Please house i need your advice on this matter. I married to a lady who was married before, and we have stayed together for more than 5 years though without any child.

Now my mind is telling me that she is not my real wife,should i divorce her and marry another woman?. I am a christian . please advice me.

Amareal:

I married to a lady who was married before, and we have stayed together for more than 5 years though without any child.

5 years though without any child? Bro, are you firing blanks? (no oofeinse)

Bro where did u put ur faith as a xtain huh?
Y do u all put blames on female wen u seem nt b able produce a workin sp.erm

What i mean is that she divorced her first husband and got married to me,as a christian is she my real wife?

^^ Why did she divorce her husband?

Hammer the girl and stop yarning dust

Amareal:

What i mean is that she divorced her first husband and got married to me,as a christian is she my real wife?

you sound like a very confused soul. How can you be married to a woman to five years before you begin to realise that she is not your wife?

Why didn't you realise this during the time you spent with her before you got married?

Dyt:

Bro where did u put your faith as a xtain huh?
Y do u all put blames on female wen u seem nt b able produce a workin sp.erm

And why did you ignore the above question?

Amareal:

What i mean is that she divorced her first husband and got married to me,as a christian is she my real wife?

didn't you know that she was married before? or did you just find out? seems like you are looking for an excuse to get a divorce and you haven't told us the real issues you guys are having instead you want to hide behind the fact that you are a christian.

She said her first husband is not man enough after 4years she has been married to him.

^^So it wasn't because of infidelity ba? Well, the only grounds the bible gives for a Christian to get divorced are INFIDELITY and DEATH of spouse!

So--- What do you think?

BABE!:

^^So it wasn't because of infidelity ba? Well, the only grounds the bible gives for a Christian to get divorced are INFIDELITY and DEATH of spouse!

So--- What do you think?

Answer this
b/c l'm still confuse here, u did not state your reason of divorce her.by the way have u people have a baby yet

Amareal:

What i mean is that she divorced her first husband and got married to me,as a christian is she my real wife?


we have stayed together for more than 5 years though without any child. Now my mind is telling me that she is not my real wife

so you didn't know that she was divorced before you married her?
please tell me this topic is a joke

why rubbish God because you don't love your wife anymore. just divorce her as a personal decision (your mind) rather than bringing God into it.
I'm sure Abraham didn't kick Sarah out of his house for infertility.

Amareal:

Please house i need your advice on this matter. I married to a lady who was married before, and we have stayed together for more than 5 years though without any child.

Now my mind is telling me that she is not my real wife,should i divorce her and marry another woman?. I am a christian . please advice me.

She divorced her husband cos he is not 'man enough' after 4yrs and married u and after 5yrs u want to leave her? Could it be that u are not 'man enough' as well?

This is a cop out! Just be real, if you no longer want to be married don't create some flimsy excuse "Like my mind is not telling me you're my real wife."  If you want the relationship to be over, just be a real man and tell her you want a divorce.  Of all the crock I have heard in my life for a man wanting to divorce his wife or leave his woman, this by far has got to be one of the most ridiculous.  Just because she was married before does not invalidate your current marriage.  You are bound by vows, spirit and laws, and remember you chose this for better or worse, not because she has something in her past you don't like or until it is no longer convenient for you.  I feel sorry for this woman if she has a man like you for her husband, who has grown finicky for the weakest of reasons. For shame!  

i think so

Amareal:

What i mean is that she divorced her first husband and got married to me,as a christian is she my real wife?

No

She is not your wife, She is my wife, Because na me marry am

May be the man is seeing someone else, just another way to discharge his wife

You have been with her for 5years and all of a sudden you are realizing she is not your real wife. So who is your real wife?

I suspect d OP s got a new chic outside his hm

Exactly. He wants fresh punny and looking for excuses to ditch the old punny.

Amareal:

Please house i need your advice on this matter. I married to a lady who was married before, and we have stayed together for more than 5 years though without any child.

Now my mind is telling me that she is not my real wife,should i divorce her and marry another woman?. I am a christian . please advice me.

Hahaha ya mind is playing tricks berrra watch out

Mrs.Chima:

Exactly. He wants fresh punny and looking for excuses to ditch the old punny.

Chei suga! You barrro0
Hw ya? Where u @ this easter? Was searching for ya via nairaland via internet

what a confused man did you jump into the marriage with closed eyes? after 5 years she is suddenly not the one

Brite02:

Hahaha ya mind is playing tricks berrra watch out
Chei suga! You barrro0
Hw ya? Where u @ this easter? Was searching for ya via nairaland via internet

I was humping the Easter's Bunny and how was your Easter's?

Mrs.Chima:

I was humping the Easter's Bunny and how was your Easter's?

Bored! No showdown for me

Awww. You didn't hump the Easter Bunny either?

Mrs.Chima:

Awww. You didn't hump the Easter Bunny either?

Showdown in tokyo was far away, i felt like crying, wetin man can do na. .

Better luck next year huh? You should have went to Magic City 2

yeah, i forgot that 'magic city'

*whispers- i wasn't on boxers*
Little ve gat is for future plans na. .

yeah, i forgot that 'magic city'

*whispers- i wasn't on boxers*
Little ve gat is for future plans na. .

Amareal - barring the jokes and insults, lemme see here:

You've been married to this woman for 5 years without a child.
She was married before.
She divorced her previous husband because, according to you, she said he wasn't "man enough" (whatever that means).
Your Christian mind, after 5 years, is telling you that she isn't your wife because she was married before.

Now, does it not occur to you that if you marry another woman that  you will not be her husband as you will be the divorcee/adulterer - or is this status only for the wife you're looking to divorce?

You seem a bit confused.  Why divorce?