sweetdragon2021:


Hahaha.....
I feel you die bro.
You made my day!

eyinjuege:




This is a recycled story and I wonder if it's true.
Anyway, that aside have you tried to put yourself in her shoes?
She's also going through a lot to provide for the family, with a dwindling business. She cannot afford to pay her staff and she's the only one working and serving customers at the same time.
Your partner should support you. She was obviously already stressed and overwhelmed alone during the rush hour, and was relieved to see a savior in her husband. A saviour who has come to help her in the shop, heaven sent at the right time during rush hour.
Unfortunately, he turned out to be the devil himself.
He even slapped her on top, despite all her efforts.
That's the only source of income for their family for now o. There's nothing bad if he joins her in the business, as a staff.
He even abandoned her with the children. Is that not wickedness?
I'm sure he came to the shop to have his lunch and be served and catered to.
Who else should volunteer to wash the plates, if not him?
Even if the business isn't going so great, that's the only thing feeding them for now o.
Anyway, everyone's thinking process is different sha.

Sebastine1994:


what would customers think of a husband that washes plates.

these food sellers lack respect, especially women

MrCuteAndLoaded:


Look at this idiot! This is a man's ego wounded here. It will start from simple washing of plate. Very soon, he will be washing her panties....That guy na real man mehn! The slap is just the appetizer!

eyinjuege:




This is a recycled story and I wonder if it's true.
Anyway, that aside have you tried to put yourself in her shoes?
She's also going through a lot to provide for the family, with a dwindling business. She cannot afford to pay her staff and she's the only one working and serving customers at the same time.
Your partner should support you. She was obviously already stressed and overwhelmed alone during the rush hour, and was relieved to see a savior in her husband. A saviour who has come to help her in the shop, heaven sent at the right time during rush hour.
Unfortunately, he turned out to be the devil himself.
He even slapped her on top, despite all her efforts.
That's the only source of income for their family for now o. There's nothing bad if he joins her in the business, as a staff.
He even abandoned her with the children. Is that not wickedness?
I'm sure he came to the shop to have his lunch and be served and catered to.
Who else should volunteer to wash the plates, if not him?
Even if the business isn't going so great, that's the only thing feeding them for now o.
Anyway, everyone's thinking process is different sha.

eyinjuege:


Never live your life based on people's opinion.
Their opinion won't pay your bills and it means jack to your life, in the grand scheme of things.
Everyone with their problem and for all you know the customers may even be worse off than you.
There are men that run food business. I know an unmarried young man who sells indomie and egg in a small space. He does it by himself and has his customers. He's a graduate btw but he sells cooked meals to make ends meet and he washes his plates. Talkmore of a man who has a family to feed.
We see men in market cutting ugwu in their wives kiosk in the market, and customers have no problem with them cutting their vegetables for them or selling foodstuff to them.
Nigerians are too elitist, and look down on hard workers and manual labourers. Its wrong, and nobody should ever be ashamed of any legitimate work that they do.

Hotshisha:


I payed 100k to rent a shop

I payed an extra 100 k to buy plastic chairs, table and accessories for interior

I bought gas stove, microwave, cutlery, and food stuff almost 100k

Gave the wife another 100k working capital

All in all I spent 500k on a business venture or $1200 USD on a business venture I earned zero Kobo from( 1.2k is minimum wage of hard labour in USA) and annual income in Nigeria

Yet I am told to wash plates for the customers and I should not get angry and slap the person degrading me because I want to be a real man

I won't slap her , I'll take over my business with receipt and proof of payments I made starting up the business, I'll start washing the damn plates and keeping my profits for my damn self, for 50k I'll get an excellent cook in Lagos and run a proper business, let her go and ask her father and elders in their village to wash plate after buying her plates and business so she can survive




.

AdakaBoro8:
do you have problem when reading narration or you just a disgraced to the men race??
you must be a woman mestruation.

bepositive11:


Going back on my last statement. I'm replying
My point is you can't generalize anything or anyone. There are always exceptions. I'm not declaring not being a coward. I live my life that way.

Anyway, tired of the pointless back and forth. Let's just stop here.

eyinjuege:


Never live your life based on people's opinion.
Their opinion won't pay your bills and it means jack to your life, in the grand scheme of things.
Everyone with their problem and for all you know the customers may even be worse off than you.
There are men that run food business. I know an unmarried young man who sells indomie and egg in a small space. He does it by himself and has his customers. He's a graduate btw but he sells cooked meals to make ends meet and he washes his plates. Talkmore of a man who has a family to feed.
We see men in market cutting ugwu in their wives kiosk in the market, and customers have no problem with them cutting their vegetables for them or selling foodstuff to them.
Nigerians are too elitist, and look down on hard workers and manual labourers. Its wrong, and nobody should ever be ashamed of any legitimate work that they do.

Teaveapoet:




Thank you. I'm married but this isn't about me okay! A responsible man doesn't raise his hand on his wife not even in public. What's wrong in washing plates?

You said he opened restaurant for her oh Glory be to God! So now he lost his job he is feeling his wife is superior than him and you call him husband. Lolz

debbydams:
abi o

Olaideolayemi:
How life and things?

debbydams:
fine oo..

Olaideolayemi:
Good..I hope you're now enjoying your new relationship now, compared to the past?Have a nice weekend..

larryjonze:



Well you're limitation of your reasoning, what i am saying is essence is naa poor husband women dey give division of labour.
FIY i have a non related uncle in IB that drives a lexus460 his wife sells food on ring road to nite crawlers.
The woman i buy my food stuff from, her husband works in an insurance firm he drives a muscle camry & owns a bungalow.
You don't understand life cos dem still dey feed you.

MOVIC6:
You are far from comon sense, no matter your age, the point every male gender is dropping here is jus ERGO which have been one of the factor of broken home and if you are a Christian, my brother you have lost it cos you don’t know what love and sacrifice is, infact any day they talk about love in church ask the holy spirit to teach you.
You have lost sense in the name of pride. Just getout.

Galaxydon1:
I don't see anything wrong if the Man watches plate. It's lack of understanding, so if it was the Man that runs The business won't he dish out plates for his customers. Since it's a family business i don't see anything wrong with it.

MOVIC6:
You are far from comon sense, no matter your age, the point every male gender is dropping here is jus ERGO which have been one of the factor of broken home and if you are a Christian, my brother you have lost it cos you don’t know what love and sacrifice is, infact any day they talk about love in church ask the holy spirit to teach you.
You have lost sense in the name of pride. Just getout.

Olaideolayemi:
There's no any justification.. I can only offer help willingly.. Not telling me to wash dish..I won't wash and I won't come to that shop again..We both born the Pipkin.. She should take care of them and leave me..

DaCharis2016:
Is all understanding

debbydams:
lol...I'm not In any ...bin single is cool

Olaideolayemi:
Are you that young like that?because time is passing out..

debbydams:
hum mm I'm not tho..pressure left nd right..it is well

Olaideolayemi:
Some woman lack understanding.. All they know..Na exploitation.. Abeg..

Olaideolayemi:
Try to replan now..And give somebody a chance..experience and knowledge will help you out..

Olaideolayemi:
Try to replan now..And give somebody a chance..experience and knowledge will help you out..

AFONAMARO:


You already reek of disgrace and unhealthy blood, hence, you know what a menstruating man looks like.

Agama lizard