I am the last born of 5 brothers, Don't know how my parents did it, but we all hand our fare share of work around the house and favoritism was (and still is) non existent.
The problem is, I find it had to ask for help, I'll either put what I need on hold, Find a way to solve the problem or simply leave it be.
I know its important to have your own stuff and be able to do things by yourself but i've come to know that the most powerful people are those good with people, they pull crowd, they always have a solution to problems, they know and are connected with people that matters, people like Jesus Christ, The Godfather, Napoleon Bonaparte etc.
I know I need people, that's a fact but how did you all get out of this phase??

tbh,


it is the same with me

You mean to ask for help from your family?
Simply learn to open up.

mariahAngel:
You mean to ask for help from your family?
Simply learn to open up.

no be lie, na how be the matter

anthonyuncle:
tbh,

it is the same with me

we need allies so dat we go be like don Corleone

ekerensima:


we need allies so dat we go be like don Corleone

yes o

anthonyuncle:


yes o

e get some kin this whe person dey do whe be say ee go search eee soul taya ee nor fit find reason for the behavior. Omo weda na pride Abi na fear dey worry me na im I nor kno

ekerensima:

e get some kin this whe person dey do whe be say ee go search eee soul taya ee nor fit find reason for the behavior. Omo weda na pride Abi na fear dey worry me na im I nor kno

it depends.

but sometimes, it is neither fear nor pride