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Re: Is It Advisable For Married Couple To Watch Porn by Vinnie2000(m): 7:02am On Aug 23, 2021
Danjikanbauchi:
my dear it's not ooo, you are indirectly inviting a demonic spirit into your home.
Flee from it pls.


How some of you Bring in Spiritualism to simple issues is Terrible! sad

What is 'Demonic Spirit in Porn?'

Sex is a powerful, natural force!! U desire it most times!!
Like the desire for your Favourite after a long time of not eating it..

The Bible advises young pple to marry because the scholars knew we Humans have High sexual urges!

There is nothing satanic or demonic about Sex/Porn!
Unless youbtell me it is the Devil, not God that created sex! undecided
Re: Is It Advisable For Married Couple To Watch Porn by Kriss216: 8:30am On Aug 23, 2021
fati2001:


Watching pornography is a sin for many reasons and can present a lot of problems in your marriage, even when viewed with one’s spouse. First, porn takes a sacred, intimate union and makes it a spectator sport. Pornography involves people engaging in an illicit sexual behavior in front of a camera. God designed intimacy for a husband and wife only. Sex is a special gift from God designated to unite a couple in marriage. When God creates something, He creates it with purpose and design.
If seeing the unclothedness of other people is requited to desire sex with one’s spouse, then that is lust. To watch pornography is to invite sin into our bedrooms. It allows the enemy to infiltrate our thinking, damage our hearts and turn dirty what God calls “very good”.
Come, go and return the phone to the owner.

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Re: Is It Advisable For Married Couple To Watch Porn by yemsai(f): 10:27am On Aug 23, 2021
I think is baby steps to cheating and divorce

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Re: Is It Advisable For Married Couple To Watch Porn by sunshineV(f): 10:55am On Aug 23, 2021
fati2001:


Watching pornography is a sin for many reasons and can present a lot of problems in your marriage, even when viewed with one’s spouse. First, porn takes a sacred, intimate union and makes it a spectator sport. Pornography involves people engaging in an illicit sexual behavior in front of a camera. God designed intimacy for a husband and wife only. Sex is a special gift from God designated to unite a couple in marriage. When God creates something, He creates it with purpose and design.
If seeing the unclothedness of other people is requited to desire sex with one’s spouse, then that is lust. To watch pornography is to invite sin into our bedrooms. It allows the enemy to infiltrate our thinking, damage our hearts and turn dirty what God calls “very good”.
what is the purpose of the hair inbetween men's yansh?
Re: Is It Advisable For Married Couple To Watch Porn by Laurene: 11:01am On Aug 23, 2021
fati2001:


Watching pornography is a sin for many reasons and can present a lot of problems in your marriage, even when viewed with one’s spouse. First, porn takes a sacred, intimate union and makes it a spectator sport. Pornography involves people engaging in an illicit sexual behavior in front of a camera. God designed intimacy for a husband and wife only. Sex is a special gift from God designated to unite a couple in marriage. When God creates something, He creates it with purpose and design.
If seeing the unclothedness of other people is requited to desire sex with one’s spouse, then that is lust. To watch pornography is to invite sin into our bedrooms. It allows the enemy to infiltrate our thinking, damage our hearts and turn dirty what God calls “very good”.
not everybody believes in God.
Re: Is It Advisable For Married Couple To Watch Porn by Laurene: 11:02am On Aug 23, 2021
Danjikanbauchi:
my dear it's not ooo, you are indirectly inviting a demonic spirit into your home.
Flee from it pls.
you are an idiot my friend.
Re: Is It Advisable For Married Couple To Watch Porn by drealcivilceno(m): 11:09am On Aug 23, 2021
fati2001:


Watching pornography is a sin for many reasons and can present a lot of problems in your marriage, even when viewed with one’s spouse. First, porn takes a sacred, intimate union and makes it a spectator sport. Pornography involves people engaging in an illicit sexual behavior in front of a camera. God designed intimacy for a husband and wife only. Sex is a special gift from God designated to unite a couple in marriage. When God creates something, He creates it with purpose and design.
If seeing the unclothedness of other people is requited to desire sex with one’s spouse, then that is lust. To watch pornography is to invite sin into our bedrooms. It allows the enemy to infiltrate our thinking, damage our hearts and turn dirty what God calls “very good”.

I pity you...

If you are chopping egusi, even it is garnished many ways, won't you be tired.

You drill the hole to make her shout today, tomorrow you kiss her passionately, and you slap hell out of that black butt chick the day after that- even if she says she doesn't like it...

In all of this you should be asking "who is daddy ooh!", she will call someone else that! grin
Re: Is It Advisable For Married Couple To Watch Porn by AmgMakanaki(m): 11:12am On Aug 23, 2021
KingOfAllIgbos:
grin

It can be educational but IF

Your wife sees the c0ck of Lexington Steele and your own prick is 3 inches....

