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Should She Give Him A Second Chance? by PHBABE(f): 1:27am On Jul 12, 2007 |
I have a friend who is dating this guy that cheated (with several gals) on her during the 1st yr of their relationship without her knowledge. 3 yrs later, he decided to confess to her and told her that he wont misbehave again. They have been dating now for about 4 years but she is so confused. The thing is that,she said the last two yrs of the relationship has been great. She said he finally became the guy she had always wanted. the first 1and 1/2 years were not as great according to her. but she just keeps wondering if he would revert to his old self when they r married and is just pretending now so he can marry her or maybe just being at his best behavior now until he finally locks her down(marriage). She tells me that sometimes she thinks he is the best thing that ever happened to her and the next thing she know she is thinking of meeting another guy. what do y'all think bout this? |
Re: Should She Give Him A Second Chance? by justkunmi(m): 1:28am On Jul 12, 2007 |
are u sure u are not the girl? |
Re: Should She Give Him A Second Chance? by PHBABE(f): 1:30am On Jul 12, 2007 |
Thats my best friend. why? |
Re: Should She Give Him A Second Chance? by Aproko(f): 4:20pm On Jul 12, 2007 |
what would she have done if he never told her anything and she never found out? that is what i think she should do. |
Re: Should She Give Him A Second Chance? by luxoire(f): 4:31pm On Jul 12, 2007 |
@poster IF he hasnt shown any philandering ways lately, i think she should hang in there GUYS ARE USUALLY PRATS AND DO NOT APPRECIATE YOU, OR BEGIN TO SHOW APPRECIATION UNTIL YOU HAVE BEEN WITH THEM A WHILE AND THEY ARE ASSURED YOU ARE THEIRS ALONE AND YOUR NOT GOING ANY WHERE, maybe thats why he has changed, and since the change is for the better, she had better stick to him, because he too will not be going anywhere, especially if he WILLINGLY CONFESSED, thats the ultimate sign of remorse 2 Likes |
Re: Should She Give Him A Second Chance? by Joey82(m): 4:39pm On Jul 12, 2007 |
@poster If a guy confesses d truth 2 u, just know that he's damn serious especially regarding situations of r/ships. Besides, he's been behaving nicely, so why the fear that he might one day go back. Advice ur friend to start thinking positive. |
Re: Should She Give Him A Second Chance? by ngojoygurl(f): 4:48pm On Jul 12, 2007 |
My advice is exactly what others has been saying, since the guy is treating her well and she has noticed that he is no longer cheating on her. I will advice your friend to stick to him! |
Re: Should She Give Him A Second Chance? by drrionelli(m): 5:30pm On Jul 12, 2007 |
Anybody is entitled to change behavior for the better (hopefully) or the worse (far too often), so this guy very well could be a "new man." However, an old saying notes that "a leopard cannot change his spots." It sounds to me as though this lady knows she should look elsewhere for the love she seeks, but is fearful of doing so. She might wish to overcome her fears. |
Re: Should She Give Him A Second Chance? by WinningEleven(m): 10:59am On Nov 10, 2018 |
Nairalanders... She needs help |
Re: Should She Give Him A Second Chance? by frozen70(f): 9:15pm On Nov 10, 2018 |
PHBABE: If she is really in love, let her continue Those fear she is having about him getting married to her and still cheat on him, will definitely happen All she should be worried about is, let him care for her while he is doing those rubbish and let her not witness any of them when he is cheating What you don't see can't keep reflecting to you |
Re: Should She Give Him A Second Chance? by Oreofepeters: 9:43pm On Nov 10, 2018 |
Kukuma say it's you nobody will flog you, I hate pretenders.... |
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