My WhatsApp female contacts have this behaviour of asking me for money...I am good friends with almost 20 of them on my contact list...We Chat sometimes and comment on each others status.

Straight to the point. Most of them have this behaviour of asking for money and i find it difficult to give a response just like the one who sent me a message now asking for a little token to support her birthday cake tomorrow.

I won't lie, i usually try my best not to reply NO or bore them with financial stories but find a way to squeeze out something but recently It's becoming too much like one of them birthday is every week. I am also financially down and if you don't respond they end up calling u stingy or start beefing u.

No. The words are not the problem, you must be willing to purge the parasite if need be and dont be weak.

no is no!

it shouldn't be decorated

You will try and say "NO" nonii.... Or like "things are kinda tight lately"

I nor understand this guy...

"E nor dey" "E nor dey"

Who nakked nor dey chook hand for pocket..


Na guys like you dey make all these urgent 2k people see us finish.

Hmmm. Boiz of this generation are worst than our present President, this dude says he has roughly "20 female" which he indirectly spends his lil penny on. This kinda guy might never rescue a fellow guy drowning in mediocrity but he WILL shamelessly squeeze his last penny for a grown ass girl b'day. Choi.

You have money you worked hard for and you feel you don't have the right to manage your money the way you should...So whoever asks for a token from you, is rightly entitled to your money more than you do...


I don't keep silly friends around and I don't have people asking me for urgent free 2k .... So I can't help you with this....

I would have given you if you had asked yesterday.

It was this morning I transferred all my money to the supervisor In charge of my housing project.
I want to finish the foundation this year

FatherCHRISTMAS:
I would have given you if you had asked yesterday.
It was this morning I transferred all my money to the supervisor In charge in charge of my housing project.

I want to finish the foundation this year

You should change ur name to I'm not Father Christmas.

My Yes is my Yes and my No is my No


I'm a simple man in nature

There is no money on ground.

I can't help you at this time, chikena

This is my polite way of saying no to someone who is asking for money.

Honestly I would have loved to assist but the fact that Buhari is still our president makes it extremely impossible for me to do so...

This is my polite way of saying no to someone who is asking for money.

Honestly I would have loved to assist but the fact that Buhari is still our president makes it extremely impossible for me to do so...

This way they knew who is responsible and why you're unable to assist them.

People are building Estates, Mansions everyday.......Yet they tell us No Money

If it's a guy that ask u for money u will shout no immediately. Op come make i nack u 2by2 so ur brain go dey think straight

My Yes is my Yes and my No is my NoI'm a simple man in nature

wish I can but I swear I CNT, no matter how hard I try...guy jus tell am simple no instead of to de paint am sweet....
so many girls jus de use birthday tinz as hustle day....bea go task like 100 guys for her list money to buy NDA cake of 5k
at d end of the day, like 50 guys go send her 3k n above....dts hustling..
imagine a bea telling me last week online dt she need to buy dt new techno camon 16 after her bday bcoz she would mk a lot of money from guys dt day....
how I wish 90% of naija guys are redpilled like me...

paulolee:
wish I can but I swear I CNT, no matter how hard I try...guy jus tell am simple no instead of to de paint am sweet....
so many girls jus de use birthday tinz as hustle day....bea go task like 100 guys for her list money to buy NDA cake of 5k
at d end of the day, like 50 guys go send her 3k n above....dts hustling..

Exactly. Is that not bumping like Yahoo?!

Birthday have turned to a fundraising event.

Everything for this life na money matter.

Daveambition:
Hmmm. Boiz of this generation are worst than our present President, this dude says he has roughly "20 female" which he indirectly spends his lil penny on. This kinda guy might never rescue a fellow guy drowning in mediocrity but he WILL shamelessly squeeze his last penny for a grown ass girl b'day. Choi.

I get what you are saying. But not me...Me wey even dey squat my niggas and pay bills and ofc i give guys...I give alot thats why i no fit save.

Salary enter everybody dey put eye for ur money. 1 or 2 weeks after salary I'm broke again. Same thing every month

EmekaBlue:
Exactly. Is that not bumping like Yahoo?!

Birthday have turned to a fundraising event.

Everything for this life na money matter.

I swear bro..

Tell them your friend or family just borrowed a large sum of money from you and you are down, economic hard for you too and watch their reactions if they are fake friends or real ones; after all they also reject broke niggas so let them have a taste of rejection

You had better learn to say no otherwise they will wreck you financially!

EmekaBlue:
My WhatsApp female contacts have this behaviour of asking me for money...I am good friends with almost 20 of them on my contact list...We Chat sometimes and comment on each others status.

Straight to the point. Most of them have this behaviour of asking for money and i find it difficult to give a response just like the one who sent me a message now asking for a little token to support her birthday cake tomorrow.

I won't lie, i usually try my best not to reply NO or bore them with financial stories but find a way to squeeze out something but recently It's becoming too much like one of them birthday is every week. I am also financially down and if you don't respond they end up calling u stingy or start beefing u.

A big fat NO should suffice, don't displease yourself in order to please another. Dem no go give you if you ask dem oh because dem no dey everly get money. So cultivate the habit of saying NO except you have a few change to spare.
PS: Nobody has the right to cajole you into parting with your money, if they want it that badly they can as well work for it.
Nobody come world to come suffer for another person headache.

Theboy21:
Tell them your friend or family just borrowed a large sum of money from you and you are down, economic hard for you too and watch their reactions if they are fake friends or real ones; after all they also reject broke niggas so let them have a taste of rejection

I like this


I will start using this polite format because giving out all the time won't make one grow

Truth is, Nigerian girls are wiser than their male counterparts. Na them dey hustle pass and person wey dey hustle without shame dey meet up finally.

EmekaBlue:
My WhatsApp female contacts have this behaviour of asking me for money...I am good friends with almost 20 of them on my contact list...We Chat sometimes and comment on each others status.

Straight to the point. Most of them have this behaviour of asking for money and i find it difficult to give a response just like the one who sent me a message now asking for a little token to support her birthday cake tomorrow.

I won't lie, i usually try my best not to reply NO or bore them with financial stories but find a way to squeeze out something but recently It's becoming too much like one of them birthday is every week. I am also financially down and if you don't respond they end up calling u stingy or start beefing u.

how many of them have sent you small thing for your birthday

SmellySperm:
My Yes is my Yes and my No is my No

I'm a simple man in nature

Oliver de coque

MrMacinterchi1:

how many of them have sent you small thing for your birthday

funny enough None

Just a no issorite

EmekaBlue:
funny enough None

Lol. Thought as much. That is if they remembered it self or sent a text on that day.

there, You have your answers already. You can't come and go and kill yourself by yourself nah.