She go cheat ooo shocked

This comment muzz me grin grin grin

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Re: Is It Advisable For Married Couple To Watch Porn by Danjikanbauchi: 2:10pm On Aug 23, 2021
Laurene:
you are an idiot my friend.
thank God you are a friend with idiot. I believe that is your father's family name.
Re: Is It Advisable For Married Couple To Watch Porn by Omohena: 2:15pm On Aug 23, 2021
Instead of watching to get to know more styles as some claim.While don't u read content that could best tell what and how to be explosive in bed with your partner
Re: Is It Advisable For Married Couple To Watch Porn by bepositive11: 4:49pm On Aug 23, 2021
Idamond:
As a Christian/Muslim is it advisable to watch porn with your spouse?

It depends on the kind of porn
Re: Is It Advisable For Married Couple To Watch Porn by bepositive11: 4:57pm On Aug 23, 2021
Nonexisting1:
If a woman is not as endowed as Maserati or as Hitomi Tanaka, it's safe for her not to watch porn with me because she will suffer depression seeing how I admire those two.

Just checked out Hitomi Tanaka. Can't believe you find her attractive..
Re: Is It Advisable For Married Couple To Watch Porn by bepositive11: 4:58pm On Aug 23, 2021
Yusufisraelj:



My brother, it's not necessary. Just as Fati2001 have made mention, I'll add the following;

There are fantastic books on intimacy far above what is on porn, you would learn so much that when you handle a woman, she would want more sex, there's a science to sex, you don't see that in porn. Likewise for women concerning the art of intimacy to men.


The challenge is that most times, people lazy around major issues; Faith, Relationships, Finances and Sex.

Good point. But why not use both? Books and visuals?
Re: Is It Advisable For Married Couple To Watch Porn by bepositive11: 5:00pm On Aug 23, 2021
Lamanii22:


You just said it all... When there was no pornography people were sha having quality sex, birthing babies.... Pornography is slavery, it should be banned totally

It depends on the kind of porn. Some couples like sharing their experiences online. I think the commercial ones are the ones that should be banned -- no emotions, no connection, no mutual respect and mutual pleasure. They treat each other like objects. Very toxic and a bad example for young couples who don't know what they're doing

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Re: Is It Advisable For Married Couple To Watch Porn by Yusufisraelj(m): 5:19pm On Aug 23, 2021
bepositive11:


Good point. But why not use both? Books and visuals?


Sure there are education videos on it. Watching porn is not good, there's nothing educational about it, instead it spreads a false approach to sex and the intension is not to educate but to entice in a wrong way and paint a reality of what sex is not.

Sex is an art not an act, there's a systemic approach to always having a good sex be it pre planned or spontaneous.
Re: Is It Advisable For Married Couple To Watch Porn by Exceed15: 5:53pm On Aug 23, 2021
I always say whatever is what working for you in your marriage, keep at it. Being happy together is all that matter.
Re: Is It Advisable For Married Couple To Watch Porn by Pumpumking: 6:02pm On Aug 23, 2021
Idamond:
As a Christian/Muslim is it advisable to watch porn with your spouse?


of couse, why not...i watch blue film wit all my babes sir! angry
Re: Is It Advisable For Married Couple To Watch Porn by Pumpumking: 6:03pm On Aug 23, 2021
Idamond:
As a Christian/Muslim is it advisable to watch porn with your spouse?


of couse, why not...i watch blue film wit all my babes sir.....u dont belif me, ask Megatron77!!! (real talk) angry
Re: Is It Advisable For Married Couple To Watch Porn by Laurene: 7:54pm On Aug 23, 2021
Danjikanbauchi:
thank God you are a friend with idiot. I believe that is your father's family name.
you don't respect women. It's obvious.
Re: Is It Advisable For Married Couple To Watch Porn by Danjikanbauchi: 9:05pm On Aug 23, 2021
Laurene:
you don't respect women. It's obvious.
Bleep off
Re: Is It Advisable For Married Couple To Watch Porn by bepositive11: 2:14am On Aug 24, 2021
Yusufisraelj:



Sure there are education videos on it. Watching porn is not good, there's nothing educational about it, instead it spreads a false approach to sex and the intension is not to educate but to entice in a wrong way and paint a reality of what sex is not.

Sex is an art not an act, there's a systemic approach to always having a good sex be it pre planned or spontaneous.

