good day nrlanders

i will like to seek advice from you guys concerning an issues that has been troubling me.

So it all happened last year when my lil sis (about 9 yo) walked in on my parent while they were at it, you know how children usually go to join their parent on their bed when they wake in the middle of the night, well my liltle sister is fond of doing that. till today my parent never knew they were been watched by my lil sister, they were careless enough to leave their room door open and she just stumbled upon them.

She was curious enough to find out what they were actually doing that night, so she used my mums phone to browse “man on woman” that was exactly what she searched on google, by the way my mum gave her free access to use her phone for gaming whenever she feels like, i don’t know how she came about a po*nographic website from her search, but seems like she found what she was looking for.

like play like play this small girl ve started to watch p*rno, she now watches porn online with my mums phone, of cause my mum doesn’t know about it.
on a certain day my mum went through her phone browser history and noticed someone has been watching X rated on her phone, my mum scolded my lil sis and she confessed to watching porn but she didn’t give any reason neither did she speak about what she saw that night.

My mum informed my elder sis who visited somedays later about the issue, can’t tell
her she handled the situation but my lil sister confided in her about seeing them that night. my elder sis told only me about it, honestly i was shocked but i didn’t confront the little girl i still act like i know nothing about the whole scenario, she told me to keep an eye on my little sis as i’m the only on in the family house with my parents.

To cut the story short, i saw my little sis with my dads phone on sunday, i could tell she was upto something when she saw me coming, her facial expression gave her out, i kinda had the feeling she was doing something wrong, she titled her body in a way that you can’t get a glimpse of the phone screen from your side view.
just yesterday i checked my dad brower history to clear my doubt instead my doubts cleared me. i saw porn site she visited on sunday, she also browsed “how to find true love” she’s just 10 .... all this she browsed and many more. they all matched with the exact time i saw her that evening. i’ve cleared the browser history tho.

first of all, i’m not good at confrontation nor giving advices, my elder sister would have been in the best position to advice her, but she doesn’t live with us. so i might be willing to advice her.
i know my parent will handle the issues in an irrational manner so telling them is not an option.

people should be more careful on the content they allow their children watch, with how broad the internet is, every parent should take it as a duty to regulate the content their children watch.

our elders in the house i seek for your humble advice. what do i do?

Chaii, bro na you be this girl. No lies.

Gentlerespect76:
Chaii, bro na you be this girl. No lies.

why not live up to your name and have some respect for yourself.

Oga this your story made me believe that my eyes have truly seen my ears for this Naija.

So you're telling me that a 10years old is already watching porn steady and even searching for "how to find true love", what does she know about true love , someone that should be in primary 5 or 6, that should be preparing for her common entrance exam

She needs to be talked to. Get your sister to do the needful. Your parents are out of it cause they are the cause of her curiosity.

Your parent didn't try at all....they suppose padlock their door anytime that want to do anything

Some people give kids access to smartphones like it is nothing, you guys need to watch her keenly and limit her access to internet.

DaddyRochie1642:
Oga this your story made me believe that my eyes have truly seen my ears for this Naija.

So you're telling me that a 10years old is already watching porn steady and even searching for "how to find true love", what does she know about true love , someone that should be in primary 5 or 6, that should be preparing for her common entrance exam

i really hate it when people don’t think intensively before talking, go through your comment and ask yourself, did what i write just made any sense?
thats why quora still remains one of the best forums.
because u wrote your common entrance when u were 16 doesn’t mean we should all write ours at the same age.

let me enlighten you sir, search engine like google uses keywords optimization to produce results, she probably typed in something relating to love, that brought out such websites out

Romanoff:
She needs to be talked to. Get your sister to do the needful. Your parents are out of it cause they are the cause of her curiosity.

of cause i will inform my sis about it. thanks for your input

dougfenton:


i really hate it when people don’t think intensively before talking, go through your comment and ask yourself, did what i write just made any sense?
thats why quora still remains one of the best forums.
because u wrote your common entrance when u were 16 doesn’t mean we should all write ours at the same age.

let me enlighten you sir, search engine like google uses keywords optimization to produce results, she probably typed in something relating to love, that brought out such websites out

Oga this aggression you're channeling to me should be channeled to your lil sis that is going astray.

The Lord is your Strength

I start by saying u don't have any problem, God gave u this opportunity to catch this act on time so her life will not be ruined..do the following
1. Your parents must use passworded phones and gadgets from now on
2. Make sure u seat her down and talk sense into her
3. Keep her busy with schoolwork that she won't have time for such nonsense
4. You can do the covenant University style, buy her gadgets that is not internet based and fill it with messages and music from dunsin,Oyedepo and apostle Joshua Selman
5. Begin prayer with her every night and let her be d one leading it...winners satellite fellowship on Saturdays by 5pm has helped lot of children, let her join
6. Sunday evening Bible study were it's just d two of u studying

For darkness to flee, light must be replaced and it must fill the whole place..the light of a candle will not let me see my wardrobe but the three bulbs will be super bright
Congratulations, that list of the flesh spirit that wants to take hold of ur princess will die by all means as u obey these instructions

OP stop lying

This is the right time for your mum to teach her about sex education before she goes astray...

Yoir parents should have sat her down immediately after she caught them in the act, use that as an opportunity for a little sex education and explain to her that what they were doing is meant for married people only. Had they done that, she wouldn't have felt the need to go online to search for answers.

DaddyRochie1642:
Oga this your story made me believe that my eyes have truly seen my ears for this Naija.

So you're telling me that a 10years old is already watching porn steady and even searching for "how to find true love", what does she know about true love , someone that should be in primary 5 or 6, that should be preparing for her common entrance exam

E be things
I had my first girl when I was just 7
He dey happen
No children anywhere again
Everybody don jaaa..
Na WA oooo such is life mehnn

Omo! See now ? That her first experience she caught your dad and mom having sex can be erased easily from her mind, that's why it's always good to play your cards well as a parent, if care is not taken, I swear that girl will either start masturbating or become a lesbian or whatsoever, so try and talk to Her in whatever way that will stop those thoughts ringing In her head, Wish you good luck