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Re: When Your Wife Says " I Hate You And I Regret Marrying You" by ademidedavid(f): 7:07am On Sep 22, 2021 |
Brunosamel: Thanks so much, i have been thinking of this. 2 Likes |
Re: When Your Wife Says " I Hate You And I Regret Marrying You" by ademidedavid(f): 7:09am On Sep 22, 2021 |
AsianTotal: Do you live with him and his wife? All marriages are happy outside except the truth be told. Dont be deceived bro......If you see my marrige on a norms you will never ever suspect their are internal issues. |
Re: When Your Wife Says " I Hate You And I Regret Marrying You" by sparko1(m): 7:09am On Sep 22, 2021 |
ademidedavid: You may think so, but a little separation will do you some good, you don't have to go to an hotel, you can stay with a single friend, but that is just silly, why can't you stay in an hotel, if after 10 years she can't trust you, your guess is as good as mine. 3 Likes |
Re: When Your Wife Says " I Hate You And I Regret Marrying You" by Babastrong(m): 7:10am On Sep 22, 2021 |
You have been living with her for the past 10yrs now, you are in the best position to know her better than me. I have not seen your woman once not to talk of knowing the kind of personality she has.. ogbeni, you are in the best position to know if she meant those words or not. mind you, some over sabi nairalanders will be giving different kinds of advice, pls use your head and filter their advice because most of them have not marry not to talk of knowing what marriage real means. ire ooo. |
Re: When Your Wife Says " I Hate You And I Regret Marrying You" by ademidedavid(f): 7:11am On Sep 22, 2021 |
faithugo64: Thanks so much for this piece, the more reason i am trying to scrutinize every advices but going harder on her is surely not a way out. Thanks a million |
Re: When Your Wife Says " I Hate You And I Regret Marrying You" by queenblossom(f): 7:12am On Sep 22, 2021 |
sola12: Not when they are angry but when they are stressed. Let him check his wife, something is seriously eating his wife. He should call his wife and have a discussion with her to know her pains and her fears. Ask her what she dislike most about you. Marriage is not easy , it needs constant communication. |
Re: When Your Wife Says " I Hate You And I Regret Marrying You" by ademidedavid(f): 7:12am On Sep 22, 2021 |
MNDY:Hmmmm, she still tells me that i am the only that can handle her and put her in her place. The reason i know its not about being weak, but she just want to cause commotion once in a while |
Re: When Your Wife Says " I Hate You And I Regret Marrying You" by ademidedavid(f): 7:13am On Sep 22, 2021 |
Akuruoulo: My gratitude 1 Like |
Re: When Your Wife Says " I Hate You And I Regret Marrying You" by ademidedavid(f): 7:14am On Sep 22, 2021 |
Akuruoulo: Walai, orelse the roof of the building will come down that day and i hate creating scene in my compound |
Re: When Your Wife Says " I Hate You And I Regret Marrying You" by ademidedavid(f): 7:16am On Sep 22, 2021 |
chrizzyace: Thanks so much my brother, i so much appreciate this piece... God be with you and yours 1 Like |
Re: When Your Wife Says " I Hate You And I Regret Marrying You" by EndRape2(f): 7:17am On Sep 22, 2021 |
Avoid this comment, this comment is coming from a single guy, or a married man, that comes to media to talk rubbish, but in his house, he worships and adorn his wife and family, .do not be surprise, this mumu ,wash plates, clean house, and even wash madam panties and also borrow loan to please his woman, But coming here to talk rubbish, Avoid them they are many on Nairaland , teenagers and guys that have been damaged . |
Re: When Your Wife Says " I Hate You And I Regret Marrying You" by ademidedavid(f): 7:18am On Sep 22, 2021 |
Akuruoulo: Their is always a light to every darkness. Thanks alot 1 Like |
Re: When Your Wife Says " I Hate You And I Regret Marrying You" by ademidedavid(f): 7:19am On Sep 22, 2021 |
Akuruoulo: Hmmmm, many thanks brother. Will work towards it. 1 Like |
Re: When Your Wife Says " I Hate You And I Regret Marrying You" by ademidedavid(f): 7:20am On Sep 22, 2021 |
Olayetan: You have said well and the reality. I will do so. Thanks alot |
Re: When Your Wife Says " I Hate You And I Regret Marrying You" by ademidedavid(f): 7:21am On Sep 22, 2021 |
Nephilim: But na wa for this gender called women oooo |
Re: When Your Wife Says " I Hate You And I Regret Marrying You" by ademidedavid(f): 7:21am On Sep 22, 2021 |
Gkemz: Divorce ke? She said shes not scared and ready to be a single mother |
