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Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by sweetdragon2021: 8:59am On May 22, 2021 |
Samskid310: Hahaha..... I feel you die bro. You made my day! |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by ekerintee: 9:07am On May 22, 2021 |
If the man has Not been watching Plates at Home ,it will be Strange for her to ASK him to wash Plates in Public.She should have called him INSIDE and Tabled her request and Not infront of everyone .If she called him privately and politely asked,i dont think He will have reacted that way.so i cant blame the man .If he slapped her in Public,its because she humilated him in Public .Thou He over reacted by slapping her,she Hurt His emotion.its Not pride but Not all men will allow such .some men could watch Plates ,its their choice and Not Bad ,If He says He cant watch Plates ,you dont crucify him for that habiham: |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Olufemiolaolu(m): 9:23am On May 22, 2021 |
The insult she dished to him is highly undeserving and bad. Majority of women are naturally rude and idiotic when a man isn't in chat financially 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Bedrooomsecret: 9:31am On May 22, 2021 |
You've not done anything wrong. A reasonable husband will offer to help you even without you asking for help. If not for pride, I don't see anything wrong in him joining you in managing the restaurant pending when he gets a job, after all that's where the money for running the home comes. Leave him, hunger will chase him back. Get cheap labour to help you in the restaurant, dont get yourself worked up. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by omonnakoda: 9:40am On May 22, 2021 |
bepositive11:That is your opinion which you are entitled to just like I am mine You are not God In my opinion all humans are Cowards one way or another Every one has psychological issues to deal with Protecting the vulnerable one today does not mean you will do that everyday No human is consistently good or consistently bad or consistently brave. No one is perfect You are not saying anything new or profound You are just saying what makes sense TO YOU |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Restoresp: 9:45am On May 22, 2021 |
BonPatrick: The truth is, the problem didn't start from the restaurant, I guess you haven't been treating him nicely since he lost his job. And secondly, does it mean the customers cannot wait for you to wash the plate and serve them?. The last time I checked, people wait for 10, 15, 20 minutes before been served in restaurants. Why must your husband wash plate?, Why not ask him to help you collect money from the customers? Lol Anyways na husband and wife matter, na small person dey talk put, but remember two wrongs don't make a right. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Georgejeez: 10:13am On May 22, 2021 |
Don't know if this story is true or not ,or it happened seven years ago as some people claimed but lemme just pretend it's genuine. Madam ,you were in the wrong , in fact you fvck up big time ,, your husband as portrayed is a caring man ,for him to open a restaurant for you , do school runs to assist you shows he is a nice person But immediately he lost his bizness cos of the Scammers ,you began to demean his position as head of the home . Just imagine your write up ,he just walked in and the welcome you could give him is he should RUSH and wash dishes because you were busy ,he ignored and you went further to emphasize your demand , thereby reducing him to a servant in the establishment which he is the de facto owner in PUBLIC for that matter. You were lucky his younger sister wasn't there to see how you intended disgracing her elder brother in public , maybe na your hot pot of stew she for take baff you . I'm not married and don't intend to venture but if peradventure it happens ,, because of this story I wouldn't help with the dishes ,never ! If balloon waan burst mek e burst.. I rather be a short AKI AND PAWPAW than become a tall TONY UMEZ woman wrapper.. My dear Men in whatever you do , always double your hustle and have different sources of income to avoid "see finish".. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Fantazy(m): 10:40am On May 22, 2021 |
So just because you are the one footing the bill at the moment you now think you can be sending your husband unnecessary errand. I'm not saying he can't wash plate for you but that should be his willing, not you having to send him. Before he lost his job has he ever told you to come and assist him? At least he was the one footing the bills then. You women and pride una be like 5 and 6. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Ryan03(f): 10:49am On May 22, 2021 |
richmond500:make I hear word joor. In my area, the akara woman here runs the business with her husband cause uncle nor get job. Come and see the man pounding beans and making pap, even Washing plates cause the crowd is much and they have no extra hand. Carry head of house for head and you nor get money 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Ryan03(f): 10:53am On May 22, 2021 |
Galaxydon1:thank you I. It has now become a family business cause all house expenses are coming from there. Small boys and toxic men just full nairaland 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Nas23Nas: 10:54am On May 22, 2021 |
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Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Nas23Nas: 10:54am On May 22, 2021 |
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Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by richmond500: 11:07am On May 22, 2021 |
Ryan03:Oga this isn't about head of house or anything. If she had politely told the man at home that he should help her in the restaurant since he isn't doing anything and feeling depressed daily, that would have been different, but she chooses to tell him to go wash plates in front of her customers, the man is probably going through a lot and feeling less of himself since he can't provide for his family, maybe his friends has even jokingly insulted him too about it. Then his wife had to make things worse by telling him to go and wash plates. forget the nonsense u are saying, if u are in his shoes, u won't do it 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by emzynuel1: 11:29am On May 22, 2021 |
IRALIFE:Shut the Fu*k up If u were in is shoe won't u don d same In d public sista U dey wicked oooh |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by bepositive11: 11:30am On May 22, 2021 |
omonnakoda: Well, whatever suits you. You are a coward, but I am not. It takes courage to not be a coward. Last reply to you. |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by HISWAYS(m): 11:31am On May 22, 2021 |
