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Re: Have You Ever Been Accused Wrongly? Share Your Experience! by TheMostComplex1: 8:52pm On Jul 14, 2021
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It Was a terrible experience.
Immediately after the covid-19 lockdown.resumed back to the office and a colleague raise alarm of lost phone. Searched everyone and everywhere. Phone no show. Next thing I'll hear, i was accused. Her reason being that "i wasn't seriously helping her do the searching the way she wanted". Thought it was a joke until evening when the husband called and told me to either bring the phone or tell him where to meet. Long story short. I had to involve the police before the matter rest o. But the depression/shame wasn't easy even till now.when ever i remember,i always pray to God to expose the thief so i can act the way i would have wanted to..

It gets to a point i was even asking myself " did you steal the phone? Where did you keep it"
Wrong accusation can kill o.

Sorry about the incident

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Re: Have You Ever Been Accused Wrongly? Share Your Experience! by Gfskw: 9:02pm On Jul 14, 2021
Hmmm
Re: Have You Ever Been Accused Wrongly? Share Your Experience! by Ellegacy(m): 9:33pm On Jul 14, 2021
1. I have a black lip. Have being falsely accused, even by my parents that I smoked which I wasn't then. Now I do as a result of constant falsely accusation. Your lips are black, do you smoke? #Black_lips_matter

2. I once live in a small hostel of 4 rooms. We were all student back then. Around 2011 during my ND days. We normally drop the front gate key to a neighbor behind our house. That unfortunate day, I came early to the hostel first. I opened the door and went straight to my room, tired. Not knowing a room has being bulged and 5k was stolen. The owner came back and he accused me, cos I was the one that opened the front gate first. He ransacked my room, called student man o war on me. The man o war came, whisked me away, sized my phone, and maltreated me in their building. I told my parents and I got connect to the Dean of students Affairs. He called them to order and asked if they had any evidence except I came to the hostel first and open the gate first, which wasn't the first time. They had none. He demanded the man o war to apologized to me and the guy was told to look for other means to find his money or challenge his roommates who knew about his money initially

The next week, I saw him doing charm. Nothing happened to me

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Re: Have You Ever Been Accused Wrongly? Share Your Experience! by Davefed(m): 9:45pm On Jul 14, 2021
Just now my brother accused me of stealing his money. The guy is just sick, someone I don't even talk to or have anything to do with him.

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Re: Have You Ever Been Accused Wrongly? Share Your Experience! by Naybahood(m): 9:46pm On Jul 14, 2021
Ausval:
Yes ooooo

My aunty carry me go church for family prayers ...Na so the pastor accused me say I be witch and that I used to fly at night ..I was shocked can I be a witch and I don't know ??

Na so the man begin dey fire prayer ,they press my neck they blow my chest say i must confess

Before I knew it my aunty don join am before I open my eyes all of them don hold broom

The pastor Begin they tell my aunty to flog her way to breakthrough ..na so beating start for me ooo..see flog see broom

Omo I jejely confessed ooo say I be witch and na me be the cause of all the problem ,before these people go use broom end my young life

I come even begin to dey make cat sound mew mew mew mew ooo so that them go believe and leave me as all my back don already dey bleed

Na so dem free me ..I run for my life go back go meet my mama for village

But guessed what ?...the witch is a big boy now and all his family is extremely proud of him

Also my aunty now want her first son to come live with the witch so that the witch can send him to school .


Bruv,
Ain’t no word of a lie, Just reading this write up made me proud of you .

I like it when the haterz are proven wrong .

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Re: Have You Ever Been Accused Wrongly? Share Your Experience! by Nobody: 10:01pm On Jul 14, 2021
Orlaoluwayimika:
It was a funny bitter experience.

We were in 300L in the Uni then and we had a 7 AM test on a Friday morning. After the test, a female colleague sitting nxt to me went to eat so she left her bag on the seat (the lecturer was still in class at that time so she dashed out).

