Masterkernel1:



Thanks for correcting me.

You are welcome, Bros.

Raph82:
So if u are the mother of that girl or her aunty, will u allow her do that? How are u even sure that Paul has not been manipulated with jazz by that lady. Who no want better life too? Paul was not like that in the beginning, if he was, the wife won't marry him, remember they dated for ten years, how come things are like this now? "Lizards don't make wall their hideouts if is not cracked". She made way for this mess, trust me. How are we even sure she still has time for the husband at home? For her to get house girl for the upkeep of just three kids and the husband shows me flaws. I don't for once buy the idea of house help. If they are low salary earner, will she go for house girl? " A WISE WOMAN BUILDS HER HOME, AND A FOOLISH ONE PULLS IT DOWN WITH HER HANDS".

na your type person they keep okro seed for and
If I meet you in person ,honestly you gat collect.if you know you know.

Raph82:
So if u are the mother of that girl or her aunty, will u allow her do that? How are u even sure that Paul has not been manipulated with jazz by that lady. Who no want better life too? Paul was not like that in the beginning, if he was, the wife won't marry him, remember they dated for ten years, how come things are like this now? "Lizards don't make wall their hideouts if is not cracked". She made way for this mess, trust me. How are we even sure she still has time for the husband at home? For her to get house girl for the upkeep of just three kids and the husband shows me flaws. I don't for once buy the idea of house help. If they are low salary earner, will she go for house girl? " A WISE WOMAN BUILDS HER HOME, AND A FOOLISH ONE PULLS IT DOWN WITH HER HANDS".

But guy honestly come clean with me,what class of substance are you on care to share !

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He either pays up or he can say goodbye to performing in USA! ANd since the children are american citizens, she can put a claim against his USA homes, the condo is worth over $1 million. She's a smart woman & that's his karma for trying to ruin his twins marriage & trying to humiliate his wife over her age, meanwhile his marriage with his young wife had gone cold & he was sleeping with the maids till he impregnated one of them!! - amaoge.chukwu

If you hv money in Nigeria just know a lady is marrying you because of that money not for any love..U guys should learn - IG User

Don’t be afraid to love someone, there are still millions of people happily married out there, most importantly, hold on to God, work on yourself before planning to work on someone else, understand yourself and learn to tolerate. If your male partner is rich, just pray he gives you maximum respect because it’s very difficult for rich men not to cheat because if musa refuses to go to the mountain, the mountain will come to musa. Thank you - IG User

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Fear this gender, dem be Viper

MufasaLion:
Damn!
What? Slept with maids?

Indeed, most men lack self-esteem!

People using opportunities to score cheap shots on gender make me laugh. Why not be specific in this case?

Paul lacks self esteem.

Lacash:
Fear this gender, dem be Viper

Which gender? Females? Aren't you born of woman? Does a fruit differ from its tree?

hammer567:



DONT MIND THEM, THEY ARE HYPOCRITE.

I REPEAT, THE PRICK CANNOT BE CONTROLLED.


THERE MUST BE AN OUTLET, BE IT PORN, MASTURBATION OR SEX.

IF THEY DID NOT RAPE, THEY HAVE MASTURBATED OR HAD CONSENSUAL SEX.

DONT LET THEM USE EXTREME EXAMPLE TO MASK THE ORIGINAL INTENTION OF THAT REMARK/MESSAGE IN OTHER TO THROW YOU OFF.


YOU GOT THE MESSAGE RIGHT THE FIRST TIME AND UNDERSTOOD IT WELL. THIS IS WHY PORN IS WIDELY AVAILABLE TODAY AND IT HAS REDUCED THE OCCURENCE OF RAPE.



IF THEY CAN CONTROL IT, THEN LET THEM GO WITHOUT SEX OR MASTURBATION.

EVEN THEN, WET DREAM WILL TAKE PLACE IN THEIR SLEEP, WHILST THEY HAVE HOT SEX IN DREAM, SLEEPING.

Prick can be controlled and if you use it as an excuse to commit silly acts then you and your prick will be rightly dealt with.

