Is monogamy an African construct. Everyone wants to cast aspersions on this man for being killed while with his side babe.

But is monogamy not about 2 generations new to Africa.

It's not part of our social fabric at all.

If men don't have to hide doing what they're wired to do naturally based on culture, etc, will this man and others like him have survived?

Men stop hiding. Cheat with your chest. Whomever will leave, arivedeci to them.

I termed your submission to be an hypocrite.

According to the good book, A man to a woman. You know its a African thing, you go to the altar and make vows. You go registry make vows and also sign and get a certificate.

If you know you can't deal with it, partial out... let them know you are not in for it..

Because of is able to zip up, threw his family broken.

Men doing it, no side check, no cumcubine... Are they not human being?

If you are already committed adultery in your home, mend it and don't come and be finding heresies to back up your inability to zip up.

Shalom

Worldwise:
I termed your submission to be an hypocrite.

According to the good book, A man to a woman. You know its a African thing, you go to the altar and make vows. You go registry make vows and also sign and get a certificate.

If you know you can't deal with it, partial out... let them know you are not in for it..

Because of is able to zip up, threw his family broken.

Men doing it, no side check, no cumcubine... Are they not human being?

If you are already committed adultery in your home, mend it and don't come and be finding heresies to back up your inability to zip up.

Shalom

It's your submission that's hypocritical with your skewed religious view.

Which one is "good book"?

Is good book or registry African?

Man is polygamous is nature, no amount of religion, education and civilization can erase it. Nature has made it so. Only few disciplined men keep to their vow not because their dick don't stand on sighting ass or boos they like.


Polygamy is African even the Muslem religion accommodated it. Even pastors dick stand at the alter on seeing those umuekwensu on mini skirt

Mtchew,
All these nonsense about "men are structured to cheat" deh vex me, if u want to cheat, raise ur head and stand up to it, no drag all of us into ur infidelity

If u know u can't tuck ur dick with one lady then remain single.
Most of these men will cheat on their Lady with a woman with lower social class, less beautiful and a karashika-ish dunce compared to their wives

Being a man is not the ability to have a dick but the ability to control that dick

9ja girls are out to add more burden to your life instead of softening it.

In mosdii voice: They are all useless..... All of them!

kalu61:
It's your submission that's hypocritical with your skewed religious view.

Which one is "good book"?

Is good book or registry African?

Man is polygamous is nature, no amount of religion, education and civilization can erase it. Nature has made it so. Only few disciplined men keep to their vow not because their dick don't stand on sighting ass or boos they like.


Monogamy is African even the Muslem religion accommodated it. Even pastors dick stand at the alter on seeing those umuekwensu on mini skirt

stop saying rubbish, Man is not polygamous in nature, he wasn't created to be.
Cheating is a spirit that envelopes u, it takes discipline not to cheat, the men that cheats on their wives are loosed, its takes a critical standpoint, self sufficiency and discipline to be with one lady all throughout life.

Do to others what you will like them to do to you.
If you cheat on your wife, be prepared to get paid back.
There's no excuse for not wanting to get paid back in your own coin. Monogamy being unAfrican is bullshit.

richmond500:
[s]stop saying rubbish, Man is not polygamous in nature, he wasn't created to be.
Cheating is a spirit that envelopes u, it takes discipline not to cheat, the men that cheats on their wives are loosed, its takes a critical standpoint, self sufficiency and discipline to be with one lady all throughout life[/s].

You are the one saying rubbish here.

The case is still being investigated, I suggest we all waited for the true story from the police so we can be sure of what we're talking about.


It could be he made promises and couldn't fulfill it or that a deal between them went wrong or that she was paid to kill him too

kalu61:
It's your submission that's hypocritical with your skewed religious view.

Which one is "good book"?

Is good book or registry African?

Man is polygamous is nature, no amount of religion, education and civilization can erase it. Nature has made it so. Only few disciplined men keep to their vow not because their dick don't stand on sighting ass or boos they like.


Monogamy is African even the Muslem religion accommodated it. Even pastors dick stand at the alter on seeing those umuekwensu on mini skirt

You're contradicting yourself

scribble:
Is monogamy an African construct. Everyone wants to cast aspersions on this man for being killed while with his side babe.