Lecturer left around 8.30AM or there about and next class was 9 AM. Usual thing everyone stood up for gist and the likes. This lady had not come back at this time and the guy sitting in the 3rd seat while standing up mistakenly hit her bag that was placed on the middle seat (it's a foldable chair) and everything inside it fell. Right there the bag was picked up and everything was packed inside her bag.

I also went outside to catch some gist with my friends before the 2nd Lecturers arrival. 2nd Lecture had commenced before she came back and lo and behold immediately she came back I told this lady her bag fell while she was away but we had packed the things that fell out inside her bag so she could chk if there was anything missing and probably chk the floor or something.

Monday morning whilst in class preparing for the 1st lecture of the day. This lady just walked up to where I was sitting few metres away and beckoned on me with a tone that gave me the instinct something was up.
I went to her and she strtd the whole story of an Infinix fone was in her bag and she didn't see it when she got back to her hostel in the nite.

Mehn I choke when she strtd the whole story so the next thing I asked her was but I told u ur bag fell while u were away on Friday. I expected if she had valuables in her bag that was meant to be the 1st thing to check and she didn't until nite.

This lady strtd drama that she was going to report to a lecturer blabla. I told her to pls go ahead cos the whole thing was just funny to me and I remained unperturbed.

I was in the library when I received a call from Student union Security Council that I shld report to there office that same day (students as well but if u love urself just adhere to their call)
I was very well familiar with there modus operandis so I called a class mate who apparently was their Gen Secretary at that time to inform him of what happened but he didn't pick so I sent a text but he didn't see it until I had gotten to there office.

We were at there office - questions were asked we both talked but the fools handling the case I guess were carried away because it was a lady that was involved.

The fools there seized my phone went tru all my social media app to see if I had chatted anyone in recent time that I had a fone to sell.
Those fools with the lady inclusive came to my house in town scattered my whole room to check if the fone was in my house (I allowed all of this cos I just wanted to proof to this girl I didn't take her fone- in fact I paid everyone's T-fair to my house and back to campus)

It was when we got back to school that the Head of Security Council who had just gotten to the complex inquired about what was happening and the whole story strtd from the beginning again.
The guy was the one that dismissed the case.
He asked the lady if truly I told her - her bag fell when she was away and she confirmed I did.

He said if u had valuables in ur bag that would be the 1st thing u would ve looked for and it is almost unbelievable that u didn't rmba tru out the day until late evening.
He concluded she must ve lost the fone somewhere and was just trying to look for someone to take responsibility for it.
I went to SUB with my friends the nxt day to do little cwazy for them for the useless harassment melted on me the previous day but I had to allow it just to prove my innocence to this crazy girl.

She was still not satisfied with this - midnight she sent one yeye msg that she was outside in the middle of the night naked laying some form of curse that whoever took her fone was going to die in 7days time
Come and see me in those 7 days omo I careful die to cross road sef I dey look not just right and left I dey look up and down make we no go die for devil to shame us for wetin we no do.


Apparently the mistake I made was to notify her that her bag fell and she also felt it was my responsibility to look after the bag in her absence as per say na bag I com watch for school.

Each time I rmba that case, I am always sad and it still bewilders my imagination that what could ve given this lady so much assurance that I took her fone. We nva spoke till we left school cos of that incidence

TOSIN I didnt take ur fone ooo I hope the person that took it died from ur curse I just really hope so.
we are black people,in a situation like this the first suspect is the one who rendered help,you should not have even do like you see the bag talkless of telling her,


Till today in her small mind you are the one that took her phone,if i were you i won't say her bag fell unless we are very close and she will be someone that knows my house,

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Re: Have You Ever Been Accused Wrongly? Share Your Experience! by Nobody: 10:06pm On Jul 14, 2021
Of all accusations,i hate theft own,so embarrassing and shameful.
Re: Have You Ever Been Accused Wrongly? Share Your Experience! by Naybahood(m): 10:13pm On Jul 14, 2021
solasoulmusic:
Yes being the generous and helpful person I am people have accused me of doing hard drugs and prostitution but I literally breathe music and creative forms of entertainment I hope to design luxury cars in my old age


Been long I’ve seen a write up like this by a lady, designing a luxury car .

