efficiencie:

Yea, so let's prosecute spouses for raping spouses...

Klass99:


I share the same sentiments and your comment reminds me of a scene from Desperate Housewives where Bree's husband was drugged by his mother and ex-wife.

I type in peace and rest my case, don't start that your Pharisee display today o, abeg! I want to believe we are engaging as reasonable and mature adults here.

Expresswriter:


Are you a man? Shu shu shu

Talking what you don't know.

Please, no woman should come and touch me o. I'm not ready for such. I only need a Godfearing relationship.

Klass99:


I did o, occasionally when I bumped into it at my siblings or friends houses.

I'm not a fan of series, keeping up with them is exhausting. But, Game of Thrones hooked me from the very first episode of Season 1 but I just had to keep up with it.

The last part of my post about Pharisee display wasn't for you, I hope you know.

fati2001:

yes. I agree

Klass99:


Lol , you're just determined to be a jackass.

First of all, how married couples claim their spouse raped them is beyond me. Do their bodies not belong to each other?

There are exceptional cases where forced intercourse can be inappropriate and rightly classified as rape.

In a marriage where there's recurring domestic violence and the abuser forces intercourse with the victim, I can see how that will be classified as rape.

Coming back to this thread, I am curious (so pls educate me) how does a man who says he is tired and not in the mood, still able to get it up? Enough to produce a hard-on, which his wife used to penetrate herself?

Are you saying, the human dick has a mind of its own and it controls its owners? You're the logical gender o! How can a small part of your entire being be ruling you like this nah?

Don't rise to the occasion and perhaps you will not be raped. A woman can't rape you if you don't give her an erection to play with.

Talk to your pikin (the one in-between your legs) tell him not to wake up, no matter the provocation abi na seduction - show him who's the boss. IF you're truly not in the mood.

Vision101:
Legally no. To prove rape, you must prove penetration.

Vision101:

I'm an accountant but I have good background in law. This area of law is criminal law. One challenge in law is that even if the culprit is cut red-handed the judge can't assist you. You have to prove your allegation.

Most cases of rape are abandoned because the victims feel very ashamed to prove the issue of penetration. Consequently fiddling with the private parts of a female adult with your fingers and/or sucking her breasts against her will will be difficult to prove as rape. The judge realises that all manner of allegations can be made. Legally there can't be sex without penetration.

Penetration proven either medically or otherwise is easiest way. This is why rape against children or virgins are easier to prove because medical examination will establish this.

In terms of rape against a man, it's very difficult to prove because of this issue of penetration. How can you prove penetration by an adult female against an adult male? Who is penetrating who?

Concerning a male child and an adult female they may look at the issue of abuse. There could be other arguments though.

Divoc19:
She rapes him and he likes it.

It's actually difficult to rape a man

Some men's body will never respond to any touch when asleep, unless they'd taken some form of ecstasy.

Klass99:


Lol , you're just determined to be a jackass.

First of all, how married couples claim their spouse raped them is beyond me. Do their bodies not belong to each other?

There are exceptional cases where forced intercourse can be inappropriate and rightly classified as rape.

In a marriage where there's recurring domestic violence and the abuser forces intercourse with the victim, I can see how that will be classified as rape.

Coming back to this thread, I am curious (so pls educate me) how does a man who says he is tired and not in the mood, still able to get it up? Enough to produce a hard-on, which his wife used to penetrate herself?

Are you saying, the human dick has a mind of its own and it controls its owners? You're the logical gender o! How can a small part of your entire being be ruling you like this nah?

Don't rise to the occasion and perhaps you will not be raped. A woman can't rape you if you don't give her an erection to play with.

Talk to your pikin (the one in-between your legs) tell him not to wake up, no matter the provocation abi na seduction - show him who's the boss. IF you're truly not in the mood.

Klass99:


Lol , you're just determined to be a jackass.

First of all, how married couples claim their spouse raped them is beyond me. Do their bodies not belong to each other?

There are exceptional cases where forced intercourse can be inappropriate and rightly classified as rape.

In a marriage where there's recurring domestic violence and the abuser forces intercourse with the victim, I can see how that will be classified as rape.

Coming back to this thread, I am curious (so pls educate me) how does a man who says he is tired and not in the mood, still able to get it up? Enough to produce a hard-on, which his wife used to penetrate herself?

Are you saying, the human dick has a mind of its own and it controls its owners? You're the logical gender o! How can a small part of your entire being be ruling you like this nah?

Don't rise to the occasion and perhaps you will not be raped. A woman can't rape you if you don't give her an erection to play with.

Talk to your pikin (the one in-between your legs) tell him not to wake up, no matter the provocation abi na seduction - show him who's the boss. IF you're truly not in the mood.

crackhaus:
A wet/lubricated vagina cannot be said to have been raped.

Very interesting insights on this thread...

Vision101:
@Magnoliaa
Are you a lawyer? Can you expatiate on this? Because I've seen something like this somewhere and it got me stumped.

But it is still rape, right? Sex without consent is rape. Why is (proof of) penetration the basis?


@me
I'm an accountant but I have good background in law. This area of law is criminal law. One challenge in law is that even if the culprit is cut red-handed the judge can't assist you. You have to prove your allegation.

Most cases of rape are abandoned because the victims feel very ashamed to prove the issue of penetration. Consequently fiddling with the private parts of a female adult with your fingers and/or sucking her breasts against her will will be difficult to prove as rape. The judge realises that all manner of allegations can be made. Legally there can't be sex without penetration.

Penetration proven either medically or otherwise is easiest way. This is why rape against children or virgins are easier to prove because medical examination will establish this.

