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Can Money Keep Her? by Botking: 12:35pm On Sep 10, 2021
There is the general belief that once a man has money he can get which ever woman he desires, while this is true to some extent, it is however, debatable too, as circumstances and situations which do inadvertently arise in a relationship might make money become insignificant and not enough to sustain the relationship.

In the beginning, a woman by nature seeks for a place of comfort and happiness, especially the kind of happiness that material things brings, the sorts money can buy. Thus, in her choices and decisions for a life partner, money and material things become a deciding factor, prompting her choices.

She desires the elegant life, the good life, the life of luxury and of comfort, the 21st century woman, wants the very best of these, with no struggles, no form of lack whatsoever, no managing or scampering. In her minds eyes, there is that fairytale life that plays in technicolor whenever she closes her eyes.

Thus when she wakes up she only see those guys who look like what she dreams of, who have the propensity to give her the life of her dreams.

What happens when she can’t find this?

A woman who has this sort of mindset and a feeling of grandeur will do whatever it takes to find this life. Ever wonder why, a young adult female would settle to have a sugar daddy even if he’s the age of her grandfather? Or why a teenage girl out of her own will marry a man the age of her father? It all boils down to money and materialism and nothing else, not love, not affection or compassion, ofcourse not even sex. It’s all about the money.

When she cannot land that eligible bachelor, the young guy with the kind of money to give her the manner of life she wants, when this is not forthcoming, she settles for the alternative, because as far as shes concerned nothing is more important than her material wellbeing. The alternative becomes any man able to foot that bill, notwithstanding the age.

But at what point does a woman who all her life she has desired money and material stuffs and then finds it, at what point does she gets tired of it and no longer interested in it, and what could be the cause of this?

Why do women who have joined themselves to very successful men, and have the good things in life money can buy suddenly wants out, is it that the money is no longer enough? Or they want something else.

That’s right, they want something else, they desire something deeper, something money cannot offer. This in simple terms means the man has outlived his usefulness, they have gotten what they want in full and overflow now it’s time to seek some other forms of fulfillment.

Women change part time, their desire and longing, at a point, they desire love, and fantasies and butterflies and unicorns, at other time, they grow beyond that, love becomes useless and for the fool, now they want money and materialism, their main goal is no longer love or affection, at other point when they have done all the shopping they could ever dream of, travel the world the best they could, drop has many kids as they can to secure their place,.they begin to seek for something else, something different, that life becomes somewhat boring, they are looking for the next excitement. Guess what that is? Sexual satisfaction, yes, that’s right, sexual satisfaction..nothing else would make a woman who have tasted so much wealth with a man suddenly want to leave him except for sex…..

The man has past his prime, and can no longer hit the couchie like he used to, she bored with his routine and dwindling flame. She needs a younger fire, erect and hard, that can drive her into cloud 9. At a certain point in a woman’s life this is what matters most. She will readily divorce her husband of twenty something years to feel that sexual satisfaction again. This is why you have the number of cougars increasing around the world. Money is no longer their problem, therefore, they no longer need the man. They spend the money they’ve acquired over the years from their husbands and spend it on younger boys.

When a woman gets to this stage in her life and she is the society type, money will no longer keep her, she has as much of it anyways and have probably figured out ways to make more without depending on the man.

The cruse of the matter is if you got her with money, do not think the money will keep her forever. Women shift and change desires according the way they feel in certain seasons.

You will suppose the wife of a billionaire should be the happiest woman in the world, because honestly she has nothing in the world to worry about. The question thus, is why would a billionaires wife want divorce? If money is everything to women, billionaire men surely should be the last person’s to lose their wives.

Why are they losing them, and to what or who are they losing them? I believe this should be the ultimate question….it certainly can’t be because of his attitude or the way he treats her, if she can endure a man’s bullsh*t for the better part of her life why should it become a stressor at this age and stage of life. She wants something different and 90 percent of the time, the answer is a better di*k.

Since most can not go into extra marital affairs for the sake of the scandal it will cause the family, they would patiently wait for divorce after which they can legally begin to engage in such, at this point, it is no longer a big deal or an issue, they start to propagate the victim story and of how they deserve to be love and to find love too, if men can do it why not women and all those sort of talks, just to justify their position. meanwhile, this loving has been happening underground before the divorce, they needed to do something to stop the hiding.

Before long they come up with the “I am no longer happy” syndrome. This should be about the lamest excuse to seek divorce in the world. If the man can not give you happiness, the money can give up happiness, or you can use the money to get the things that can give you happiness. Its only logical, unless theres something you are not telling us.

Money can only keep her for a while when she’s in that state where money matters the most to her, as soon as she’s had and saved enough of it for herself for life and also look to the part that comes through divorce, money will no longer keep her.

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