Good day everyone, I woke up this morning to receive this sad news! I don't know but to me I think is a sad one, I met a lady during my NYSC year, and among the line we both fell in love together and we've been dating for over a year plus now, thinking that we are going to get settle down soon.
Although just earlier this year, we started planning on how to go about our marriage, I'm from southwest and she is from South South, by December I'm taking her to the altar, we've been praying about it, but just of recent I wanted to visit her hometown to negotiate on how to get list from her parents, so I later proceed to one of our pastor, to help pray again about it and he is a prophet and he later called me this morning to inform me that he doesn't see any lights in it, that we are just good to be friends but not to go to the expense of settle together, I was shock, I can't breathe, does that mean that this is the end of the relationship I am seriously down, has it ever happened to someone her before what did you do do you proceed or you step down? please I need an elderly and matured advice thanks.

You letting another man decide
Your future is the first Mistake
U made

Why don't you pray about it yourself,study her well and know if she's the right person for you.I don't know why some people are not in tune with their soul because if you are you'll surely know whether or not if someone is the right person for you.If someone approaches me via online(viewing the pictures alone is enough for me) or physically I will quickly know if he's the right one or not because I'm in tune with my soul.

Bros you are falling my hand ooo. You can pray to God and he will reveal secret things abt the lady to you.
Note, God is not a magician, he will subtle show you her character and other things through the ladies actions and deed no matter how she pretend, it is left for you to decipher and understand the moving of the spirit.

Ingredient88:
Good day everyone, I woke up this morning to receive this sad news! I don't know but to me I think is a sad one, I met a lady during my NYSC year, and among the line we both fell in love together and we've been dating for over a year plus now, thinking that we are going to get settle down soon.
Although just earlier this year, we started planning on how to go about our marriage, I'm from southwest and she is from South South, by December I'm taking her to the altar, we've been praying about it, but just of recent I wanted to visit her hometown to negotiate on how to get list from her parents, so I later proceed to one of our pastor, to help pray again about it and he is a prophet and he later called me this morning to inform me that he doesn't see any lights in it, that we are just good to be friends but not to go to the expense of settle together, I was shock, I can't breathe, does that mean that this is the end of the relationship I am seriously down, has it ever happened to someone her before what did you do do you proceed or you step down? please I need an elderly and matured advice thanks.

Looks like someone here is too stupid to be married.

Lol.

You're a very funny human
So you believe what a so called pastor saw about your life and future??

Why not kneel down on your own knees indoor and pray to God to open your eyes.

Don't be gullible, man...most pastors aren't man of God anymore, rather God of man.

Be wise!

Ingredient88:
Good day everyone, I woke up this morning to receive this sad news! I don't know but to me I think is a sad one, I met a lady during my NYSC year, and among the line we both fell in love together and we've been dating for over a year plus now, thinking that we are going to get settle down soon.
Although just earlier this year, we started planning on how to go about our marriage, I'm from southwest and she is from South South, by December I'm taking her to the altar, we've been praying about it, but just of recent I wanted to visit her hometown to negotiate on how to get list from her parents, so I later proceed to one of our pastor, to help pray again about it and he is a prophet and he later called me this morning to inform me that he doesn't see any lights in it, that we are just good to be friends but not to go to the expense of settle together, I was shock, I can't breathe, does that mean that this is the end of the relationship I am seriously down, has it ever happened to someone her before what did you do do you proceed or you step down? please I need an elderly and matured advice thanks.

u made me even fear for u b4 reading d full story. I tot u just discovered u have finally contracted it

The scripture said "He who finds a wife finds what is good and receives favor from the LORD." Proverbs 18:22 (NIV).


The scripture admonished us to subject every prophecies to scrutiny. If it doesn't conform to the word of God, discard it and move.

he later called me this morning to inform me that he doesn't see any lights in it

Light kee you both there.

God willing, he go see light when you start dating a Tega.

My brother, you are at a crucial point of your life. Marriage is beyond love and friendship. At this point i need you to remove your mind from what the Prophet said and how you feel about your girl, and personally seek God's mind with all sincerity ( no effort or sacrifice to achieve this, is a waste). Brother, NO MAKE MISTAKE OOO.

