Love is the most powerful force on Earth. Some say that finding a genuine connection today is harder than ever, but that's no reason to give up trying. That is no reason to give up believing you deserve it.

Age is no more on the side of some people anymore and may keep wondering why no one has ever loved them even after experiencing countless number of relationship with the opposite sex.

So if you're asking yourself, will I ever find love? You must stop doing these five things first:

1. You have to stop looking for others to love you and instead LOVE YOURSELF FIRST.
In the search for real love, the very first step must be loving oneself first.

If you don't love the special being that you are, how can you expect anyone else to?

If you are looking for a true partner to share your life with, someone who will work with you and encourage you to live your best life, you have to treat yourself that way first.

When you are not at peace with who you are and you are constantly waiting for someone to fix you you, you will likely attract toxic people who are looking for someone to take advantage of.

Take the time to do the difficult self-work that makes you an attractive partner and will help you attract loving and respectful people into your life.

When you want someone else to do the heavy lifting for you, you will likely be disappointed with the caliber of people who enter your life.

When you know that you are a whole and complete person who is looking for a partner rather than a saviour, you are opening yourself up to attracting like-minded people who are also seeking someone to walk life with.

2. Stop Wearing Masks And Trying To Appear Perfect
True love will never find you if you aren't ready to reveal your TRUE SELF.

'False advertising' has never been higher that what we see today. Tinder, Facebook, Snapchat, Instagram are all, at times, authenticity killers. People seem more obsessed with appearing "perfect" than ever before.

If you want love, be yourself. Your RAW true, authentic self, flaws and all.

Learn to love who you are and stop hiding it from the world. One day someone will fall for who you are, not how you wish to be perceived.

If you're always wearing a mask, covering up your REAL SELF, how could anyone ever love you for who you are?

Real love can only come to those who are ready to reveal their REAL SELF. All the wrong people will always be available for the masked you..

Most people don't learn this until much later in life. So start expressing your true character today...

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3. Stop Expecting Someone To Be Something You Are Not Giving Back.
This is the concept of the Mirror. Most people aren't actively looking for pessimistic, lazy or uninspiring. You set the standard for the type of person you want in your life. If you want a particular type of person, you must mirror that quality.

If you want someone fit and healthy, you must be a mirror of that person.

If you want someone who always sees the positives in every situation? Mirror that mindset with your own outlook.

If you want someone with drive and ambition, ask yourself if you possess those characteristics.

Mirror the person you want and that connection will happen much more naturally.

4. Stop Hiding
Nothing will come to you in this life if you are hiding from it. Nothing will come if you are running scared.

If you want something, you're going to have to be brave and put yourself out there. If you don't put yourself out there, no one will be able to find you.

Network and go to places you can possibly meet your Mr right. Cheer up and be friendly with people around you.

Sure, this won't work for you EVERY time, but it will never work if you never put yourself out there.

5. Stop Holding On To Comfortable Habits That Are Holding You Back
There are a lot of habits that you know don't serve you well, but you've become comfortable with the perceived protection that they offer. Habits that you know aren't helpful in your quest to find true love, but you may be reluctant to give them up.

If you want to find love, you have to make sacrifices. If this is your situation, remember that life's greatest growth comes when you leave your comfort zone.

Don't let comfortable and safe feeling hold you back from a full and vibrant life that could lead to the love of your life.

Let go of the defence mechanisms that have kept you from getting hurt and also hold you back from finding love.

Source:
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What is your take on these five items?

Love never fails.