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Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by Connected1: 12:21pm On Jun 08
Kirkman:

Sorry to say; this your girl is really confused o! I agree with you; It would be better you meet her parents and seek for explanations, at least you will sleep peacefully at night with full rest of mind knowing that you tried your best and gave it your very all. Whatever will be, will be.
Bro I know you are mature, so I need your advise on this. The same girl is now telling me this morning that it's not because of the tribe issue, because I went to her at 6am and I wanted to speak with her mother.
She said her ex-boyfriend came back and she accepted him, that she still likes him, but she doesn't want me to go. I feel like punishing her. I really don't know what to do know.
The fact that she's a good girl makes me unable to let her go easily, I have seen one in years of dating several girls.
She's confused too, she asked if she could date both of us undecided .
I don't want more people to call her a hoe, she can't handle it, she has a good heart but she's not wise.
I look forward to your advice.

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Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by freemandela4: 12:40pm On Jun 08
Connected1:
It's not easy bro.
She's a good girl.
I am just pained that she couldn't defend me, what if something bigger comes tomorrow then she would just runaway.
I understand bro.
Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by Tywo2018: 12:45pm On Jun 08
Ayiii.... very scarce like my mother? you say. Only baba God can drop one for persin ooo shayi that question big ooo
Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by Bigdik70inch2(m): 12:53pm On Jun 08
nenyewrites:



Your mum is an Amazon woman. And those negative traits you pointed are what makes her the great woman she is. The negative is what gave birth to the positive.

10ks bro.....
Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by Obeto(m): 12:56pm On Jun 08
Absolutely! Any woman that can tolerate my father is a true wife material.
Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by chidifrank(m): 1:07pm On Jun 08
to d topic, No
Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by UEDIBO: 1:15pm On Jun 08
ok
Bola146:


No cool
Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by AYNL(m): 1:18pm On Jun 08
over and over and over and over and over and over an over and over and over and over my bruv
I'm lucky to have best mum in the world

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Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by ImaIma1(f): 1:27pm On Jun 08
Xilsbridalhouse:

Your response is so full of maturity.


I am touched wink

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Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by ImaIma1(f): 1:31pm On Jun 08
yorubarere:

I like how you handled her with much maturity.


My intention was not to fight her, but I guess her default mode is to attack.
Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by tunize(m): 1:43pm On Jun 08
Yes over and over
Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by ddeola: 2:05pm On Jun 08
100 percent yes. kiss
Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by Kirkman: 2:23pm On Jun 08
Connected1:
Bro I know you are mature, so I need your advise on this. The same girl is now telling me this morning that it's not because of the tribe issue, because I went to her at 6am and I wanted to speak with her mother.
She said her ex-boyfriend came back and she accepted him, that she still likes him, but she doesn't want me to go. I feel like punishing her. I really don't know what to do know.
The fact that she's a good girl makes me unable to let her go easily, I have seen one in years of dating several girls.
She's confused too, she asked if she could date both of us undecided .
I don't want more people to call her a hoe, she can't handle it, she has a good heart but she's not wise.
I look forward to your advice.
Ex-boyfriend ke? Or what did I just read? Bro, man to man just please do me a very huge favor and bow out with dignity from that relationship. I know it won't be easy for you at all but leave her and her ex-boyfriend. This is a really big insult to you, so all the years of courting with you showing signs of seriousness on your part to be with her is just going to go down the drain? why are some ladies confused like this? What does she hope to achieve by going back to her EX?
Mark today's date, years later after her foolish decision, she will come looking for you and be calling your phone constantly. They say you never know the value of what you have till it's gone. And pls kindly drop me your contact if you can so we talk.

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Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by Bigdik70inch2(m): 2:33pm On Jun 08
yemmie:
I can't Ooo!!!
Marry fire kwa??

She get easily provoked and so hot tempered.......

She's very stubborn and hardly listen to OR follow our opinions

Just too religious.........infact she fought everyone close-by/neighbour/family/friends/youths/strangers who wouldnt readily absorb her preaching(BIGGEST TURN OFF).......

