andyblinks05:
I dont know what you mean but it might be included but nevertheless I just want to be financially independent

CharisEleos:


So.... How and where should he move to?

For Pete's sakes, Did you bother to find out if op is READY in all ramifications to move out before encouraging him to?

Think before you act! That's all I stand for in this matter.

Carchoice:
If OP isn’t a graduate then he must have a hand skill to fetch money.

He should have friends or families he can move out to.

He should as well have savings. He must have been working and saving while living and feeding off his parents.

Did any of this occur to you?

He should go out and see things, hungry will beat him but will not kill him. There are so many things he can do, Na people dey building site dey make money.

CharisEleos:


See how you're assuming for him.
These are the things you should have asked him first instead of assuming and advising him to plunge into Oblivion.

Now, you're suggesting someone to go and stay with friends when he has his own family house to stay conviniently and plan his next move.

I see no advice here.

CharisEleos:


See how you're assuming for him.
These are the things you should have asked him first instead of assuming and advising him to plunge into Oblivion.

Now, you're suggesting someone to go and stay with friends when he has his own family house to stay conviniently and plan his next move.

I see no advice here.

andyblinks05:
am going to lagos from not and they are skeptical about it

Richy4:


That's a good decision buddy and I'm glad for you. but what exactly do you intend doing in Lagos... For example, Do you have a friend or relatives that resides in Lagos that will accommodate you?, does the relative or friend knows that you were coming?.... Have u planned what you think you can do in Lagos?.. incase the plan A did not work, Do you have a plan B?....

It's always important to think about all these before you embark in such important Journey....

Carchoice:
OP, come and clear the air, this poster is assuming you are a nobody but mommy's baby while I’m the one giving the positive vibe on your behalf. Is She right about you?

andyblinks05:
Looking at the current situation of unemployment in the country I want to make a big decision of moving out of my comfort zone and try to hustle for my own but my family are skeptical about it. even though there is high level of insecurity in the country one can not continue to stay with his parent, eating thier food and collecting money from them. I feel I need to go out. Very soon I will be 30.

andyblinks05:
I've plan all that but they dont want me staying with anybody that if I should go I should atleast save 100k… .. how the hell can I get that… I intend going to lagos in order to chase my ambition in media and entertainment. Problem is where am at now There's no much means for saving thats why am desperate

Richy4:


Ok I understand you. If you have a place and who can accommodate you in Lagos, then you can go my brother...It's an adventure... wishing you the best.

VlamesIffect:


So what should we do?

Call your mummy & daddy?

andyblinks05:

Yes, tell them that am due to leave thier house

chatinent:
Very soon you'll be thirty?


I left home at sixteen.

If your home is a home, don't leave home. Be home and plan your home. Unless you need your home away from home.

CharisEleos:


Now i see why we have families living in abject poverty. It's mentality like yours that causes such.

So, because he's already 30 and his mates are married he should plunged into a world of responsibilities without any bearing or sustainable means of livelyhood?

Was that how his mates started life? Or what gibberish are you spewing?

Ever heard of the word "plan"? That's what my advice was all about.

Lordbinsmar:


Wisdom, Knowledge and Understanding will not depart You.