It is your duty to give her money every day not weekly.. you are suppose to buy even her toiletries and make sure that you set up a business for her and also train her in school..
If she has younger ones also start training them.. do you think it is easy for her to accept to date you. ..
Pls give her the money and give her more.. when she visits always cook for her and wash her undies too.. that is how REAL men do..
Thanks.. take this advice.. it is the best..

billynoni:
Come me lemme advice you, give her the money for the little business, to shop clothes and accessories. Do you have family land? Sell it and let her buy bone straight with it plus upgrade that broken phone to iPhone 11 or 12.... Ah yes lest I forget, please give her your house rent for feeding, fine babe like your lady can't go hungry.

Nice one my Gee...
Exactly the advice I gave him too.. check the preceding comment before this mention..
He should follow our advices, that is how REAL men like him do.. we are not real men.. so he should do more to be called a REAL man..

FORWARDEVERLY:




Nice one my Gee...
Exactly the advice I gave him too.. check the preceding comment before this mention..
He should follow our advices, that is how REAL men like him do.. we are not real men.. so he should do more to be called a REAL man..

And he should have "I am a mumu" song, as his phone ringtone

Give am the remaining little na. Keep simping.

eneazi:
I always tell people the way you start any relationship determines how you'll go with it , from the beginning you showed her that you could give and provide for her needs just for reasons. Talk to her if you're not comfortable or complain about your own personal needs too

True talk. It is funny op is still asking for advice. Mumu never do

some guys una dey vex me ooooo why giving girl money Biko nu
Oga my little advice for you is to try and travel out of your community and see De amount of single ladies in naija plsssssssssssssssssssssssssss Sir

She would definitely get it from another guy, which means she sees you as an ATM.

mrpoul:
There's this girl, I have been dating for about 6 months now. And there is something I noticed about her which I always try to ignore. But recently, I have been having a lot of thoughts about it. Okay, every week I give her money either when she comes to my house or she will call telling me that she have issues that needs money. The problem now is that her phone got bad and she needs about 4k to fix it, she called and told me about it. I told her I don't have money that the little I have I want to use start a small business. But eversince, I told her, I won't be giving her that I'm trying to sort out myself. She has refuse picking my calls. So I wanted to know if it is a norms to be giving your girl friend money every week or whenever she has problem or I should let her be?

You are not normal, who gives ordinary gf money every week. House, say hi to the ultimate MUGU

Once I saw "my girl",I knew this simp is finished

From what you all have said, "I can deduce the girl have been using me". And that I have been an idiot all the whole time.

You just met a parasite! Run for your life

mrpoul:
There's this girl, I have been dating for about 6 months now. And there is something I noticed about her which I always try to ignore. But recently, I have been having a lot of thoughts about it. Okay, every week I give her money either when she comes to my house or she will call telling me that she have issues that needs money. The problem now is that her phone got bad and she needs about 4k to fix it, she called and told me about it. I told her I don't have money that the little I have I want to use start a small business. But eversince, I told her, I won't be giving her that I'm trying to sort out myself. She has refuse picking my calls. So I wanted to know if it is a norms to be giving your girl friend money every week or whenever she has problem or I should let her be?

Na wa oh . Baba, common sense suppose tell you say she is a wicked entitled witch. Pls let her go and focus, joor. No time for nonsense

bigcee:

Na wa oh . Baba, common sense suppose tell you say she is a wicked entitled witch. Pls let her go and focus, joor. No time for nonsense

I will try

mrpoul:
There's this girl, I have been dating for about 6 months now. And there is something I noticed about her which I always try to ignore. But recently, I have been having a lot of thoughts about it. Okay, every week I give her money either when she comes to my house or she will call telling me that she have issues that needs money. The problem now is that her phone got bad and she needs about 4k to fix it, she called and told me about it. I told her I don't have money that the little I have I want to use start a small business. But eversince, I told her, I won't be giving her that I'm trying to sort out myself. She has refuse picking my calls. So I wanted to know if it is a norms to be giving your girl friend money every week or whenever she has problem or I should let her be?

is she an undergraduate that's always in need of urgent 3k, 4k all the time, bcus of that is the case, then I understand her a bit.........but even at that; you're not her father

fineberry:
is she an undergraduate that's always in need of urgent 3k, 4k all the time, bcus of that is the case, then I understand her a bit.........but even at that; you're not her father

She is actually an undergraduate

mrpoul:

She is actually an undergraduate

No wonder, she might really need the money o....what I don't subscribe to is when the billing is too much/ frequent bearing in mind that who you're billing also av his own expenses to cater for.

mrpoul:
There's this girl, I have been dating for about 6 months now. And there is something I noticed about her which I always try to ignore. But recently, I have been having a lot of thoughts about it. Okay, every week I give her money either when she comes to my house or she will call telling me that she have issues that needs money. The problem now is that her phone got bad and she needs about 4k to fix it, she called and told me about it. I told her I don't have money that the little I have I want to use start a small business. But eversince, I told her, I won't be giving her that I'm trying to sort out myself. She has refuse picking my calls. So I wanted to know if it is a norms to be giving your girl friend money every week or whenever she has problem or I should let her be?

