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Why Men Shouldn't Raise More Than Two Kids. by needanswer: 10:26pm On Jun 08, 2021
if you are a man and you arent married before or when you turn 25 years old, don't raise more than two kids.

1. It's proven statistically that most men in underdeveloped countries won't live to see their 50th birthdays. Too much wahala is the cause, especially married men. Having more than 2 kids increases that stress level. And if you are lucky to live to 50 and above, that is not the age to be carrying babies around the house. Your kids should be in their teens or 20's, so your grooming responsibilities would soon come to an end. In developed countries depending on the continent 60-80 is the expected range, so if you like born a dozen, you will train kids till you die!

2. Having just 2 kids will save you some huge amount of money that you can spend later for the family. It's easier to plan a vacation of 4, a foreign trip of 4, to permanently relocate with 4 than a larger number.

3. You are most likely going to live long to see your kids become parents of their own! Trust me many Nigerian kids never saw their grandfathers, only their grandmothers.

4. If you live long, your wife won't be a widow in her 30's or 40's (God forbid by the way). For parents that have 3 or more children, when the man dies in his 50's, the whole burden falls on the mother to cater for them. So try reduce your stress level and chop life with your family.

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Re: Why Men Shouldn't Raise More Than Two Kids. by IamCookie(f): 10:31pm On Jun 08, 2021
Hmm... There is sense in every point raised.
Re: Why Men Shouldn't Raise More Than Two Kids. by donbachi(m): 10:32pm On Jun 08, 2021
Comot body oo...if u leave some naija women.dem ready born their intestines and every other things wey dey their belle.
Carrying babies yearly,na hobby to some of dem.

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Re: Why Men Shouldn't Raise More Than Two Kids. by IamCookie(f): 10:36pm On Jun 08, 2021
donbachi:
Comot body oo...if u leave some naija women.dem ready born their intestines and every other things wey dey their belle.
Carrying babies yearly,na hobby to some of dem.

I am sure those naija women you referred to , didn't impregnate themselves. Naija men!

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Re: Why Men Shouldn't Raise More Than Two Kids. by Chloraseptic: 10:48pm On Jun 08, 2021
donbachi:
Comot body oo...if u leave some naija women.dem ready born their intestines and every other things wey dey their belle.
Carrying babies yearly,na hobby to some of dem.

Because bearing babies is considered a career on it's own by most of them...

Hardly will you ever see a goal driven woman born more than 4 children in this modern day

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Re: Why Men Shouldn't Raise More Than Two Kids. by HRHQueenPhil(f): 5:10am On Jun 09, 2021
Have as many children as God gives u the money and time to cater. Adopt more like Kim K if possible
They are a treasure especially when u nurture them well

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Re: Why Men Shouldn't Raise More Than Two Kids. by needanswer: 7:37am On Jun 09, 2021
HRHQueenPhil:
Have as many children as God gives u the money and time to cater. Adopt more like Kim K if possible
They are a treasure especially when u nurture them well

And die young! You left out that part for most men.

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Re: Why Men Shouldn't Raise More Than Two Kids. by Robertgreene1(m): 8:55am On Jun 09, 2021
Gbamsolutely....
But come rain..come shine.. d most wretched of Nigerians will keep on breeding like Rabbits...polluting d already polluted country wit innocent babies that will continue d cycle of poverty...
what nonsense!!!!
Re: Why Men Shouldn't Raise More Than Two Kids. by Robertgreene1(m): 8:56am On Jun 09, 2021
HRHQueenPhil:
Have as many children as God gives u the money and time to cater. Adopt more like Kim K if possible
They are a treasure especially when u nurture them well
Bush girl...
Re: Why Men Shouldn't Raise More Than Two Kids. by needanswer: 7:49pm On Jun 09, 2021
Robertgreene1:
Gbamsolutely....
But come rain..come shine.. d most wretched of Nigerians will keep on breeding like Rabbits...polluting d already polluted country wit innocent babies that will continue d cycle of poverty...
what nonsense!!!!

They don't understand/appreciate practical economics and futuristic planning!

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