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Re: 4 Reasons Some People Think Double Dating Is Fun And Adventurous? by UncleKoboko: 11:21am On Aug 07, 2021
MaziGburugburu:
I can't marry any Lady except a virgin, I hate badly used of fairly used things, it disgust me to know the lady I want to marry has performed all kind of sexual stunts and later bring a used thing to me. God forbid.
That's okay but you're still ignorant.
I know some Virgins that have done things...
My ex that we practiced no sex before mariage for 3 years... We dey go through anal, regular BJ and I dey even release for her mouth sometimes... Yet, the pusṣy is still intact.

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Re: 4 Reasons Some People Think Double Dating Is Fun And Adventurous? by humilitypays(m): 11:31am On Aug 07, 2021
UncleKoboko:

That's okay but you're still ignorant.
I know some Virgins that have done things...
My ex that we practiced no sex before mariage for 3 years... We dey go through anal, regular BJ and I dey even release for her mouth sometimes... Yet, the pusṣy is still intact.
Dont mind that kid.



There is nothing like virgin once she clocks 20yrs.


if she is not doing anal, she is doing oral or engaging in deep necking, petting, handling, sucking, etc.



The only sure virgins are 10yr downwards

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Re: 4 Reasons Some People Think Double Dating Is Fun And Adventurous? by EbenezerTriumph: 11:33am On Aug 07, 2021
MaziGburugburu:
I can't marry any Lady except a virgin, I hate badly used of fairly used things, it disgust me to know the lady I want to marry has performed all kind of sexual stunts and later bring a used thing to me. God forbid.
you're not alone bro. after them don rubbish their body with all kinds of fetish and sex style then wan come bring that over used body for me to endure in marriage.
tufiakwa

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Re: 4 Reasons Some People Think Double Dating Is Fun And Adventurous? by leoloi: 11:41am On Aug 07, 2021
OP no even sabi meaning of double dating.

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Re: 4 Reasons Some People Think Double Dating Is Fun And Adventurous? by Johel(m): 11:52am On Aug 07, 2021
binarymachine:
In reality, man will always find ways of coming up with schemes and attitudes that are way distant from the expected code of conduct. At times, what is today called fun and joke are very serious issues with great consequences.

Promiscuity and infidelity have risen greatly in human society. It is becoming increasingly difficult to trust people and to find those who do not engage in one form of insincerity or another. Loyalty and faithfulness at present are very rare and scarce commodities.

What does it Mean to Double or Multiple Date? Well, with the ever changing trends of events, new terminologies and concepts are being formulated. Double dating refers to when an individual is keeping two lovers or partners at the same time. It is when one is juggling two active relationships at the same time.

Accordingly, multiple dating refers to when someone does this with more than two persons. That is, when an individual is engaged in a relationship with more than two persons simultaneously. To most persons, there is absolutely nothing wrong in keeping more than one committed relationship at the same time as far as you can handle comfortably without any issues.

So others opine that, if one is smart and wise enough to ensure that there are no clashes of interests among the various partners engaged with, then such a person can proceed and keep as many relationships as possible. Obviously, there are still a set of persons who are bothered greatly by this concept. They keep wondering why some many persons involve in double and multiple dating? What is really the attraction behind this?

1. The Feeling Of Control And Conquest

A lady or a man who is involved in two or more relationships at the same time feels he or she is in control. These persons see themselves of having power to do as they please as they hold stakes in their various partners lives. There is also that feeling of having conquered your various dates. They feel they have been able to subdue them to their whims and have them hovering all around them. This provides an impression of control and conquest which makes the person feel good.

2. The Availability Of Options

Anytime one is endowed with more options to choose from, there is always a certain sense of joy attached. Knowing that there are alternatives to pick from makes one enjoy a particular thing. As it is, if one partner tries to act up in a certain kind of way, you can easily turn aside to the other for what ever need you may have. This reason fuels most persons desire to have more than one partner at a time. The concept of not putting ones eggs in one basket is used to justify this. The excitement Variety, it is said, is the spice of life. Little wonder why people obtain so much pleasure and excitement in keeping more than one relationship at a time.

