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Re: I Want To Marry At Last. by Nobody: 8:59pm On Jul 23, 2021 |
Crossalpha: Leave this one for the good guys, abeg. You can choose between the other two. 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Marry At Last. by ImaIma1(f): 10:03pm On Jul 23, 2021 |
Whatever you do, please leave that 20 year old girl alone. Don't use all your baggage to mess up her young life. She as a virgin will now end up with you that have over used yourself. Please release her. 3 Likes |
Re: I Want To Marry At Last. by Crossalpha: 8:42am On Jul 24, 2021 |
LadyRosa: It's funny how you and others be forming saints on this thread Is it not the same society we all leave in? Many teenagers cohabit all the time in relationships. What is a taboo in my place is killing of innocent unborn children . I will rather have a mother who will threathen to curse me if I terminate a pregnancy than a mother who have aborted many pregnancies for her daughters. That many are cool with abortions doesn't mean people who don't do it are poorly brought up, don't you ever cast aspersions on our parents cos they never failed in any of their responsibilities. Children out of wedlock is not a curse or a result of bad parenting Many families started this way, I pray every day to have a very tiny logical reason why I should wife Janet. 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Marry At Last. by Crossalpha: 8:54am On Jul 24, 2021 |
ImaIma1:Oh, really? Well, she's number 3 and last in my list for a reason. Someone with cognitive reasoning should see that. Her inexperience, age, lovey dovey mentality and seeing relationships in real life like in the movies are all turn offs for me. |
Re: I Want To Marry At Last. by FatherCHRISTMAS: 8:58am On Jul 24, 2021 |
Op be patient and wait till 50 since you don't Know what you want and which to chose |
Re: I Want To Marry At Last. by ImaIma1(f): 9:05am On Jul 24, 2021 |
Crossalpha: Good. And I wonder why number 1 is even an option with everything she has done. 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Marry At Last. by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 10:24am On Jul 24, 2021 |
ImaIma1: Why will such a young girl even be interested in dating a man with 2 kids and 18 years her senior.And her mother sees nothing wrong with it 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Marry At Last. by JovialJune(f): 10:25am On Jul 24, 2021 |
ImaIma1: She is his baby mama, he has to consider her first lol, two dysfunctional people, if she narrates her own side of the story, I bet hers will be much worse, they fit each other. 2 Likes |
Re: I Want To Marry At Last. by Nonexisting1: 10:31am On Jul 24, 2021 |
The first two are daughters of Jezebel, flee from them. That the first one is the mother of your children doesn't change a thing. She will kill you with pestle and those boys will grow without their father, is that what you want? The last one I wanted to consider but being that she is yet to enter universex-ty, flee from her as well because the premium heartbreak you will suffer later, even satan will weep for you. 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Marry At Last. by ImaIma1(f): 11:06am On Jul 24, 2021 |
JovialJune: I guess so. His baggage is too much. |
Re: I Want To Marry At Last. by luvmijeje(f): 11:18am On Jul 24, 2021 |
At 38yrs, you still don't know what you want from life. If you are here asking question then you are not ready for marriage. I am on my two knees, please and please don't get married to any of them. You will end up making their life miserable. Continue doing side chick with them. When you meet someone that's yours, you will physically, emotionally and spiritually know. You won't mind her flaws. Her strengths will only confirm what you know deep within you. There will be no room for doubt. |
Re: I Want To Marry At Last. by nuelyoyo(m): 12:20pm On Jul 24, 2021 |
Ladyhippolyta88:Poverty. |
Re: I Want To Marry At Last. by Crossalpha: 12:31pm On Jul 24, 2021 |
JovialJune:I've tried to remain civil the best I can on this thread but don't push it. Don't make me believe that you lots deserve the debasing you get in this forum. 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Marry At Last. by Crossalpha: 12:36pm On Jul 24, 2021 |
ImaIma1:She is an option because she's not married, she's the mother of my kids. Like I said before, if I find a very tiny logical reason to get married to her I will. |
Re: I Want To Marry At Last. by Crossalpha: 12:41pm On Jul 24, 2021 |
luvmijeje:The day a man stops to learn is the day he starts to die. I only brought this hear to seek other people's opinions and I've gotten intelligent responses from many. You can never know it all in life. |
Re: I Want To Marry At Last. by realtalk19: 12:43pm On Jul 24, 2021 |
Crossalpha: Cynthia looks like a good option |
Re: I Want To Marry At Last. by Crossalpha: 1:05pm On Jul 24, 2021 |
realtalk19:Thanks. |
Re: I Want To Marry At Last. by luvmijeje(f): 1:12pm On Jul 24, 2021 |
Crossalpha: Okay o. But you can't learn who to get married to. My choice can never be your choice. And most importantly those advising you will not live with the woman they are advising you to choose. Marriage is a personal decision. |
