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Check on her and make sure dey OK, once she is OK and refused calling you intentionally, my guy leave her.

If she loves you, she can't stay without calling you, but if you force yourself on her; its either you become her simp or mumu and the love won't be their

She has probably thought about calling you several times, but being an introvert must have made her overthink that she ended up not doing it. “What will I say to him? Will this affect our relationship if he finds out how awkward I can be on the phone? Will he think I'm unintelligent because of the way I talk?”..etc.

It's possible she loves you, but I don't think she feels secure around you just yet. Personally, as an introvert, I look gentle and snobbish on the outside to most people. This is because I'm not comfortable around them, so I just treasure my space. Truth is I'm not really gentle, I'm just more comfortable being on my own, coupled with a bit of social anxiety.

When I get comfortable around a person, I become really expressive that they think I was pretending all along. However, I still treasure my space because that is where I find my strength and rebuild energy for the next social interaction lol.

So I think you should get closer to her, and not make her feel insecure or bad about her personality. When she knows you and how much you understand her, she'll become free with you and expressive both on the phone and physically. Introverts are very often misjudged.

Give her space, she's just using her introverted nature as an excuse,she doesn't dig you much. No one is truly introverted towards their partner except you are just using the person to fill space.

Anybody that loves you will check up on you no matter how tight their schedule may be whether introverted or not

Since you've talked to her about it, she should've changed, even if it's by calling you small small to say hi but that she's still not calling you at all infers she's not invested in the relationship as much as you are.

The ex that's still in the picture may be the issue. If she's not speaking with you, she's likely speaking with him.

Lamasta:
Anybody that loves you will check up on you no matter how tight their schedule may be whether introverted or not

My God go bless you jare


have asked her if she has another boyfriend she said no, just that her ex is still disturbing her.


How old are you? Some of your questions are for kids not a matured mind, that is what I do tell most kids here looking for a relationship that they should read a lot of books and go for counseling, its working for many people. Relationship nowadays should not be taken with carelessness especially when some married men are afraid if they are the owners of their kids. So it's better to don't go into what you can't continue. Shalom

writetopoker2:
Check on her and make sure dey OK, once she is OK and refused calling you intentionally, my guy leave her.

If she loves you, she can't stay without calling you, but if you force yourself on her; its either you become her simp or mumu and the love won't be their

thank you very much! I thought as much

Humanoid01:
She has probably thought about calling you several times, but being an introvert must have made her overthink that she ended up not doing it. “What will I say to him? Will this affect our relationship if he finds out how awkward I can be on the phone? Will he think I'm unintelligent because of the way I talk?”..etc.

It's possible she loves you, but I don't think she feels secure around you just yet. Personally, as an introvert, I look gentle and snobbish on the outside to most people. This is because I'm not comfortable around them, so I just treasure my space. Truth is I'm not really gentle, I'm just more comfortable being on my own, coupled with a bit of social anxiety.

When I get comfortable around a person, I become really expressive that they think I was pretending all along. However, I still treasure my space because that is where I find my strength and rebuild energy for the next social interaction lol.

So I think you should get closer to her, and not make her feel insecure or bad about her personality. When she knows you and how much you understand her, she'll become free with you and expressive both on the phone and physically. Introverts are very often misjudged.

I appreciate your input honestly

You are dating a broke girl that don't have money to buy Airtime and you here complaining.

InTheCloudySky:
Since you've talked to her about it, she should've changed, even if it's by calling you small small to say hi but that she's still not calling you at all infers she's not invested in the relationship as much as you are.

The ex that's still in the picture may be the issue. If she's not speaking with you, she's likely speaking with him.

I thought the same thing, I guess I'll just give her space and let her be, if she's interested she can come back

Iyaebe:
Give her space, she's just using her introverted nature as an excuse,she doesn't dig you much. No one is truly introverted towards their partner except you are just using the person to fill space.

Exactly what I was gonna do before writing this post, SPACE!

yuping:
You are dating a broke girl that don't have money to buy Airtime and you here complaining.

lol my girlfriend is not broke mind your words. She's working.

