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Re: Wild, Crazy Things You Did For Love by Hiq0: 6:23pm On Feb 01
Good
Re: Wild, Crazy Things You Did For Love by Hanks0000(m): 6:41pm On Feb 01
Never been in a relationship.. ah.
I'm in my mid 20's but I'm too scared to even try .. I'm traumatised.
Re: Wild, Crazy Things You Did For Love by SirMichael1: 6:42pm On Feb 01
HRSweetness:


Hahahaha. Awww.

Who/what is a conversationalist?? Couple of pages back, and you two were going back and forth with one of you springing up the 'conversationalist' word.

What does it mean?

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Re: Wild, Crazy Things You Did For Love by SirMichael1: 6:44pm On Feb 01
Hanks0000:
Never been in a relationship.. ah.
I'm in my mid 20's but I'm too scared to even try .. I'm traumatised.
Traumatized? Do you even know what that means?

How can you be traumatized when you haven't tried something out? Do you mean you have phobia for relationships or what exactly?
Re: Wild, Crazy Things You Did For Love by Hanks0000(m): 6:47pm On Feb 01
Teeyin:
There is dis babe i met while working in an eatry(chicken republic)i fall for dis bae no bi small, later got to know my operational manager is also interested in d same girl...She carried me along with the way my OPS as been frustratin her life with queries,and she brought the idea of resigning from the job but i told her am a man i should be the one resigning not her.

Wowwwww
Re: Wild, Crazy Things You Did For Love by Hanks0000(m): 6:56pm On Feb 01
SirMichael1:
Traumatized? Do you even know what that means?

How can you be traumatized when you haven't tried something out? Do you mean you have phobia for relationships or what exactly?

Childhood trauma deposited so much into my life..
My mentality and reservations about love and emotion is different..
I'm philophobic, introverted, shy, sociopath, I even sound like a girl (puberphinia <not part of my truama tho>wink. To summarise it all, I have CPTSD.

So yeah, I know what traumatised means.

I'm tall, good looking and a bit muscular, in fact many girls like me but I'm too scared to try relationship....

This is a screenshot of what a lady sent to me...

Re: Wild, Crazy Things You Did For Love by HRSweetness(f): 6:57pm On Feb 01
SirMichael1:


Who/what is a conversationalist?? Couple of pages back, and you two were going back and forth with one of you springing up the 'conversationalist' word.

What does it mean?

"Conversationalist". Someone who is good at making conversation.
Re: Wild, Crazy Things You Did For Love by Hanks0000(m): 6:58pm On Feb 01
victoriareal:
I knew he was sick but stayed with him, very crazy.

Mentally, or physically?
Re: Wild, Crazy Things You Did For Love by HRSweetness(f): 7:00pm On Feb 01
Hanks0000:


Childhood trauma deposited so much into my life..
My mentality and reservations about love and emotion is different..
I'm philophobic, introverted, shy, sociopath, I even sound like a girl (puberphinia <not part of my truama tho>wink. To summarise it all, I have CPTSD.

So yeah, I know what traumatised means.

I'm tall, good looking and a bit muscular, in fact many girls like me but I'm too scared to try relationship....

This is a screenshot of what a lady sent to me...

Wow. Were you diagnosed by a psychiatrist?
Re: Wild, Crazy Things You Did For Love by MufasaLion: 7:07pm On Feb 01
Brownygold002:
I skipped JAMB to travel to Abuja just to be with him for his birthday only to meet him seriously bleeping one OLOSHO In his car. The tears wey commot from my eyes ehn... E fit boil beans. Gave him the insult of his life thou. He tried begging me that it was a mistake, buh I slapped him thunderously and walked out of the house.

You missed that year's admission, right?
Re: Wild, Crazy Things You Did For Love by MufasaLion: 7:11pm On Feb 01
Girls have done many crazy shit for me. I've been a lucky dude all my life.
Re: Wild, Crazy Things You Did For Love by Hanks0000(m): 7:15pm On Feb 01
HRSweetness:


Wow. Were you diagnosed by a psychiatrist?

Well, not yet but I'm gonna meet a psychiatrist or a therapist but I have tried several self-assessments for PTSD online..

I have bonded with my truamas so much I can't let 'em go..
Re: Wild, Crazy Things You Did For Love by SirMichael1: 7:16pm On Feb 01
HRSweetness:


"Conversationalist". Someone who is good at making conversation.

Oh, that 'conversationalist' was what you meant? I had figured you meant something else when you guys were on about LinkedIn and Twitter.
Re: Wild, Crazy Things You Did For Love by iamL(f): 7:18pm On Feb 01
I won't call it crazy or wild but stupid.