Go see a medical practitioner if you have problems with self control.

elonmuskbaby:
broda ode.she born her kids for Yankee therefore they're American citizens..if he do any rubbish he won't see his kids for life and the American law will back her up

Are you happy that the woman is using her kids and the American judicial system to milk the man dry?

She's just using the fact that the man has assets in the U.s. because she knows things don't work that way in Africa.

This is the reason why most men are finding it hard to get married because the Western system is designed to favor the women.... And as long as that continues in the west, Divorces will always be on the increase.

MrColdsweat:
Men should wake up.

Stop marrying these modern women a.k.a the common whores.

Save yourself. There's no hero in this story.

Go your own way.

I pity males who follow the above. The modern woman is a common LovePeddler? Come on people!!

My advice - guys marry. However be very careful and investigate properly before you marry. Do not ignore red flags. I was lucky that my father stepped in and advised when I was about to ignore a red flag. May God continually bless him.

If you are one who wants to marry a woman that you will make a slave instead of partner or If you want to marry a woman you will dominate, that route has its problems. The best homes I have seen is where there is respect and communication, where both parties are genuine. What worked for our fathers and grandfathers requires wisdom and patience to understand and apply.

Will any of you men raise your daughter to be weak and dependent or would you raise her to be strong and independent? Like Biggie said in 'Sky is the limit' - send my daughter to college so that she don't need no man.

Don't read or join loud voices continually insulting the female gender. Are some females evil? Oh yes some are worse than Delilah. Some would be mentors to Jezebel. But not all. Ditto for men - some of us are worse than Nabal.

In this case I don't know the truth. I don't support divorce however if indeed Paul has been unfaithful etc. His wife has every right to do what she has done. Betrayal is not a joke. To sleep with a maid in your house, hmmm - that one is lighting a fire in your house and wanting to watch it burn. Who wants to remain in a burning house?

TheEnygma:

Are you happy that the woman is using her kids and the American judicial system to milk the man dry?

She's just using the fact that the man has assets in the U.s. because she knows things don't work that way in Africa.

This is the reason why most men are finding it hard to get married because the Western system is designed to favor the women.... And as long as that continues in the west, Divorces will always be on the increase.

I don't blame the woman. If her accusations are right, then Paul is at fault.

Also milk the man dry? I thought P Square are rolling in money. 15k per month - perhaps he should have been more careful about where he puts his dick.

That said I am sure there will be an agreement and the amount would be smaller than that. It is called negotiations.

If her accusations are false then that is a whole other different story. Infidelity is a stupid thing to do in this modern age.

Bluewitch:



Shame!

Same people who cry inequality....
Isn't the maid a human being

God bless u for this.
I wonder why nigerians believe all maids are low life dirty village girls..(too much of nollywood i guess)..

Some maids are graduates for Godsake..

I hate that word.stoop so low..

Druss:


I pity males who follow the above. The modern woman is a common LovePeddler? Come on people!!

My advice - guys marry. However be very careful and investigate properly before you marry. Do not ignore red flags. I was lucky that my father stepped in and advised when I was about to ignore a red flag. May God continually bless him.

If you are one who wants to marry a woman that you will make a slave instead of partner or If you want to marry a woman you will dominate, that route has its problems. The best homes I have seen is where there is respect and communication, where both parties are genuine. What worked for our fathers and grandfathers requires wisdom and patience to understand and apply.

Will any of you men raise your daughter to be weak and dependent or would you raise her to be strong and independent? Like Biggie said in 'Sky is the limit' - send my daughter to college so that she don't need no man.

Don't read or join loud voices continually insulting the female gender. Are some females evil? Oh yes some are worse than Delilah. Some would be mentors to Jezebel. But not all. Ditto for men - some of us are worse than Nabal.

In this case I don't know the truth. I don't support divorce however if indeed Paul has been unfaithful etc. His wife has every right to do what she has done. Betrayal is not a joke. To sleep with a maid in your house, hmmm - that one is lighting a fire in your house and wanting to watch it burn. Who wants to remain in a burning house?

Yes I know.
Your wife is sweet, she's God's blessings and she's the best thing until she reveals to you her true self or she gives you another man's bastard to raise.


We will read your story here on nairaland.

Druss:


I don't blame the woman. If her accusations are right, then Paul is at fault.

