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Helping A Wife In The Kitchen; Love Or Stupidity? by Nobody: 5:57pm On Jul 13, 2021 |
Hello ladies and gentlemen in the house, this is my first thread on NL so am gonna be quick about it. please Forgive my grammatical errors. Some men are fond of leaving kitchen responsibilities and most house chores to their wives. I think it is a lovely thing for a man to help out his wife in the kitchen, it shows that he's a caring and loving husband and that could also bring a strong bond in the marriage. Some people think that men who help their wife in the kitchen are been controlled by their wife or worst, regarded as simp but it's a man's duty to provide assistance to their wife in every way possible, either by employing a house help or doing it themselves especially when she's pregnant..... So,what do you guys think about a man providing assistance in the kitchen? 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Helping A Wife In The Kitchen; Love Or Stupidity? by illicit(m): 5:58pm On Jul 13, 2021 |
It's the same thing 1 Like |
Re: Helping A Wife In The Kitchen; Love Or Stupidity? by Fahdiga(m): 6:00pm On Jul 13, 2021 |
It is subjective. Avoid see finish is still bae 1 Like |
Re: Helping A Wife In The Kitchen; Love Or Stupidity? by TheRealOwner(m): 6:01pm On Jul 13, 2021 |
Necessity 1 Like |
Re: Helping A Wife In The Kitchen; Love Or Stupidity? by Jeon(f): 6:04pm On Jul 13, 2021 |
Love. 2 Likes |
Re: Helping A Wife In The Kitchen; Love Or Stupidity? by sylarada(f): 6:08pm On Jul 13, 2021 |
...Op, to start with...I think most relationships run into such problems when couples fail to know and understand their love languages. Of all the love languages, most women like attention and out of service hence women feels loved when men understand these facts and act accordingly. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Helping A Wife In The Kitchen; Love Or Stupidity? by alaribe1992(m): 6:14pm On Jul 13, 2021 |
No don’t do it simp!!! 1 Like
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Re: Helping A Wife In The Kitchen; Love Or Stupidity? by Nobody: 6:21pm On Jul 13, 2021 |
You people really like asking questions to cause more rift between both genders. What’s wrong in helping wife in the kitchen? It’s not love, it’s not stupidity but being human. 8 Likes |
Re: Helping A Wife In The Kitchen; Love Or Stupidity? by tunize(m): 6:22pm On Jul 13, 2021 |
Its not stupidity its normal shall but not something that could be done on a daily, for me i think while some men avoid it is simply because there are some women that do take some certain priviledges for granted. If you do today u nor do 2mro in quote u’re now seen as a man that is not caring or seen as a right that u must cook 1 Like |
Re: Helping A Wife In The Kitchen; Love Or Stupidity? by Harrykn: 6:24pm On Jul 13, 2021 |
Na personal choice. Nor simping or Alfarating
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Re: Helping A Wife In The Kitchen; Love Or Stupidity? by Romanoff(f): 6:28pm On Jul 13, 2021 |
Me I feel modern marriages are partnerships where everything should be shared including bills, chores, child care and cooking. It is sha important to discuss these things before getting married. Know if you're expected to be a traditional wife that cooks, cleans and stays at home or a working woman who also contributes to the house and expects other aspects of your marriage to be shared as well. 4 Likes |
Re: Helping A Wife In The Kitchen; Love Or Stupidity? by Cerebellum: 6:35pm On Jul 13, 2021 |
NL and mumu OP Mumu Question...To slap OP dey hungry me self |
Re: Helping A Wife In The Kitchen; Love Or Stupidity? by Federalcase(m): 6:35pm On Jul 13, 2021 |
food and money dy get my attention so I don't mind helping my wife. 3 Likes |
Re: Helping A Wife In The Kitchen; Love Or Stupidity? by Nobody: 6:40pm On Jul 13, 2021 |