Re: When Your Wife Says " I Hate You And I Regret Marrying You" by Nobody: 7:25am On Sep 22, 2021 |
Xilsbridalhouse: He's a fool, don't mind him. I hope Op doesn't take advice from fools. |
Re: When Your Wife Says " I Hate You And I Regret Marrying You" by EndRape2(f): 7:30am On Sep 22, 2021 |
When they are talking about marriage, hind your frustrated face, it is not on every post , you post your frustrations, it is not on every post you should come out and disgrace your mother for not training you, stop disgracing your mother just because you want to talk, it is not on every post ,you let people know that you came from a home that your father is useless and maltreats your mother, We have responsible and well brought up nairalands members here , brought up by Good mothers and father's here, please allow them comment on marriage and relationship isuues You can go to slum areas, where your type of family discuss, and add your own advice. |
Re: When Your Wife Says " I Hate You And I Regret Marrying You" by EndRape2(f): 7:33am On Sep 22, 2021 |
Every marriage has ups and downs, Both parties moat exchange words, as long as no Domestic violence , just mamnge your home, but if there is Domestic Violence , run run run.... uote author=ademidedavid post=106054163] Divorce ke? She said shes not scared and ready to be a single mother[/quote] 1 Like |
Re: When Your Wife Says " I Hate You And I Regret Marrying You" by UncleKoboko: 7:40am On Sep 22, 2021 |
ademidedavid:She doesn't mean it but you can tell her the same too for fairness and eveness so she she'd know how it feels like 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: When Your Wife Says " I Hate You And I Regret Marrying You" by michael1508: 7:47am On Sep 22, 2021 |
Kandeed: You don't get,I was pissed and amused to read that nonsense up there,the best logical way to show you what hate means is to show you the exit door,she dey even ask wetin happen to my own hard earn 1k,of course,I bought 4 packs of CDs and there is nothing you can do about it. If you want to prove you are difficult,then I'm more difficult. 3 Likes |
Re: When Your Wife Says " I Hate You And I Regret Marrying You" by pocohantas(f): 7:48am On Sep 22, 2021 |
dhiqson: Then don’t marry. It is not like anyone would notice. Ahnahn! 3 Likes |
Re: When Your Wife Says " I Hate You And I Regret Marrying You" by princeogbeide1(m): 8:06am On Sep 22, 2021 |
mrblessed: Smart Soul 2 Likes |
Re: When Your Wife Says " I Hate You And I Regret Marrying You" by femi4: 8:14am On Sep 22, 2021 |
ademidedavid:It's out of anger. Sit her down and talk. Communication solve a lot of problem 1 Like |
Re: When Your Wife Says " I Hate You And I Regret Marrying You" by solelymade: 8:14am On Sep 22, 2021 |
ademidedavid: Bros, you have no problem ooo... You need to switch you love language to words of affirmation. It has to be a deliberate thing, not an afterthought. Start telling your wife how beautiful she looks and incomparable to any woman out there. Compliment every appearance, every look, every purchase, engage her with programs too. Buy gifts too, hang out more with her. Travel if possible within and outside Nigeria. But talk more about her and how much you still love and how great she looks. She's feeling old and thinking in her mind you don't fancy her that much anymore apart from being your kids mother. Women as they age begin to feel less appreciated and threatened, their body means a lot to them, they see younger ladies and other women as a threat because you are an endangered species and the considerations in you is so great. You can see from her actions she's consciously trying to protect you because in her imagination she's at war with other women. She is only overreacting to her fears. Tell her she has nothing to fear, let your sane friends subtly tell her how lucky she is to have you. God will give you wisdom ooo. 1 Like |
Re: When Your Wife Says " I Hate You And I Regret Marrying You" by abeylevels(m): 8:18am On Sep 22, 2021 |
You are a very intelligent person. Rubbiish: 1 Like |
Re: When Your Wife Says " I Hate You And I Regret Marrying You" by princeogbeide1(m): 8:26am On Sep 22, 2021 |
Simps are Simps. Simple!!! 1 Like |
Re: When Your Wife Says " I Hate You And I Regret Marrying You" by Peterosky(m): 8:27am On Sep 22, 2021 |
