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Re: URGENT: A Timely Advice To Young Women by Klass99(f): 1:52pm On Sep 14
eazzzy1:


Lol Klass, maybe I should put things in perspective, what was on my mind when I wrote that statement ‘’ women aren’t as bothered about a man’s sexual history’’ was women do not go digging or asking questions about a man’s sexual past.


For the guy in your story, having 3 kids for three women and not caring tells more than sexual history, shows baggage, irresponsibility and like you said it’s present and maybe future behaviour.

The bolded is exactly the point I wanted to stress.

I hear you on everything you've said and I understand. When a relationship starts to get serious I bet you a woman who is well grounded and into you, would want to know more about you and may start to ask questions then. We also can't trust that you will be 100% honest.

Hell, some of us will even have you investigated before we get hitched, some of us will drop you like it's hot if we don't like the things we are hearing or seeing about you. For example I have a serious problem with dirty/untidy men and the ones who like to borrow money left, right and center with a mountain of debt trailing them.

Long story short, I understood you the first time and I still do even now.
Re: URGENT: A Timely Advice To Young Women by eazzzy1(m): 3:31pm On Sep 14
Klass99:


The bolded is exactly the point I wanted to stress.

I hear you on everything you've said and I understand. When a relationship starts to get serious I bet you a woman who is well grounded and into you, would want to know more about you and may start to ask questions then. We also can't trust that you will be 100% honest.

Hell, some of us will even have you investigated before we get hitched, some of us will drop you like it's hot if we don't like the things we are hearing or seeing about you. For example I have a serious problem with dirty/untidy men and the ones who like to borrow money left, right and center with a mountain of debt trailing them.

Long story short, I understood you the first time and I still do even now.

It’s so nice we could come to an agreement without the gbas and gbos characteristic of this section. Thanks for showing Klass in your response (no pun). It’s a pleasure having a conversation with ya.
Re: URGENT: A Timely Advice To Young Women by Klass99(f): 3:44pm On Sep 14
eazzzy1:


It’s so nice we could come to an agreement without the gbas and gbos characteristic of this section. Thanks for showing Klass in your response (no pun). It’s a pleasure having a conversation with ya.

cheesy wink

Same here, like I said before we are good and I enjoyed the engagement.
There was no digression, we just debated another angle to the topic.
Re: URGENT: A Timely Advice To Young Women by siofra(f): 8:34pm On Sep 14
Wow!!! This family section is dominated by females, me likey cheesy

I once told my cousin that I can't stand a cheating partner, I'll just dump you immediately and she told me that's not the way women do things.

That as a woman you're supposed to cook his favourite food and pet him when he's looking outside swears!! (no be juju be that? cheesy cheesy) I was just nodding my head because she's my senior. Two months later an ex boyfriend cheated on me and I dumped him sharp sharp! No time to waste time cheesy cheesy

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Re: URGENT: A Timely Advice To Young Women by Aflix(m): 10:10am On Sep 15
cococandy:

Indeed.
Men’s ego have caused untold things since the beginning of earth lipsrsealed
And we are the emotional ones
but you sha hate men ooo. Wetin man do you like this
Re: URGENT: A Timely Advice To Young Women by cococandy(f): 1:21pm On Sep 15
Aflix:
but you sha hate men ooo. Wetin man do you like this

Save that question for your fellow guys . Don’t use it for women who call them out when they talk nonsense

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Re: URGENT: A Timely Advice To Young Women by LilMissFavvy(f): 2:40pm On Sep 15
Perfectly written. kiss . "They that have ears let them hear". As a lady, if a man asks for your past, tell him to pls take the lead and recount his own first, let him lead first, before you do yours. However some ladies will recount their past even when a man hasn't mentioned anything about his past, they aren't wise. When a man takes a lead in recounting his past life, you will observe him to know how sincere he is, and know how much you can open up to him.

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Re: URGENT: A Timely Advice To Young Women by igbowoman: 3:25am On Sep 27
LilMissFavvy:
Perfectly written. kiss . "They that have ears let them hear". As a lady, if a man asks for your past, tell him to pls take the lead and recount his own first, let him lead first, before you do yours. However some ladies will recount their past even when a man hasn't mentioned anything about his past, they aren't wise. When a man takes a lead in recounting his past life, you will observe him to know how sincere he is, and know how much you can open up to him.

Gbam!

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