But is monogamy not about 2 generations new to Africa.

It's not part of our social fabric at all.

If men don't have to hide doing what they're wired to do naturally based on culture, etc, will this man and others like him have survived?

Men stop hiding. Cheat with your chest. Whomever will leave, arivedeci to them.

You can practice polygamy without cheating.

Polygamy is not synonymous with cheating.

SavageResponse:


You're contradicting yourself

It was auto correct error. I'm not contradicting myself.

richmond500:
stop saying rubbish, Man is not polygamous in nature, he wasn't created to be.
Cheating is a spirit that envelopes u, it takes discipline not to cheat, the men that cheats on their wives are loosed, its takes a critical standpoint, self sufficiency and discipline to be with one lady all throughout life.

You are correct from a Christian perspective.


You are the saying spewing rubbish for not understanding the question. The ops never asked for Christian view because they are other religions in Africa.
The ops asked if Monogamy is African? Not if it's acceptable in Christianity.

Your Father Abraham, Jacob, King David and Solomon did worst than monogamy, hope they will be lavishing in hell now

kalu61:
You are correct from a Christian perspective. The ops asked if monogamy is African?

No, I am for the world

Monogamy:


No, I am for the world

If you are for the world then keep whatever suits you to yourself and not make others feel bad about what they belief.

If a man believes in monogamy, it will be hypocritical of him to be having side chicks and abusing female children. If a Muslim, allow him enyoy as many pussies he can cater for. If a traditionalist, let him have as many concubines as possible. If an atheist, let him do what his moral tells him.

kalu61:
It's your submission that's hypocritical with your skewed religious view.

Which one is "good book"?

Is good book or registry African?

Man is polygamous is nature, no amount of religion, education and civilization can erase it. Nature has made it so. Only few disciplined men keep to their vow not because their dick don't stand on sighting ass or boos they like.


Polygamy is African even the Muslem religion accommodated it. Even pastors dick stand at the alter on seeing those umuekwensu on mini skirt

So dense

But that doesn't give you the right to cheat because u feel it's an African thing, why not rather marry another wife.

How would you feel if your wife cheat with another African man cos it's cos an African man is not meant to be monogamous in nature.

I didn't read any of that but one thing is sure.
One lady is more than enough trouble for me to handle, if she deny me my peace of mind she go begin go her own house. If possible I go enter monastery dey my dey.
Women matter no fit ever finish.

RIP to the dead though

@the OP!!

Man is naturally Wired to want to enjoy more Girls/women in his life!!

He is Polygamous by Nature!!

While Women are naturally Wired to crave comfort n Fantasy..
Dats y Young Rich guys, Male celebrities, Footballers, etc are pursued by Women..

However through Strong Self-control, some men fight against dis Polygamist urge and successfully kill dis Natural instinct..

But Polygamous?? Yes of course, He is!!

In a world where Girls/ladies outdo themselves on who has the Biggest Boobs, Ass, Camel Toes, Hips, Many men, including d married ones are so Tempted!!
Only a Minute few will resist!!

So Dats it, We are wired to Want More Dan one woman!! Look@the animal kingdom, Male dogs, goats, Fowls, etc bang plenty females..

As a man, it is. U will desire more Dan one.
Though you can regulate your desires.. :

richmond500:
stop saying rubbish, Man is not polygamous in nature, he wasn't created to be.
Cheating is a spirit that envelopes u, it takes discipline not to cheat, the men that cheats on their wives are loosed, its takes a critical standpoint, self sufficiency and discipline to be with one lady all throughout life.

My brother..
We are Polygamous..

Those who don't cheat on dier GF/Wives are only fighting hard against nature!!

Just Like you re holding your Farts everytime..

Women/Girls will always Tempt us, especially those with Big Boobs, ass, hips,etc.. ..
Women demselves know this fact..

Any man that is Faithful is only Fighting Hard against Nature and many have not been tempted. .

If you re Rich or famous, When some Big Boob, Curvy Girls with Well-rounded Ikebe will hold you in a corner ehn, your Yarnings will change oo..

