter, according to her, Before winning a lady over, chances are high she would probably have other men asking her out or wanting to get her attention. And when this happen, there's that high ego that usually come from a lady who have lots of guys drooling over her and would want you to be more persuasive. In as much as some ladies enjoy this, others don't as we have what works for everyone while sorting for a partner.

A lady who has become worried with this situation has taken to Twitter to lament that most men are no longer persuasive once they ask them out and you say no, Instead of them to keep applying pressure as it often termed while in the talking stage of a relationship, its case closed for them. Checkout her post below:

Nobody has told you the answer to that question at least on the first page I read.

Western cultures have same experiences and the more we adopt their ways, we'll end up becoming like them or even over-do it to our detriment. I've heard in the US it's common for a woman to ask a man out, instead of the other way around. All that inspired intimacy gadgets, sex robots and even Apps; such as Tinder, Snapchat, olosho, inmessage, etc where you'll just pick up a girl as beautiful as you want at a click. Those are the causes behind what the girl complained about. Even the social media are all part of the culprit. Of course, men are and would also suffer the consequences at our end.

African societies are on a departure from ourselves and we're even about to enter into a point of no-return to ourselves, where we'll make a deeper destruction of ourselves. I've calculated this to begin from about 2050. We'll completely destroy ourselves either for good or bad, and we'll become new people. The result would be either we become free as a people forever or we get re-enslaved.

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Re: Men Are No Longer Persuasive - Lady Laments by larryjonze: 2:49pm On May 06
cococandy:
coercion

I said what I said. Jump off a skyscraper



Thank God, i can't afford the ticket fee how much more jumping down tongue gofundme

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Re: Men Are No Longer Persuasive - Lady Laments by rottennaija(m): 2:50pm On May 06
Sandydayziz:
Especially guys that trade crypto grin cheesy grin

grin
You have experience?
Re: Men Are No Longer Persuasive - Lady Laments by Josephtimrock(m): 2:51pm On May 06
ouzo1:
Time no dey to waste for babe matter again.

Things too hard, e don reach 3days now I never shit cuz na who chop dey go toilet.


Y playing hard to get if u want someone,does dat make u not cheap,if u like me nd I ask u out answer me yes if u say no nd expect me to b chasing u u go wait tire.who get time to waste.

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Re: Men Are No Longer Persuasive - Lady Laments by Wickedfacts: 2:54pm On May 06
faithfull18:

Your opinion though. Binding on you alone. The earlier people, ladies esp. understand that, the better.

Do you know what 9 years wait does to the body of a lady?

Guys don't have time for games any longer. If you keep playing games, you're only playing yourself.

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Re: Men Are No Longer Persuasive - Lady Laments by YoungDaNaval(m): 2:55pm On May 06
NwaIgboBoy:
A girl will find u come house, common sweet she no go buy come.


But she will eat the food u get for house , u will still buy her drink of her choice , she will fuccckkk you, use ur bathroom, wear ur boxers and Tshirt, go to the kitchen again collect another round of food just after the fuccckkk, after eating she will fuckkk u again and again and again, even fucccckkk u again one more time , she will now use ur tissue clean her self , wear her clothes, use your comb or hair brush, use your perfume, reach to the door as if she wants to go just like that, you will see her turn kiss ur nipple use her left hand touch your dickkk, and now say to you.... "babe am going plz my TP?" .. and u will still give her both the one she used to come and going.




Now tell me , which kind stress pass this one
Burst my head grin grin grin grin

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Re: Men Are No Longer Persuasive - Lady Laments by zimmaking(m): 2:58pm On May 06
Futureyahooboi:
Is better I chase white lady than chase all this liabilities wey their bills no dey finish e.g I need urgent 2k, I want to make my hair, my scream has finish, I don’t have tfair, subscribe my data for me and I don’t have credit �. No more relationship na hookup sure pass abegi ���with just 5k every were go stew ����.
I'm considering a white young lady self,not these liabilities.

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Re: Men Are No Longer Persuasive - Lady Laments by LoveJesus87(m): 2:59pm On May 06
ouzo1:
Time no dey to waste for babe matter again.

Things too hard, e don reach 3days now I never shit cuz na who chop dey go toilet.


Lmao grin grin grin cheesy
Re: Men Are No Longer Persuasive - Lady Laments by emmaodet: 3:01pm On May 06
Bornsinner7:
It is not a multimillion naira contract that a man will keep wasting his time on..

Honestly.. a lot of young boys are growing up with the orientation that money is key to a girls heart or hole.. and even the ladies have proven it to be right..

You suffer toast babe.. yahoo boy or sugar daddy go come collect am..

No love in the city just make money, bang pussy, smoke weed and pray for long life