Ok, leave her for me if she has big back side

Op, no two ways about it, it can't work. Like u said, u both are introverts meaning u both they crase. Two crase people dating na cataclysm. So avoid a cataclysmic relationship, find an extrovert. U fit try olx or jiji.

If she can't call, she can as well send sms or flash. Anyway she knows u will call just give her 3 weeks call break but if she refuse to check on u, please just know dat u are dating urself.

PriceNow:
I appreciate your input honestly

My pleasure bros.

About her ex still “disturbing” her, you should know how long that has been going on. The answer will determine how much effect it has on her attitude towards you.

Bola146:
My God go bless you jare


have asked her if she has another boyfriend she said no, just that her ex is still disturbing her.


How old are you? Some of your questions are for kids not a matured mind, that is what I do tell most kids here looking for a relationship that they should read a lot of books and go for counseling, its working for many people. Relationship nowadays should not be taken with carelessness especially when some married men are afraid if they are the owners of their kids. So it's better to don't go into what you can't continue. Shalom

Well-done matured person

Humanoid01:
She has probably thought about calling you several times, but being an introvert must have made her overthink that she ended up not doing it. “What will I say to him? Will this affect our relationship if he finds out how awkward I can be on the phone? Will he think I'm unintelligent because of the way I talk?”..etc.

It's possible she loves you, but I don't think she feels secure around you just yet. Personally, as an introvert, I look gentle and snobbish on the outside to most people. This is because I'm not comfortable around them, so I just treasure my space. Truth is I'm not really gentle, I'm just more comfortable being on my own, coupled with a bit of social anxiety.

When I get comfortable around a person, I become really expressive that they think I was pretending all along. However, I still treasure my space because that is where I find my strength and rebuild energy for the next social interaction lol.

So I think you should get closer to her, and not make her feel insecure or bad about her personality. When she knows you and how much you understand her, she'll become free with you and expressive both on the phone and physically. Introverts are very often misjudged.

Look for the masturbation quitting thread here on nairaland and help yourself.
Your masturbation addiction is getting the better side of u. Don't ask me how I knew. Goodluck

CR777:
Look for the masturbation quitting thread here on nairaland and help yourself.
Your masturbation addiction is getting the better side of u. Don't ask me how I knew. Goodluck

So in your mind, only masturbation causes introversion and social anxiety? How myopic! Lol.

Majority of girls are fond of that
Stick to 2nd law of Thermodynamics (actions and reactions are equal and opposite).
Stop calling her , so simple.
Let the whatever die a natural death.
@ pricenow

Humanoid01:
So in your mind, only masturbation causes introversion and social anxiety? How myopic! Lol.

I like you, you are a logical person, I am also very logical and we both know I said the truth
I'm not gonna judge u cos ur a masturbator, no, far from that. I just want u to seek help before it destroys u completely.

PriceNow:
Well-done matured person

Thanks my son

CR777:
I like you, you are a logical person, I am also very logical and we both know I said the truth
I'm not gonna judge u cos ur a masturbator, no, far from that. I just want u to seek help before it destroys u completely.

You are wrong, bros. Don't use your experience to judge everybody who's going through what you're going through or went through.

This also caused problems between me and an ex.
After we broke up I realised I never really felt comfortable enough to be myself with him.

Maybe you should give her time, she'll warm up to you. Three months is still too early in my opinion.

Introvert + introvert is not a good combination. Both of you will be comfortable hiding inside your shells. Find an extrovert that both can mutually complement your weak areas

Keep ba ging her till u get tayad of her pekus ok. No stress yourself,unless na she deu give u money

PriceNow:
I thought the same thing, I guess I'll just give her space and let her be, if she's interested she can come back

Yes, good idea. Give her space to see if she'll reach out by calling you. If she does, give her one more chance to see if she'll start calling you more thenceforth. If she doesn't, move on and find someone who is ready to be in a relationship with you.

Learn from the story of 'man and it's shadow'

CR777:
I like you, you are a logical person, I am also very logical and we both know I said the truth
I'm not gonna judge u cos ur a masturbator, no, far from that. I just want u to seek help before it destroys u completely.

Guy, nothing dey ur brain.

The babe no like you bro. I know how girls behave when they like you. Dem no go let you rest. Another question. Do you both of have sex?