Dear all,i am white european and my boyfriend is Nigerian Igbo.I been knowing him for long time.We are both based in Europe.He was always abusive and stingy to me.I cook and clean for him as a wife.He has beaten me up even when i was pregnant.He wont buy me even food that i want.If i ask him to buy me shampoo or comon things he wil find it dificult.Me i canot work because of my papers i am not from Europe Union country.I born baby for him thinking that he wil.change.He loves his baby he has bought for her everything but he stil insult me and making me feel as nothing.About mariage he stil doesnt talk.Pls what should I do?I am tired of being abused mentaly and phisicaly

NONAME11223:
Dear all,i am white european and my boyfriend is Nigerian Igbo.I been knowing him for long time.We are both based in Europe.He was always abusive and stingy to me.He wont buy me even food that i want.If i ask him to buy me shampoo or comon things he wil find it dificult.Me i canot work because of my papers i am not from Europe Union country.I born baby for him thinking that he wil.change.He loves his baby he has bought for her everything but he stil insult me and making me feel as nothing.About mariage he stil doesnt talk.Pls what should I do?I am tired of being abused mentaly and phisicaly

Go to social security and logde your complain. He is just taking advantage of you and as it stands, he must pay for child support

He was abusive and stingy towards you but you still went ahead to have a baby for him thinking he will change?
If you are tired of being abused,then walk away.He won't change!
Report to Social Security so he is responsible for his daughter.

thorpido:
He was abusive and stingy towards you but you still went ahead to have a baby for him thinking he will change?

Una dey gree give women money?

Una done name Nigerian girls "urgent 2k" because them dey ask una for money.

Y'all don't want the women you date to ask you for money, makes me wonder if y'all would even be generous towards your wives.

Fraudster, fear God and allow us to be in peace.

Romanoff:


Una dey gree give women money?

Una done name Nigerian girls "urgent 2k" because them dey ask una for money.

Y'all don't want the women you date to ask you for money, makes me wonder if y'all would even be generous towards your wives.

Stop dating scrubs.

thorpido:
Stop dating scrubs.

I am married.

But I fear for the young girls these days who have to be independent before marriage only to end up marrying stingy men who dodge from responsibilities.

Freestainworld:
Fraudster, fear God and allow us to be in peace.

Don't be quick to judge. Check out her profile. She's telling the truth

NONAME11223:
Dear all,i am white european and my boyfriend is Nigerian Igbo.I been knowing him for long time.We are both based in Europe.He was always abusive and stingy to me.I cook and clean for him as a wife.He has beaten me up even when i was pregnant.He wont buy me even food that i want.If i ask him to buy me shampoo or comon things he wil find it dificult.Me i canot work because of my papers i am not from Europe Union country.I born baby for him thinking that he wil.change.He loves his baby he has bought for her everything but he stil insult me and making me feel as nothing.About mariage he stil doesnt talk.Pls what should I do?I am tired of being abused mentaly and phisicaly

Since he is like this, you shouldn't be thinking about marriage.

It's hard for men like him to change. You will have to find a way to become financially independent and start a new life without him.

He may be treating his daughter well, but by mistreating you, he's setting a bad example for her. He may even turn abusive to her when she grows up

Do you both communicate well? If he really loves his daughter, he should treat you well and set a good example for her

I think your boyfriend lacks respect for women. I wonder how you got to this stage. Either way, stay strong. Try to become financially independent then leave. I hope he doesn't hurt you badly

Just my opinion. Think for yourself and decide what's best

bepositive11:


Don't be quick to judge. Check out her profile. She's telling the truth

Her profile doesn’t justify anything..

E fit still be say nah you be OP self..

Ah mean, I’m Just saying

GeneralPula:


Her profile doesn’t justify anything..

E fit still be say nah you be OP self..

Ah mean, I’m Just saying

i am teling truth i wil give you my whatsap so we can talk

GeneralPula:


Her profile doesn’t justify anything..

E fit still be say nah you be OP self..

Ah mean, I’m Just saying

Hahahaha me? OP? LOL!

She posted about her relationship a number of times over the past few years that's why I believe her

And Europeans outside EU don't speak good English

You spent your entire time on Nairaland talking about man, naso prick sweet you reach?


We have a lot of problems in Nigeria currently and boyfriend or baby daddy is not one of them

NONAME11223:
Dear all,i am white european and my boyfriend is Nigerian Igbo.I been knowing him for long time.We are both based in Europe.He was always abusive and stingy to me.I cook and clean for him as a wife.He has beaten me up even when i was pregnant.He wont buy me even food that i want.If i ask him to buy me shampoo or comon things he wil find it dificult.Me i canot work because of my papers i am not from Europe Union country.I born baby for him thinking that he wil.change.He loves his baby he has bought for her everything but he stil insult me and making me feel as nothing.About mariage he stil doesnt talk.Pls what should I do?I am tired of being abused mentaly and phisicaly

which part of Europe are you from? consigning you, the first thing you need to know is that you must take away your mind from the imaginary marriage unless you want to be abused throughout your lifetime because marriage is journey till death do us apart. secondly, what do thing might have happened to the first love which has now turn to hatred, judging from your statement he loves his child and can buy her anything

This one too much wahala sha. Every time she has problem with her bobo, she post it here


Maybe this one never learn at all.

Romanoff:


I am married.