Turned down marriage proposals because of him. Not that we were even dating we were just getting to know each other and he was my kind of man.
Re: Wild, Crazy Things You Did For Love by SirMichael1: 7:30pm On Feb 01
Hanks0000:


Childhood trauma deposited so much into my life..
My mentality and reservations about love and emotion is different..
I'm philophobic, introverted, shy, sociopath, I even sound like a girl (puberphinia <not part of my truama tho>wink. To summarise it all, I have CPTSD.

So yeah, I know what traumatised means.

I'm tall, good looking and a bit muscular, in fact many girls like me but I'm too scared to try relationship....

This is a screenshot of what a lady sent to me...

Lol. All these descriptions doesn't mean you're suffering from any trauma. As a matter of fact, I believe you're just plagued. Plagued by your fears but not traumatized.

Besides, I don't think you were diagnosed by a therapist so how can you say that about yourself. Futhermore, it might be you just have a very poor image about yourself which made you have low self esteem, which lead to you feeling so antisocial and always out of place in any social gathering. Like you just want the gathering to end so you can just run home.

I perceive you're in your late teens or early twenties and that is normal for a phelgmatic.

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Re: Wild, Crazy Things You Did For Love by HRSweetness(f): 7:30pm On Feb 01
SirMichael1:


Oh, that 'conversationalist' was what you meant? I had figured you meant something else when you guys were on about LinkedIn and Twitter.

LOL. Yes, that "Conversationalist". You keep referring to our conversation like some yapping sound that bore you, when in reality, you found it more entertaining than anything you've seen on Netflix.
Re: Wild, Crazy Things You Did For Love by SirMichael1: 7:31pm On Feb 01
iamL:
I won't call it crazy or wild but stupid.

Turned down marriage proposals because of him. Not that we were even dating we were just getting to know each other and he was my kind of man.

So were you his kind of woman? Meaning, did you guys ended up together?
Re: Wild, Crazy Things You Did For Love by Hanks0000(m): 7:32pm On Feb 01
SirMichael1:


Lol. All these descriptions doesn't mean you're suffering from any trauma. As a matter of fact, I believe you're just plagued. Plagued by your fears but not traumatized.

Besides, I don't think you were diagnosed by a therapist so how can you say that about yourself. Futhermore, it might be you just have a very poor image about yourself which made you have low self esteem, which lead to you feeling so antisocial and always out of place in any social gathering. Like you just want the gathering to end so you can just run home.

I perceive you're in your late teens or early twenties and that is normal for a phelgmatic.

Yeah. Growing up in an abusive family doesn't leave you traumatised.
I have taken several tests from several websites, I haven't met a psychiatrist yet cause it means I'm ready to take the necessary steps to become mentally well again, which I am so not ready for..
I'm in my mid 20s sir and I know me better than anyone except God tho.
Re: Wild, Crazy Things You Did For Love by HRSweetness(f): 7:33pm On Feb 01
Hanks0000:


Well, not yet but I'm gonna meet a psychiatrist or a therapist but I have tried several self-assessments for PTSD online..

I have bonded with my truamas so much I can't let 'em go..

You should see a Psychiatrist. Don't trivialize your mental health please.

Those diagnosis are pretty intense. You can't just accept diagnosis reached by self assessment.

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Re: Wild, Crazy Things You Did For Love by HRSweetness(f): 7:34pm On Feb 01
SirMichael1:


Lol. All these descriptions doesn't mean you're suffering from any trauma. As a matter of fact, I believe you're just plagued. Plagued by your fears but not traumatized.

Besides, I don't think you were diagnosed by a therapist so how can you say that about yourself. Futhermore, it might be you just have a very poor image about yourself which made you have low self esteem, which lead to you feeling so antisocial and always out of place in any social gathering. Like you just want the gathering to end so you can just run home.

I perceive you're in your late teens or early twenties and that is normal for a phelgmatic.

Hmm, brilliant submission.
Re: Wild, Crazy Things You Did For Love by SirMichael1: 7:36pm On Feb 01
HRSweetness:


LOL. Yes, that "Conversationalist". You keep referring to our conversation like some yapping sound that bore you, when in reality, you found it more entertaining than anything you've seen on Netflix.
Nah... I was actually entertained. As a matter of fact, the conversation was unique and that in itself made it intriguing.

I just want you to know that Ozark, Breaking bad and The Walking dead are on Netflix. What could beat those?
Re: Wild, Crazy Things You Did For Love by Hanks0000(m): 7:39pm On Feb 01
HRSweetness:


You should see a Psychiatrist. Don't trivialize your mental health please.

Those diagnosis are pretty intense. You can't just accept diagnosis reached by self assessment.

