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Who Is To Blame? by NgHotGirls: 5:59pm On Jul 01
Hi everyone,

I have a very serious family problem, my parents decided to take a female relative of ours from our home town to come live with us in Port Harcourt, due to the fact that she couldn't continue with her education and had to learn a skill.

This lady was enrolled in one of these computer centers to at least be a computer literate since non of my family members had the time to teach her and she wanted to learn.

Every morning she goes on an errand for my mom before moving along to learn in the computer center, not knowing she was dating and sleeping with a guy.


My mom never thought she would ever behave in such a stupid way, I mean coming to an unknown place for the first time and already dating a guy within a short period was something my mom never expected.

She got pregnant a month, she told no one and waited till we all travelled back home to tell her mother. All of a sudden we started hearing rumors of how the girl we brought back home got pregnant and my mom was to blame for it.

This girls mother took out the all the blame on my mom and not her daughter, this woman said that my mother neglected her daughter to fall prey to men in the city but took care of me because am her own child, till today my mom and the ladies mother are not speaking to each other.

For Christs sake this lady is 26 years old and 4 years away from clocking 30, am younger than the lady and due to my introvert nature i tend to stay indoors and out of trouble not even because of my mom, if I wanted to become wild i would have, a long time ago.

So pls is my mom truly at fault here?
Re: Who Is To Blame? by Obakashdee(m): 6:13pm On Jul 01
Lol abeg your mum isn’t at fault o, they are not suppose to tell a 26years old lady that sex leads to pregnancy.
That’s Eth I’m always against relatives coming to stay with my family, it never ends well.
Yoruba adage says, house wey Dey move forward na the bast*rdfor the house never grow up.

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Re: Who Is To Blame? by frozen70(f): 6:26pm On Jul 01
NgHotGirls:
Hi everyone,

I have a very serious family problem, my parents decided to take a female relative of ours from our home town to come live with us in Port Harcourt, due to the fact that she couldn't continue with her education and had to learn a skill.

This lady was enrolled in one of these computer centers to at least be a computer literate since non of my family members had the time to teach her and she wanted to learn.

Every morning she goes on an errand for my mom before moving along to learn in the computer center, not knowing she was dating and sleeping with a guy.


My mom never thought she would ever behave in such a stupid way, I mean coming to an unknown place for the first time and already dating a guy within a short period was something my mom never expected.

She got pregnant a month, she told no one and waited till we all travelled back home to tell her mother. All of a sudden we started hearing rumors of how the girl we brought back home got pregnant and my mom was to blame for it.

This girls mother took out the all the blame on my mom and not her daughter, this woman said that my mother neglected her daughter to fall prey to men in the city but took care of me because am her own child, till today my mom and the ladies mother are not speaking to each other.

For Christs sake this lady is 26 years old and 4 years away from clocking 30, am younger than the lady and due to my introvert nature i tend to stay indoors and out of trouble not even because of my mom, if I wanted to become wild i would have, a long time ago.

So pls is my mom truly at fault here?


Every one knows that your mum is not expected to teleguard her when she is not a teenager

We all knows that it's the girl's fault, let her deal with it
As for the girls mum, she has the right to feel bad over it

Time will heal everything

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Re: Who Is To Blame? by dingbang(m): 6:32pm On Jul 01
Lmao..same thing happened in my family but this time around it was a male. The ungrateful idiot went to impregnate a girl. Mchew.. Stupid boy.

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Re: Who Is To Blame? by Stephenomozzy(m): 6:36pm On Jul 01
Since blames are being traded... Y'all should blame the woman for raising a dullard 26yrs old who couldn't protect her ignorant self from getting pregnant when she should be getting trained.



Btw, you guys should ignore her blames.. She's in denial.

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Re: Who Is To Blame? by Mophor: 9:32pm On Jul 01
Damn Niggar!!!!!
Issoright

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Re: Who Is To Blame? by VEXT: 10:33pm On Jul 01
Why bring a grown up lady to come stay with you guys..haba

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Re: Who Is To Blame? by Liposure: 10:59pm On Jul 01
Blaming your mom is irresponsible of them. At 26, she's not a kid anymore. An adult is expected to know right from wrong as he/she come of age. Her cross is hers to bear since she has failed to tread carefully with the opposite sex
Re: Who Is To Blame? by 1F30M4(f): 11:18pm On Jul 01
Nope, your mum is not at fault.. The girl's mum is hurt say heartbroken cos "she never experred it" and thinks putting the blame on your mum or someone else would help her not lose her sanity.. Her daughter was obviously having the best time of her life that she threw caution to the wind.
Re: Who Is To Blame? by Nobody: 11:56pm On Jul 01
Tell the mom her daughter is a 26-year old adult and she is therefore responsible for her own actions, but if she wants to blame anyone else she should point the fingers at herself.