Can I ask a question?
Re: Have You Ever Been Accused Wrongly? Share Your Experience! by ibrahim55(m): 11:27pm On Jul 14, 2021
When I was a child living in a face me I face u compound in aguda surulere then there was this man papa uche whom accused me of stealing his sons chicken eggs I tried to say something he slapped me I cried and went inside our room I didn't tell anyone cos it will be the reason for another wahala again thr old man is dead now may his soul RIP

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Re: Have You Ever Been Accused Wrongly? Share Your Experience! by Bolaji1996: 11:47pm On Jul 14, 2021
Omo, na jss1 I dey that time for oke afa junior college. During examination, I think it was Agriculture we were doing, there is one stupid Igbo boy in my class then. He told our class teacher that I am engaging in examination malpractice using my agric note. What makes the matter worst is that truely I have my note with me but in my desk which was made to be open and close. because then you have to bring your own chair and desk from home.
What triggered the action of the boy was because I didn't allow him to copy me during the previous examination and also share my chair and desk with him, hence the action . And I tried to tell our teacher that am not doing what he said, that my note just happened to be there because I was reading it before the commencement of the examination but my teacher no accept oo.
What I found most painful is that after she checked my answer sheet she didn't find anything, I was told to sit on the floor facing the class to finish my exam and that mad boy sat on my chair comfortably. After the exam I was called to the staff room given punishment to cut grass and was also caned by two teachers, told to bring my parent. It was after my mum came to school that the teacher felt she has punished me unfairly when she saw that I have been getting 2nd position in class. Whenever I remember that boy ehn I always curse am. I pray make i jam am one day If I no go kill hin papa.

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Re: Have You Ever Been Accused Wrongly? Share Your Experience! by Lamanii22(f): 12:14am On Jul 15, 2021
Slurity:
I was accused of stealing #50 when I was a child, continuous beatings for days running to weeks without stop until I confessed to stealing the money and my dad bought new razor blade to give me mark at my back which makes the story unforgettable till today, I have to remind my father that I did not steal the money again after over 18years. The second one is even with a witness that insists he saw me stealing meat from the pot, an allegation that never happen and my parents believed my step brother and not me. I almost shed tears writing all these because it's hurt to the bone. It is better you don't marry at all than to have children from different women because you are only preparing a potential hard life from those children and also yourself.

cry cry
Re: Have You Ever Been Accused Wrongly? Share Your Experience! by Nobody: 12:36am On Jul 15, 2021
Yes my former brother in law Peter onokebhagbe posted to all my friends on face book that I used juju to marry their brother and what pained me most was I never saw the post untill after my marriage because I would have dis continued with the marriage this spread so fast that even my mother inlaw believed him because he is her son and inconcate the belief into my husband even now any little misunderstanding my husband will always tell me that he would have listened to his family it got so bad that in a marriage of
4yrs I can not account a moment of happiness
because of someone reckless talk, now I made
up my mind to quit the marriage because I
can not convince the family but I have told my
God that except I used juju like he said that is
the only way that guys life will be settled
honestly my case got so worst that I started
thinking of suicide as an option . I have told myself I will broadcast this issue with his name boldly spelt on social media until any one that knows him starts calling him, for 4yrs I have been in pains and he thinks that God is asleep

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Re: Have You Ever Been Accused Wrongly? Share Your Experience! by bummyla(m): 12:44am On Jul 15, 2021
My aunty told me how she drove one of my cousins out of her house. The boy came to live with my aunty because his father's business had a set back, the boy been a hardworking handsome lad, everybody loved him, most especially my auntie's husband. To the man the boy is another son, which my aunty hated, and her husband had such a great plan for the boy's future.