ademidedavid:.I have read through few of your replies, and all I can say is that you are a good husband. Do not mind the silly advice from some children on this platform. Or better still, learn never to take your marital issues to any third party. Odikwa very risky. Your wife maybe overreacting, but those words she spilled mean nothing. Again, learn never to bring your marital issues to nairaland,Facebook or even to your friend or any other person, it's very risky. Forgive her and move on,she truly love's you.And that's the reason for the jealousy,just that she's being over protective.Wish you the best in your marriage. 1 Like |
Re: When Your Wife Says " I Hate You And I Regret Marrying You" by Ofiadiegwu: 8:27am On Sep 22, 2021 |
ademidedavid: She was simply emotional. Emotions come and go, never constant. Women are like that. Note: You are not alone in that experience. Others have experienced worse abusive words and psychological attacks 1 Like |
Re: When Your Wife Says " I Hate You And I Regret Marrying You" by SwordofDavid: 8:35am On Sep 22, 2021 |
You have started a process that can rewrite the script playing in your marriage. You know the life you desire, key to it and bring it to past. |
Re: When Your Wife Says " I Hate You And I Regret Marrying You" by Psoul(m): 8:42am On Sep 22, 2021 |
ademidedavid: Guy, if you are married for 10yrs and u still don't understand women, then there is something wrong wt u. Once you are married, cut off all unnecessary relationships/friends. Your family should be mostly your friends. Same should apply to ur wife also. Keep only friends that is truly beneficial to u and your family. Women love to brag to their friends with their husbands. Don't do anything that will make that bragging difficult for her. If you must look at other women lustfully, don't do it when she is there. Don't get drunk before your wife. These two things get her pissed off. She felt embarrassed. I also noticed that your wife loves you too much. When women love too much, they easily get angry wen u do those things they may not find themselves doing easily. They get mad at little thing but the anger may not last. Some can use hurtful words. That is their only way to revenge. They will just want u to feel same way u made them feel. Deep inside them, they never meant the words they said. Bros, why should u get into hot argument wt your wife of 10yrs probably in the presence of ur kids? You even have to go to the room where she was nagging peacefully. Why do u have to go there to tell her to let u be. No be trouble u dey look for? You even had to bang the door against her. This is unmanly. When women nag, don't join them. If u do, it means you want the nag to get longer and wt more hurtful words. After 10yrs, you should've know hw to handle an irate woman. I don't understand this well: she noticed that a thousand naira (#1000) was missing in my wallet and all means to explain to her proved abortive Your money was missing. She was angry You went to explain to her why your money short 1k. I don't get it. Or you noticed that your money was shorting 1k and you got angry that she may have taken it and this sparked off trouble. Well, if the later is the case, you may be a stingy husband or ur wife is a very bad woman that does not deserve your money. Let me tell you. Every woman takes her husband's money. Sometimes, keep your wallet carelessly so that you wife can take some money wtot ur consent. It makes them happy. So long as the woman is not extravagant, allow her to take some money and pretend that you don't know. That money she takes, will surely come back to u. Fighting your wife of 10yrs in marriage is petty. Finally, if you are really taking those words- (I hate you and regret marrying you) -seriously, then you need to grow up. Those words means that she loves u so much. Oga, go and love ur wife. She has her fault as well as you have urs. Stop holding on to petty things in ur marriage. U don pass this level. Unless if there is another woman out there beating the drum for u. 1 Like |
Re: When Your Wife Says " I Hate You And I Regret Marrying You" by Akuruoulo(m): 8:42am On Sep 22, 2021 |
ademidedavid:Bro it's very good u save ur home from any form of scene, and I bet u don't have intimate female friends would want to visit your home. As a Married man it's only ur female relatives who should visit you, and if she is not ok with them visiting, then she has a big problem. BRO U ARE THE BOSS , AND DON'T FORGET IT. WOMEN CAN NEVER GO AGAINST THEIR GENDER NOR MATTER WHAT SHE DID , AND THAT TELL ALOT ABOUT HOW THEY WANT TO INSTALL THEIR SUPERIOR FEMINISTS AGENDA WEDA BY KNOWN OR UNKNOWN 1 Like |
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