You meet a girl you like the next you are sweating and following her like a goat that have seen a juicy grass. She keep delaying and possibly suffering You,you keep running around like a rat whose tail have been cut off all because you want to enter into relationship with her. At the end she says "Yes" and she watches you grinning like a man who have found a precious ornament. In her mind she says "let this Mugu join the number of Mugus in my diary, after all it is not bad". To her it is fun to taste many d**k and also enjoy the financial security that comes with it. To you you have found that damsel you have been looking for in the wilderness of loneliness. You dissipate your energy, time and financial resources just to love her and make her happy but to her that does not make You anything less than a Mugu. The same way other men are promising her marriage, You did the same, when she saw the unseriousness of other guys who may all be interested in her honey pot and watching that years is no longer on her side. She agrees to your proposal like she loved you all along. You knelt down like a fool and beg her to become your responsibility. She agrees to become your responsibility and you are happy calling men to join you in harvest of drink and meriment all because you have added a responsibility to your tiny shoulder.


Now all her mind is becoming your official wife so she can enjoy high level of financial security and hibernate herself from societal pressure. At this moment your financial burden increases and you probably have to remote huge amount of money you would have reinvested into your business to prepare for your wedding all to make the Lady happy. Just take a look at the face of the groom on wedding day, he is not always happy knowing the financial commitment but to the Ladies she is the happiest person on Earth.


The journey has just begun and henceforth you will be swimming in the ocean of financial commitment from probiding food, taking care of your family and raising your children. You have no time to drive down to Cubana resort at Owerri to have a good time, neither do you have time to take good care of your self.


By the time the children you have suffered to raise grows up and become financially stable, that is when death will come to take you to the other side.


And the woman will enjoy the fruit of your Labour for many years to come and when she dies she will be giving a befiting burial and all your Labour and sacrifice will belong to the past.


Men be wise.

U have written well but sadly none of this can change the mindset or the way things are being done!!!


No matter what, men will always be mumu to the female. Their deceitful acts is equals to God greatness, so I laugh at men who said their aren’t simp on social media but in true sense their girls are dating more than 5 guys.


So bro uve done well but it will remain what it’s

For real men, this scenario plays in the opposite. She will give him all the greenlight like a criminal desperate to be arrested. His presence will make her melt like a butter in a hot pan. All he has to do is ask her out, and boom, relationship commences.

But only few men get to experience this, and to reach this level, you must know yourself, your comparative advantage, and accentuate it to the zenith. Women do chase men, they do. And they need you more, because by nature, happiness for women is always relational. If you're ways chasing and passing through hurdles with women, you might perhaps sit down and get yourself act right first.

princemillla:
U have written well but sadly none of this can change the mindset or the way things are being done!!!


No matter what, men will always be mumu to the female. Their deceitful acts is equals to God greatness, so I laugh at men who said their aren’t simp on social media but in true sense their girls are dating more than 5 guys.


So bro uve done well but it will remain what it’s

You are right

Very educative, quite interesting
All men take note