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If You Don't Want People To Disrespect You, Stop Doing These 10 Things (Opinion) by Vipro(m): 1:27pm On May 23, 2021 |
Recently, a friend told me about an embarrassing situation he experienced. He attended a small party and out of all the attendees, he was the only one that was not served food. Sincerely, I couldn't control my laughter when he was recounting his story because it sounded funny. With a frown on his face, he said "I wasn't invited to the party anyway". At that point, I knew he was at fault. A wise man once told me that respect can only be earned, not forced. It implies that before people can respect you, there is a price to pay; you need to be worthy of it. When people respect you, they place you in high regard and value your opinion. They don't belittle you or make you feel worthless. Also, they treat you specially. For instance, my friend was not respected at the party he attended. He even said the host didn't even acknowledge his presence. That's disappointing! Whether you're rich or poor, educated or illiterate, good-looking or not, you deserve to be respected. Respect feeds the ego and makes us feel good. So, if you don't want people to disrespect you, stop doing these 10 things; 1. Stop going to places you are not invited to 2. Stop calling and chatting up people who don't call you 3. Stop laughing uncontrollably when people insult you; caution them immediately 4. Stop begging people for money; double your hustle 5. Stop visiting people who don't visit you 6. Stop contributing to discussions that don't concern you 7. Stop chasing after people who don't know you exist 8. Stop mingling with people who have no plans for the future 9. Stop sleeping and relaxing when you're supposed to be working 10. Stop fighting and insulting people, especially in public Try your best to avoid the 10 things listed above, you'll be surprised at how people will see you differently and start respecting you. Have you ever been disrespected by someone close to you? Kindly share your story. Thanks for reading. 435 Likes 34 Shares |
Re: If You Don't Want People To Disrespect You, Stop Doing These 10 Things (Opinion) by Kriss216: 1:31pm On May 23, 2021 |
11. Avoid any form of relationship with Nigerian girls. 728 Likes 54 Shares |
Re: If You Don't Want People To Disrespect You, Stop Doing These 10 Things (Opinion) by guccimilan(m): 1:32pm On May 23, 2021 |
wisdom! 17 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: If You Don't Want People To Disrespect You, Stop Doing These 10 Things (Opinion) by Pierocash(m): 1:38pm On May 23, 2021 |
Kriss216: 377 Likes 17 Shares
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Re: If You Don't Want People To Disrespect You, Stop Doing These 10 Things (Opinion) by LikeAking: 1:42pm On May 23, 2021 |
Nice one. Gods bless u Op. 17 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: If You Don't Want People To Disrespect You, Stop Doing These 10 Things (Opinion) by Deborah98(f): 1:44pm On May 23, 2021 |
In other words we should forget people who forget us time and chance happens to all things ( living and nonliving). 60 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: If You Don't Want People To Disrespect You, Stop Doing These 10 Things (Opinion) by DDDEnterprises: 1:47pm On May 23, 2021 |
Control your emotions, control your desires, Control your tongue and control what is between your legs. 530 Likes 33 Shares |
Re: If You Don't Want People To Disrespect You, Stop Doing These 10 Things (Opinion) by Bigredmachine: 1:58pm On May 23, 2021 |
Kriss216: If your dad avoided your mum you would not exist today... 161 Likes 17 Shares |
Re: If You Don't Want People To Disrespect You, Stop Doing These 10 Things (Opinion) by 99thEnemy(m): 2:01pm On May 23, 2021 |
Kriss216: I am busy wondering how you service your piston and change engine oil since you don't have any personal foreign mechanic in Owerri ? 86 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: If You Don't Want People To Disrespect You, Stop Doing These 10 Things (Opinion) by profilemessages: 2:06pm On May 23, 2021 |
nice one 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: If You Don't Want People To Disrespect You, Stop Doing These 10 Things (Opinion) by Kriss216: 2:06pm On May 23, 2021 |
99thEnemy:God has been my strength. 78 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: If You Don't Want People To Disrespect You, Stop Doing These 10 Things (Opinion) by Nobody: 2:18pm On May 23, 2021 |
You forgot one Stop been a simp and stop giving money to Lazy girls 173 Likes 15 Shares |
Re: If You Don't Want People To Disrespect You, Stop Doing These 10 Things (Opinion) by mespusinglez(m): 2:27pm On May 23, 2021 |