3. Hanging Out With Different Persons From Time To Time Is Fun.

That way, you do not get bored or tired of seeing a particular face or spending time with a particular person. The Feeling of importance and being wanted Having many people flock around you all seeking your attention is a big reason people double date. That feeling that one is being courted by multiple persons and is being showered attention from all sides drive some persons to engage in multiple relationships at the same time.

4. The Bragging Rights.

You may not be new to the concept of body count especially among the male folk. They love the numbers as it massages their ego whenever They are sitting out with fellow men. At times, the number of women in a guys control is used as a measure of manhood by some persons. Ladies use this to rate how trendy and current they are. Therefore, the fact that this multiple dates accords a kind of prestige makes it an adventure for many people.

Somehow, we can agree that those practice double or multiple dating have their reasons and to some extent, they derive some benefits from it. Till tomorrow, there will still be those continuing in this practice not interested in its moral rightness or wrongness. However, good virtues and attributes are always better. Thus, we should all be thinking of how to be faithful and loyal to one sole partner which is the ideal thing to do.
Source:
https://flipmemes.com/2021/06/30/reasons-some-people-think-double-dating-is-fun-and-adventurous/


Double dating is good...I got two big mamas as girlfriends,one knows,the other one doesn't,one gives me that perfect vibe,we smoke weed,do few drug shit and vibe positively,she's fit for me,like she was made for me,the other one gives me unconditional love,love that I've never seen before...I might marry both Las Las...though fight go dey,but a man must control responsibly....but after marriage,please no cheating abeg.

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Re: 4 Reasons Some People Think Double Dating Is Fun And Adventurous? by OfficialSam(m): 11:56am On Aug 07, 2021
MaziGburugburu:
I can't marry any Lady except a virgin, I hate badly used of fairly used things, it disgust me to know the lady I want to marry has performed all kind of sexual stunts and later bring a used thing to me. God forbid.


Hope your mother was a virgin when your father met her?
Re: 4 Reasons Some People Think Double Dating Is Fun And Adventurous? by RoyalBoutique(m): 11:57am On Aug 07, 2021
Do you even know the meaning of "double dating"??

Double dating means you and your date going out with a friend and his date.

Two different couple on the same date.

Double dating doesn't means dating one person whole dating another person.

Dictionary is not so hard to use.

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Re: 4 Reasons Some People Think Double Dating Is Fun And Adventurous? by Divoc19(f): 12:02pm On Aug 07, 2021
What difference does it make? A pusay that will deliver a baby today and still feels like a virgin tomorrow. undecided

MaziGburugburu:
I can't marry any Lady except a virgin, I hate badly used of fairly used things, it disgust me to know the lady I want to marry has performed all kind of sexual stunts and later bring a used thing to me. God forbid.

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Re: 4 Reasons Some People Think Double Dating Is Fun And Adventurous? by kinkymax: 12:05pm On Aug 07, 2021
Na til wen u go watch same movie in a cinema 3/4 times, then u go know say double/multiple dating no easy at all #fromexperience.
Re: 4 Reasons Some People Think Double Dating Is Fun And Adventurous? by Nobody: 12:14pm On Aug 07, 2021
UncleKoboko:

That's okay but you're still ignorant.
I know some Virgins that have done things...
My ex that we practiced no sex before mariage for 3 years... We dey go through anal, regular BJ and I dey even release for her mouth sometimes... Yet, the pusṣy is still intact.

Sincerely, I hardly believe this claim.

Re: 4 Reasons Some People Think Double Dating Is Fun And Adventurous? by Achico: 12:46pm On Aug 07, 2021
MaziGburugburu:
I can't marry any Lady except a virgin, I hate badly used of fairly used things, it disgust me to know the lady I want to marry has performed all kind of sexual stunts and later bring a used thing to me. God forbid.
oloshi Ewu are u a virgin?
Re: 4 Reasons Some People Think Double Dating Is Fun And Adventurous? by Oyiboman69: 12:53pm On Aug 07, 2021
binarymachine:
In reality, man will always find ways of coming up with schemes and attitudes that are way distant from the expected code of conduct. At times, what is today called fun and joke are very serious issues with great consequences.