One thing I noticed about NL users is anything that has to do with religious view or spirituality, don't bring it here, larger percent of people who will comment will be of of physical than spiritual, I'm not blaming anyone concerning that, everyone will always advice u based on his or her own experience(s),and since there are more of fake than original,they take larger % of comments on spiritual matters.remember whoever has witnessed false prophecies in the past won't come here and give advice to follow any prophet prophecies and vice versa.(person wey never chop another mama soup go talk say na him mama sabi cook pass).
Back to Op, you see one thing about prophecies when it comes to marriage is this: its might not necessarily be financial problem that will be issue in the future, u might even ended becoming wealthy than u ever imagine, what about after marriage, your wife enemy born two and embark on a journey of no return?
What about if one among you develop a very deadly ailment and it becomes the other partner responsibility to be running up and down ?see I'm not in suppose or against any prophecies ooo brother .
Pray to you God make he open your eyes.

You let a fellow human detect your future for you

your pastor has spoken... you too goan pray... u may be given bad advice here

Ingredient88:
Good day everyone, I woke up this morning to receive this sad news! I don't know but to me I think is a sad one, I met a lady during my NYSC year, and among the line we both fell in love together and we've been dating for over a year plus now, thinking that we are going to get settle down soon.
Although just earlier this year, we started planning on how to go about our marriage, I'm from southwest and she is from South South, by December I'm taking her to the altar, we've been praying about it, but just of recent I wanted to visit her hometown to negotiate on how to get list from her parents, so I later proceed to one of our pastor, to help pray again about it and he is a prophet and he later called me this morning to inform me that he doesn't see any lights in it, that we are just good to be friends but not to go to the expense of settle together, I was shock, I can't breathe, does that mean that this is the end of the relationship I am seriously down, has it ever happened to someone her before what did you do do you proceed or you step down? please I need an elderly and matured advice thanks.

You are d actor of your own story. Believe those prophets at ur own peril o. Don't give such negative prophecy power

MisterBash:
One thing I noticed about NL users is anything that has to do with religious view or spirituality, don't bring it here, larger percent of people who will comment will be of of physical than spiritual, I'm not blaming anyone concerning that, everyone will always advice u based on his or her own experience(s),and since there are more of fake than original,they take larger % of comments on spiritual matters.remember whoever has witnessed false prophecies in the past won't come here and give advice to follow any prophet prophecies and vice versa.(person wey never chop another mama soup go talk say na him mama sabi cook pass).
Back to Op, you see one thing about prophecies when it comes to marriage is this: its might not necessarily be financial problem that will be issue in the future, u might even ended becoming wealthy than u ever imagine, what about after marriage, your wife enemy born two and embark on a journey of no return?
What about if one among you develop a very deadly ailment and it becomes the other partner responsibility to be running up and down ?see I'm not in suppose or against any prophecies ooo brother .
Pray to you God make he open your eyes.

All you've mentioned are d unforseen possibilities of life. E no balance

God will reveal to u directly, I'm a believer n I believe d Holy Spirit is d grand revelator who reveal things to all believers. Jeremiah 33:3

SimplyFacts:


Light kee you both there.

God willing, he go see light when you start dating a Tega.

eh peleh... be calming down

Opemiposii:
eh peleh... be calming down

E se, ma.
I'm calm now.
I just don't like it when a person loses a good partner all because of what one Prophet says.

