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7 Possible Reasons Why Your Spouse May Be Avoiding Intimacy" (sex). by Walex124(m): 4:19pm On Aug 24, 2021
There are many reasons why your spouse may be avoiding making love with you some of which I will be mentioning in this article. If you think any of these could be the reason why your spouse may not be having an interest in making love with you then you should try to adjust on your side or try to help in each case. If you also fall into any of the cases, then it will be good that you follow the suggestion to regain back your feelings.


1. Stressful relationship. If you allow your wife to be doing too much work to the point that she became tired, she may be avoiding s_x because it will be the last thing that will cross her mind. All her thinking may be on how to finish house chores and attend to other things. So if your wife is passing through lots of stress, she will always get tired and may not want to make love with you because that can make her more tired and she will still wake to continue with work. Try to assist your wife and sometimes, tell her to stop working to have rest.



2. Selfishness on the side of the husband. When making love with your wife, your focus should be on satisfying her. It will be better that you take your time to work on her very well before going in. But if you are always after yourself. You just go in and out when you are ok, it will affect her interest in making love with you. By the time you go in without working on her, that may be the time her body is waking up. By the time you are done satisfying yourself, she is ready for action. It will now be like you wake her body and leave her there to deal with her feelings alone. She may not want to give you attention again because of that. So put your wife's satisfaction first before considering yourself.


3. Bad and painful behaviors. If your wife is suffering from your hands, she may not want to make love with you. In a relationship where the wife is made to pass through, anger, beatings, insults, and many more things from the husband, abstaining from sex may be her tool to fight back. Although, such decision is not good for a woman to take against her husband. But the husband should also learn to treat his wife well.


4. Not being romantic. How do you prepare the mind of your spouse for s_x when you are not romantic enough. Everything in the family should not be static. Show some level of care, send love texts to your spouse, take your wife to work, help her in the kitchen if you are free. Become her best friend. Get into her to the point that she can't live without you.


5. Being together all the time. Another thing that may affect your wife's interest in making love with you is if you are together for a long time. Sometimes, it will be good if you travel for a few days just to create a gap and make your wife feel your absence. She may pick more interest once you are back.


6. Being predictable. If you are the type that is easily predictable when it comes to love-making then your wife may become less interested. Go to work, come back, eat, make love and go to bed. If this is your type or any routine similar to this, then your wife will always predict you. Also, if you get used to a particular s_x position, your spouse may lose interest in you. Try to surprise your wife by not asking for s_x on a day you used to ask for it. Let the whole thing change. Also, learn another style to put more life in your intimate session. You may be able to restore your wife's interest in s_x.


7. Having a baby with you. When a couple starts making babies, their interest in lovemaking may be affected because they may now have more responsibilities and their attentions will be divided. The stress of caring for their babies can affect their interest in lovemaking. Also, if they are living in one room with their children or having their baby on the same bed with them. Especially if the baby sleeps between them, the husband and the wife will not be able to hold each other all through the night. The physical connection will be affected and in turn, affect their interest in each other.


If your baby sleeps on the same bed as you, let your baby sleep separately and not between you and your wife. If your children have grown, you can change your lovemaking time to when your children will not be at home. You can also allow them to visit your parents so that you and your wife can have good times with each other.

Re: 7 Possible Reasons Why Your Spouse May Be Avoiding Intimacy" (sex). by Walex124(m): 4:20pm On Aug 24, 2021
Walex124:

There are many reasons why your spouse may be avoiding making love with you some of which I will be mentioning in this article. If you think any of these could be the reason why your spouse may not be having an interest in making love with you then you should try to adjust on your side or try to help in each case. If you also fall into any of the cases, then it will be good that you follow the suggestion to regain back your feelings.


1. Stressful relationship. If you allow your wife to be doing too much work to the point that she became tired, she may be avoiding s_x because it will be the last thing that will cross her mind. All her thinking may be on how to finish house chores and attend to other things. So if your wife is passing through lots of stress, she will always get tired and may not want to make love with you because that can make her more tired and she will still wake to continue with work. Try to assist your wife and sometimes, tell her to stop working to have rest.



2. Selfishness on the side of the husband. When making love with your wife, your focus should be on satisfying her. It will be better that you take your time to work on her very well before going in. But if you are always after yourself. You just go in and out when you are ok, it will affect her interest in making love with you. By the time you go in without working on her, that may be the time her body is waking up. By the time you are done satisfying yourself, she is ready for action. It will now be like you wake her body and leave her there to deal with her feelings alone. She may not want to give you attention again because of that. So put your wife's satisfaction first before considering yourself.


3. Bad and painful behaviors. If your wife is suffering from your hands, she may not want to make love with you. In a relationship where the wife is made to pass through, anger, beatings, insults, and many more things from the husband, abstaining from sex may be her tool to fight back. Although, such decision is not good for a woman to take against her husband. But the husband should also learn to treat his wife well.


4. Not being romantic. How do you prepare the mind of your spouse for s_x when you are not romantic enough. Everything in the family should not be static. Show some level of care, send love texts to your spouse, take your wife to work, help her in the kitchen if you are free. Become her best friend. Get into her to the point that she can't live without you.