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Re: Who Is To Blame? by ImaIma1(f): 9:57am On Jul 02
The girl's mother is the one to blame and she knows it. She's just trying to shift blame. For 26yrs, she couldn't teach her daughter sense and she's blaming someone that just had a few months with the girl.
Re: Who Is To Blame? by Hathor5(f): 11:52am On Jul 02
She is 26 and not 16 and she alone has chosen to make the wrong decision. Nobody forced her to. Nobody was holding a gun to her head telling her to sleep with guys without protection. It's her fault alone and by extension her mum's who has apparently never taught her to take responsibility for her choices.

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Re: Who Is To Blame? by anthonyuncle(m): 10:32pm On Jul 02
the girl deserve slap.
her mum deserve cane

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Re: Who Is To Blame? by crackhaus: 12:30am On Jul 03
An illiterate/semi-literate problem.

I can't imagine that a truly educated person will see her pregnant 26yr old daughter (who was not raped) and push the blame of that pregnancy on someone else.

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Re: Who Is To Blame? by cococandy(f): 4:13am On Jul 03
Imagine a 26year old woman and her mom blaming others for their own life choices. When they should be preparing to welcome their new child and grandchild into the family.

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Re: Who Is To Blame? by Richy4(m): 4:24am On Jul 03
Assuming the mother had money, she would have become a politician... That was a natural talent that comes with no skills acquisition .. blame game grin
Re: Who Is To Blame? by Fiscus105: 4:41am On Jul 03
NgHotGirls:
Hi everyone,

I have a very serious family problem, my parents decided to take a female relative of ours from our home town to come live with us in Port Harcourt, due to the fact that she couldn't continue with her education and had to learn a skill.

This lady was enrolled in one of these computer centers to at least be a computer literate since non of my family members had the time to teach her and she wanted to learn.

Every morning she goes on an errand for my mom before moving along to learn in the computer center, not knowing she was dating and sleeping with a guy.


My mom never thought she would ever behave in such a stupid way, I mean coming to an unknown place for the first time and already dating a guy within a short period was something my mom never expected.

She got pregnant a month, she told no one and waited till we all travelled back home to tell her mother. All of a sudden we started hearing rumors of how the girl we brought back home got pregnant and my mom was to blame for it.

This girls mother took out the all the blame on my mom and not her daughter, this woman said that my mother neglected her daughter to fall prey to men in the city but took care of me because am her own child, till today my mom and the ladies mother are not speaking to each other.

For Christs sake this lady is 26 years old and 4 years away from clocking 30, am younger than the lady and due to my introvert nature i tend to stay indoors and out of trouble not even because of my mom, if I wanted to become wild i would have, a long time ago.

So pls is my mom truly at fault here?

Why family trading blames for 26 yrs who got pregnant? She should be told to move to her husband house, I think it will relief you of burden, both her mother and ur own mother.

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Re: Who Is To Blame? by NgHotGirls: 10:18pm On Jul 15
Fiscus105:


Why family trading blames for 26 yrs who got pregnant? She should be told to move to her husband house, I think it will relief you of burden, both her mother and ur own mother.
I just tire
Re: Who Is To Blame? by NgHotGirls: 10:20pm On Jul 15
dingbang:
Lmao..same thing happened in my family but this time around it was a male. The ungrateful idiot went to impregnate a girl. Mchew.. Stupid boy.
Did he marry the girl?
Re: Who Is To Blame? by dingbang(m): 7:02am On Jul 16
NgHotGirls:
Did he marry the girl?
well, i just didnt care to know that part as my parents then had already chased him out of the house. I was in school then.

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Re: Who Is To Blame? by baralatie(m): 4:08pm On Jul 16
cry
Na help una wan help o!

The 26 he old woman kuku bring problem come !
For this pH wey boiz no de take eye see woman and go still jakpa when belle land

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Re: Who Is To Blame? by Ohyinyeah: 8:07am On Jul 17
The useless 26yrs old lady that opened her legs
Re: Who Is To Blame? by NgHotGirls: 8:41am On Jul 19
dingbang:
well, i just didnt care to know that part as my parents then had already chased him out of the house. I was in school then.
okay

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