In terms of rape against a man, it's very difficult to prove because of this issue of penetration. How can you prove penetration by an adult female against an adult male? Who is penetrating who?

Concerning a male child and an adult female they may look at the issue of abuse. There could be other arguments though.

fati2001:



rape is rape. whether married or not.

bukatyne:


Unable to mount a strong defense.

Enyimba FC, you are needed here o!

NoToPile:
Well since it's about male rape.

A friend of mine was raped by a lady, they were not married, they were not even dating.

This should he around 7 years ago. She drugged his drink and then 'helped herself' dude was even a virgin. The guy later realized and sent her out. She got pregnant came to inform the guy, guy chased her away. The parents were the ones who accepted the baby, dude said he never wanted to have anything done with her.
He was my friend and at that time the mother was my boss, she even told me to speak with him, he politely(not very politely) told me not to have that discussion with him.

He didnt even the see the baby, as we all know children like that are always a splitting image of the husband. He didn't even see the girl.

Now when they asked the lady, she said she really likes H, (H is a confirmed fine boy, ladies will drool after him but he was decent and morally upright guy) has been giving H greenlight, H didn't succumb . H was serving at that time, she then visited H and drugged the drink and helped her self. When the mama was narrating the story of her interview with the girl I was dumbfounded, the most annoying part of everything is the lady is very pretty , you would always look twice at her.

The question I kept asking was why would she do that, she could have gotten the attention of any guy she wanted.

I didn't believe its possible for her to actually'help herself to it' questions like 'how will the thing enter when he was drugged' so I raised the issue I was on a PG program then, we were about 4 in the lab that day and 3 were guys, they all said its very possible even our acting supervisor confirmed its possible.

Klass99:

@ Mag.noliaa, please revert to the previous text colour of purple. This new one hurts the eyes.

Regex:


You know, you are wet down there and you are not interested...

Give a rogue man a wet pussy and he plays with it the way he likes.

It is mind over matter. You can't be wet and claim rape.

Divoc19:
If it takes one touch to charge you bro then, you're innit for a good ride everytime.
If you like be sad and hungry you go dey hit am on demand

cooooooks:
Male rape is so funny. Let's all laugh.

Klass99:


Lol , you're just determined to be a jackass.

First of all, how married couples claim their spouse raped them is beyond me. Do their bodies not belong to each other?

There are exceptional cases where forced intercourse can be inappropriate and rightly classified as rape.

In a marriage where there's recurring domestic violence and the abuser forces intercourse with the victim, I can see how that will be classified as rape.

Coming back to this thread, I am curious (so pls educate me) how does a man who says he is tired and not in the mood, still able to get it up? Enough to produce a hard-on, which his wife used to penetrate herself?

Are you saying, the human dick has a mind of its own and it controls its owners? You're the logical gender o! How can a small part of your entire being be ruling you like this nah?

Don't rise to the occasion and perhaps you will not be raped. A woman can't rape you if you don't give her an erection to play with.

Talk to your pikin (the one in-between your legs) tell him not to wake up, no matter the provocation abi na seduction - show him who's the boss. IF you're truly not in the mood.

NoToPile:
Well since it's about male rape.

A friend of mine was raped by a lady, they were not married, they were not even dating.

This should he around 7 years ago. She drugged his drink and then 'helped herself' dude was even a virgin. The guy later realized and sent her out. She got pregnant came to inform the guy, guy chased her away. The parents were the ones who accepted the baby, dude said he never wanted to have anything done with her.
He was my friend and at that time the mother was my boss, she even told me to speak with him, he politely(not very politely) told me not to have that discussion with him.

He didnt even the see the baby, as we all know children like that are always a splitting image of the husband. He didn't even see the girl.

Now when they asked the lady, she said she really likes H, (H is a confirmed fine boy, ladies will drool after him but he was decent and morally upright guy) has been giving H greenlight, H didn't succumb . H was serving at that time, she then visited H and drugged the drink and helped her self. When the mama was narrating the story of her interview with the girl I was dumbfounded, the most annoying part of everything is the lady is very pretty , you would always look twice at her.

The question I kept asking was why would she do that, she could have gotten the attention of any guy she wanted.

I didn't believe its possible for her to actually'help herself to it' questions like 'how will the thing enter when he was drugged' so I raised the issue I was on a PG program then, we were about 4 in the lab that day and 3 were guys, they all said its very possible even our acting supervisor confirmed its possible.

Klass99:


The olive green, has me thinking gosh do you really want to strain your eyes and induce a headache? Just waka pass.

But I take the time to read because it's you/your moniker. It's faint like when ink is fading on an old letter written in 1996

Fountainofyouth:



Laws have mercy, so what did she gain from it? A child that the father will hate for the rest of his/her life, I bet the stupid lady will never tell the child she raped her dad, so many senseless peeps abound sha.

Magnoliaa:


That's the thing about rape and rapists. That shit is so fuvked I can't wrap my head around it. I mean, I see other criminals, cheats, etc., people doing things I naturally wouldn't do, and I try to empathize and see things from their heads, but in this? I literally can't. It seems to not be about sexual desire and frustrations for them, because they literally can't get anybody else. Without struggle. So WHY?

bukatyne:


@bold;

Very well said.

I would rather say sexual abuse if bodily/valid emotional injury was involved e.g. say the spouse uses force to penetrate a dry vjay that you see bruises; hits their partner to make them succumb; withholding sex for gains/punishment; performing acts their spouse finds humiliating/unnatural (anal sex, golden showers, spitting, negative name calling, parties etc.) etc.

The OP should go and sleep; not all feelings are valid.