So, she told me, the boy always ran to welcome her husband, carried his briefcase to their room all the time. So this particular day, she knew her husband was going to come back with a lot of money, so she sent everybody on an errand expect the boy towards the time her husband will come back. So it was only her and the boy at home, when the man came back. As usual the boy collected the man's briefcase, took it to their room upstairs, after a while, Madam sneaked upstairs to their room, removed some money from the briefcase and hid them in the boy's room. https://jesus.bingo

Later that day they were looking for the money, she asked her children to search my cousin's room, where they found the money. She said nobody believed they boy stole the money, but how did the money get his room? Since there were only three persons at home, for a long time. She insisted she will not live in the same house with a thief! They had no option but to send him away. My cousin now is a big boy with airtel.

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Re: Have You Ever Been Accused Wrongly? Share Your Experience! by asamfem(m): 12:54am On Jul 15, 2021
Macktaob:

OAU?

My friend experienced a similar accusation in our part one days.
Those guys at SUB no dey chill at all.

SUB is now a shadow of itself now

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Re: Have You Ever Been Accused Wrongly? Share Your Experience! by asamfem(m): 12:57am On Jul 15, 2021
Orlaoluwayimika:

Yeah

At the mention of SUB and the way the case was handled, I knew it's OAU

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Re: Have You Ever Been Accused Wrongly? Share Your Experience! by 77star: 1:25am On Jul 15, 2021
Pearlman:
A woman once accused me of molesting her 10 year old daughter who was my student. She suspected the girl was violated. When she called in to accuse me, I told her to stop the April Fool joke. I advised her to investigate very well. That if the girl was messed with, the violator may still be watching to do worse. On investigating, we discovered that nobody violated the girl. She had discharge as a result of puberty!
I will use dis as a proof

I'm going to show this to al Amin

AL Amin younger sister was thirteen years, I used to teach her and her younger ones

The day she started menstruating, she showed her young mum

Her young mum asked her what was wrong,
She said, I was the cause,
How? She couldn't explain

Al Amin was around 15 yrs then, he just told his mum to disregard his sister idea that I can't do it.

Only for me to come the following day,
and met story.

Alright, I told the woman to call out her daughter, na so I asked her "aside from teaching you, have I ever touched you befor?"

She no fit talk, I asked her again "ur mummy say blood dey flow from your private part and u say na me cause am, did I ever play any foul or rough play with you?"

No answer,

Na so al Amin say "mummy shey mio ti sor fun yin?"

Like two or three days to dat time, her mum discovered she has started menstruating.

Following week, them pay me my lesson fee and I told them I no dey do lesson again,

Her mum started begging, that she was just trying to protect her, that she's the only female among the males,

That even when the incident happened al Amin said it was a lie, that I can never do such a thing.

Her mum said I should continue the tutorial with them.

For where?
I no gree o

But since that day, my respect for al Amin increased.

Al Amin may God bless you wherever you are.

I saw their mum two years after, she greeted me, I responded well to her greetings, before she could say 'A'

I reminded her of the incident that I never forget am o, that it would live with me for the rest of my life, she no even fit say anything.

Na so we both go our separate ways.

God bless you al Amin

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Re: Have You Ever Been Accused Wrongly? Share Your Experience! by my3name(m): 1:31am On Jul 15, 2021
[quote author=Ausval post=103702716]You wan chop witch money grin grin ..I go call you for night ooo[/quote
grin grin
call I go come
as far as una dey pay well
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Re: Have You Ever Been Accused Wrongly? Share Your Experience! by sharrp: 1:53am On Jul 15, 2021
Happened to me in primary one . You know all those childhood love something . So there was this girl in my hood that I and some other dudes liked . Normal children love . So one day she was crying and I went to clean her tears with my hands and she stopped crying which made me happy . Mind you , my school was a government school and we had people twice my age in our class that were struggling academically. So I told the entire boys in the class how the a girl in my hood was crying and I cleaned her tears . The oldest guy amongst us in class went ahead and told the teacher I said a girl was crying because I raped her . I did not know what rape meant at that time neither did 90% of the class . The teacher called me out and asked if the girl was crying and I raped her , Mumu me that don’t know the meaning of rape said yes . The teacher asked the class if it was what I said , the innocent class thought that “rape” is another word for cleaning tears , they all said yes and agreed to the fact that I said that . Omor teacher flog me ruthlessly and asked me to bring my parent to school .

