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If You Don't Want People To Disrespect You, Stop Doing These 10 Things (Opinion) by Vipro(m): 1:27pm On May 23
Recently, a friend told me about an embarrassing situation he experienced. He attended a small party and out of all the attendees, he was the only one that was not served food. Sincerely, I couldn't control my laughter when he was recounting his story because it sounded funny. With a frown on his face, he said "I wasn't invited to the party anyway". At that point, I knew he was at fault.


A wise man once told me that respect can only be earned, not forced. It implies that before people can respect you, there is a price to pay; you need to be worthy of it.

When people respect you, they place you in high regard and value your opinion. They don't belittle you or make you feel worthless. Also, they treat you specially.

For instance, my friend was not respected at the party he attended. He even said the host didn't even acknowledge his presence. That's disappointing!


Whether you're rich or poor, educated or illiterate, good-looking or not, you deserve to be respected. Respect feeds the ego and makes us feel good.

So, if you don't want people to disrespect you, stop doing these 10 things;

1. Stop going to places you are not invited to

2. Stop calling and chatting up people who don't call you

3. Stop laughing uncontrollably when people insult you; caution them immediately

4. Stop begging people for money; double your hustle

5. Stop visiting people who don't visit you

6. Stop contributing to discussions that don't concern you


7. Stop chasing after people who don't know you exist

8. Stop mingling with people who have no plans for the future

9. Stop sleeping and relaxing when you're supposed to be working

10. Stop fighting and insulting people, especially in public




Try your best to avoid the 10 things listed above, you'll be surprised at how people will see you differently and start respecting you.

Have you ever been disrespected by someone close to you? Kindly share your story.

Thanks for reading.

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Re: If You Don't Want People To Disrespect You, Stop Doing These 10 Things (Opinion) by Kriss216: 1:31pm On May 23
11. Avoid any form of relationship with Nigerian girls.

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Re: If You Don't Want People To Disrespect You, Stop Doing These 10 Things (Opinion) by guccimilan(m): 1:32pm On May 23
wisdom!

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Re: If You Don't Want People To Disrespect You, Stop Doing These 10 Things (Opinion) by Pierocash(m): 1:38pm On May 23
Kriss216:
11. Avoid any form of relationship with Nigerian girls.
grin

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Re: If You Don't Want People To Disrespect You, Stop Doing These 10 Things (Opinion) by LikeAking: 1:42pm On May 23
Nice one.

Gods bless u Op.

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Re: If You Don't Want People To Disrespect You, Stop Doing These 10 Things (Opinion) by Deborah98(f): 1:44pm On May 23
In other words we should forget people who forget us undecided time and chance happens to all things ( living and nonliving).

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Re: If You Don't Want People To Disrespect You, Stop Doing These 10 Things (Opinion) by DDDEnterprises: 1:47pm On May 23
Control your emotions, control your desires, Control your tongue and control what is between your legs.

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Re: If You Don't Want People To Disrespect You, Stop Doing These 10 Things (Opinion) by Bigredmachine: 1:58pm On May 23
Kriss216:
11. Avoid any form of relationship with Nigerian girls.

If your dad avoided your mum you would not exist today...

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Re: If You Don't Want People To Disrespect You, Stop Doing These 10 Things (Opinion) by 99thEnemy(m): 2:01pm On May 23
Kriss216:
11. Avoid any form of relationship with Nigerian girls.

I am busy wondering how you service your piston and change engine oil since you don't have any personal foreign mechanic in Owerri ? grin

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Re: If You Don't Want People To Disrespect You, Stop Doing These 10 Things (Opinion) by profilemessages: 2:06pm On May 23
nice one

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Re: If You Don't Want People To Disrespect You, Stop Doing These 10 Things (Opinion) by Kriss216: 2:06pm On May 23
99thEnemy:


I am busy wondering how you service your piston and change engine oil since you don't have any personal foreign mechanic in Owerri ? grin
God has been my strength.

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Re: If You Don't Want People To Disrespect You, Stop Doing These 10 Things (Opinion) by Drabeey(m): 2:18pm On May 23
You forgot one

Stop been a simp and stop giving money to Lazy girls

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Re: If You Don't Want People To Disrespect You, Stop Doing These 10 Things (Opinion) by mespusinglez(m): 2:27pm On May 23
12: One Miss Call Is Enough

Don't Be An Idiot

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Re: If You Don't Want People To Disrespect You, Stop Doing These 10 Things (Opinion) by 99thEnemy(m): 2:34pm On May 23
Kriss216:

God has been my strength.

Pls don't tell me he blessed you with Vaseline grin grin grin

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Re: If You Don't Want People To Disrespect You, Stop Doing These 10 Things (Opinion) by Kriss216: 2:43pm On May 23
99thEnemy:


Pls don't tell me he blessed you with Vaseline grin grin grin
They that trust in the Lord shall overcome.

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Re: If You Don't Want People To Disrespect You, Stop Doing These 10 Things (Opinion) by Jeckydivah(f): 3:04pm On May 23
Kriss216:

They that trust in the Lord shall overcome.

Gay undecided

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Re: If You Don't Want People To Disrespect You, Stop Doing These 10 Things (Opinion) by Kriss216: 3:10pm On May 23
Jeckydivah:


Gay undecided

No.. Senseless??

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Re: If You Don't Want People To Disrespect You, Stop Doing These 10 Things (Opinion) by Jeckydivah(f): 3:12pm On May 23
Kriss216:


No.. Senseless??

Dumb much?

