Pls kindly advice me. i have a lady i want to marry. She has all wife qualities a wants in a woman. But my probs is that she is not very brilliant(40%) educational. Pls advice constructively

then teach her.

Nobody has it all. Learn to live with that!

There's no perfect human being. U gan u're not perfect.

But it's true you can get 100% perfect match, if she has all the qualities you want in a woman but no education, you can encourage her to go to school. she will improve especially if she has pass thru basic education and she is willing and well dispose to learning.

Some men sent their wives to school.

hope that helps

tanks all

marry her, and upgrade her

poster

she can always still learn.

tiniyata:

marry her, and upgrade her

how?

u'r still a small Boy. . . . .

190:

Kick her arse

Thats my i love her

she' doesnt have gen knowledge bout my work but she helps me most times despite shes in medicals

sometimes you make more sense in your silence.

Na so na, humanbain no perfect at alllll. Dat Otepu sef go don dey prepare im mind 2 ignore 1 terible side of u bt u no go knw (mindful of hw reticent girlz can be.) ur own even better! Wat of mine weh deh pee 4 bed? Warned her many tymz bt her fat ass can't jst stp drenchin my soft sheet yet i stil luv'am. Watin u wan talk?

IZUKWU:

sometimes you make more sense in your silence.

that's an understatement.

Brilliance or intelligence?

If her mental capacity will be your excuse for making her cry in future, leave her for the people who sees her as brilliant.

Send her to school and stop asking dumb questions

no1madman:

u'r still a small Boy. . . . .

thank u OLD MAN

Cozy-G:

Pls kindly advice me. i have a lady i want to marry. She has all wife qualities a wants in a woman. But my probs is that [b]she is not very brilliant(40%) [/b]educational. Pls advice constructively

what exactly do you mean? did she fail outta school or she never went to school? or was she sheltered which left her not street smart?
can you give an example of what you mean?

omega25red:

what exactly do you mean? did she fail outta school or she never went to school? or was she sheltered which left her not street smart?
can you give an example of what you mean?

She Went to School, has SSCE & A Diploma. Speaks normall english, But cant go further

Poster, send her to every school except nursing school. Many men who have sent their uneducated wives to nursing school have lived to regret it. There is some kind of bad luck with these uneducated becoming nurses. They either end up growing wings when they make some money or become ashawos and start looking for doctors to phuck. It is always something. Don't say I didn't tell you.

Cozy-G:

Pls kindly advice me. i have a lady i want to marry. She has all wife qualities a wants in a woman. But my probs is that she is not very brilliant(40%) educational. Pls advice constructively

what the heck is 40% educational LMAO, Are you sure it's not 39.786%

Di man self u funny no be small u wan marry a woman wey get all qualities only say she go 40% school make u go marry phd, , ctt, , mmf, Woman wey go all the school for this world make una turn house to dictionary
With d small school she go u no fit start make u advice go more after una marry abi she no sabi speak english at all at all but u say she educate 40% she fit spell,write,represent small and so on
My broda e dey hard make u see good house wife many girls u dey see nowadays their sence no dey their head again dey don chop‘am wit food make u try marry her equip her to ur taste or standard
Cheers

@OP this is where you decide whats important to you. Unless if you are looking for a wife who will buy you a house, Well the one you have with "40% educational" whatever that is (note that hiss) will not get you one. Or perhaps you want intelligent conversation, its up to you.

Cozy-G:

She Went to School, has SSCE & A Diploma. Speaks normall english, But cant go further

I am scratching my head at the bolded part. Is that possible? Not being able to acquire further education without being brain-damaged?

Cozy-G:

She Went to School, has SSCE & A Diploma. Speaks normall english, But cant go further

I dont understand that part, like she does'nt have the fund or she has a problem learning,      

Your post is not clear enough, don't you think you also need more education? your post is just too CONFUSING!!!

hmmn, see that upgrade/send her to school part is what i find a bit awkward.

if you do, kiss your marriage/relationship goodbye. and you can take that to the bank. have u ever seen a female who went to a higher institution and came back unchanged? beware o.


id say accept her as she is. if she decides to upgrade herself of her own volition, give her due warning( to the knowledge of her parents/siblings) and bless her efforts with support as much as u can.


cos if na u go dey arrangee say make she go, u will regret it

Hehe. The African traditional wife qualities are negatively correlated with brilliance. Sorry.

Underestimating the value of intelligence in a relationship is worse then underestimating the sexual connection.

See eventually you're going to need more than a "body" for companionship and calling her an "idiot" inward or outwardly is going to be frustrating.

In fact, settling for 2nd and 3rd place is why so many people start to cheat,

If you can't honestly ask yourself why you want to be with somebody that is stupid, then I suggest you consider just being good friends.

honeric01:

Your post is not clear enough,

My thoughts exactly.