Cousin9999:


A boarding school gives tons of perverts easy access to your child. That doesn't reflect the real world where those same deviants have to deal with a host of protections. It doesn't reflect the real world in any other viable way unless you're referring to prison.

Different categories of boarding schools don't actually exist because whether it's a cheap facility or 50K USD a year school, the child will still be in an environment that does not support healthy growth and development, and does leave them very vulnerable to abuse.

silibaba:
Please OP, don't ever conceive sending your children to boarding, I beg you. No one can discipline your child/ren than yourself.

Most of them in the boarding are lesbian and gay am telling you the gospel truth.

A word is enough for a wise.


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SUPERPACK:
Missionary boarding school, Why? It builds the mind and teach students how to survive on their own without their parents and also the moral upbringing attached to such schools. If I am to go back in age I will still choose a boarding school again. Though it was hard but was also fun.
Social life/effect; It made me so independent that I find it hard to associate with people, I can literally live in a whole town only me without seeing a human and wont even feel the need to see any.

silibaba:
Please OP, don't ever conceive sending your children to boarding, I beg you. No one can discipline your child/ren than yourself.

Most of them in the boarding are lesbian and gay am telling you the gospel truth.

A word is enough for a wise.


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pafra:


Na wa for you ooo.
Did you say different categories of boarding school don't exist?
Learn to humble yourself and format your mind.

Since you hold strong to your beliefs peace.

SUPERPACK:
It made me so independent that I find it hard to associate with people, I can literally live in a whole town only me without seeing a human and wont even feel the need to see any.

SUPERPACK:
Missionary boarding school, Why? It builds the mind and teach students how to survive on their own without their parents and also the moral upbringing attached to such schools. If I am to go back in age I will still choose a boarding school again. Though it was hard but was also fun.
Social life/effect; It made me so independent that I find it hard to associate with people, I can literally live in a whole town only me without seeing a human and wont even feel the need to see any.

akpokpo:


The school damaged you. I also have the same problem. I find it hard to associate with my siblings and people in general. I find it hard to approach women. I be soapy lord before. All thanks to boarding school.

My children will never go to boarding school

hakym619:


You're a bastard

Cousin9999:


Has it ever occurred to you that this mentality may be unhealthy or the result of abuse?

Don't get me wrong. If that's your personality, it's okay. But people generally are not like this unless something is wrong.

afroxyz:
No wonder we have 30 year olds still living with their parents. Many people atill want to breastfeed their chikdrwn in the name of grooming.

silibaba:
that was then. you attended boarding when there was still a little bit of sanity in the world.

take what I say or jump and pass

the world today is something else now my brother. boarding school is a no for me now from information I have been getting from people with experiences.

how would you bring a child to this world and want someone else to train him or her for you? you have failed that child already.

SUPERPACK:
Yes. Each student is assigned a teacher as a guardian that oversees their welfare, not on one to one basis but one teacher to 10 or 15 students. Should you have any issue with fellow students, seniors or teacher you are to report to them first and they take up the case. They are just like your parents in school.

BlackSan:


Ah jeez I can't believe you just said this lol
From being assigned one guardian per student to a group of students per teacher.
Sigh... You are Wrong!!!
I don't know how you came up with this assumption, not all students get assigned to teacher.
Next..

afroxyz:


What perverts? So they wont meet these perverts in college or in their places of work? Perversion that is even shown in movies and phones in the name of wokeness.

is it everychild that goes to boarding school that becomes a pervert? What dis those parents do differently that their children did not turn perverts?

So the best way to prepare ur child for the world is by hiding him from the reality of life and its challenges? You should train your child to hold his head high among his peers not run from challenges

BlackSan:



Now this is where you have it all wrong, Just because it is a missionary boarding school or it has been around for a long time doesn't mean, they won't be cultist or homosexual students among them.

If you are going to give a good fact, do so with your experience and not a glorified propaganda.

silibaba:
Please OP, don't ever conceive sending your children to boarding, I beg you. No one can discipline your child/ren than yourself.

Most of them in the boarding are lesbian and gay am telling you the gospel truth.

A word is enough for a wise.


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Cousin9999:


Day school is not in the home. Don't be silly. And an adult going out into the world is in no way the same as a small child or even a teen. Again, don't be silly.

At no point did I suggest "hiding" the child from anything. What I stated very clearly multiple times is that a boarding school offers your child to abusers on a silver platter. Your job as a parent, among many things, is to protect your child. Even if the child is an adult, if some creep threatens them, you should be ready to f*** them up. But that's another matter. The bottom line is a child gets better development and education in a day school.

BlackSan:


I don't think people's sexual orientation is because of their environment but I may be wrong.
During my boarding school days, four girls were caught and caned but they still continued

SUPERPACK:
Speak for your school.

afroxyz:


Stop leaving in a fool's paradise. Who told you that you would know your child well if he is a day student? So people do not pick vices when they finish from secondary school?

I'm very sure you would send your child abroad to get an education despite the fact that drugs, homosexuality and gangs are ravaging kids there. Why dont you tell him to remain in Nigeria so that you can monitor him?

You want to breastfeed your child and expect him to turn out a well rounded adult without entitlement mentality.

Do your job as a parent and train him on what to expect from life's challenges and how to respond to them. Train your child to be an adult not to remain a child.

SUPERPACK:
don't mind the guy you quoted, he is now concluding that most students in boarding are lesbians and gay due to isolated instances he might have come across. I have also seen day students with same gay dispositions.

Bigredmachine:
Boarding school is better because... Going to the boarding school was the best decision I made after primary school... Even though I cried on that first day I was going

Flamemignon1:

Environment plays a huge role in sexual orientation development. It's the core of the "born this way" trope

Cousin9999:


Nothing you're saying relates to any of my points.



Again, nothing you're saying relates to any of my points.



Again, there's no relationship between anything I've said and what you're saying.



Sending your child to boarding school is essentially abandoning your duties as a parent. Someone else is "training" your child. Not you.

afroxyz:


Whi told you that it is only the parents duty to train a child? So you have not heard of agents of socialization? The home front provides the foundation for training and prepares him for life. Why dont you home school your child or conduct church services at home because you dont want to negate your responsibility as a parent. Most probably you would even marry a wife for him.