Promiscuity and infidelity have risen greatly in human society. It is becoming increasingly difficult to trust people and to find those who do not engage in one form of insincerity or another. Loyalty and faithfulness at present are very rare and scarce commodities.

What does it Mean to Double or Multiple Date? Well, with the ever changing trends of events, new terminologies and concepts are being formulated. Double dating refers to when an individual is keeping two lovers or partners at the same time. It is when one is juggling two active relationships at the same time.

Accordingly, multiple dating refers to when someone does this with more than two persons. That is, when an individual is engaged in a relationship with more than two persons simultaneously. To most persons, there is absolutely nothing wrong in keeping more than one committed relationship at the same time as far as you can handle comfortably without any issues.

So others opine that, if one is smart and wise enough to ensure that there are no clashes of interests among the various partners engaged with, then such a person can proceed and keep as many relationships as possible. Obviously, there are still a set of persons who are bothered greatly by this concept. They keep wondering why some many persons involve in double and multiple dating? What is really the attraction behind this?

1. The Feeling Of Control And Conquest

A lady or a man who is involved in two or more relationships at the same time feels he or she is in control. These persons see themselves of having power to do as they please as they hold stakes in their various partners lives. There is also that feeling of having conquered your various dates. They feel they have been able to subdue them to their whims and have them hovering all around them. This provides an impression of control and conquest which makes the person feel good.

2. The Availability Of Options

Anytime one is endowed with more options to choose from, there is always a certain sense of joy attached. Knowing that there are alternatives to pick from makes one enjoy a particular thing. As it is, if one partner tries to act up in a certain kind of way, you can easily turn aside to the other for what ever need you may have. This reason fuels most persons desire to have more than one partner at a time. The concept of not putting ones eggs in one basket is used to justify this. The excitement Variety, it is said, is the spice of life. Little wonder why people obtain so much pleasure and excitement in keeping more than one relationship at a time.

3. Hanging Out With Different Persons From Time To Time Is Fun.

That way, you do not get bored or tired of seeing a particular face or spending time with a particular person. The Feeling of importance and being wanted Having many people flock around you all seeking your attention is a big reason people double date. That feeling that one is being courted by multiple persons and is being showered attention from all sides drive some persons to engage in multiple relationships at the same time.

4. The Bragging Rights.

You may not be new to the concept of body count especially among the male folk. They love the numbers as it massages their ego whenever They are sitting out with fellow men. At times, the number of women in a guys control is used as a measure of manhood by some persons. Ladies use this to rate how trendy and current they are. Therefore, the fact that this multiple dates accords a kind of prestige makes it an adventure for many people.

Somehow, we can agree that those practice double or multiple dating have their reasons and to some extent, they derive some benefits from it. Till tomorrow, there will still be those continuing in this practice not interested in its moral rightness or wrongness. However, good virtues and attributes are always better. Thus, we should all be thinking of how to be faithful and loyal to one sole partner which is the ideal thing to do.
Source:
https://flipmemes.com/2021/06/30/reasons-some-people-think-double-dating-is-fun-and-adventurous/
I do not understand your interpretation of double dating...

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Re: 4 Reasons Some People Think Double Dating Is Fun And Adventurous? by backtalkG(m): 12:56pm On Aug 07, 2021
It may be fun until STDs catch up with you or widen pussies for females due to multiple gbolas grin

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Re: 4 Reasons Some People Think Double Dating Is Fun And Adventurous? by Baitullah: 1:30pm On Aug 07, 2021
A guy up there declared he would marry nothing less than a virgin and was and still being bashed.

