Divoc19:
Op, you try but lower your tone so that you don't pass the good message in a wrong way. I am a woman and I understand. But these benefits does not apply to feminist.

and who is a feminist ,? sorry If I may ask please

LadyRosa:
This can only happen to women who don't truly come from strong willed families. Try that with some wives and have her people beat you up blue black and yellow before stuffing the 500 naira bride price you paid for her in your bloodied mouth

the funny thing about ladies is this ,you act cool they take u for granted ,you act harshly they call u a beast ,how do you tame a lady who is going astray ? I kw most marriages in the world or in Africa are abusive marriage and many women still stay behind ,while the other marriage in which the man Acts cool is full of cheating or infedelity ,to me ,as far no blood spillage I don't see any abusive thing in a marriage ,but also most times a lady needs to be put in her rightfull position in marriage ....

obinna58:
This is where Africa got it all wrong. Who are to torment people in the name of discipline.

and this is where u thing the world is from the view of Hollywood or media ,how I wish u can have a deep Convo with a full western lady ,u will know a lady is and supposed to respect her husband ,not what the media portray or Instagram white chicks

Women, girls and ladies that believe in equal rights (50/50) to their men.

You provoke them they dump you for another asap. Marriage or not

larryking540:

and who is a feminist ,? sorry If I may ask please

larryking540:
the funny thing about ladies is this ,you act cool they take u for granted ,you act harshly they call u a beast ,how do you tame a lady who is going astray ? I kw most marriages in the world or in Africa are abusive marriage and many women still stay behind ,while the other marriage in which the man Acts cool is full of cheating or infedelity ,to me ,as far no blood spillage I don't see any abusive thing in a marriage ,but also most times a lady needs to be put in her rightfull position in marriage ....

Locking out one's wife the whole night is far too extreme in curtailing a woman's excesses. You don't spite the face by cutting off the neck, if your own sister calls to tell you this, even if you will blame her you must react negatively towards her husband for going to that insane extent of locking her out.

See, this kind of issue can bring serious issues between some families. I don't know how many people on here are raised but I don't think calling my father to narrate that my husband locked me out would be a tale taken easily. Them no suppose to hear that one at all as the outcome can be disastrous.

The guy went way too far, period.

larryking540:


and this is where u thing the world is from the view of Hollywood or media ,how I wish u can have a deep Convo with a full western lady ,u will know a lady is and supposed to respect her husband ,not what the media portray or Instagram white chicks

Respect is earned not forced

DDDEnterprises:


Out of her own matrimonial home oo. Or cause he's the one paying for or owns the house?

A lot of people don't realise once you join with a woman in matrimony, she has a right to the house like you do for as long as the bond of matrimony exists.

because she left her house or parents house to come stay with you just for the desired purpose (marriage) to be practised or achieved and she can fulfil her duties as a wife to you and mother to children.

She's now your responsibility; her welfare, nourishment and shelter is now MAJORLY in your care.

So she has a right to the house for as long as she's your wife.

Men need more orientation on how to deal with matrimonial matters around here

Are you really preaching to these hardened fools? Alpha mails?

I don't see the difference between this type of woman you're describing and a dog. People like the OP want women to see them as God on Earth. Smh.

obinna58:

Respect is earned not forced

biologically the brain of a female is wired differently ,so if u expect a man to keep his cool when the wife mess up ,expect the court room not far from you ,so the coolness of modern man compared to our forefathers,what has it lead to can we compare both ,

larryking540:

biologically the brain of a female is wired differently ,so if u expect a man to keep his cool when the wife mess up ,expect the court room not far from you ,so the coolness of modern man compared to our forefathers,what has it lead to can we compare both ,

Believe me
The more calm the more you're likely to win.

Divoc19:
Women, girls and ladies that believe in equal rights (50/50) to their men.

You provoke them they dump you for another asap. Marriage or not

first and foremost,most females now are been trained how to be a lady and not been trained how to be a wife material .
I don't know how many people will see this ,the ladies who started this feminist movement are married with grown up kids who jeep their family in a smooth sailing position,and you that is single are emulating and swallowing all their feminist movement they sit in the comfort of their man's lap in the bed room posting trash ,I can give you a whole lot of feminist ladies enjoying their marriage,while ladies and girls who choose to follow what they literally know nothing about are still single in the market ,after 30 years .
get your bsc,get your master degree ,get your PhD and get a 1millionaire monthly pay job ,and you will not need a man and you marry a man who u will provide for (wrong reality)

LadyRosa:



Locking out one's wife the whole night is far too extreme in curtailing a woman's excesses. You don't spite the face by cutting off the neck, if your own sister calls to tell you this, even if you will blame her you must react negatively towards her husband for going to that insane extent of locking her out.

See, this kind of issue can bring serious issues between some families. I don't know how many people on here are raised but I don't think calling my father to narrate that my husband locked me out would be a tale taken easily. Them no suppose to hear that one at all as the outcome can be disastrous.

The guy went way too far, period.

I am not in support of locking a wife outside,there are other way to discipline a lady ,