But I fear for the young girls these days who have to be independent before marriage only to end up marrying stingy men who dodge from responsibilities.

The younger generation are products of the decadence in the society.
Just as some men are stingy and irresponsible,are the girls better?

A good woman who is sensible enough will find the right/responsible man.

thorpido:
The younger generation are products of the decadence in the society.
Just as some men are stingy and irresponsible,are the girls better?

A good woman who is sensible enough will find the right/responsible man.

I've seen many good women fall victim to stingy men like this.

How come you don't know that this OP na liar.
No white lady will take this from a black man...

See the man see police cell or deportation

Freestainworld:
Fraudster, fear God and allow us to be in peace.

You said my mind

Romanoff:


I've seen many good women fall victim to stingy men like this.

Being good is one thing,being smart is another.
We live in hard times now.Every good woman should also be smart.

thorpido:
Being good is one thing,being smart is another.
We live in hard times now.Every good woman should also be smart.

May we not see what we never expected in Jesus name.

Romanoff:


May we not see what we never expected in Jesus name.

Amen.

Romanoff:


Una dey gree give women money?

Una done name Nigerian girls "urgent 2k" because them dey ask una for money.

Y'all don't want the women you date to ask you for money, makes me wonder if y'all would even be generous towards your wives.

I pity any lady falling for that scam all to prove she is independent or not materialistic.

There is NO SINGLE sensible man on this earth who wouldn’t want to take responsibility for a woman he loves or wants to spend the rest of his life with. The major way men show care is by SPENDING. They can’t cook or clean. They don’t have wombs to carry pregnancies. Men put their money where their heart is.

Most men won’t marry you if you refuse to do wifely duties in a relationship. They wouldn’t wait till marriage to get these benefits because they know you don’t learn left hand in old age. Then you, a woman, will ignore the only thing you can get from a man. I feel sorry for that woman.

@pocohantas

I pity any lady falling for that scam all to prove she is independent or not materialistic.

There is NO SINGLE sensible man on this earth who wouldn’t want to take responsibility for a woman he loves or wants to spend the rest of his life with. The major way men show care is by SPENDING. They can’t cook or clean. They don’t have wombs to carry pregnancies. Men put their money where their heart is.

Most men won’t marry you if you refuse to do wifely duties in a relationship. They wouldn’t wait till marriage to get these benefits because they know you don’t learn left hand in old age. Then you, a woman, will ignore the only thing you can get from a man. I feel sorry for that woman.


@me
This is the entitlement mentality that guys talk about. Does it mean that a woman should come into a relationship expecting a man to bear all her burden. Wifey duties are all she can bring. Who wifey duties help?

This woman obviously expect the Nigerian man to shoulder her financial responsibilities. The man did not come to Europe for such jamboree.

GeneralPula:
A white European will never type like this..

Maybe you’re one Ekuke Albino, tagging yourself whites..

A local scammer trying to form victim. Thinking people will request for account number..

pocohantas:


I pity any lady falling for that scam all to prove she is independent or not materialistic.

There is NO SINGLE sensible man on this earth who wouldn’t want to take responsibility for a woman he loves or wants to spend the rest of his life with. The major way men show care is by SPENDING. They can’t cook or clean. They don’t have wombs to carry pregnancies. Men put their money where their heart is.

Most men won’t marry you if you refuse to do wifely duties in a relationship. They wouldn’t wait till marriage to get these benefits because they know you don’t learn left hand in old age. Then you, a woman, will ignore the only thing you can get from a man. I feel sorry for that woman.

Sadly, the Redpillers will disagree o.

Romanoff:


Sadly, the Redpillers will disagree o.

Disagree online and agree offline. Everyone knows the truth, we all try to negotiate our way into marriage and relationship to get the best deal.

Every Feminist or Red Piller knows this. We are all disguising under the umbrella of whatever.

Traditional system of marriage as God made it initially is what we will all revert to at the end. Man provide, women nurture the home. Simple.

Romanoff:


Una dey gree give women money?

Una done name Nigerian girls "urgent 2k" because them dey ask una for money.

Y'all don't want the women you date to ask you for money, makes me wonder if y'all would even be generous towards your wives.

I just want to state that Nigerian men are one of highest people that give women money all over the world.

We are still highly traditional and a lot of women receive money from Nigeria men. Even feminism is thrown in the gutter in this aspect.

Men spend money a lot on women in Nigeria. So this is absolutely false.

thorpido:
The younger generation are products of the decadence in the society.
Just as some men are stingy and irresponsible,are the girls better?

A good woman who is sensible enough will find the right/responsible man.

They are not any better, i don't know why Nigerian women complain especially as regards to money. They need to visit other African countries as see how Nigerians are spending money compared to locals in those countries.

As a woman in Nigeria, you can complain about domestic violence, rape etc and all kinds of crime related activities regarding women but you see money? Nigerian men give women a truck load of money and i can prove it any where.

Especially married men, they can give you the world just to date you for a period of time.

Nigerian men dey spend abeg!

truthsayer009:


I just want to state that Nigerian men are one of highest people that give women money all over the world.

We are still highly traditional and a lot of women receive money from Nigeria men. Even feminism is thrown in the gutter in this aspect.

Men spend money a lot on women in Nigeria. So this is false.

I'm surprised this is coming from a Nigerian Man o.