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Re: Is My Girlfriend Possessed? by BENEFICIAL12(m): 6:11pm On Aug 15, 2021 |
YOU SLAPT HER? AS WHAT? WELL... I BLAME WOMEN SHAA |
Re: Is My Girlfriend Possessed? by halogate: 6:18pm On Aug 15, 2021 |
..it takes a lot of mental fortitude to withstand this type of tearful nagging,.if u don't have that, I suggest go and drink two bottles of ur favorite brand, buy full roasted chicken and enjoy yaself...come back home, face one side and sleep well. Na because u dey house with am e dey affect u.. |
Re: Is My Girlfriend Possessed? by EmptyGarden(m): 7:01pm On Aug 15, 2021 |
zed7:You have probably oppressed the poor lady into a mute. Every woman talks... It's in their DNA. 1 Like |
Re: Is My Girlfriend Possessed? by Newboss(m): 7:34pm On Aug 15, 2021 |
Simps all over this thread. See them saying women are like that. Na so they take dey manipulate una. OP give her strong warning. Na man you be. If she do am again, send her out of your house in the middle of the night. Yeye dey smell |
Re: Is My Girlfriend Possessed? by Truvelisback(m): 8:01pm On Aug 15, 2021 |
samuelson06:Oga start petting her jor |
Re: Is My Girlfriend Possessed? by Demigod22: 8:46pm On Aug 15, 2021 |
I totally understand your frustration but never go physical on her. Whenever she is crying and talking, just pet her and when she is strong, try and explain to her about how that behavior affects your psyche. 3 Likes |
Re: Is My Girlfriend Possessed? by samuelson06(m): 12:28am On Aug 16, 2021 |
Demigod22: I find it hard to believe that some women are configured to act in a certain disgusting way like she did while some act sanely. I find it difficult to believe some women have a right to act crazily emotionally. And I have a reason I chose not to pet or calm her to stop her display of folly. When a child misbehaves and you try to correct or discipline him, the child then starts crying and won't stop. He looks up and expect you to call him back to pet. You know the psychology? That moment, the child feels you were the problem and that's why you came back to pet him to stop. Next, he's going to misbehave again, knowing fully well that you'd call him back and pet him again to stop. And the nonsense continue. The child would never realize that he was the problem and he ought to keep quiet, apologize for his wrongs and behave well henceforth. In the future, the child grows to become a problem to others. He becomes an adult that can't control his emotions because there's no one to pet him now. He becomes a bully. He becomes a grown up baby. Who caused all of these, YOU! Do you know that this girl with me can end up giving birth to these nature of children? I think it's possible and I don't want that. I want to have children who are mentally and emotionally balanced. I want children that can reason and make sound decision, not influenced by negative energies. I've pet her in the past and I won't do it again. I knew that's what she wanted but she's not a child. It's a shame to see an adult behave this way and you guys are here encouraging me to have petted her. Pet her for what exactly? Because she can't control her emotions? I've actually challenged her to repeat a similar nonsense again. Na police go settle us. |
Re: Is My Girlfriend Possessed? by Karlifate: 2:38am On Aug 16, 2021 |
With your replies so far, you guys ain't compatible. Stop trying so hard to fix what's not meant to be fixed, because of one mumu love. If it starts before marriage, it will surely continue in marriage Marriage doesn't change character, it only changes marital status. |
Re: Is My Girlfriend Possessed? by Goldencheese(m): 3:32am On Aug 16, 2021 |
Thanks for your reply. The issue is this simple, you have the privilege of knowing who your girlfriend or fiancee is now. If you cannot put up with her manipulations anymore, call a meeting between two of you, could be outside of your house and discuss things with her. Let her know how you feel about her, the murmurings, the tears, the need for cuddling and all that. Tell her the kind of woman you want. For example, you made an important point, after working and coming home to rest, you expect to meet your significant other making the home bearable and a delight to you and not one that you have to start petting when you need to rest yourself. Let her know the vision you have for your family and that there is no room for someone that behaves like her. This communication is important so that both of you can save yourselves the time and look for more compatible partners. This world is not difficult. But keeping her and giving her the impression you will go ahead to marry her and then at the same time suffering in silence won't do any of you any good. That is how I would have reacted. Why should a young woman be murmuring? Did she live with old people? Those are issues to correct in time, and if they can't be corrected, you should know what to do because you seem to me to be an Alpha male. Wishing you both the best in life. samuelson06: |
Re: Is My Girlfriend Possessed? by blinking001(m): 8:04am On Aug 16, 2021 |
Goldencheese:Ewehhhhhhhhhh
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Re: Is My Girlfriend Possessed? by samuelson06(m): 9:23am On Aug 16, 2021 |
Goldencheese: Thanks for your words. I've talked to her that I hate what she did and she was like, "someone must say I'm sorry and she's sorry." It's just tiring for me. However, I made it very clear to her that the day I'd experience such attitude and disobedience would mark the end of our relationship - in or before marriage. 1 Like |
Re: Is My Girlfriend Possessed? by zed7: 12:35pm On Aug 16, 2021 |
EmptyGarden:You have been so abused by toxic women you now feel its normal. Of course a woman expressing herself is different from what the OP is claiming. There are a million decent women with self worth out there, the problem is most of you are damaged and naturally seek damaged women also. Like attracts like. |
Re: Is My Girlfriend Possessed? by samuelson06(m): 4:06pm On Aug 16, 2021 |
zed7: |
Re: Is My Girlfriend Possessed? by Goldencheese(m): 10:25am On Aug 17, 2021 |
samuelson06: Great. |
Re: Is My Girlfriend Possessed? by Nobody: 11:25am On Aug 08, 2022 |
EmptyGarden: 1 Like
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