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Re: Have You Ever Been Accused Wrongly? Share Your Experience! by DeAlphaMale(m): 3:31am On Jul 15, 2021
IDK if mine is a misconception or accusation
But most people would tell me I'm a playboy
Re: Have You Ever Been Accused Wrongly? Share Your Experience! by Hausa(m): 5:54am On Jul 15, 2021
asamfem:


At the mention of SUB and the way the case was handled, I knew it's OAU
Likewise.
Re: Have You Ever Been Accused Wrongly? Share Your Experience! by NewDelhi(m): 7:10am On Jul 15, 2021
IAMPEDRO:
Oh.... that faithful day! far back 2014 if I can remember, A day I am trying to forget.
I visited my big bro and decided to stay through the night bcs it was too late for me to go back to my apartment. We slept and woke up very early and I just had to return to my apartment. As I was about to enter my apartment a guy called me by my real name, I turned around to look and I saw this body build guy, he was one of the guy I saw that evening before I entered my brother's room.

Bro good morning I said, he then replied. They said I should call you, I assumed he wasn't referring to me, when he said it again I realized i am the person he was referring to. I then asked what's happening, he said a cellphone is missing that they said I was the person who first left the apartment, I said yes I think I first left but didn't pick what's not mine.

For me, I hate stealing and I don't make close friends with people I don't trust, I immediately followed him. "Clear conscience fears no accusations" however I hate to be looked upon as a "thief " getting there, there is this other guy that was like, "make una ask this boy well, I dey see am for game house well well" I was about to reply him when another spirit said just keep shut, i obeyed. Then I looked and also saw this other guy that was with us in the same room that night, he was crying and saying oh phone wey I starve myself for oh which kind thing be this. I noticed that he owns the stolen phone and I felt his pain.

The next thing I saw was one man that presented a concoction and he said if I know that I stole the phone I shouldn't drink from the concoction bcs if drink my tongue will begin to pull out but if I did not nothing will happen to me.
I was like, I didn't take any phone so I won't drink from that unknown concoction. I will not drink oh I said. They all said, that means I stole the phone because I am the only one remaining, every other person here had taken a sip from the concoction. I called my big bro to ask him some few questions, he said he had also be given that concoction that I shouldn't be afraid of anything. I came back and I drank from it. Tho I was afraid, after drinking they all were watching expecting me to start manifesting. What was inside me was way bigger.
Only God knows what I drank that day. God have mercy on me.

Accusing people is demonic.
So a group of hoodlums gave you an unknown substance to drink and you obliged.

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Re: Have You Ever Been Accused Wrongly? Share Your Experience! by Dagger111(m): 7:17am On Jul 15, 2021
Juicewrld27:
after them go dey rush carburator cleaner to maintain an erection

Lolz
Re: Have You Ever Been Accused Wrongly? Share Your Experience! by Dagger111(m): 7:19am On Jul 15, 2021
Remmybaby:
Yes my former brother in law Peter onokebhagbe posted to all my friends on face book that I used juju to marry their brother and what pained me most was I never saw the post untill after my marriage because I would have dis continued with the marriage this spread so fast that even my mother inlaw believed him because he is her son and inconcate the belief into my husband even now any little misunderstanding my husband will always tell me that he would have listened to his family it got so bad that in a marriage of
4yrs I can not account a moment of happiness
because of someone reckless talk, now I made
up my mind to quit the marriage because I
can not convince the family but I have told my
God that except I used juju like he said that is
the only way that guys life will be settled
honestly my case got so worst that I started
thinking of suicide as an option . I have told myself I will broadcast this issue with his name boldly spelt on social media until any one that knows him starts calling him, for 4yrs I have been in pains and he thinks that God is asleep


Sorry ma.
Re: Have You Ever Been Accused Wrongly? Share Your Experience! by NewDelhi(m): 7:23am On Jul 15, 2021
Person wey go falsely accuse me of anything na jonzing levels he dey o coz we go chook ourselves knives ni.. why you go accuse me of weytin I no do oboy I dey quick vex o. One of us go die that day.