It depends on the kind of porn. Commercial porn should be banned. Those are the kind you're talking about -- the ones with no emotions, no genuine love, no mutual respect, no mutual pleasure. They treat each other like objects

There's another type of porn that's more healthy. The ones couples share because they want to. Those are kind I'm talking about. Inexperienced couples can learn from them
Re: Is It Advisable For Married Couple To Watch Porn by Queenslander(f): 9:21am On Aug 24, 2021
It's not advisable for anybody to watch porn,. Not to talk of married couples!! ☹️

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Re: Is It Advisable For Married Couple To Watch Porn by iamoyindamola(m): 10:02am On Aug 24, 2021
why
Hold on do you just post for posting sake or you talk fact undecided
Queenslander:
It's not advisable for anybody to watch porn,. Not to talk of married couples!! ☹️
Re: Is It Advisable For Married Couple To Watch Porn by Queenslander(f): 10:36am On Aug 24, 2021
iamoyindamola:
[s] why
Hold on do you just post for posting sake or you talk fact undecided
[/s]

Damola
Just say you watch porn,. ❌
Smh..
Re: Is It Advisable For Married Couple To Watch Porn by iamoyindamola(m): 10:38am On Aug 24, 2021
Queenslander:
[/s]

Damola
Just say you watch porn,. ❌
Smh..
Lmao who doesn't grin grin
Are you gonna pretend you don't
Btw I asked for a fact
Re: Is It Advisable For Married Couple To Watch Porn by Queenslander(f): 10:43am On Aug 24, 2021
iamoyindamola:

Lmao who doesn't grin grin
Are you gonna pretend you don't
Btw I asked for a fact


I don't, really!! tongue
Except maybe unconsciously..
Cause shit keeps popping on most websites!! grin grin
Re: Is It Advisable For Married Couple To Watch Porn by iamoyindamola(m): 10:46am On Aug 24, 2021
Queenslander:


I don't, really!! tongue
Except maybe unconsciously..
Cause shit keeps popping on most websites!! grin grin
Now you agree no matter how you avoid it you will surely watch it

Now back to the question, why is it not advisory for someone to watch porn
Re: Is It Advisable For Married Couple To Watch Porn by Queenslander(f): 11:15am On Aug 24, 2021
iamoyindamola:

Now you agree no matter how you avoid it you will surely watch it

Now back to the question, why is it not advisory for someone to watch porn


My dear, pornography is flirty and unhealthy..
Watching Porn can shape sexual practices that is associated with unsafe sexual health practices such as not using condoms and unsafe anal and vaginal sex.
Pornography also encourages self gratification, social isolation..

I also heard that consuming too much of pornography can cause erectile disfunction for guys...
Through excess wanking grin..
Not sure about that though!!
Need I say more? angry
Re: Is It Advisable For Married Couple To Watch Porn by Yusufisraelj(m): 3:19pm On Aug 24, 2021
bepositive11:


It depends on the kind of porn. Commercial porn should be banned. Those are the kind you're talking about -- the ones with no emotions, no genuine love, no mutual respect, no mutual pleasure. They treat each other like objects

There's another type of porn that's more healthy. The ones couples share because they want to. Those are kind I'm talking about. Inexperienced couples can learn from them


Well I strongly take an opposite stand on this, with the following observations;

1. No two single individual is the same, what may tickle Mr A's fancy will differ with Mr Z's.

2. No two love relationships are ever the same, every relationship is unique and what love and pleasure means differ for every relationship.

Personally I believe everyone couple, should work on personal discoveries of what works for them and what they are comfortable with, from an educational point not recommendations based on what works for someone else as regards this issue, the underlining thing here is to work with principles, recommendations are fine but are very subjective, methodology differs for every individuals.
Re: Is It Advisable For Married Couple To Watch Porn by bepositive11: 3:47pm On Aug 24, 2021
Yusufisraelj:



Well I strongly take an opposite stand on this, with the following observations;

1. No two single individual is the same, what may tickle Mr A's fancy will differ with Mr Z's.

2. No two love relationships are ever the same, every relationship is unique and what love and pleasure means differ for every relationship.

Personally I believe everyone couple, should work on personal discoveries of what works for them and what they are comfortable with, from an educational point not recommendations based on what works for someone else as regards this issue, the underlining thing here is to work with principles, recommendations are fine but are very subjective, methodology differs for every individuals.

It's ok to agree to disagree.

Porn can be good or bad. It really depends on the individual. It can inspire couples to explore and experiment with new styles. Either way, I feel porn can be very educative and I've heard stories of how it has saved marriages. Then again, it has also ruined some marriages. So it really depends on the individuals involved.

Still, I feel certain kinds should be banned. The commercial ones that take the human element away from sex. Sadly, some youths already see that as the norm
Re: Is It Advisable For Married Couple To Watch Porn by MhiztaFrank(m): 11:10pm On Aug 24, 2021
I do Alot, and so far new things have been learnt

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