...wow... please if u don't wannto smash..let me smash I beg!!

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...wow... please if u don't wannto smash..let me smash I beg!! [/quote a]
I don't understand what you mean by smash

FORWARDEVERLY:
It is your duty to give her money every day not weekly.. you are suppose to buy even her toiletries and make sure that you set up a business for her and also train her in school..
If she has younger ones also start training them.. do you think it is easy for her to accept to date you. ..
Pls give her the money and give her more.. when she visits always cook for her and wash her undies too.. that is how REAL men do..
Thanks.. take this advice.. it is the best..

Am kindly askin u to gimmme her nomba becuz u upset sir. If u don’t want to yansh, please let me yansh sir!

Pumpumking:



Am kindly askin u to gimmme her nomba becuz u upset sir. If u don’t want to yansh, please let me yansh sir!

You are quoting the wrong moniker bro..

mrpoul:
There's this girl, I have been dating for about 6 months now. And there is something I noticed about her which I always try to ignore. But recently, I have been having a lot of thoughts about it. Okay, every week I give her money either when she comes to my house or she will call telling me that she have issues that needs money. The problem now is that her phone got bad and she needs about 4k to fix it, she called and told me about it. I told her I don't have money that the little I have I want to use start a small business. But eversince, I told her, I won't be giving her that I'm trying to sort out myself. She has refuse picking my calls. So I wanted to know if it is a norms to be giving your girl friend money every week or whenever she has problem or I should let her be?

If not because of the regular sex you do have with her, why giving her money every week

For how long will you be doing so

Leave her and start planning for your future

By their post, you shall know them. Mere reading what you wrote is the only evidence I need to determine that you're one hell of a sissy boy. You're worried because a woman that benefits the most from "dating" you is not picking your calls because you don't have money to give her? Really?

Shouldn't that be the reason you need to dump her ? Is she leading you in the relationship? Why don't she have a fear of loosing you, which would make her stop behaving foolishly ? How can you be worried that you're safeguarding yourself from a parasite disguised as girlfriend? How can she not support your hardwork by respecting that you're a responsible man who can't give temporarily due to starting a business?

How can you be with a woman who is more concerned about trivialities such as phone repairs and not your financial growth that will benefit her ? If you have sense, shouldn't her behaviour be all you need to dump her? Can't you see that she is using you for cash? Can't you think for yourself? I can keep asking and asking, but I'll pause here.

If you operates in a woman's frame, both of you will loose, but if a woman operate on your frame, both of you will prosper. You do not give leadership to a lioness, for a lion to follow. It's not unfairness, it's common sense. She is leading in the relationship, thats why you're suffering. By nature, men are Democrats, while women are dictators. It's all about them, not you. If you love yourself, leave that girl, improve yourself and be with a girl that sees your worth and won't behave stupidly, because she fears loosing you. If she doesn't fear loosing you, then you're better of single.

Honesty i dnt think she loves u truely or u both love each other. First how much do u want to use and start business?

Better run fast

pansophist:
By their post, you shall know them. Mere reading what you wrote is the only evidence I need to determine that you're one hell of a sissy boy. You're worried because a woman that benefits the most from "dating" you is not picking your calls because you don't have money to give her? Really?

Shouldn't that be the reason you need to dump her ? Is she leading you in the relationship? Why don't she have a fear of loosing you, which would make her stop behaving foolishly ? How can you be worried that you're safeguarding yourself from a parasite disguised as girlfriend? How can she not support your hardwork by respecting that you're a responsible man who can't give temporarily due to starting a business?

How can you be with a woman who is more concerned about trivialities such as phone repairs and not your financial growth that will benefit her ? If you have sense, shouldn't her behaviour be all you need to dump her? Can't you see that she is using you for cash? Can't you think for yourself? I can keep asking and asking, but I'll pause here.

If you operates in a woman's frame, both of you will loose, but if a woman operate on your frame, both of you will prosper. You do not give leadership to a lioness, for a lion to follow. It's not unfairness, it's common sense. She is leading in the relationship, thats why you're suffering. By nature, men are Democrats, while women are dictators. It's all about them, not you. If you love yourself, leave that girl, improve yourself and be with a girl that sees your worth and won't behave stupidly, because she fears loosing you. If she doesn't fear loosing you, then you're better of single.

Thanks for this, it makes perfect sense to me

frozen70:



If not because of the regular sex you do have with her, why giving her money every week

For how long will you be doing so

Leave her and start planning for your future

Sha I will miss the sex part, this is what makes me to give her money most of the time. Because some how I feel like I owe her, but other times, I ask her myself why should I give her money when both of us do enjoy ourselves.