elonmuskbaby:
virtuous woman Kee you there.e no Go better for virtuous woman

The husband dey Fok househelp sotey e give am belle you still dey talk about virtuous woman.who virtousness EPP? He give househelp belle e still dey scatter him brother marriage, isn't it obvious he's the narcissistic one?

The kids are his so it's his responsibility to take care of them or what were you expecting? Sit down there and be taking rubbish and disrespect.

By packing them away from the house and demanding for 7 million per month? See nobody is justifying what the husband did, he has done the worst he can do by impregnating house girl, and he's the most stupid guy in the whole world I must say. But cutting off the head is not the medicine for curing headache. She can remain with her man and fight for what is hers. The steps she's taking now is not the way to win back her husband. See, u haven't found yourself in that corner, that's why u're joining others in blowing hot. U won't be there to pity her when she'll be regreting her actions.

Your sentences that I have made bold are the evidence that you know very little about law.

What you did in your write up was nothing more than wishful thinking and you projecting your views and beliefs onto all the legal systems in the world.

Your views may sound fair and moral but where they fall flat is the reality that the courts have never been about Lustice but about Law. And Law is based on what you can prove or disprove.

Bill Cosby was freed last month because of a technicality. That's Law not Justice if you believe he is guilty.

OJ Simpson was freed on a technicality. That is Law again and not Justice.

So to say that courts always punish the wrongdoer in marriage is rather ignorant as some people who kill get away on technicalities while others who don't have the best lawyers may get slammed with terribly harsh judgements for minor errors.

Sanchez01:

LOVE IS LOVE! If it isn't true, then it isn't love. Movies and songs have ruined the lives of many so bad that they have come to believe there is 'love' and there is 'true love'. If it is tainted with lies, cheating or abuse, then it is no longer love. None of these ugly trends are attributes of love.

That said, divorce favour marriage victims and not the offender (except Northern courts that Hisbah preside over). No way a court of law will rule in favour of a cheat, an abuser or an offender in marriage. Oftentimes, it is the men who spearhead these trends that often lead to collapse in their home. Ruling in favour has nothing to do with gender.

Adele paid $171 million in court settlement to her ex-husband in January, I didn't see your handle or your post then to bemoan why it favoured the man. Guess what? Mel B, Jennifer Lopez, Kate Winslet, Mary J. Blige, and Anna Faris all paid heavily in spousal support TO THEIR EX-HUSBAND. These are tiny fraction of women who have paid spousal support to their ex-husbands and do you know why? Bulk of what led to the collapse of the marriage was their fault. If it was the men who messed up, they wouldn't gotten a pin from the marriage. It's the same if you reverse the genders. No cheating or abusive woman will profit from a marriage if their actions led to the collapse of the marriage.

As per your last question, a married man who either sleeps around, disrespects his wife, abuse her physically, mentally and emotionally already show signs of a terrible parent. Leaving children in the custody of such is a disaster waiting to happen. Note that there are men almost every month who win custody after overwhelming evidences suggest the wives are irresponsible.

If you have an insane level of libido and you're sure one woman can't cure it, you're better off with uneducated village women who believe it is normal for men to have a harem. Don't expect a woman to put up with the nonsense behaviour of her man just because she wants to stay married.

Well I'm not a fan of sarcasm.

Klass99:


Smh and lol , please learn to discern sarcasm.

He should give her even more if he has, after all the kids are his.

VULCAN:
Your sentences that I have made bold are the evidence that you know very little about law.

What you did in your write up was nothing more than wishful thinking and you projecting your views and beliefs onto all the legal systems in the world.

Your views may sound fair and moral but where they fall flat is the reality that the courts have never been about Lustice but about Law. And Law is based on what you can prove or disprove.

Bill Cosby was freed last month because of a technicality. That's Law not Justice if you believe he is guilty.

OJ Simpson was freed on a technicality. That is Law again and not Justice.

