Good evening familands,I have this issue that has been eating me up,so I decided to lay the issue on the floor of the house so we could walk on it.the question before us is simple.should guy have a back up girl for marriage? .you can call it side chick .the reason I want to discuss this issue is this.looking at our society today many guys have got mad just of one girl.in my case I have a bestie (girl)she said"she will get married to any guy that is ready and the said lady has a serious man in her life.

Not necessary.
Only an unfaithful Man/woman keep a backup partner.

In Nigeria? No need just have back up money.....

Deep Quote
Money answereth all things.


@Seniorwriter

" Side chick" for a married man to be then your wife to be should have a bestie too

Why having a backup bae... if ur bestie is trustworthy

Should a girl have a backup too? Coz what's good for the goose is good for the gander.

Abfinest007:
Good evening familands,I have this issue that has been eating me up,so I decided to lay the issue on the floor of the house so we could walk on it.the question before us is simple.

you are very confused, to say the least.... the important questions you need to ask yourself is A) why do you want to get married and B) do you wanna get married to just about anybody out there?

should guy have a back up girl for marriage?

if you go into marriage for the RIGHT reason then the answer to the above question is NO
if you go into this marriage thing with the RIGHT woman then the answer to the above question is NO

you can call it side chick .the reason I want to discuss this issue is this.looking at our society today many guys have got mad just of one girl. in my case I have a bestie (girl)she said"she will get married to any guy that is ready and the said lady has a serious man in her life.

just because there are useless good for nothing disrespectful untrustworthy worthless people out there, doesnt mean you should change your life to become one of them.... instead be more careful of the people you allow in your life. ET VOILA!

Women in most cases always keep their options open. You as a man should have other options too because a man without options is a man without power.

If you have multiple cars, you can easily swap them when one breaks down or stops working. But if you only invest all your savings on a particular car and it broke down, you can imagine the trauma you'll pass through.

And besides, women love competition. If you treat a woman like she's the only girl in your life, she will treat you as one of many options in her life.

TheUndercover:
Women in most cases always keep their options open. You as a man should have other options too because a man without options is a man without power.

If you have multiple cars, you can easily swap them when one breaks down or stops working. But if you only invested all your savings in a particular car and it broke down, you can imagine the trauma you'll pass through.

And besides, women love competition. If you treat a woman like she's the only girl in your life, she will treat you as one of many options in her life.

not all tho. We still have faithful Ladies..

Abfinest007:
Good evening familands,I have this issue that has been eating me up,so I decided to lay the issue on the floor of the house so we could walk on it.the question before us is simple.should guy have a back up girl for marriage? .you can call it side chick .the reason I want to discuss this issue is this.looking at our society today many guys have got mad just of one girl.in my case I have a bestie (girl)she said"she will get married to any guy that is ready and the said lady has a serious man in her life.

no