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Case closed thanks by MagnificentPlan: 4:15pm On Sep 08
I have decided thanks u all
Re: Case closed thanks by Justbehave: 4:22pm On Sep 08
MagnificentPlan:
I need your help guys my girlfriend mom ask me to borrow her money that she will pay me back in 3weeks I don't no what to do as am confused should I borrow her or not as she told her daughter to ask me to borrow her what is your suggestion tho it's for the first time...
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I have been helping my girlfriend with money tho she works but she spends her money on her family leaving me to be giving her money every time she is broke now the mom is asking me for money what do I do
A fool and his money will soon path ways. Stop dating broke girls they won't hear.

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Re: Case closed thanks by MrBrownJay1(m): 4:26pm On Sep 08
MagnificentPlan:
I need your help guys my girlfriend mom ask me to borrow her money that she will pay me back in 3weeks I don't no what to do as am confused should I borrow her or not as she told her daughter to ask me to borrow her what is your suggestion tho it's for the first time...

I have been helping my girlfriend with money tho she works but she spends her money on her family leaving me to be giving her money every time she is broke now the mom is asking me for money what do I do

give your GF this simple reply: as much as i enjoy your company, i cant under any circumstances help your mother with money. this r/ship would take a definite wrong turn if i do, as now you would be with me for ulterior motives. i am already helping you and certainly dont want to start helping your family members. i am already helping you with money so YOU should help your mother/sibling with the mother i am giving you."

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Re: Case closed thanks by SenatePresdo(m): 4:27pm On Sep 08
MagnificentPlan:
I need your help guys my girlfriend mom ask me to borrow her money that she will pay me back in 3weeks I don't no what to do as am confused should I borrow her or not as she told her daughter to ask me to borrow her what is your suggestion tho it's for the first time...
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I have been helping my girlfriend with money tho she works but she spends her money on her family leaving me to be giving her money every time she is broke now the mom is asking me for money what do I do

Borrow her the money if you have it.

But don't ever give your GF shishi again if her mom don't get to pay you back.

There's a thin line between being kind and being foolish.

Read that line again...

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Re: Case closed thanks by Richy4(m): 4:28pm On Sep 08
What kind of thing is this?.... embarassed
This is just embarrassing...You are not even an inlaw yet... so when you became one, your name will now turn to Diamondbank MagnificentPlan...is she not supposed to be warning her daughter to stay way from you to avoid unwanted pregnancy since U have not paid her bride price? ..The ancestors will be really embarrassed if told on some kind of mothers available nowadays embarassed

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Re: Case closed thanks by Riverville(m): 4:29pm On Sep 08
If the amount she wants to borrow is small.. Borrow her and pray she defaults in paying that way she will block any help from you in the future...

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Re: Case closed thanks by MagnificentPlan: 4:34pm On Sep 08
The money she is requesting for its N20,000 I have it but I don't no if they will now be seeing me like money bag, tho this is the first time she is asking, but have been helping and assisting my girlfriend with money...Once did For her schools fees, feeding... some times tho etc

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Re: Case closed thanks by Tokskob2008: 4:42pm On Sep 08
Dem don already open shop for your head so what is left is to determine how fast and hard dem go chop everything inside then lock up shop after you don cast which I'm sure it won't take long if it keeps going on like this..

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Re: Case closed thanks by Tokskob2008: 4:44pm On Sep 08
MagnificentPlan:
The money she is requesting for its N20,000 I have it but I don't no if they will now be seeing me like money bag, tho this is the first time she is asking, but have been helping and assisting my girlfriend with money...Once did For her schools fees, feeding... some times tho etc
They are not seeing you as money bag but rather maga...

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Re: Case closed thanks by ValCon888: 4:48pm On Sep 08
Don't mind the wicked fellows telling you not to borrow her money. Please give the money to her.

But tell her to meet you in a hotel first to do five rounds.

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Re: Case closed thanks by SenatePresdo(m): 4:50pm On Sep 08
MagnificentPlan:
The money she is requesting for its N20,000 I have it but I don't no if they will now be seeing me like money bag, tho this is the first time she is asking, but have been helping and assisting my girlfriend with money...Once did For her schools fees, feeding... some times tho etc

Then borrow her, if it reaches 3 weeks.. ask your Gf to tell her mum that you want to use the money.

If she no give you back, you will have every moral right to deny her subsequent Billings.

I have learnt to stop dating a girl from poor background. The poverty it's not the problem, but they would want to make you look bad for not giving to them, untop you money kwa.

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Re: Case closed thanks by tommy589(m): 4:54pm On Sep 08
I don't think this family has any Shame o

There is nothing wrong in supporting your girl and her family. By not asking you herself indicates you don't have close rapport with her. The daughter should have stopped such a request from her mother before even bringing such to you. It shows they have no decency/pride.