Hmmmmmmmmmmm
Re: Men Are No Longer Persuasive - Lady Laments by LoveJesus87(m): 3:02pm On May 06
prettyheart:
Persuasive? Plenty of guys are tired of pursuing. Please help yourself by negotiating your marriage or relationship. Humble yourself and accept if you are okay with the person. "The world is now in a hurry"...By the time you are still trying to prove your worth or how virtuous or how expensive you are, another easy-going lady might have
taken over. The next thing you may see is wedding card after some months, then her pregnancy with two baby bouncing girls as twins...
Re: Men Are No Longer Persuasive - Lady Laments by emmaodet: 3:02pm On May 06
gentlestdude:
when better sexy olosho na 5k or less if you dey egbeda or igando.
With 50k you can Bleep 10 sexy beautiful oloshos each for 10 straight weekends. good on bed, with no calling\nagging issue or menstrual issue, all you just have to do is safeguard your properties and be smart.
In 10 weeks your girlfriend would have billed you more than 100k and she might not even be good on bed or as beautiful as the oloshos we have outside now. Plus nagging and menstrual issues and she will definitely have sugar daddies and side dudes,besties, pastors (hmmm)
I hate hearing that menstrual pain complains

grin grin grin grin grin
Re: Men Are No Longer Persuasive - Lady Laments by LoveJesus87(m): 3:03pm On May 06
prettyheart:
Persuasive? Plenty of guys are tired of pursuing. Please help yourself by negotiating your marriage or relationship. Humble yourself and accept if you are okay with the person. "The world is now in a hurry"...By the time you are still trying to prove your worth or how virtuous or how expensive you are, another easy-going lady might have [s][/s]taken over. The next thing you may see is wedding card after some months, then her pregnancy with two baby bouncing girls as twins...
Re: Men Are No Longer Persuasive - Lady Laments by Restoresp: 3:05pm On May 06
Because the cost of maintaining Nigerian girls is too high. Nobody wants to be a baby maintainer these days for others to harvest.

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Re: Men Are No Longer Persuasive - Lady Laments by Newton85: 3:07pm On May 06
larryjonze:




Just as the name implies "sexual" i.e matter that relate with intercourse/sex.
been persuasive as to wooin a gurl can never be term sexual harrassment
You didn't know that making repeated compliments of an employee’s
appearance for example can also be considered sexual harassment? But keep ignorantly deceiving yourself that sexual harassment only involves "matter that relate with intercourse/sex." You're such a genius.

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Re: Men Are No Longer Persuasive - Lady Laments by Sterope(f): 3:07pm On May 06
Your headache
larryjonze:




I would rather go with an opinion sampling of people on twittter because gurls on nairaland are aliens to these world. that ex or that guy you are dating naa the day he toast you, yu agree bah ! keep deceiving una selves here.
Re: Men Are No Longer Persuasive - Lady Laments by FullBlastLight: 3:08pm On May 06
Bornsinner7:
It is not a multimillion naira contract that a man will keep wasting his time on..

Honestly.. a lot of young boys are growing up with the orientation that money is key to a girls heart or hole.. and even the ladies have proven it to be right..

You suffer toast babe.. yahoo boy or sugar daddy go come collect am..

No love in the city just make money, bang pussy, smoke weed and pray for long life

Re: Men Are No Longer Persuasive - Lady Laments by emmaodet: 3:08pm On May 06
Angelfrost:
Well... As the great singer sang: "Ain't no love in da city"!

The Well of true relationship has long been poisoned by love of money and greed!

Glad to have benefited from the old generation of real relationships... I pity you young ones of today! God help you all!

Bro, you don't need to pity anybody.
I believe they will be fine provided they avoid marriage.

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Re: Men Are No Longer Persuasive - Lady Laments by zimmaking(m): 3:09pm On May 06
Benwallt:
You ppl haven't see anything. Very soon you will be the ones doing the toasting. Like two Sundays ago, I visited a compound sat in the sittingroom. This babe came to the sittingroom probably because of the strange voice(mine). Our eyes met and flashed a lil grin and b4 you know she was everywhere in the sittingroom coming n going, plugging phone, sitting on the floor and all manner of restlessness. The moment the aunty left to bring things I quickly ask for her number which she reeled out with a speed of light. Getting home, I gave her call she formed busy, called the second tym, she cut the call. Sharply I deleted her number and rest. She called like three tyms I didn't pick. I called her and she asked y I stop trying. I told her I don't have time for crap n that she should delete my number as I have deleted hers that she has pissed me off already. Na so I move. No time
Correct guy! Once I notice dat 1 babe dey do yamayama,I dey delete number fast ni oh.If you don't know your worth,value and the grace you carry,one public toilet kind of girl go dey do anyhow.I will never stoop so low for insult or too much shakara.

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Re: Men Are No Longer Persuasive - Lady Laments by FullBlastLight: 3:11pm On May 06
gentlestdude:
when better sexy olosho na 5k or less if you dey egbeda or igando.
With 50k you can Bleep 10 sexy beautiful oloshos each for 10 straight weekends. good on bed, with no calling\nagging issue or menstrual issue, all you just have to do is safeguard your properties and be smart.
In 10 weeks your girlfriend would have billed you more than 100k and she might not even be good on bed or as beautiful as the oloshos we have outside now. Plus nagging and menstrual issues and she will definitely have sugar daddies and side dudes,besties, pastors (hmmm)
I hate hearing that menstrual pain complains

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Re: Men Are No Longer Persuasive - Lady Laments by Ferrous(m): 3:12pm On May 06
Case closed for good grin
Re: Men Are No Longer Persuasive - Lady Laments by KingClown(m): 3:13pm On May 06
Jman06:
My own problem is that I am currently struggling with getting attracted to girls! Not that I am gay or something, God forbid! Just discovered that ladies no longer trip me like before! Please, does attraction to the opposite gender decline with time

Like I remember how I used to struggle with my craving for the opposite sex during my late teens and early twenties. But right now, I can't point at any girl that make me go love sick like before. Hope all is still well with me o? I am worried because I may still decide to marry and I wouldn't want to be in a loveless marriage.


no be only you.

you're fine, you don become man.

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