Recently a woman walked into my office asking me to do a job for her. In the process her husband joined and we talked briefly. His wife has been nice and doing business with me but the man has been frustrating the work.

A few days ago, he came around, made some flimsy complaints and told me to hold on. That his wife will call me to make adjustments.

Two days later his wife called me to tell me that her husband told her that he told me to stop but she does not know the reason, that she will come around.

Fast forward to the next day her husband came and asked if his wife called me to tell me what to do, I replied by telling him she called but did not tell me what to do until she comes around. He left without telling me what to do and they have not paid for the work that is on ground.

I have made up my mind not to call her about the work. It is just that someone suggested to me that he observed that the man is not cool with me and his wife. This surprises me because I don’t flirt. It is strictly me and my wife. His attitude makes we want to believe my colleague’s observation.

Please share your experience if you have had something similar?

Sometimes wives enjoy putting husbands on their heels. It makes them more secure. A lot of things maybe going on whithin them you may not clearly see besides you should be more concern about delivering your job and give no attention to their married concerns.
Good day!

Felimax:
Sometimes wives enjoy putting husbands on their heels. It makes them more secure. A lot of things maybe going on whithin them you may not clearly see besides you should be more concern about delivering your job and give no attention to their married concerns.
Good day!

And I have decided to face my business. That is their wahala. It is just that sometimes i try to figure out why most men are like that.

Would it be safe to conclude that most men if not all are jealous?

I hate pretense, no one has everything complete. Its your own choice to decide to be content with yours.
My advice there is no reduction for ugly women. Both the beautiful and ugly na the same price.

But tell my why you feel threatened when you see a goat near your yam, or you suddenly found out that you've placed your yam close to a goat.

He trusts you, but doesnt trust his wife.

Lifestone:
But tell my why you feel threatened when you see a goat near your yam, or you suddenly found out that you've placed your yam close to a goat.

That is funny.

But I don’t actually represent the goat.

I am more of the yam.

Nairalanders ehn!

Because
Nigerian Girls Are Useless...All Of Them

Some of these married people are stupid and useless... The woman can be making use of you to make her husband jealous... Likewise a husband can be making use of his secretary to make the wife jealous.... It's better u draw a line in front of them, that is the husband and the wife so that such thoughts can be excreted immediately...

habsydiamond:
Some of these married people are stupid and useless... The woman can be making use of you to make her husband jealous... Likewise a husband can be making use of his secretary to make the wife jealous.... It's better u draw a line in front of them, that is the husband and the wife so that such thoughts can be excreted immediately...

Very sound reasoning. You spoke my thought. Thanks.

Everyone knows the type of people they married and what they are capable of. Sometimes I wondered if by all that reasoning why they still went ahead to get married.

A man who marries a woman that like gift, money, and especially free money. Will not be comfortable when she making friends with someone that has money. He knows they can easily buy her.

Some thing with sex. A woman that likes more sex abd they husband is not capable of all the task will not find it easy when men coming around her.

Unless the wife is not trusted, then the husband might be afraid. Or the husband is poor or irresponsible, he might be jealous

Most husbands or some husband?

It's insecurity in his own part. Same way a woman may feel threatened when her husband speaks to a younger attractive woman. This is why it is necessary for people to retain their ability to "catch fish". It keeps the relationship cohesively vibrant. When your partner knows that you can attract other people easily, but you choose not to, it makes them respect and strengthens their faithfulness towards you.

Men that feels threatened when their wife speaks with other men have probably relented on their prime duty of continously being valuable, such as keeping fit, intellectually engaging, bad finances and ability to nack her well. Because you're married doesn't mean all Job is done, it's a continous work. So you don't get jealous/insecure, but face the source of that insecurity.

Its easier for your partner to be virtuous when one respects him/herself, and continous self development is a key demonstration to that. Be that person your wive is proud of in public, making her feel lucky and equally complimented. Be her jackpot.

[quote author=pansophist post=102775874]Most husbands or some husband?

It's insecurity in his own part. Same way a woman may feel threatened when her husband speaks to a younger attractive woman. This is why it is necessary for people to retain their ability to "catch fish". It keeps the relationship cohesively vibrant. When your partner knows that you can attract other people easily, but you choose not to, it makes them respect and strengthens their faithfulness towards you.

Men that feels threatened when their wife speaks with other men have probably relented on their prime duty of continously being valuable, such as keeping fit, intellectually engaging, bad finances and ability to nack her well. Because you're married doesn't mean all Job is done, it's a continous work. So you don't get jealous/insecure, but face the source of that insecurity.

Its easier for your partner to be virtuous when one respects him/herself, and continous self development is a key demonstration to that. Be that person your wive is proud of in public, making her feel lucky and equally complimented. Be her jackpot.

I am really impressed that some Nairalanders can hold down conversations maturely.

I am really impressed.

BTW: I like that 'catch-fish' phrase.

pansophist:
Most husbands or some husband?

It's insecurity in his own part. Same way a woman may feel threatened when her husband speaks to a younger attractive woman. This is why it is necessary for people to retain their ability to "catch fish". It keeps the relationship cohesively vibrant. When your partner knows that you can attract other people easily, but you choose not to, it makes them respect and strengthens their faithfulness towards you.

Men that feels threatened when their wife speaks with other men have probably relented on their prime duty of continously being valuable, such as keeping fit, intellectually engaging, bad finances and ability to nack her well. Because you're married doesn't mean all Job is done, it's a continous work. So you don't get jealous/insecure, but face the source of that insecurity.

Its easier for your partner to be virtuous when one respects him/herself, and continous self development is a key demonstration to that. Be that person your wive is proud of in public, making her feel lucky and equally complimented. Be her jackpot.

spot on I must say... Nice