The woman did the right thing but at the wrong time and place... This should have been discussed earlier at home --the inner room. The man will just wash the dishes with humility and support the business. |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by bepositive11: 11:32am On May 22, 2021 |
omonnakoda: Well, whatever suits you. You are a coward, but I am not. It takes courage to not be a coward. Last reply to you on this. |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by AdakaBoro8(m): 11:34am On May 22, 2021 |
AFONAMARO:do you have problem when reading narration or you just a disgraced to the men race?? you must be a woman mestruation. |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Olaideolayemi(m): 11:38am On May 22, 2021 |
debbydams:longtime.. |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Segzy19: 11:41am On May 22, 2021 |
Rubbish! There is nothing bad in it. It only depends on how she said it. Maybe in a command tone or a condescending manner. What's wrong in a husband assisting her wife when he can clearly see that the wife is struggling? What's bthe big deal about washing a plate as a man? Rubbish! Hardgun: |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by omonnakoda: 11:42am On May 22, 2021 |
bepositive11:Declaring that you are or are not a coward does not make or unmake what you are or what I am Why you need to take this so personal is confusing but instructive. You do not know me. You come online exchange a few posts and you tell me what I am. Guy, calm down I have no struggle with you I just said what I think and you see it a different way. I respect that. I did not address my thoughts to you When the time comes in YOUR life PROVE you are not a coward. Don't TELL me you are not a coward. I really do not care. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Olaideolayemi(m): 11:44am On May 22, 2021 |
DaCharis2016:There's no any justification.. I can only offer help willingly.. Not telling me to wash dish..I won't wash and I won't come to that shop again..We both born the Pipkin.. She should take care of them and leave me.. |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Segzy19: 11:47am On May 22, 2021 |
Na mumu you be. Didn't you read where she said she has taken up the financial responsibility of the house using the proceeds from the restaurant? What other gains are you looking for? Hotshisha: |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Olaideolayemi(m): 11:48am On May 22, 2021 |
DaCharis2016:Abeg forget..because I broke..Are should be mumu..Some men self... |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by MNDY(m): 11:51am On May 22, 2021 |
richmond500: When we say the brain of majority of women is naturally dull, they say we hate women. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by MNDY(m): 11:52am On May 22, 2021 |
richmond500: When we say the brain of majority of women is naturally dull, they say we hate women... |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by shoprite: 12:29pm On May 22, 2021 |
Truth is . . .there's actually nothing wrong with the man assisting with washing the plates, but I'm very sure the problem was how she asked... My husband is doing nothing yet, he just sits at home and maybe go pick the kids from school and all, so yesterday I had lots of customers in the shop, I was doing everything by myself, so as soon as my husband walked in, I asked him to help me rush to wash a few plates while I serve . . .From this quote you can tell that madam was already getting fed up that Oga does nothing but sit at home and maybe bring the kids from school . . .so she was already cooking up what to say to him the next time he shows up at the restaurant . . .a good thing she even acknowledged that he opened the restaurant for her. . . Sometimes it is not what you say, but how you say it that matters!
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Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Nobody: 12:36pm On May 22, 2021 |
Since the man is job hunting, I see no why he shouldn't join his wife to run the eatery together. The slap scenerio wouldn't have happened or ever be taught of. There will be proper division of labor and more hands will be employed. As for the slap scenerio, both of them are wrong. Why ask your husband to wash plate in front of your customers? I believe she asked him in an inappropriate tone that warranted a slap from her husband. |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by debbydams(f): 12:57pm On May 22, 2021 |
Olaideolayemi:abi o |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by bepositive11: 1:05pm On May 22, 2021 |
omonnakoda: Going back on my last statement. I'm replying My point is you can't generalize anything or anyone. There are always exceptions. I'm not declaring not being a coward. I live my life that way. Anyway, tired of the pointless back and forth. Let's just stop here. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by toyinsalammy(f): 1:24pm On May 22, 2021 |
I want to assume it was the manner in which the woman asked him. There's a way to approach a man when it comes to doing domestic chores especially a man who just lost his means of livelihood. It takes a lot of wisdom cos already, the man is feeling less of himself and his ego hurt cos he can't provide d way he used to.. May God help d family and everyone of us. |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by eyinjuege: 1:39pm On May 22, 2021 |
Sebastine1994: This is a recycled story and I wonder if it's true. Anyway, that aside have you tried to put yourself in her shoes? She's also going through a lot to provide for the family, with a dwindling business. She cannot afford to pay her staff and she's the only one working and serving customers at the same time. Your partner should support you. She was obviously already stressed and overwhelmed alone during the rush hour, and was relieved to see a savior in her husband. A saviour who has come to help her in the shop, heaven sent at the right time during rush hour. Unfortunately, he turned out to be the devil himself. He even slapped her on top, despite all her efforts. That's the only source of income for their family for now o. There's nothing bad if he joins her in the business, as a staff. He even abandoned her with the children. Is that not wickedness? I'm sure he came to the shop to have his lunch and be served and catered to. Who else should volunteer to wash the plates, if not him? Even if the business isn't going so great, that's the only thing feeding them for now o. Anyway, everyone's thinking process is different sha. 1 Like |
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