Also milk the man dry? I thought P Square are rolling in money. 15k per month - perhaps he should have been more careful about where he puts his dick.

That said I am sure there will be an agreement and the amount would be smaller than that. It is called negotiations.

If her accusations are false then that is a whole other different story. Infidelity is a stupid thing to do in this modern age.

So, it is okay for a man to pay $15k a month because he cheated?

Tell me, what punishment do you prescribe for Nigerian women who trick their husbands into raising another man's kids?.

Druss:


Prick can be controlled and if you use it as an excuse to commit silly acts then you and your prick will be rightly dealt with.

Go see a medical practitioner if you have problems with self control.

GO AND FIND YOUR AGE MATE TO QUOTE, NEXT TIME.



INUGO!

CharisEleos:
SMH... Hmmm...

Imagine, house girl?? Why are men like this though?

Shame on him!

Call a cheat a cheat nd dont make it sound like it would be better if he had cheated on someone else..

Besides the lady is human too,
Maids are humans too.
Some maids are more educated nd matured than some wives ..

I dont support cheating of any kind, but it is wrong to downgrade people bcuz of their profession ..

I knew this would come.

The monthly stipend he do give her is not enough for her, so the only way to get more from him is to divorce and make demands.


The system is not working.
It should be if you divorce you should pay but not the other way round.

You divorce you pay.
If am the one we go drag the matter oo.

Redpillar:
I support her.

If you hv money in Nigeria just know a lady is marrying you because of that money not for any love..U guys should learn - IG User

tillaman:
Street dey inside street, Life dey inside life and circle dey inside circle
Clique dey Inside clique so you mean with all the reason with me song and all he had to stoop low and smash their maid??
Haba KingRudy fall my hand even though he is my favorite among the duo
I hope and pray they help them settle this matter

See this man... na only you wey no sabi say konji na bastard

Fxbu:

But guy honestly come clean with me,what class of substance are you on care to share !

I am who nature has made me. I believe strongly in nature, and a mature mind to handle situations tactically, and not with emotions and sentiment. Nature has thrown many blows at me, and I'm still here stronger.

Fxbu:
na your type person they keep okro seed for and
If I meet you in person ,honestly you gat collect.if you know you know.

I don't know what u mean by that, but if it's an insult, I take it in good fate, it's part of life.

MrColdsweat:


So, it is okay for a man to pay $15k a month because he cheated?

Tell me, what punishment do you prescribe for Nigerian women who trick their husbands into raising another man's kids?.

By the law, it is okay if his finances show he can afford it. The amount to be paid is determined by the man's ability to provide. I have no personal decision or influence in this matter. The law is the law. If indeed Paul's wife proves Paul was unfaithful and proves his ability to provide the above then it is up to the law to determine if and what he should pay.

Punishment I prescribe? Am I God or the Law? Give to Caeser what is Caeser's and give to God what is God's.

MrColdsweat:

Yes I know.
Your wife is sweet, she's God's blessings and she's the best thing until she reveals to you her true self or she gives you another man's bastard to raise.

We will read your story here on nairaland.

Tsk tsk tsk! Were you hurt in an earlier life? Come to Jesus. He shall take care of you and show you the way to better life.

Once I was as bitter as you but the Lord helped me and showed me the way. In him is strength and love. Come to him - he will show you the way.

caesymore:


See this man... na only you wey no sabi say konji na bastard

my bro sometimes e nor good to dey reason with penis, person no suppose dey shiit where e dey chop Shey you feel me??
E suppose nor reason him maids at all if at all he wan run game

The grounds for divorce didn't have adultery in it , so I wonder where the house help pregnancy rumours come from. If there was really a house help pregnant somewhere, that will help her case overall if she had listed adultery as one of her grounds for divorce. I really doubt the impregnating house help story

Druss:


Tsk tsk tsk! Were you hurt in an earlier life? Come to Jesus. He shall take care of you and show you the way to better life.

Once I was as bitter as you but the Lord helped me and showed me the way. In him is strength and love. Come to him - he will show you the way.

Poor attempt at deviating.

I insist that Jesus will not stop another man from spilling hot cum In your wife's mouth.