5. Being together all the time. Another thing that may affect your wife's interest in making love with you is if you are together for a long time. Sometimes, it will be good if you travel for a few days just to create a gap and make your wife feel your absence. She may pick more interest once you are back.


6. Being predictable. If you are the type that is easily predictable when it comes to love-making then your wife may become less interested. Go to work, come back, eat, make love and go to bed. If this is your type or any routine similar to this, then your wife will always predict you. Also, if you get used to a particular s_x position, your spouse may lose interest in you. Try to surprise your wife by not asking for s_x on a day you used to ask for it. Let the whole thing change. Also, learn another style to put more life in your intimate session. You may be able to restore your wife's interest in s_x.


7. Having a baby with you. When a couple starts making babies, their interest in lovemaking may be affected because they may now have more responsibilities and their attentions will be divided. The stress of caring for their babies can affect their interest in lovemaking. Also, if they are living in one room with their children or having their baby on the same bed with them. Especially if the baby sleeps between them, the husband and the wife will not be able to hold each other all through the night. The physical connection will be affected and in turn, affect their interest in each other.


If your baby sleeps on the same bed as you, let your baby sleep separately and not between you and your wife. If your children have grown, you can change your lovemaking time to when your children will not be at home. You can also allow them to visit your parents so that you and your wife can have good times with each other.

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Re: 7 Possible Reasons Why Your Spouse May Be Avoiding Intimacy" (sex). by Lilsameey: 4:28pm On Aug 24, 2021
Walex124:

There are many reasons why your spouse may be avoiding making love with you some of which I will be mentioning in this article. If you think any of these could be the reason why your spouse may not be having an interest in making love with you then you should try to adjust on your side or try to help in each case. If you also fall into any of the cases, then it will be good that you follow the suggestion to regain back your feelings.


1. Stressful relationship. If you allow your wife to be doing too much work to the point that she became tired, she may be avoiding s_x because it will be the last thing that will cross her mind. All her thinking may be on how to finish house chores and attend to other things. So if your wife is passing through lots of stress, she will always get tired and may not want to make love with you because that can make her more tired and she will still wake to continue with work. Try to assist your wife and sometimes, tell her to stop working to have rest.



2. Selfishness on the side of the husband. When making love with your wife, your focus should be on satisfying her. It will be better that you take your time to work on her very well before going in. But if you are always after yourself. You just go in and out when you are ok, it will affect her interest in making love with you. By the time you go in without working on her, that may be the time her body is waking up. By the time you are done satisfying yourself, she is ready for action. It will now be like you wake her body and leave her there to deal with her feelings alone. She may not want to give you attention again because of that. So put your wife's satisfaction first before considering yourself.


3. Bad and painful behaviors. If your wife is suffering from your hands, she may not want to make love with you. In a relationship where the wife is made to pass through, anger, beatings, insults, and many more things from the husband, abstaining from sex may be her tool to fight back. Although, such decision is not good for a woman to take against her husband. But the husband should also learn to treat his wife well.


4. Not being romantic. How do you prepare the mind of your spouse for s_x when you are not romantic enough. Everything in the family should not be static. Show some level of care, send love texts to your spouse, take your wife to work, help her in the kitchen if you are free. Become her best friend. Get into her to the point that she can't live without you.


5. Being together all the time. Another thing that may affect your wife's interest in making love with you is if you are together for a long time. Sometimes, it will be good if you travel for a few days just to create a gap and make your wife feel your absence. She may pick more interest once you are back.


6. Being predictable. If you are the type that is easily predictable when it comes to love-making then your wife may become less interested. Go to work, come back, eat, make love and go to bed. If this is your type or any routine similar to this, then your wife will always predict you. Also, if you get used to a particular s_x position, your spouse may lose interest in you. Try to surprise your wife by not asking for s_x on a day you used to ask for it. Let the whole thing change. Also, learn another style to put more life in your intimate session. You may be able to restore your wife's interest in s_x.


7. Having a baby with you. When a couple starts making babies, their interest in lovemaking may be affected because they may now have more responsibilities and their attentions will be divided. The stress of caring for their babies can affect their interest in lovemaking. Also, if they are living in one room with their children or having their baby on the same bed with them. Especially if the baby sleeps between them, the husband and the wife will not be able to hold each other all through the night. The physical connection will be affected and in turn, affect their interest in each other.


If your baby sleeps on the same bed as you, let your baby sleep separately and not between you and your wife. If your children have grown, you can change your lovemaking time to when your children will not be at home. You can also allow them to visit your parents so that you and your wife can have good times with each other.

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Re: 7 Possible Reasons Why Your Spouse May Be Avoiding Intimacy" (sex). by Sonnobax15(m): 4:31pm On Aug 24, 2021
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Re: 7 Possible Reasons Why Your Spouse May Be Avoiding Intimacy" (sex). by OkuFaba(m): 4:34pm On Aug 24, 2021
If she no open leg, we kpansh olôsho
Re: 7 Possible Reasons Why Your Spouse May Be Avoiding Intimacy" (sex). by MhiztaFrank(m): 11:04pm On Aug 24, 2021
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OkuFaba:
If she no open leg, we kpansh olôsho
Re: 7 Possible Reasons Why Your Spouse May Be Avoiding Intimacy" (sex). by MhiztaFrank(m): 11:04pm On Aug 24, 2021
I concur with 2 and 5

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