So even in this present Nigeria economy hardship and killing you blaming someone for forgetting your birthday. Report her to buhari so that he submit her name to fulani herdsmen rubbish.

What's the difference between boyfriend and husband in this case?

Except you mean a bedmate or friends with benefits.

@OP:

Check if they forgot theirs; it is not reasonable to have issues with someone who forgot his/her own birthday because they forgot yours.

If birthdays are so important to you, sing it to them before the day or make a worthy mention of it afterwards.

As the partner who sees nothing special in birthdays, learn to celebrate your partner on their day if they like it loud.

That's where love, compromise & teachability comes to play for both parties.

Kobicove:
Who cares?

lol

apostle96:
It happened to me in the month of June
I didn't allow that to hurt me sha..as I myself didn't make a thing out of my birthday
On god

wow but did it change the way you see your partner??

Sonnobax15:

To me,e don already be like normal thing....Even to her, It has also become a normal thing.....There are certain things that shouldn't be taken too serious.... So long there's understanding and love that keeps the both of you going,I don't think it'd be necessary to quarrel or pick up a fight simply because your partner forgot your birthday....

My own gf,na when my birthday don pass like two weeks or more already,na then she go shout--"Ehhhhhhh,why you no remind me na

wow wish I've your kinda mind oh....I kinda take things serious.

Babaken:
So even in this present Nigeria economy hardship and killing you blaming someone for forgetting your birthday. Report her to buhari so that he submit her name to fulani herdsmen rubbish.

Bros b calming down biko

bukatyne:
What's the difference between boyfriend and husband in this case?

Except you mean a bedmate or friends with benefits.

@OP:

Check if they forgot theirs; it is not reasonable to have issues with someone who forgot his/her own birthday because they forgot yours.

If birthdays are so important to you, sing it to them before the day or make a worthy mention of it afterwards.

As the partner who sees nothing special in birthdays, learn to celebrate your partner on their day if they like it loud.

That's where love, compromise & teachability comes to play for both parties.

Madan B are you saying you won't take it to heart if your partner forgets your birthday? or you don't take birthdays serious like most ladies do?

Made619:
Madan B are you saying you won't take it to heart if your partner forgets your birthday? or you don't take birthdays serious like most ladies do?

If my husband is in the habit of forgetting birthdays, I wouldn't take it to heart so much if he forgot mine.

bukatyne:


If my husband is in the habit of forgetting birthdays, I wouldn't take it to heart so much if he forgot mine.

wow you have a string mind oh

I can't even believe that a hard guy like me would contribute to this kind of topic.

I don sha end relationship on top this matter...in this life nothing will join me with a selfish/stingy woman.....never !!!

birthdays don't mean much to me......most times on those days I even have anxiety and panic attacks due to some of my unfulfilled dreams and the fact that time is slowly becoming my enemy.

early in the relationship I realised birthdays were important to her, I always made a conscious effort to get her something nice and thoughtful. even when I was broke I made sure her day could not just pass like that.

but when my day reach aunty would have selective amnesia. I don't need anything from her, I just needed her to show a little effort that we're in this together.

the last birthday was the final straw.
I don't want to go in details because aunty is a nairalander and our friends are here too....dem go just know say na me.

how can somebody not even remember it's your birthday at all at all,meanwhile you expect me to carry your matter for head.


mtcheew I'm even angry as I'm reminiscing how I foolishly wasted my time and energy.

E Go sweet me sha cause I’m not a birthday person

Made619:
wow you have a string mind oh

KingClown:
I can't even believe that a hard guy like me would contribute to this kind of topic.

I don sha end relationship on top this matter...in this life nothing will join me with a selfish/stingy woman.....never !!!

birthdays don't mean much to me......most times on those days I even have anxiety and panic attacks due to some of my unfulfilled dreams and the fact that time is slowly becoming my enemy.

early in the relationship I realised birthdays were important to her, I always made a conscious effort to get her something nice and thoughtful. even when I was broke I made sure her day could not just pass like that.

but when my day reach aunty would have selective amnesia. I don't need anything from her, I just needed her to show a little effort that we're in this together.

the last birthday was the final straw.
I don't want to go in details because aunty is a nairalander and our friends are here too....dem go just know say na me.

how can somebody not even remember it's your birthday at all at all,meanwhile you expect me to carry your matter for head.


mtcheew I'm even angry as I'm reminiscing how I foolishly wasted my time and energy.

same goes with me bro, I ended a relationship cuz of this, I mean how can someone that claims they love you not remember your birthday? and they will post birthday wishes to other male friends around them but na ur own go dey different. for me I take it serious and personal who wan die make e die.