5 THINGS TO DO BEFORE YOU SAY I DO

Bisi Adewale

As you are preparing to get married, many things must be in place and you must get committed to them. Unfortunately, many people get married without considering them. They are biting their fingers today. So, kindly do these things before you say "Yes, I do". Proverbs 24:27 (KJV)
1. HAVE AN ALL-ROUND PREPARATION: Prepare physically, spiritually, mentally, emotionally, financially and intellectually. Get yourself ready in every aspect of your life before you get married. Proverbs 16:1,3 (KJV)

2. GET TO KNOW THE PERSON YOU WANT TO MARRY: You must know the person you want to marry inside-out. Of course, you can't know anybody 100%, but you must know enough to keep you safe and secure. You must know enough to live a life of peace and joy. So, make your investigation; check past social media posts and pictures of the person. They may speak volumes. Ask probing questions; pay unscheduled visits; be sensitive when you visit; ask the Holy Spirit to show you things. Don’t ever go into a marriage blindly, you may live to regret it.

3. GET EVERY NECESSARY THING BEFORE MARRIAGE: Get your apartment, household properties, kitchen utensils, etc. You can't get married and stay with your parents and relatives. Get your home ready.

4. G[b]ET ADEQUATE TRAINING[/b]: Most young ones prepare for a wedding but do nothing to get them ready for marriage. This explains why many marriages are ending in divorce and lots who remain in it are enduring it. Genesis 14:14 (KJV)
Before going into marriage, get adequate training. Get yourself more than ready.
• Learn about money, in-laws and conflict management in marriage Ecclesiastes 7:12 (KJV)
• Learn about pregnancy and delivery 1 Timothy 2:15 (KJV)
• Learn about gender, temperament and personality differences.
• Learn about tolerance, forgiveness, intimacy, submission, affection, togetherness and teamwork in marriage. Ecclesiastes 4:9-12 (KJV)
You see, there are many things you need to know which you may never learn within the four walls of a conventional school. You need to undergo special training on this.
Attend a marriage school, attend premarital training, read books and have a family mentor. By all means, make yourself ready for marriage.
5. FULFIL ALL RIGHTEOUSNESS: Do everything right before going into that marriage. Fulfill all righteousness; obey your church leadership; pass through all the phases of training; do all the tests. Let marriage be honorable. There should be no sex before marriage; no cohabitation and sinful attitudes. Do everything right. Matthew 3:15 (KJV)

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I love this so much
Thank u GOD bless

SanctifiedSista:
I love this so much
Thank u GOD bless

anty, u are approaching 40 o, u no go just say I do, make that woman for village no use make prayer point again.

Modified, I was dangerously destroyed by the two commenters below me, lemme goan cry

richmond500:
anty, u are approaching 40 o

am approaching the old age, are u approaching kindergarten little one? Did we fail to wish u happy children day eh baby

richmond500:
anty, u are approaching 40 o, u no go just say I do, make that woman for village no use make prayer point again

Don't be foolish. Not everyone is like your sister, learn to respect yourself.

So correct
U see, especially checking old social media posts ehn... It goes a long way.

Whatever happened to minding my business.

creative11:
5 THINGS TO DO BEFORE YOU SAY I DO


2. GET TO KNOW THE PERSON YOU WANT TO MARRY: You must know the person you want to marry inside-out. Of course, you can't know anybody 100%, but you must know enough to keep you safe and secure. You must know enough to live a life of peace and joy. So, make your investigation; check past social media posts and pictures of the person. They may speak volumes. Ask probing questions; pay unscheduled visits; be sensitive when you visit; ask the Holy Spirit to show you things. Don’t ever go into a marriage blindly, you may live to regret it.

Hehe. There are some brothers who will not allow you visit them in their homes. If you like talk from now till tomorrow, they will still refuse. If you ask probing questions, they will vex. Real vexing o, not fake vexing. The experience of someone I know.

Wo, in some cases you just need blind faith and the Holy Spirit's guidance in matters like this. And prayer. Don't forget prayer because all you have going are the words of your betrothed.

But the op is right about knowing who you're going to marry. Never go into marriage blindly to avoid stories that leave the eyes misty.

Life doesn't work this way. You can never plan and prepare everything in advance. Life is full of surprises and you never get everything finished at once. Even if you get married relatively late in life, there will always be things you will be striving to achieve and improve.

Also, don't wait till you have prepared yourself completely because you will learn, re-learn and change for the rest of your life and marriage is meant to be the place where you grow and improve your lives together.