illicit:How?? |
Re: Helping A Wife In The Kitchen; Love Or Stupidity? by general111(m): 6:42pm On Jul 13, 2021 |
Nothing is wrong with helping my wife out in the kitchen.. It will rather help us bond. 1 Like |
Re: Helping A Wife In The Kitchen; Love Or Stupidity? by pansophist(m): 6:45pm On Jul 13, 2021 |
To a dumb woman, she will see it as weakness. To a smart woman, she would appreciate you and happy to be blessed with a good man. It has happened to me before that a girl I dated for like a month gave me her sneakers to wash when I was washing mine, which I did. But to her dumb mindset, it became a confirmation that I'm to be used, and she wanted to push further to test my boundaries even to an extent she may punish me with frog jump I guess lol. Trust me, I ended the relationship that week. So yea, a good woman will appreciate you, but a stupid, usually the young ones, will think you're a weak man. 16 Likes |
Re: Helping A Wife In The Kitchen; Love Or Stupidity? by illicit(m): 6:50pm On Jul 13, 2021 |
Doja2000: Love is stupid some of the time |
Re: Helping A Wife In The Kitchen; Love Or Stupidity? by RightToReject(m): 6:51pm On Jul 13, 2021 |
To act towards her (and vice versa) in a morally just and socially honorable way is an obligation, not a choice. So, it's love, if done because it's the right thing to do, but if done based on overindulging, it's stupidity, and not doing at all when it's the right thing to do is insanity/low self-esteem. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Helping A Wife In The Kitchen; Love Or Stupidity? by Nobody: 7:03pm On Jul 13, 2021 |
illicit:No doubt, but e no suppose reach kitchen ooo. 3 Likes |
Re: Helping A Wife In The Kitchen; Love Or Stupidity? by illicit(m): 7:07pm On Jul 13, 2021 |
Doja2000: Hmmm once in a while tho I like to eat what I like, I can cook whatever I feel like eating if my woman don't feel like 2 Likes |
Re: Helping A Wife In The Kitchen; Love Or Stupidity? by Nobody: 7:22pm On Jul 13, 2021 |
illicit:hmm. You can cook....? Wow.... |
Re: Helping A Wife In The Kitchen; Love Or Stupidity? by illicit(m): 7:23pm On Jul 13, 2021 |
Re: Helping A Wife In The Kitchen; Love Or Stupidity? by Epositive(m): 7:24pm On Jul 13, 2021 |
You can keep her company though if you are less busy, by nodding to her gists and sampling the fries. Sometimes, your presence is enough. 2 Likes |
Re: Helping A Wife In The Kitchen; Love Or Stupidity? by Lilpen3758: 7:32pm On Jul 13, 2021 |
illicit:love is stupid so yeah it is 2 Likes |
Re: Helping A Wife In The Kitchen; Love Or Stupidity? by Nobody: 7:34pm On Jul 13, 2021 |
Ladies and gentlemen, help me welcome the redpillers |
Re: Helping A Wife In The Kitchen; Love Or Stupidity? by Nobody: 8:13pm On Jul 13, 2021 |
illicit:wow |
Re: Helping A Wife In The Kitchen; Love Or Stupidity? by Nobody: 8:17pm On Jul 13, 2021 |
Lilpen3758:you sure? 2 Likes |
Re: Helping A Wife In The Kitchen; Love Or Stupidity? by Lilpen3758: 8:30pm On Jul 13, 2021 |
Doja2000:lol very sure...love makes you do stupid things 1 Like |
Re: Helping A Wife In The Kitchen; Love Or Stupidity? by Nobody: 8:38pm On Jul 13, 2021 |
Lilpen3758:abi? |
Re: Helping A Wife In The Kitchen; Love Or Stupidity? by SILENTandSMART2: 8:41pm On Jul 13, 2021 |
This post drain my energy , this post no suppose dey , Is it a crime to help someone ?..... 1 Like |
Re: Helping A Wife In The Kitchen; Love Or Stupidity? by Lilpen3758: 9:14pm On Jul 13, 2021 |
Doja2000:yeah there was this time that I was so in love with this girl that I borrow card to always call her and MTN were just looking at me like a Mumu man..... 1 Like |
Re: Helping A Wife In The Kitchen; Love Or Stupidity? by Lilpen3758: 9:19pm On Jul 13, 2021 |
Doja2000:which one is wow again?? Can't I cook?? And am a guy.... 1 Like |
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