She's hyperactive too........hardly sit her ass down on a spot to rest.......if she's isn't doing this then definitely she's up doing that...... even the unnecessary things and wud lament if u failed to join her........

Mind:Those r her weakness anyways

GOOD SIDE:

SHE SINGLE HANDEDLY SPONSORED OUR EDUCATION FROM PRE NURSERY TO BEEN A GRADUATE........

SUCH A YOUNG PRETTY HER GOT HERSELF MARRIED TO ONE IDIOT DURING HER PRIME...........INFACT SHE STRUGGLED SPONSORING HIS EDUCATION TO UNIVERSITY LEVEL EVEN WHEN HER FAMILY WERE VEHEMENTLY AGAINST..........

.........BUT THE IDIOT BECAME DOCTOR AND NEVER CAME BACK TO HER/US........JUX THE ONLY PERSON I WILL NEVER FORGIVE EVN ON MY DYING BED.........

SHE SPONSORED HER HALF BROTHERS AND SISTERS TOO.......SOME GRATEFUL WHILE SOME R INGRATES.......

Good day Gentleman,
I feel your pain and how deeply hurt you may be.
I don’t know you from Adam but for the sake of your
prosperity and joy for your kids / unborn kids generation, you need to man up and forgive that man God ordained shall be your biological father.

Life is deeper than we know it


Nothing like forgiveness........
Even bible told father not provoke to their children to anger..........
Did u read that place in yo bible so what r we talking bout?? ........

Thanks all the same
Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by Myketuale(m): 3:02pm On Jun 08
ediyeJuice:
Man,I can relate as well.
Love her big time for who she is.
She's instilled good virtues in her seeds.

Yes bro
I pray they will would live long to reap the fruits of their labor ��

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Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by debbydams(f): 3:07pm On Jun 08
highoctane:

Have you ever known the dark sides of your mother? That she has vowed to die with
she no get,,I can be very frustrating yet she has Neva treat me bad,,she doesn't have abeg
Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by Akintundexxy: 3:08pm On Jun 08
NSK4U:



I don't know what would make me look ma mum in the direction of sexy.......

I meant that she is so good, a kind and caring woman that it would pose difficulty getting her kind of person in our young ladies
So sorry for my choice of word, I thought you meant you wanted her attitude in another body.
Nobody would nurse a thought how sexy their mother is,but I couldn't just find a better or suitable word for that.
Kudos to your mum,she raised you well.
Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by Myketuale(m): 3:12pm On Jun 08
BigSam13:
Even if ur mother has all the good qualities a woman should have,,,,, can u find a lady that will have the same qualities

Omoh.... E go hard oo.
Na only God go help person oo
Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by Solsix(m): 3:38pm On Jun 08
Ladyzip:



She may not have quality you want b/c she is your mother, relationship in the family changes when they start making babies and your father knows that. Let your mom be she wasn't like that when your father mate her and you ungreatful children turned her into what she is not, now you are looking for quality. Marry your own today and watch what she will become after 6 months. I use to have such thought about my mum until she dead and I became the new mum and I saw hail in the hands of my father. Most times you don't know the knife she takes on behalf of you ungreatful children then when she can not endure the pain and started showing it, then you ancestors will remind you that she doesn't have qualities. Appreciate her for once bro
Are u trying to describe my mom for me??

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Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by Gfskw: 3:43pm On Jun 08
Yes coz most girls in this new century lacks almost everything
Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by pweeryambre: 4:14pm On Jun 08
Olisehinnocent:
My mum is a No, No for me. She has hot temper, as her only son you will be surprise that she hardly assist me financially. I remember when I was serving and I used my allowee to buy some clothes I usually carry to offices to sell but unfortunately for me there was lock down after few days I bought the clothes. I was able to sustain myself for some weeks before all my money finish. Omo I hear am o. She gave me 200 naira for both morning and afternoon food for like two days and later warn me not to ask her for any money again. I begged her to buy some clothes from me since she's selling clothes too, that am willing to sell at cost price but she refused. The next day was terrible, I did not eat anything till 5 o'clock in the evening. It was terrible but let me stop here. My uncle later help me out and today my business is booming. I have forgiven her sha. Life moves on....
Lol... Don't know why this is funny to me
Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by Connected1: 4:34pm On Jun 08
Kirkman:

Ex-boyfriend ke? Or what did I just read? Bro, man to man just please do me a very huge favor and bow out with dignity from that relationship. I know it won't be easy for you at all but leave her and her ex-boyfriend. This is a really big insult to you, so all the years of courting with you showing signs of seriousness on your part to be with her is just going to go down the drain? why are some ladies confused like this? What does she hope to achieve by going back to her EX?
Mark today's date, years later after her foolish decision, she will come looking for you and be calling your phone constantly. They say you never know the value of what you have till it's gone. And pls kindly drop me your contact if you can so we talk.
Ok
Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by lekizmania(m): 4:41pm On Jun 08
medropoly:
This question is for the honest and sincere minded people.
Can you marry a woman like your mother?

Let me start with myself.
"My mother is really a nice and caring woman, (mostly to us her children) but to her husband (my dad) the relationship there is really not cool. To some extent, I can't because she dose allot of things that really annoys me as her child not to talk of her husband".

So what about you?

Nope
Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by Kirkman: 4:58pm On Jun 08
Connected1:
0.7.0.1.8.7.3.3.3.1.9
I am on WhatsApp.
Seen, kindly delete.
Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by Munzy14(m): 5:16pm On Jun 08
mariahAngel:


Owu I mahu? grin

Bia marakwa nga aha gi dabara na rejista a!
Lol....O wunu good na...cheesy
Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by Munzy14(m): 5:19pm On Jun 08
ImaIma1:


No matter how great a mum is, she aint perfect.
Yea very sure...no one is...
Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by Munzy14(m): 5:26pm On Jun 08
mariahAngel:


...and I wasn't ready for it. cheesy

Dem don fall their mama hands finish! grin
No be by falling hand o, It's the bitter reality...almost all will love and care for their mama, but you see wife like her, ufodu ga asi mba...grin

No matter how good you are as a mom, your children are taking down note of how you relate with their Dad...
And as well, learn from the good and the mistakes.

Most couples aren't aware they need that love and care for themselves more than they pour it on the kids...who will grow to meet their own lovers and go their way...cheesy

Again u see all this mom weh deh carry church for head, most of their sons a choghi udi ka nwunye ahu...grin

Ike gwuru o
Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by mariahAngel: 6:32pm On Jun 08
Munzy14:

No be by falling hand o, It's the bitter reality...almost all will love and care for their mama, but you see wife like her, ufodu ga asi mba...grin

No matter how good you are as a mom, your children are taking down note of how you relate with their Dad...
And as well, learn from the good and the mistakes.

Most couples aren't aware they need that love and care for themselves more than they pour it on the kids...who will grow to meet their own lovers and go their way...cheesy

Very true.

Again u see all this mom weh deh carry church for head, most of their sons a choghi udi ka nwunye ahu...grin

Ike gwuru o

Many of them fell under that category. grin
Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by NSK4U(m): 7:06pm On Jun 08
Akintundexxy:

So sorry for my choice of word, I thought you meant you wanted her attitude in another body.
Nobody would nurse a thought how sexy their mother is,but I couldn't just find a better or suitable word for that.
Kudos to your mum,she raised you well.

Thanks a lot
Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by richie240: 7:24pm On Jun 08
Vyzz:
cool




There is no woman like my mother
That's beside d purpose of this thread.
The question is:
1. Will ur father pray that her dota-in-law have d same character as ur mother has (towards him) or
2: Will ur mum pray that her dota-in-law possess her character towards her beloved son just as she had towards her husband ie ur dad. or
3. Are u satisfied with the character of ur mum (most esp) towards ur dad and won't mind marrying a girl with d same character.

Like sm1 said in page one, d rxnshp BTW a mom and his son is not d same as a wife towards her husband.
cool
Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by Mosco100(m): 7:38pm On Jun 08
God forbid!
Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by Polyol(m): 8:12pm On Jun 08
No I can't. Plain truth. I love her regardless though.

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