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Re: Case closed thanks by mikezuruki: 4:58pm On Sep 08
MagnificentPlan:
I need your help guys my girlfriend mom ask me to borrow her money that she will pay me back in 3weeks I don't no what to do as am confused should I borrow her or not as she told her daughter to ask me to borrow her what is your suggestion tho it's for the first time...
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I have been helping my girlfriend with money tho she works but she spends her money on her family leaving me to be giving her money every time she is broke now the mom is asking me for money what do I do

For make quarrel no dey, borrow her the amount that if she doesn't pay back, it won't hurt your pocket.

On the other hand, leave that family.

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Re: Case closed thanks by MagnificentPlan: 5:01pm On Sep 08
I should leave even if they pay back
Re: Case closed thanks by hybrid11(m): 5:01pm On Sep 08
Oga your gf? I thought your wife, don't borrow her cent. This is a trap ,I repeat this is a trap
Re: Case closed thanks by RightToReject(m): 5:03pm On Sep 08
If I were, I would base my decision based on what I know the girl and her mother stand for ethically. For instance, if within me, I'm certain that they can't wittingly take advantage of me unprovoked, regardless of circumstances, then I'll give her. If I, however, know that her request stems from self-absorption and/or greed, then not only will I not give her, I'll equally discard her and daughter with alacrity.
Re: Case closed thanks by TheeDetective: 5:03pm On Sep 08
Why should your GF’s mother be asking you for money? undecided

If you were not with her daughter, won’t she get the money from somewhere else? undecided

Besides, before dating her daughter, who was giving her mother money? undecided

If you start giving money to her mother, the mother will start seeing you as a CASH COW.

You GF and her family are gradually turning into a burden and in this instance, think very well if you can continue to cope with the give me, give me, give me mentality that is gradually occurring with this family. You said that you cater for some of the bills of her daughter who is your GF even though you don't have to. YOUR GF NEEDS TO GET SOMETHING DOING SO THAT SHE CAN GENERATE INCOME FOR HERSELF AND NOT RELY ON OTHERS TO CATER FOR HER EXPENSES/NEEDS.

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Re: Case closed thanks by Justbehave: 5:07pm On Sep 08
TheeDetective:
Why should your GF’s mother be asking you for money? undecided

If you were not with her daughter, won’t she get the money from somewhere else? undecided

Besides, before dating her daughter, who was giving her mother money? undecided

If you start giving money to her mother, the mother will start seeing you as a CASH COW.

You GF and her family are gradually turning into a burden and in this instance, think very well if you can continue to cope with the give me, give me, give me mentality that is gradually occurring with this family. You said that you cater for some of the bills of her daughter who is your GF even though you don't have to. YOUR GF NEEDS TO GET A JOB AND NOT RELY ON OTHERS TO CATER FOR HER EXPENSES/NEEDS.
They will never here. Forming love. Then.
Re: Case closed thanks by MagnificentPlan: 5:09pm On Sep 08
She as a job, but her family issues drain her salaries�

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Re: Case closed thanks by Mercychen(f): 5:10pm On Sep 08
Why did you have to bring it here? What a kiss and tell.

You are dating her daughter and have prolly given her the impression that you're financially bouyant. She capitalized on your show-off now, you ran down here to loud it but when you were chopping her daughter, she didn't go about telling people. Not nice of you.

Im not trying to say you must give her. All I'm saying is, you should have just simply told your girl, you're not capable for now. Then remain silent about it instead of bringing it here.

Wrong potential son-in-law.

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Re: Case closed thanks by Iyaebe: 5:19pm On Sep 08
MrBrownJay1:


give your GF this simple reply: as much as i enjoy your company, i cant under any circumstances help your mother with money. this r/ship would take a definite wrong turn if i do, as now you would be with me for ulterior motives. i am already helping you and certainly dont want to start helping your family members. i am already helping you with money so YOU should help your mother/sibling with the mother i am giving you."
perfect

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Re: Case closed thanks by joinnow: 5:38pm On Sep 08
MagnificentPlan:
The money she is requesting for its N20,000 I have it but I don't no if they will now be seeing me like money bag, tho this is the first time she is asking, but have been helping and assisting my girlfriend with money...Once did For her schools fees, feeding... some times tho etc
Just dash her and when she refund you. Take 10k and give her back 10k. But if she fail to refund at least for your mind na dash you dash her.