AutoChick4U:
You are d actor of your own story. Believe those prophets at ur own peril o. Don't give such negative prophecy power

haaa

Ingredient88:
Good day everyone, I woke up this morning to receive this sad news! I don't know but to me I think is a sad one, I met a lady during my NYSC year, and among the line we both fell in love together and we've been dating for over a year plus now, thinking that we are going to get settle down soon.
Although just earlier this year, we started planning on how to go about our marriage, I'm from southwest and she is from South South, by December I'm taking her to the altar, we've been praying about it, but just of recent I wanted to visit her hometown to negotiate on how to get list from her parents, so I later proceed to one of our pastor, to help pray again about it and he is a prophet and he later called me this morning to inform me that he doesn't see any lights in it, that we are just good to be friends but not to go to the expense of settle together, I was shock, I can't breathe, does that mean that this is the end of the relationship I am seriously down, has it ever happened to someone her before what did you do do you proceed or you step down? please I need an elderly and matured advice thanks.

sit and pray for personal convincing form God..nd take it slow don't rush things..u don't need to be down pls

AutoChick4U:
You are d actor of your own story. Believe those prophets at ur own peril o. Don't give such negative prophecy power

nah,sometimes its real,,dated a guy nd was told to leave him but I insisted, after sometime I started seeing His bad sides, I moved on without thinking twice..

Ingredient88:
Good day everyone, I woke up this morning to receive this sad news! I don't know but to me I think is a sad one, I met a lady during my NYSC year, and among the line we both fell in love together and we've been dating for over a year plus now, thinking that we are going to get settle down soon.
Although just earlier this year, we started planning on how to go about our marriage, I'm from southwest and she is from South South, by December I'm taking her to the altar, we've been praying about it, but just of recent I wanted to visit her hometown to negotiate on how to get list from her parents, so I later proceed to one of our pastor, to help pray again about it and he is a prophet and he later called me this morning to inform me that he doesn't see any lights in it, that we are just good to be friends but not to go to the expense of settle together, I was shock, I can't breathe, does that mean that this is the end of the relationship I am seriously down, has it ever happened to someone her before what did you do do you proceed or you step down? please I need an elderly and matured advice thanks.

I'll advice u after u die.

debbydams:
sit and pray for personal convincing form God..nd take it slow don't rush things..u don't need to be down pls

thank you.

Thank you all.

Ingredient88:
thank you.

im going tru similar case..it really affected my emotions nd I got tired of all men nd their whala..what will be will be..what's is yours will definitely be yours,there's nothing to be worried about

debbydams:
im going tru similar case..it really affected my emotions nd I got tired of all men nd their whala..what will be will be..what's is yours will definitely be yours,there's nothing to be worried about

WOW. Eyah TRUE

This one problem no b hunger and ein wan die.... I laff

its very important to pray before marriage, i have four elder sister, all happily married except one. my mom would pray about their fiance in different churches and even mosques and would tell them if its okay or not, our second born that was rebellious has remarried more than 4 times and she's not even up to 40. her last husband died 20 days after her last marriage last year.(i'm not suppose to be saying this on this platform but who knows who it might help). This is a true life story ,she has decided not to marry again all because she made her first mistake from the beginning by not accepting the prophecy

God can change destiny if you pray, my advise for you is , pray about it , try deep fast then try to consult another man of God, some mfm pastors are very strong in prophecy, they can tell you your next mtn recharge card.

Cudeze4:

WOW. Eyah TRUE

stop quoting me pls

Ingredient88:
Good day everyone, I woke up this morning to receive this sad news! I don't know but to me I think is a sad one, I met a lady during my NYSC year, and among the line we both fell in love together and we've been dating for over a year plus now, thinking that we are going to get settle down soon.
Although just earlier this year, we started planning on how to go about our marriage, I'm from southwest and she is from South South, by December I'm taking her to the altar, we've been praying about it, but just of recent I wanted to visit her hometown to negotiate on how to get list from her parents, so I later proceed to one of our pastor, to help pray again about it and he is a prophet and he later called me this morning to inform me that he doesn't see any lights in it, that we are just good to be friends but not to go to the expense of settle together, I was shock, I can't breathe, does that mean that this is the end of the relationship I am seriously down, has it ever happened to someone her before what did you do do you proceed or you step down? please I need an elderly and matured advice thanks.

You claim to be educated and u still allow people, to dictate your life for you.

It is only an educated man, that is free.

As an educated person, you can talk with God and he will help you to make good decisions.

Remember, it is a personal thing.

You are not ready to get married, once you are ready, then u work it out on your knee