Nawa for these promiscuous fellas undecided

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Re: 4 Reasons Some People Think Double Dating Is Fun And Adventurous? by bjprodint1: 1:46pm On Aug 07, 2021
cardoctor:
It should be 100 reasons.
Are u saying that double dating is good?
Re: 4 Reasons Some People Think Double Dating Is Fun And Adventurous? by UncleKoboko: 2:05pm On Aug 07, 2021
SimplyFacts:


Sincerely, I hardly believe this claim.
What claim?
Re: 4 Reasons Some People Think Double Dating Is Fun And Adventurous? by CoolAmbience(m): 2:05pm On Aug 07, 2021
Divoc19:
Number 4 does not apply to women.


It does o.

Some women see it as a measure of the value in the 'market'.

No go there o.
Re: 4 Reasons Some People Think Double Dating Is Fun And Adventurous? by Nobody: 2:07pm On Aug 07, 2021
UncleKoboko:

What claim?

That some virgin ladies truly go through all that you listed without having their hymen broken cheesy
Re: 4 Reasons Some People Think Double Dating Is Fun And Adventurous? by UncleKoboko: 3:06pm On Aug 07, 2021
SimplyFacts:


That some virgin ladies truly go through all that you listed without having their hymen broken cheesy
How old are you?
Re: 4 Reasons Some People Think Double Dating Is Fun And Adventurous? by Nobody: 3:07pm On Aug 07, 2021
UncleKoboko:

How old are you?

23
Re: 4 Reasons Some People Think Double Dating Is Fun And Adventurous? by UncleKoboko: 3:12pm On Aug 07, 2021
SimplyFacts:


23
Lol!
Now I understand.
I have one 28 years old virgin at the moment... She's desperate to have sex but I'm absolutely sure that if I do it with her, there will be consequences, and I'm not ready for that at the moment...
Mind you, she don give me head twice before...
Re: 4 Reasons Some People Think Double Dating Is Fun And Adventurous? by Nobody: 3:16pm On Aug 07, 2021
UncleKoboko:

Lol!
Now I understand.
I have one 28 years old virgin at the moment... She's desperate to have sex but I'm absolutely sure that if I do it with her, there will be consequences, and I'm not ready for that at the moment...
Mind you, she don give me head twice before...

I can't believe the bolded.
Very surprising angry
But many people here do claim virgins can only be found amongst under 20 girls.
Re: 4 Reasons Some People Think Double Dating Is Fun And Adventurous? by Divoc19(f): 3:20pm On Aug 07, 2021
It does not. I repeat. It does not.
I rest my case
CoolAmbience:



It does o.

Some women see it as a measure of the value in the 'market'.

No go there o.



Re: 4 Reasons Some People Think Double Dating Is Fun And Adventurous? by UncleKoboko: 3:33pm On Aug 07, 2021
SimplyFacts:


I can't believe the bolded.
Very surprising angry
But many people here do claim virgins can only be found amongst under 20 girls.
Okay grin
Re: 4 Reasons Some People Think Double Dating Is Fun And Adventurous? by ezewealth(m): 3:45pm On Aug 07, 2021
Your definition of double dating is not right. Double date mean u bring ur date and ur friend bring his own date to eat out or something.
Before u write am article, make una do research nah. Nigerian self!, nah u una dey release bogus information

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Re: 4 Reasons Some People Think Double Dating Is Fun And Adventurous? by Gfskw: 4:44pm On Aug 07, 2021
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Re: 4 Reasons Some People Think Double Dating Is Fun And Adventurous? by Hassanmaye(m): 4:49pm On Aug 07, 2021
MaziGburugburu:
I can't marry any Lady except a virgin, I hate badly used of fairly used things, it disgust me to know the lady I want to marry has performed all kind of sexual stunts and later bring a used thing to me. God forbid.
Haha abeg na please, if bad boys chop clean mouth in university, you should manage na grin
Re: 4 Reasons Some People Think Double Dating Is Fun And Adventurous? by Zeegold12(f): 4:58pm On Aug 07, 2021
Double dating, double wahala...

Especially for guys wey get money, that one na double expenses, not talking about broke niggas

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