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Re: Case closed thanks by Kajaard: 5:43pm On Sep 08
MagnificentPlan:
I need your help guys my girlfriend mom ask me to borrow her money that she will pay me back in 3weeks I don't no what to do as am confused should I borrow her or not as she told her daughter to ask me to borrow her what is your suggestion tho it's for the first time...
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I have been helping my girlfriend with money tho she works but she spends her money on her family leaving me to be giving her money every time she is broke now the mom is asking me for money what do I do

This is the problem with dating girls from poor homes

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Re: Case closed thanks by Richy4(m): 6:00pm On Sep 08
MagnificentPlan:
I should leave even if they pay back

Give them what U feel that will not hurt your pocket.. If they give u back cool.. if they don't nice.. but if her mother can open her mouth that she uses to eat yam and cocoyam and request for money, dear this is just the beginning.. sad
Re: Case closed thanks by Rrchrd(m): 6:03pm On Sep 08
The most thing that easily brings problems to people is money,
My advice to you is that don't lend her the money if she asked you to borrow her 50k just give her 10k & remove your mind there
If you lend her the money you'll soon lose her daughter
Re: Case closed thanks by MufasaLion(m): 6:05pm On Sep 08
According to your story, it shows your girl is from a poor background and you shouldn't lend her mom the money because you'd never be able to retrieve it.

I'd rather suggest you give her the money or a reasonable amount from what she asked for depending on your financial situation.

Just know that you must do it in good faith, it's not a must the lady returns the favour with marriage.

Shalom!

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Re: Case closed thanks by armyofone(m): 6:38pm On Sep 08
Give it to her if you have base on philanthropy and break the relationship / move on. The girl should go build her life financially before engaging in relationship. In today's world, you have to be in a relationship with someone of your financial level.

MagnificentPlan:
I need your help guys my girlfriend mom ask me to borrow her money that she will pay me back in 3weeks I don't no what to do as am confused should I borrow her or not as she told her daughter to ask me to borrow her what is your suggestion tho it's for the first time...
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I have been helping my girlfriend with money tho she works but she spends her money on her family leaving me to be giving her money every time she is broke now the mom is asking me for money what do I do
Re: Case closed thanks by greenie77: 6:57pm On Sep 08
Don't lend her the money, it will not end well. So her mother no longer have relatives and friends to make such request from? For her to feel okay to request such from her daughter's boyfriend is a huge waving red flag, marrying from such family doesn't bode well.
Re: Case closed thanks by Richy4(m): 7:02pm On Sep 08
Mercychen:
Why did you have to bring it here? What a kiss and tell.

You are dating her daughter and have prolly given her the impression that you're financially bouyant. She capitalized on your show-off now, you ran down here to loud it but when you were chopping her daughter, she didn't go about telling people. Not nice of you.

Im not trying to say you must give her. All I'm saying is, you should have just simply told your girl, you're not capable for now. Then remain silent about it instead of bringing it here.

Wrong potential son-in-law.

There is something you are getting wrong.. relationship is not a poverty alleviation program... And sex between consenting adults does not mean one party enjoyed it more than the other..


Simple thing like.. I like you will u be my friend is not equal to shouldering responsibilities that comes her way.. even if he portrayed himself as a rich man... The mentality of boyfriend = ATM is wrong..
Re: Case closed thanks by greenie77: 7:08pm On Sep 08
Mercychen:
Why did you have to bring it here? What a kiss and tell.

You are dating her daughter and have prolly given her the impression that you're financially bouyant. She capitalized on your show-off now, you ran down here to loud it but when you were chopping her daughter, she didn't go about telling people. Not nice of you.

Im not trying to say you must give her. All I'm saying is, you should have just simply told your girl, you're not capable for now. Then remain silent about it instead of bringing it here.

Wrong potential son-in-law.

More of wrong potential mother-in-law. Requesting for loan from the boyfriend of one's daughter is a shameful act.

A boyfriend is not an in-law!
Re: Case closed thanks by socialmediaman: 7:39pm On Sep 08
SenatePresdo:


Then borrow her, if it reaches 3 weeks.. ask your Gf to tell her mum that you want to use the money.

If she no give you back, you will have every moral right to deny her subsequent Billings.

I have learnt to stop dating a girl from poor background. The poverty it's not the problem, but they would want to make you look bad for not giving to them, untop you money kwa.

Assuming this is one of those familiar stories, you won’t need to wait 3 weeks. In 2 weeks you’ll hear that a debtor was harassing her with police and your money was used to settle part of the debt. You’ll be asked for more to help your potential mother-in-law from being thrown in jail. It’s only the beginning. You think say you wise grin

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Re: Case closed thanks by APCNig: 7:53pm On Sep 08
MagnificentPlan:
I need your help guys my girlfriend mom ask me to borrow her money that she will pay me back in 3weeks I don't no what to do as am confused should I borrow her or not as she told her daughter to ask me to borrow her what is your suggestion tho it's for the first time...
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I have been helping my girlfriend with money tho she works but she spends her money on her family leaving me to be giving her money every time she is broke now the mom is asking me for money what do I do


Best time to abandon the parasitic relationship

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