bepositive11:


It's good that you were upfront and honest. She seems to still have false hopes though

Amajerry83:
You should get married if it comes from your heart and make sure you marry your like. Study a lady before getting married to her because people don't change after marriage. Although, in some cases people drop old habits as they get older and wiser. Some married prostitutes who later became good housewives while some married devoted church goer who later became cheats. If you want to look at only the disadvantages of marriage i bet you would be scared of it. Free your mind, understand your partner. DO NOT be extremely jealous and possessive. You married her does not stop her from being friends with the opposite sex. Let her do her things but guide her to make sure she doesn't fall. Women think they are smart not knowing men are way smarter! You should trust a woman before you make her wife. My last advice is do not fall for the phone privacy rubbish. If there's nothing to hide both you and your partner's phones should be accessible to the both of you. My brother, marriage is sweet. I've been married for 13 years with 4 kids. I feel so happy everytime i see my beautiful wife and my cute kids.

luizpippo:


Very false hope, a guy proposed to her last year and they had their traditional and court eedding set for Oct that year, she said if only I can ask her not to go ahead, she would put a stop to it, I refused to do that, it only ended because most of her family were not in support of it while she had issue with coping with the guy being a prophet in a white garmet church.

bepositive11:


I pity the guy she ends up with. Seems like she'll continue pining for you. How do you plan to deal with it?

luizpippo:



I have someone i have been friends with since 2016, well educated but i still don't feel that love attraction with her.

She loves me to pieces, waited for me to end my relationship before proclaiming her love for me but i can't bring myself to cross any red line regarding her.

Amajerry83:
You should get married if it comes from your heart and make sure you marry your like. Study a lady before getting married to her because people don't change after marriage. Although, in some cases people drop old habits as they get older and wiser. Some married prostitutes who later became good housewives while some married devoted church goer who later became cheats. If you want to look at only the disadvantages of marriage i bet you would be scared of it. Free your mind, understand your partner. DO NOT be extremely jealous and possessive. You married her does not stop her from being friends with the opposite sex. Let her do her things but guide her to make sure she doesn't fall. Women think they are smart not knowing men are way smarter! You should trust a woman before you make her wife. My last advice is do not fall for the phone privacy rubbish. If there's nothing to hide both you and your partner's phones should be accessible to the both of you. My brother, marriage is sweet. I've been married for 13 years with 4 kids. I feel so happy everytime i see my beautiful wife and my cute kids.

grossintel:
Marriage is not for everyone. In this present age it's basically for the sake of having children. Reason why I've been thinking really hard lately. Because the person I was once in love with fell out of love a long time ago and we aren't even married yet.

luizpippo:
I am currently trying to settle down but looking at married couples in the city is not an encouraging endeavour, married people in this city are just having affairs everywhere and i am tempted to ask the following questions:

# Why would a single guy be sleeping with a married woman, does he not fear the consequences you guys always despise here?

# Why would a single girl be sleeping with married men, meanwhile there is hardly any threat of *future or destiny in trouble* like you guys do as in the case above.
Does this mean married men cheating is safe while that of married women is dangerous?

# Why are married men sleeping with other men's wife, and there seem to be no blow back?

This whole ish is made to look like the single guys are the only ones with future/destiny worth saving.

Is there any point getting hitched if sex is this free everywhere?

Jeremani:

In that same city isn't there any couple who don't cheat?
Talk wetin there ur mind?
Are u thinking what am thinking

Megatron77:
Strange!

luizpippo:
I am currently trying to settle down but looking at married couples in the city is not an encouraging endeavour, married people in this city are just having affairs everywhere and i am tempted to ask the following questions:

# Why would a single guy be sleeping with a married woman, does he not fear the consequences you guys always despise here?

# Why would a single girl be sleeping with married men, meanwhile there is hardly any threat of *future or destiny in trouble* like you guys do as in the case above.
Does this mean married men cheating is safe while that of married women is dangerous?

# Why are married men sleeping with other men's wife, and there seem to be no blow back?

This whole ish is made to look like the single guys are the only ones with future/destiny worth saving.

Is there any point getting hitched if sex is this free everywhere?

luizpippo:


I didn't ask her out neither did I try to take advantage of her coming out openly to tell me about her feelings for me.

She has only been to my house thrice even tho we live less than a KM apart, and I ensured my ex was around in 2 of those. I don't shy aware from telling her that being in hidden corners alone with her might lead to things we might regret and she understands.

Tajbol4splend:



Yinmu, ugly girls dey promiscuous pass pretty ones because they feel like they have nothing to lose, so they fvck like it's the last 5 minutes before angel Gabriel blows the trumpet

luizpippo:



I am not thinking what you are thinking

luizpippo:

Maybe

Megatron77:
You're lying abi?

SmellySperm:

Hey! You didn't message me on Whatsapp again

Megatron77:
I know...but i sent you a private message or didn't you get it?

SmellySperm:

This my WhatsApp number,add me up

Megatron77:
You're lying abi?

Megatron77:
You've sent it before na. just check your mails

SmellySperm:

Ok please kindly message me on Whatsapp and edit this my number out of here. Thanks

Megatron77:
Ok since you want me to say it here. i wanted to add you to my whatsapp but you don't have a profile picture that's why i didn't message you again.

Megatron77:
You've sent it before na. just check your mails

SmellySperm:

You should have messaged me still

SmellySperm:

As u can see,my number is still showing where you quoted me. Pls kindly check and edit my number out, thanks

Megatron77:
Nope i wanted to see your picture before proceeding

SmellySperm:

Sorry I don't use my picture as dp