Vinnie2000:



My brother..
We are Polygamous..

Those who don't cheat on dier GF/Wives are only fighting hard against nature!!

Just Like you re holding your Farts everytime..

Women/Girls will always Tempt us, especially those with Big Boobs, ass, hips,etc.. ..
Women demselves know this fact..

Any man that is Faithful is only Fighting Hard against Nature and many have not been tempted. .

If you re Rich or famous, When some Big Boob, Curvy Girls with Well-rounded Ikebe will hold you in a corner ehn, your Yarnings will change oo..

being a man is not the ability to have erection but the ability to control it.
A man is not a dog, the word man is not just about having something dangling between ur legs but its about having balls.
If u can't be in charge but instead let the dick do the thinking then u aren't a man.

If u no fit hold body, marry another wife, and be the boss.

richmond500:
being a man is not the ability to have erection but the ability to control it.
A man is not a dog, the word man is not just about having something dangling between ur legs but its about having balls.
If u can't be in charge but instead let the dick do the thinking then u aren't a man.

If u no fit hold body, marry another wife, and be the boss.

Hahaha!!
Marry another Wife??

You see dat you have now agreed that Man is Polygamous??

Why are you wanting Another??
Dats d polygamist nature I am talking about!!..

Doz men who stay Faithful to one wife for years without cheating@all are almost like Catholic Rev Fathers..

Doing a big sacrifice and fighting nature in doing so..
Dey deserve Kudos n Praise!!!! But some might regret it wen dey get to 60/70+..

While for women/Ladies, dey are also becoming Polygamous like men..
Many Young girls can't have only one Boyfriend diz days..
Even if the Boy is handsome n rich, dey want to experiment oder Diccks..

So Dats it..

richmond500:
Mtchew,
All these nonsense about "men are structured to cheat" deh vex me, if u want to cheat, raise ur head and stand up to it, no drag all of us into ur infidelity

If u know u can't tuck ur dick with one lady then remain single.
Most of these men will cheat on their Lady with a woman with lower social class, less beautiful and a karashika-ish dunce compared to their wives

richmond500:
Mtchew,
All these nonsense about "men are structured to cheat" deh vex me, if u want to cheat, raise ur head and stand up to it, no drag all of us into ur infidelity

If u know u can't tuck ur dick with one lady then remain single.
Most of these men will cheat on their Lady with a woman with lower social class, less beautiful and a karashika-ish dunce compared to their wives

You impotent men and low libido men should try understand that every other men are not like you guys.
You people should stop using your condition to equate with normal men.
Men are designed naturally polygamous reason being that one woman will never meet up to his sexual satisfactory.
When his wife is pregnant they stop having sex, it will take her a span of 9 months pregnancy and plus 2-3 months recovery after child birth.
So are you saying that he should bear the urge for that full 12 month period before the resumption of their sexual life which will also stop immediately the woman conceive for second time?
It pain me when women and you impotent men make comments like these because you people won't understand.

It is not natural for a man to stick to just one toto for the rest of his life

Klinee:
You impotent men and low libido men should try understand that every other men are not like you guys.
You people should stop using your condition to equate with normal men.
Men are designed naturally polygamous reason being that one woman will never meet up to his sexual satisfactory.
When his wife is pregnant they stop having sex, it will take her a span of 9 months pregnancy and plus 2-3 months recovery after child birth.
So are you saying that he should bear the urge for that full 12 month period before the resumption of their sexual life which will also stop immediately the woman conceive for second time?
It pain me when women and you impotent men make comments like these because you people won't understand.

Pls learn to pass out ur Opinions without Insult or Bad remarks on another..

Vinnie2000:


Pls learn to pass out ur Opinions without Insult or Bad remarks on another..

Are you blind? Where did I use insultive word? Impotence is not insult, it's medical problem which number of men are facing today.
What am saying is, an impotent man learn to understand that every other men are not like you. Then he(impotent man) should be guided of his utterances, trying to equate himself with other men. That's very bad because he (impotent man) will never understand the feeling of the normal men reason being that he never experienced such feeling.
I wonder where you see the insult.