I really need advice here.

I got my girlfriend with the help of her bestfriend who is also my Guys girlfriend.
The problem is that this girl is trying to control the way i and my girlfriend run our things.
funny enough, she know how to confuse my girl and put things the way she wants.
Right now i dislike her so much, she is making me have double taught about my girl and
she is making things difficult in our relationship.
PLEASE I REALLY NEED MATURED ADVICES ON WHAT TO DO PLEASE.

just concentrate on the soup you are cooking, and dont let them put excess salt in it

Discuss how you feel about the intrusion with your friend, your girlfriend and her friend. while you appreciate their friendship, let them know there is a limit to which they can meddle in your affairs. meanwhile, make sure your walk is straight, i mean waka straight.

dis is a tough 1 guy , u nid dem gals 2 help u on dis 1 ,
buh my own way : jst try nd colonize d gal , as in so deep , she go fashi ha phrend ,

Poster you gave us NOTHING to comment or advise you on.
How Is she "confusing" your gf? . . .
Talk to 'your guy' then . . .

The only thing to do is to "Do onto others what is done to you" start confusing your friend too. I am sure if she has problems there she will have less time to poke nose

A conversation with your girlfriend is needed in this case and if she continues to be her friend's puppet dump her azz
Besides what have you been doing that makes the other girl react?

d girl want u 2 fu-ck her.

M M M:

d girl want u 2 fu-ck her.

u r not far 4rm d truth. @poster: get her nd pump her hole. Problem solved!

Orton1_0:

Poster you gave us NOTHING to comment or advise you on.
How Is she "confusing" your gf? . . .
Talk to 'your guy' then . . .

seconded. . . . . . . . . .details pls!

Tell yr grl hw u feel,nd ask her not discuss yr relationship wit hr friend.

Your girl is being a child by allowing her friend control what goes on in your relationship.

Thanks to all of you that have taken ur time to solve this issue in ur own ways.
Some are asking for details: I think the connector is trying to make sure that everything happens the way she likes as well as through her.

I think you need to sit your "girlfriend" down and discuss how you feel about her best friend butting into your relationship. Just let her know gently and without drama that although you appreciate everything her friend has done, but you would really appreciate if your relationship be kept private between the two of you without any outer interference. You want to be "presentable" without coming off like an "asterisk" since they are bestfriends. This may become a little sticky, but this is something that needs to be addressed. You may have to also accept the fact that you addressing this could affect your relationship. Her friend needs to mind her own business and tend to her own relationship. If you don't feel comfortable expressing to her what her butting in is doing to your relationship. Then I suggest you talking to your friend to ask him to speak with his woman about her trying to "run things" in you and your girlfriend's relationship. What kind of relationship will you two have when you have an consistant "outer sider" all up in your "mix". This relationship won't last long if this girl isn't dealt with now.

details pls

your gf is the type that seeks approval or validation from their friends since she cant decide for herself. . . I'm not sure if talking to her alone will help.

Since the other girl's bf is your friend, you may also talk to him . . .so he can tell his girl to back off.

Koyoke!

190:

All these Nigerian girls and their wahala sef

Abi o, i think say na only me

kel2real:

I really need advice here.

I got my girlfriend with the help of her bestfriend who is also my Guys girlfriend.
The problem is that this girl is trying to control the way i and my girlfriend run our things.
funny enough, she know how to confuse my girl and put things the way she wants.
Right now i dislike her so much, she is making me have double taught about my girl and
she is making things difficult in our relationship.
PLEASE I REALLY NEED MATURED ADVICES ON WHAT TO DO PLEASE.

Are you sure you're up to having any lady? She pimped her for you and so she dictates. I think you are a low teenage. Face your NECO exams instead.

ismaeel86:

Abi o, i think say na only me