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Re: If You Don't Want People To Disrespect You, Stop Doing These 10 Things (Opinion) by Youngokwy(m): 3:15pm On May 23
[quote author=Vipro post=101982048]Recently, a friend told me about an embarrassing situation he experienced. He attended a small party and out of all the attendees, he was the only one that was not served food. Sincerely, I couldn't control my laughter when he was recounting his story because it sounded funny. With a frown on his face, he said "I wasn't invited to the party anyway". At that point, I knew he was at fault.


A wise man once told me that respect can only be earned, not forced. It implies that before people can respect you, there is a price to pay; you need to be worthy of it.

When people respect you, they place you in high regard and value your opinion. They don't belittle you or make you feel worthless. Also, they treat you specially.

For instance, my friend was not respected at the party he attended. He even said the host didn't even acknowledge his presence. That's disappointing!


Whether you're rich or poor, educated or illiterate, good-looking or not.Wisdom

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Re: If You Don't Want People To Disrespect You, Stop Doing These 10 Things (Opinion) by Lamasta(m): 3:30pm On May 23
Kriss216:
11. Avoid any form of relationship with Nigerian girls.

You and Sapphiere una go wed las las grin

Back to topic


Stop visiting people who don't visit you

Stop contributing to discussions that don't concern you

Stop chasing after people who don't know you exist

Also stop calling people who don't call you...

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Re: If You Don't Want People To Disrespect You, Stop Doing These 10 Things (Opinion) by PAWG(m): 4:02pm On May 23
12. Don’t ever fall in love

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Re: If You Don't Want People To Disrespect You, Stop Doing These 10 Things (Opinion) by 99thEnemy(m): 4:16pm On May 23
Lamasta:


You and Sapphiere una go wed las las grin



Make I die if I no attend that wedding grin grin grin

I can't miss to see how the marital bliss between them will be ordained grin grin grin grin grin grin

Kriss216 come and carry Sapphiere your wife to be grin grin grin grin grin

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Re: If You Don't Want People To Disrespect You, Stop Doing These 10 Things (Opinion) by 99thEnemy(m): 4:27pm On May 23
PAWG:
12. Don’t ever fall in love

P hat A ss W hite G irls grin

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Re: If You Don't Want People To Disrespect You, Stop Doing These 10 Things (Opinion) by Kriss216: 4:38pm On May 23
99thEnemy:


Make I die if I no attend that wedding grin grin grin

I can't miss to see how the marital bliss between them will be ordained grin grin grin grin grin grin

Kriss216 come and carry Sapphiere your wife to be grin grin grin grin grin
Your level of wickedness against me is tremendous. Continue

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Re: If You Don't Want People To Disrespect You, Stop Doing These 10 Things (Opinion) by Firstorderwizard(m): 4:42pm On May 23
No 14: Stop replying demented zombies on nairaland e.g Simplyleo,Mannabbqgrill

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Re: If You Don't Want People To Disrespect You, Stop Doing These 10 Things (Opinion) by blazepascal(m): 4:47pm On May 23
Always forgive and forget

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Re: If You Don't Want People To Disrespect You, Stop Doing These 10 Things (Opinion) by lazkizz(m): 4:47pm On May 23
99thEnemy:


P hat A ss W hite G irls grin
Wow i never knew ??

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Re: If You Don't Want People To Disrespect You, Stop Doing These 10 Things (Opinion) by 99thEnemy(m): 4:51pm On May 23
lazkizz:
Wow i never knew ??

Now you Know grin grin grin
Re: If You Don't Want People To Disrespect You, Stop Doing These 10 Things (Opinion) by 99thEnemy(m): 4:56pm On May 23
Kriss216:

Your level of wickedness against me is tremendous. Continue

The Picture below vindicates me of being wicked grin grin grin

Is that not a beauty? grin

Imagine you and your nwanyioma Saphiere grin grin grin

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Re: If You Don't Want People To Disrespect You, Stop Doing These 10 Things (Opinion) by Depressed101: 5:00pm On May 23
Vipro:
Recently, a friend told me about an embarrassing situation he experienced. He attended a small party and out of all the attendees, he was the only one that was not served food. Sincerely, I couldn't control my laughter when he was recounting his story because it sounded funny. With a frown on his face, he said "I wasn't invited to the party anyway". At that point, I knew he was at fault.


A wise man once told me that respect can only be earned, not forced. It implies that before people can respect you, there is a price to pay; you need to be worthy of it.

When people respect you, they place you in high regard and value your opinion. They don't belittle you or make you feel worthless. Also, they treat you specially.

For instance, my friend was not respected at the party he attended. He even said the host didn't even acknowledge his presence. That's disappointing!


Whether you're rich or poor, educated or illiterate, good-looking or not, you deserve to be respected. Respect feeds the ego and makes us feel good.

So, if you don't want people to disrespect you, stop doing these 10 things;

1. Stop going to places you are not invited to

2. Stop calling and chatting up people who don't call you

3. Stop laughing uncontrollably when people insult you; caution them immediately

4. Stop begging people for money; double your hustle

5. Stop visiting people who don't visit you

6. Stop contributing to discussions that don't concern you


7. Stop chasing after people who don't know you exist

8. Stop mingling with people who have no plans for the future

9. Stop sleeping and relaxing when you're supposed to be working

10. Stop fighting and insulting people, especially in public




Try your best to avoid the 10 things listed above, you'll be surprised at how people will see you differently and start respecting you.

Have you ever been disrespected by someone close to you? Kindly share your story.

Thanks for reading.
above all avoid see finish and make money

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Re: If You Don't Want People To Disrespect You, Stop Doing These 10 Things (Opinion) by PAWG(m): 5:14pm On May 23
lipsrsealed

99thEnemy:


P hat A ss W hite G irls grin

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