Your matter go reach FrontPage.

MrColdsweat:


Poor attempt at deviating.

I insist that Jesus will not stop another man from spilling hot cum In your wife's mouth.

Your matter go reach FrontPage.

Man has free will and it is man's decision to do what man wills to do.

Offer is always up. God is always available for you. Once I was lost. God is there whenever you want to run to him.

TheEnygma:

Are you happy that the woman is using her kids and the American judicial system to milk the man dry?

She's just using the fact that the man has assets in the U.s. because she knows things don't work that way in Africa.

This is the reason why most men are finding it hard to get married because the Western system is designed to favor the women.... And as long as that continues in the west, Divorces will always be on the increase.

so she should not take care of her kids because they're divorced or what?
Then because the Nigerian judicial system has been reduced to favour the highest bidder.its corrupt,biased , oppressive and wicked.if not how many victims of SARS that the Media or social media didn't carry received genuine justice? Meaning Na who get money dey get justice for nigeria but in Yankee the law no send you whether you get money or not.its all about fairness,equity and justice.you feel it's pro women because men in Africa are not ready to take responsibility when they err and be humble enough to change and when they woman says no I can't take this injustice,then they start playing the victim.

This is the same man harassing his sister in-law because of tribal differences yet he has a terrible character that can break a home and you're blaming Western laws.take responsibility.he foked up .his behaviour is Anti marriage not western laws,admit it, rectify that character, apologize and move on,that's all a reasonable man will do if he doesn't want divorce.he won't blame feminism,western laws or divorce for his misbehaviour.hes just narcissistic

Fountainofyouth:



Thank God you know you are not enlightened, and enlightenment will continue to be far from you if you refuse to personally research on what you lack knowledge of, rather than commenting ignorantly just to get likes and support from your type.

you are a disgrace!

SmellySperm:
After this,his name will be changed from rude boy to humble boy

God knows i really wanna get married but this Gender has a whole lot of drama, so how do i?

i wish Deb let that baby wait, she'll be 10 by now. is this the marriage institution? na the for better for worse be this?
na by force?

Who earns/receives 7.8Million naira in a month in Nigeria as salary?

why she no carry gun go rob?


the attached throwback pictures got me thinking?

My life first and thats the priority, i love you i love you lori iro!



7.8Million naira in a month as Spousal support?

child support sef no go fi reach, how much be pampers?

Wo! me i wan sleep o!

elonmuskbaby:
so she should not take care of her kids because they're divorced or what?
Then because the Nigerian judicial system has been reduced to favour the highest bidder.its corrupt,biased , oppressive and wicked.if not how many victims of SARS that the Media or social media didn't carry received genuine justice? Meaning Na who get money dey get justice for nigeria but in Yankee the law no send you whether you get money or not.its all about fairness,equity and justice.you feel it's pro women because men in Africa are not ready to take responsibility when they err and be humble enough to change and when they woman says no I can't take this injustice,then they start playing the victim

First of all , just know that I don't support infidelity in marriage but the truth is this; if she wants to divorce and can't take care of the kids, she should simply hand over custody of the kids to the man and not look for an excuse to leech from the man.... FYI , In America divorce often favors women financially, which is exactly the reason why the divorce rates there are very high.
What you should know is that Most American women have turned marriage into a "get rich quick scheme"......
usually they'll target a rich naive guy,
make him fall for her,
Marry him for period of time,
File for divorce over petty issues,
And have the courts split the man's wealth with her....

Paul's wife knows very well that filing for divorce in America is gonna favor her more than in Nigeria.

Gentlerespect76:
How do you say she is smart, bros? Seems you don't know what marriage is all about. If anything, Anita is sadly the one who has lost everything. In Nigeria, just as elsewhere, the flow of the kids would be towards the Okoyes because that is what they are. Her loss is the gains of the Okoyes.

Says who? They are Okoyes, yes but that doesnt mean they can't do a 360 degree turn against them. Its like you have not heard or seen where kids grew up in their maternal home only to associate with the dad's side out of obligation. The woman can have 100% of the kids attention.m esp in this case. They are from the Okoyes by chance. I hope you will say the same thing if its the woman that cheated. Okoyes gain kor