Re: I Want To Marry At Last. by LadyRosa(f): 4:22pm On Jul 24, 2021 |
Crossalpha: Bad parenting is a factor as well as peer groups as well. I'm not casting aspersions, I'm totally against having children out of wedlock, it's so alien to me. I'm not a righteous person and abortion still remains a sin no matter what! My only focus is on having kids raised by single parents who ought to put heads together to create a complete nuclear home. Still, it's your call. She made her bed, so she must lie on it. Lesson to ladies who pride themselves in living married when actually single. 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Marry At Last. by JovialJune(f): 4:26pm On Jul 24, 2021 |
Crossalpha: Believe na, who cares, what is the difference between you and the dings here who say all sort of rubbish about women, you made a lady a baby mama, after living with you for 17years, you had the temerity to name her as an option, painting her in bad light to be seen as a terrible person, imagine saying all hell let loose when your mum and aunt got involved in the little disagreement, I'm pretty sure your mum and aunt beat her blue black, that's why she pressed charges and jail your mum, but you choose not tell us that one, nonsense, you kept someone for 17 years without putting a ring on it and expect her to be all nice and floffy, na she be the mumu wey stay with you all this years na, I said what I said and I will say more if need be, you can go off yourself if you dont like it, rubbish. 3 Likes |
Re: I Want To Marry At Last. by Crossalpha: 5:04pm On Jul 24, 2021 |
JovialJune: Seen, can you now direct your frustrations and emotions to the appropriate quarters. |
Re: I Want To Marry At Last. by JovialJune(f): 5:06pm On Jul 24, 2021 |
Crossalpha: Nsidime 3 Likes |
Re: I Want To Marry At Last. by Ishilove: 5:32pm On Jul 24, 2021 |
Crossalpha:Oga stop trying to make yourself feel good. We don't have to be saints to point out that your lifestyle is very unpalatable. I hope you know teenage is 13-19? Since when?? 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Marry At Last. by Slimdan360: 5:55pm On Jul 24, 2021 |
JovialJune:Aunty calm down and for once try not to bring ur feminism bullshit here, someone who can jail another woman that has given birth to a son who is up to 38yrs ain't worthy of getting affection from any body I blame the op for one reason,how did he manage to birth kids with that woman even after seeing all these things Well, what is done is done but my advice for the op is that he should never get married to anyone out of pity,cos even if the marriage ends up being Rosy,once in a while,regrets will definitely set in and he won't be able to progress much in life I hope all the Nairaland Playboys and redpillers learn something from ops story,imagine if the op channeled his energy into looking for someone who matches him rather than searching for sex,it would have been alot easier making marriage decisions,but look at the options he conjured up there,none of the ladies are worthy of being getting married to Janet is a fucking single mother and when the time comes for her to choose between her child and the op, trust me her child will always come first Queen is fucking 20yrs old,even if they successfully get married, with time she will control the op cause his strength will be long gone when she start getting hers and damn,it won't be easy on the op when that time comes In conclusion op,u have made a mistake that cannot be corrected and I got no advise to give you |
Re: I Want To Marry At Last. by JovialJune(f): 6:36pm On Jul 24, 2021 |
[s] Slimdan360:[/s] In a rush to quote me and as usual, yapp about a movement that has nothing to do with your life's problem, you did not see where I also castigated the lady, instead, mentioning feminism makes your existence okay and comment sensible abi? Las las you no get any drop of sense, don't ever quote me again if you have nothing sensible to spill, do you understand? 2 Likes |
Re: I Want To Marry At Last. by Crossalpha: 7:44pm On Jul 24, 2021 |
Ishilove:I definitely don't need anyone's approval to " to feel good" about myself. I have done really well for myself in life. 1 or 2 mistakes or missteps is not enough to make me feel bad about myself. Life happened to me just like anyone else,we all have our unique stories to tell. Before you judge someone you must have walked in the person's shoes which is not possible. As for cohibitation, I went to school in this country and I know how students will become couples in school while they are single at home, I know how teenage girls will travel from their school state to another state to live with a man for weeks even months, should I talk about what happens in PPA's during NYSC? He/she that is without blame should cast the first stone. BTW, the purpose of this thread is not to debate morality status. Thanks |
Re: I Want To Marry At Last. by Slimdan360: 7:59pm On Jul 24, 2021 |
JovialJune:What's causing your frustration ma'am? |
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