Alrighty..
Re: Wild, Crazy Things You Did For Love by shaneroberts26(m): 7:42pm On Feb 01
Bobmarie:
Lol. I have done too many crazy things and will continue do so in the name of love.
He has my brain in his palms. sad

Don't worry. You will learn the hard way.
Re: Wild, Crazy Things You Did For Love by iamL(f): 7:47pm On Feb 01
SirMichael1:


So were you his kind of woman? Meaning, did you guys ended up together?

He wanted us to but I fed him with his own medicine.
Re: Wild, Crazy Things You Did For Love by Nobody: 7:48pm On Feb 01
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I gained the admission buh thru anoda means. It's this year's.
Re: Wild, Crazy Things You Did For Love by HRSweetness(f): 7:49pm On Feb 01
SirMichael1:
Nah... I was actually entertained. As a matter of fact, the conversation was unique and that in itself made it intriguing.

I just want you to know that Ozark, Breaking bad and The Walking dead are on Netflix. What could beat those?

I could tell you one thing that could beat all of those combined, but I'd rather not. tongue
Re: Wild, Crazy Things You Did For Love by SirMichael1: 7:49pm On Feb 01
Hanks0000:


Yeah. Growing up in an abusive family doesn't leave you traumatised.
I have taken several tests from several websites, I haven't met a psychiatrist yet cause it means I'm ready to take the necessary steps to become mentally well again, which I am so not ready for..
I'm in my mid 20s sir and I know me better than anyone except God tho.

Oh... Abusive family. Well that settles it! Then again, you don't have to it make part of you anymore. The trauma you developed was your body's way of handling all those hurts, pains and abuse that were meted to you. Now I believe the abuse went on for so long that you lost yourself but it doesn't have to be like that anymore. If you've left the environment, you can start healing. You can start rewiring your neuro-pathways. Consciously form a new way of seeing yourself by projecting new images in your head and negating the bad ones.

I'm .... but I've being through some bad shiit myself, maybe even worse, I remembered being depressed, wishing to be loved and
most times, not wanting to continue anymore. Hahaha. I'm not there yet and I'm also not giving up.

Just try to keep your circle right and filled with positive energy. You'll be fine.

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Re: Wild, Crazy Things You Did For Love by shaneroberts26(m): 7:54pm On Feb 01
Oovi5:
Stole my Dad's money to buy him wrist watch on his birthday.
I was seriously dealt with by my Dad when i got back home

grin grin. grin
Re: Wild, Crazy Things You Did For Love by SirMichael1: 7:54pm On Feb 01
iamL:


He wanted us to but I fed him with his own medicine.

Lol. Medicine? Rejecting marriage proposals? Crazy things you did for love? Pheew...

So in essence, you guys didn't end up? He probably led you on only to lead you far enough not to continue and also not to return. Maybe I see why you made him take his medicine. grin

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Re: Wild, Crazy Things You Did For Love by SirMichael1: 7:59pm On Feb 01
HRSweetness:


I could tell you one thing that could beat all of those combined, but I'd rather not. tongue


Was this an attempt to pique my curiosity and make me inquire continually over what could? Haha.

You did already but I understand why you did. You probably haven't seen those series.

Be fine little one. wink
Re: Wild, Crazy Things You Did For Love by Hanks0000(m): 8:12pm On Feb 01
SirMichael1:


Oh... Abusive family. Well that settles it! Then again, you don't have to it make part of you anymore. The trauma you developed was your body's way of handling all those hurts, pains and abuse that were meted to you. Now I believe the abuse went on for so long that you lost yourself but it doesn't have to be like that anymore. If you've left the environment, you can start healing. You can start rewiring your neuro-pathways. Consciously form a new way of seeing yourself by projecting new images in your head and negating the bad ones.

I'm 26 but I've being through some bad shiit myself, maybe even worse, I remembered being depressed, wishing to be loved and
most times, not wanting to continue anymore. Hahaha. I'm not there yet and I'm also not giving up.

Just try to keep your circle right and filled with positive energy. You'll be fine.

It's just very hard to move on, moving on means letting go of everything and forgetting the experiences that made me the person I'm today.. Its so hard on my liver, It went on from my childhood up untill now. Although I'm not in the environment anymore, I live alone now.

It's not like I am actually scared to fall in love, I'm just scared It'll be too toxic for my significant other that she's gonna cut me off and I'm a pretty sentimental person. It's hard for me to let go of someone I'm already very used to so it's better to keep my potential partners at arms length. I just want the easy way out.

Thanks for being patient too even though I sounded rude earlier...
I have just been through so much that it feels like no one can truly now what I've been through and they all just assume that they do.

Maybe someday I'll stop being pessimistic and give it a try..
Re: Wild, Crazy Things You Did For Love by Nobody: 9:05pm On Feb 01
shaneroberts26:


Don't worry. You will learn the hard way.
Project your trauma elsewhere.
I’m always in control of my environment, mentally.

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