So to say that courts always punish the wrongdoer in marriage is rather ignorant as some people who kill get away on technicalities while others who don't have the best lawyers may get slammed with terribly harsh judgements for minor errors.

We're talking marital dispute and you're citing a murder case as well as that of a sexual predator? How does it relate? Where is the sense in this

executive12:


Bye the way, $15,000 per month (not per year) is a lot of money in the US. Not many people make that much per month in the US.

tell me what I don’t know

executive12:


Case is in Court in Abuja, Nigeria, not America.
Rudeboy is based in Nigeria.

But his family isn’t though. Why are they asking for a dollar amount then?

Raph82:
By packing them away from the house and demanding for 7 million per month? See nobody is justifying what the husband did, he has done the worst he can do by impregnating house girl, and he's the most stupid guy in the whole world I must say. But cutting off the head is not the medicine for curing headache. She can remain with her man and fight for what is hers. The steps she's taking now is not the way to win back her husband. See, u haven't found yourself in that corner, that's why u're joining others in blowing hot. U won't be there to pity her when she'll be regreting her actions.

regretting that what? Konji catch you,you no see where to direct your penis e come be house girl,if she no carry the children, the next place he will be directing his penis is his little daughter.abi you never hear if fathers sleeping with their young daughters before? Na where e dey start be that

This is not a Matter of blowing hot, this is about a mother protecting her kids because when a man allows his penis destroy his marriage, even the kids aren't safe,so its better as she don carry them go yankee

Raph82:
By packing them away from the house and demanding for 7 million per month? See nobody is justifying what the husband did, he has done the worst he can do by impregnating house girl, and he's the most stupid guy in the whole world I must say. But cutting off the head is not the medicine for curing headache. She can remain with her man and fight for what is hers. The steps she's taking now is not the way to win back her husband. See, u haven't found yourself in that corner, that's why u're joining others in blowing hot. U won't be there to pity her when she'll be regreting her actions.

So Paul could not get that pregnancy terminated?

Is he that stupid? The girl is still attractive now, she can still give him 1 or 2 more children. ..

cococandy:


But his family isn’t though. Why are they asking for a dollar amount then?

This is to tell you she has more plans for him, Abuja court is not her last bus stop, case is coming to U.S las las. She will use her demands in Nigerian court as a reference.

Fish brain are easily spot...
Go hop on your Love Machine

Redpillar:
I support her.

Fish brain are easily spot...
Go hop on your dildooo

Redpillar:
I support her.

kponkedenge:
I've always known this woman, I just don't want to go into details.

Give us hints

kudinkarfe:
This woman think say Paul na Bill gate or Dangote. If she disturb this guy with unnecessary demand and court wahala she go soon become widow and she get problem with his twin so her eye go clear with paying bills and training children as a widow. Make she take am easy.

This guy you get bad mouth o

Somebody tunle she.... Somebody da ile ru... In daddy showkey voice

Never get married without a prenup

No be only #7.8m monthly?? ,she no serious ,na she decided to leave the marriage ,no be Paul leave the marriage ,....truth is that we don't know what might have been happening in their marriage ,....but it takes a lot for a 9ja lady with kids to want to leave her husband ,she have support from somewhere .

MufasaLion:
Damn!
What? Slept with maids?

Indeed, most men lack self-esteem!

Maid has levels oooo

Elporo:


So Paul could not get that pregnancy terminated?

Is he that stupid? The girl is still attractive now, she can still give him 1 or 2 more children. ..

So if u are the mother of that girl or her aunty, will u allow her do that? How are u even sure that Paul has not been manipulated with jazz by that lady. Who no want better life too? Paul was not like that in the beginning, if he was, the wife won't marry him, remember they dated for ten years, how come things are like this now? "Lizards don't make wall their hideouts if is not cracked". She made way for this mess, trust me. How are we even sure she still has time for the husband at home? For her to get house girl for the upkeep of just three kids and the husband shows me flaws. I don't for once buy the idea of house help. If they are low salary earner, will she go for house girl? " A WISE WOMAN BUILDS HER HOME, AND A FOOLISH ONE PULLS IT DOWN WITH HER HANDS".