12: One Miss Call Is Enough Don't Be An Idiot 421 Likes 16 Shares |
Re: If You Don't Want People To Disrespect You, Stop Doing These 10 Things (Opinion) by 99thEnemy(m): 2:34pm On May 23, 2021 |
Kriss216: Pls don't tell me he blessed you with Vaseline 43 Likes 1 Share |
Re: If You Don't Want People To Disrespect You, Stop Doing These 10 Things (Opinion) by Kriss216: 2:43pm On May 23, 2021 |
99thEnemy:They that trust in the Lord shall overcome. 28 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: If You Don't Want People To Disrespect You, Stop Doing These 10 Things (Opinion) by Nobody: 3:04pm On May 23, 2021 |
Kriss216: Gay 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: If You Don't Want People To Disrespect You, Stop Doing These 10 Things (Opinion) by Kriss216: 3:10pm On May 23, 2021 |
Jeckydivah: No.. Senseless?? 17 Likes 1 Share |
Re: If You Don't Want People To Disrespect You, Stop Doing These 10 Things (Opinion) by Nobody: 3:12pm On May 23, 2021 |
Kriss216: Dumb much? 12 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: If You Don't Want People To Disrespect You, Stop Doing These 10 Things (Opinion) by Youngokwy(m): 3:15pm On May 23, 2021 |
[quote author=Vipro post=101982048]Recently, a friend told me about an embarrassing situation he experienced. He attended a small party and out of all the attendees, he was the only one that was not served food. Sincerely, I couldn't control my laughter when he was recounting his story because it sounded funny. With a frown on his face, he said "I wasn't invited to the party anyway". At that point, I knew he was at fault. A wise man once told me that respect can only be earned, not forced. It implies that before people can respect you, there is a price to pay; you need to be worthy of it. When people respect you, they place you in high regard and value your opinion. They don't belittle you or make you feel worthless. Also, they treat you specially. For instance, my friend was not respected at the party he attended. He even said the host didn't even acknowledge his presence. That's disappointing! Whether you're rich or poor, educated or illiterate, good-looking or not.Wisdom 2 Likes |
Re: If You Don't Want People To Disrespect You, Stop Doing These 10 Things (Opinion) by Lamasta(m): 3:30pm On May 23, 2021 |
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Also stop calling people who don't call you... 32 Likes 1 Share |
Re: If You Don't Want People To Disrespect You, Stop Doing These 10 Things (Opinion) by PAWG(m): 4:02pm On May 23, 2021 |
12. Don’t ever fall in love 27 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: If You Don't Want People To Disrespect You, Stop Doing These 10 Things (Opinion) by 99thEnemy(m): 4:16pm On May 23, 2021 |
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Re: If You Don't Want People To Disrespect You, Stop Doing These 10 Things (Opinion) by 99thEnemy(m): 4:27pm On May 23, 2021 |
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Re: If You Don't Want People To Disrespect You, Stop Doing These 10 Things (Opinion) by Kriss216: 4:38pm On May 23, 2021 |
99thEnemy:Your level of wickedness against me is tremendous. Continue 27 Likes |
Re: If You Don't Want People To Disrespect You, Stop Doing These 10 Things (Opinion) by Firstorderwizard(m): 4:42pm On May 23, 2021 |
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Re: If You Don't Want People To Disrespect You, Stop Doing These 10 Things (Opinion) by blazepascal(m): 4:47pm On May 23, 2021 |
Always forgive and forget 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: If You Don't Want People To Disrespect You, Stop Doing These 10 Things (Opinion) by lazkizz(m): 4:47pm On May 23, 2021 |
99thEnemy:Wow i never knew ?? 6 Likes |
Re: If You Don't Want People To Disrespect You, Stop Doing These 10 Things (Opinion) by 99thEnemy(m): 4:51pm On May 23, 2021 |
lazkizz: Now you Know |
Re: If You Don't Want People To Disrespect You, Stop Doing These 10 Things (Opinion) by 99thEnemy(m): 4:56pm On May 23, 2021 |
Kriss216: The Picture below vindicates me of being wicked Is that not a beauty? Imagine you and your nwanyioma Saphiere 28 Likes 4 Shares
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Re: If You Don't Want People To Disrespect You, Stop Doing These 10 Things (Opinion) by Depressed101: 5:00pm On May 23, 2021 |
Vipro:above all avoid see finish and make money 47 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: If You Don't Want People To Disrespect You, Stop Doing These 10 Things (Opinion) by ewiscakesng(f): 5:04pm On May 23, 2021 |
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Re: If You Don't Want People To Disrespect You, Stop Doing These 10 Things (Opinion) by PAWG(m): 5:14pm On May 23, 2021 |
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