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Re: Have You Ever Been Accused Wrongly? Share Your Experience! by temitope23(m): 7:38am On Jul 15, 2021
Orlaoluwayimika:

Yeah

2016/2017 graduating set?
Re: Have You Ever Been Accused Wrongly? Share Your Experience! by 9Stamp(f): 8:05am On Jul 15, 2021
Was accused of spoiling tv
Re: Have You Ever Been Accused Wrongly? Share Your Experience! by rita25(f): 8:52am On Jul 15, 2021
I SWEAR E NO ENTER THE BAGS SEF WERE WRAPPED I DIDNT KNOW THE CONTENT.
Juicewrld27:
but talk true the china bag been dey enter your eye?
Re: Have You Ever Been Accused Wrongly? Share Your Experience! by laborious(m): 9:14am On Jul 15, 2021
I had a very tough childhood sha

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Re: Have You Ever Been Accused Wrongly? Share Your Experience! by Eastcoastboy(m): 9:21am On Jul 15, 2021
Thermodynamics:


Who be this sisi nigga?
slawormiir don trun celebrity for your eye ni
You sound like a simp.

Your head dey lick. You have comprehension issues. Getat you nitwit.
Re: Have You Ever Been Accused Wrongly? Share Your Experience! by Realhommie(m): 10:50am On Jul 15, 2021
Ausval:
Yes ooooo

My aunty carry me go church for family prayers ...Na so the pastor accused me say I be witch and that I used to fly at night ..I was shocked can I be a witch and I don't know ??

Na so the man begin dey fire prayer ,they press my neck they blow my chest say i must confess

Before I knew it my aunty don join am before I open my eyes all of them don hold broom

The pastor Begin they tell my aunty to flog her way to breakthrough ..na so beating start for me ooo..see flog see broom

Omo I jejely confessed ooo say I be witch and na me be the cause of all the problem ,before these people go use broom end my young life

I come even begin to dey make cat sound mew mew mew mew ooo so that them go believe and leave me as all my back don already dey bleed

Na so dem free me ..I run for my life go back go meet my mama for village

But guessed what ?...the witch is a big boy now and all his family is extremely proud of him

Also my aunty now want her first son to come live with the witch so that the witch can send him to school .
This is damn hilarious, Hahahaha. You get mind confess to wetin you no be not minding the stigma that will follow. Chaiiiii

I for endure the pain than to admit wetin i no be ooooo. God help us.
Re: Have You Ever Been Accused Wrongly? Share Your Experience! by IAMPEDRO: 11:09am On Jul 15, 2021
NewDelhi:

So a group of hoodlums gave you an unknown substance to drink and you obliged.
No sir, At first I never wanted to take it but they were already concluding in their different mind that I stole the cellphone.
Have you been accused before? Or have you been in a place where someone is complaining about a missing phone/anything.
They weren't hoodlums sir, just like a gathering of friends. If you were to be me what would you have done?
Good morning.

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Re: Have You Ever Been Accused Wrongly? Share Your Experience! by planetGlo(m): 11:21am On Jul 15, 2021
i remembered when i was in Jss class there is this woman in my area that begged me to always head her bring her some son back from school whenever i am coming back i agreed; i was happy doing it even atimes spent my money buying things for him. so one day i discovered that that the woman was acting somehow i tried to find out what happened so i was accused by her that i do eat the boys food any time they gave him food to school. i was really pained because that very time my mum owns a restuarant that she is aware so she wont possibly say i was hungry. i was so pained that time because i was doing everything about the boy with my mind.

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