Klass99:


You're giving me a headache already can you not debate issues without bringing religion into it?

A man said on this thread that prick cannot be controlled (not me) I called your attention to it because the original owner of statement being a man and part of the logical gender, must be saying something logical abi?

I was being sarcastic but that was entirely lost on you. Pele o!

Yea! "giving you headache" was fun. How did I bring religion into the discourse? Quoting a real personality from an authentic document does not amount to me bringing in religion. Characterizations by gender do not necessarily apply to all members of a gender. The man you quoted is obviously wrong or is probably your puppet typing away at your command...and your use of sarcasm makes me wonder what sarcasm really is!

Klass99:


You're giving me a headache already can you not debate issues without bringing religion into it?

A man said on this thread that prick cannot be controlled (not me) I called your attention to it because the original owner of statement being a man and part of the logical gender, must be saying something logical abi?

I was being sarcastic but that was entirely lost on you. Pele o!

DONT MIND THEM, THEY ARE HYPOCRITE.

I REPEAT, THE PRICK CANNOT BE CONTROLLED.


THERE MUST BE AN OUTLET, BE IT PORN, MASTURBATION OR SEX.

IF THEY DID NOT RAPE, THEY HAVE MASTURBATED OR HAD CONSENSUAL SEX.

DONT LET THEM USE EXTREME EXAMPLE TO MASK THE ORIGINAL INTENTION OF THAT REMARK/MESSAGE IN OTHER TO THROW YOU OFF.


YOU GOT THE MESSAGE RIGHT THE FIRST TIME AND UNDERSTOOD IT WELL. THIS IS WHY PORN IS WIDELY AVAILABLE TODAY AND IT HAS REDUCED THE OCCURENCE OF RAPE.



IF THEY CAN CONTROL IT, THEN LET THEM GO WITHOUT SEX OR MASTURBATION.

EVEN THEN, WET DREAM WILL TAKE PLACE IN THEIR SLEEP, WHILST THEY HAVE HOT SEX IN DREAM, SLEEPING.

Ugandatales:


This guy you get bad mouth o

Raph82:
By packing them away from the house and demanding for 7 million per month? See nobody is justifying what the husband did, he has done the worst he can do by impregnating house girl, and he's the most stupid guy in the whole world I must say. But cutting off the head is not the medicine for curing headache. She can remain with her man and fight for what is hers. The steps she's taking now is not the way to win back her husband. See, u haven't found yourself in that corner, that's why u're joining others in blowing hot. U won't be there to pity her when she'll be regreting her actions.

Fight for what is hers? . In a marriage where both are not on the same page, where despite several efforts a spouse gives the impression that the other is wasting time trying to fill up a basket...what is there to fight for?

What made you think, she opted for the divorce as a means of winning back her husband? Why do some people have this belief that a woman do not have the capacity to say enough is enough when she has reached her threshold of what she can no longer swallow in her marriage?

We can as well say that FFK former spouses Saratu Atta (1987-1990) and Yemisi Olasunbo Adeniji (1991-1995) are regretting ending it with him.

Raph82:
By packing them away from the house and demanding for 7 million per month? See nobody is justifying what the husband did, he has done the worst he can do by impregnating house girl, and he's the most stupid guy in the whole world I must say. But cutting off the head is not the medicine for curing headache. She can remain with her man and fight for what is hers. The steps she's taking now is not the way to win back her husband. See, u haven't found yourself in that corner, that's why u're joining others in blowing hot. U won't be there to pity her when she'll be regreting her actions.

Regretting which action,you are a very foolish man to reckon with.a serial cheat of a husband is who a woman should win back,I guess you are a man in your fifties ,the African mentality.let her also go to church to pray and fast also .carry your archaic mentality and gerat,she will be fine without the ingrate call a husband.honestly woman they try. Dude rest biko